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# Stylus Weddings | North Carolina Wedding DJs & Event Entertainment

Stylus Weddings provides North Carolina wedding DJs, emcees, custom music planning, lighting, photo booths, special effects, and event entertainment across Raleigh, Durham, Charlotte, Greensboro, and beyond.

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### [10 Wrong Questions to Ask Your DJ and 15 Right Ones](https://stylusweddings.com/10-wrong-questions-to-ask-your-dj-and-15-right-ones/)

**Published:** May 5, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Surely you’ve seen them in Bridal Magazines and on wedding sites.

While there’s no such thing as a bad question when you’re face to face with your DJ, there are some questions that are frequently repeated that don’t tell you much of anything.

Let’s run through them:

## Have you done weddings before?

This is not going to work for you because even a first-time DJ isn’t going to say “No” if they’re trying to get you to spend your hard-earned money on them.

**A better question is “How many weddings have you done this year and can we contact some of your previous recent clients?”**

This covers you on so many levels. With that being said, you’re opening yourself up to being contacted by their potential clients in the future, so get ready to make an email template that talks about your experience with them (hopefully it’s a great one!).

As a general rule, we don’t hand out clients information, but there are many clients who have offered to talk to anyone who wants to ask about their experience with us. Some DJs will not have clients but may have reviews. Another option is to ask them to describe what THAT wedding’s challenges were and how they handled them.

This is crucial because an experienced DJ makes all the difference on so many levels. Wedding DJs do a lot more than just press play, which is part of why this next questions isn’t a good one:

## How Long have you been DJing?

This is so fraught with loopholes that it can boggle your mind. To begin with, most DJs are single-genre DJs (one type of music). That means they’ve been playing rare-crate hip hop or psytrance for years but might not know about any of the music you actually want at your wedding.

There are plenty of DJs who got back into DJing when they wanted to make some extra money outside of their real estate job, and because they were DJs in college they’ve technically got 30 years experience (just not with modern equipment or contemporary music). Be careful with this one because it can give you misleading answers.

At Stylus, most of us started when we were 13-16, which means we’ve been DJing for 10-20 years each. We’re also resident DJs which means we’re even more up to date on the music than just about anybody.

**A better question to ask would be “What are some of your favorite songs and artists right now.”**

Why? It’s simple. If they can’t name anything that fits your vibe they might not be a good fit. You’ll also get to see how the feel about music and if they’re stuck in one genre.

You can follow this up with questions about how they usually run their weddings, because that’s almost half of what a professional DJ is doing at your event and it matters overall.

At Stylus, when we do weddings, we’re making sure we’re helping the couple fulfill their day, so it’s not so much about how WE do weddings as it is about how we help YOU do your wedding day.

## What type of equipment do you use?

This is difficult to justify but it’s understandable why you would ask. This is a great question if you understand DJ equipment, otherwise you might get a lot of DJ jargon. Consider asking a photographer if they shoot on Canon or Nikon – how would you best judge their answer? In some ways, the equipment is less important than what they can do with it.

**A better question to ask is ‘Can we see a photo of your set-up from a recent show? Maybe on FB or Instagram?” Then ask “Why do you use this particular set up?”**

It’s not that you’re going to understand every facet of the Turntable/CDJ/Controller or JBL/QSC/Martin Audio debate but you’re going to get a sense of what their equipment allows them to do and why they chose it. Remember, there’s no wrong answer here (actually that’s not true, there are plenty of wrong answers here including ‘Can I borrow your iPod?”) If they’re using entry-level equipment then they’re probably entry level DJs and will probably be priced as such. The best follow up question here is “What do you do when something goes wrong?”.

In the Stylus SE office we actually have DJ rigs set up so you can see the equipment (and maybe take it for a test drive yourself!).

## Can we come and hear you at a wedding?

If you ask this and the DJ says yes you need to consider how that would make you feel if your DJ brought prospective couples to your own wedding. I imagine at some point in the distant past it was OK, but they also used to wear purple tuxedos and lycra and there’s nothing alright about that.

We would never invite someone to your wedding because I can’t honestly say that I’m giving you my full attention when I’m literally trying to get another couple to book us for their event.

**A much better question to ask is: “Do you have recordings or video we could watch? Do you have any public nights where we could watch you perform?” This covers the bases pretty well.**

Be warned – there are subtle dangers to this approach , and it’s also why some DJs will post mixes instead of videos, that way you can see how they’re handling the music instead of focusing on other distractions in the frame.

On the Stylus Website, we’ve got over 60 hours of live DJ mixes and wedding recordings as well as interviews and video reviews from happy couples. You’re also welcome to see us at any of our weekly residencies.

If you visit a DJ on a public night (i.e. bar/club/block party, etc…) you’re going to hear that DJ’s interpretation of the format handed to them. A good DJ knows how to play their role and if the club owner wants them to play Bassnectar or Teefli you better believe they’re going to do it even though that may not be the sound you want at your own wedding.

The trick to this one is to listen for how they’re transitioning between tracks and managing the flow of the evening. Can they combine different genres together cleanly? Do you notice the mixes or do they flow? Is there silence? Silence is bad for DJs.

## What song should our First Dance be?

Ok, I’ll admit, I could probably pick several great first dance songs for you to consider once I got to know you much better, but a consultation is like a first date – you don’t ask what to name the baby. This is a very personal choice and, while we’re happy to help come up with ideas, you should pick this yourselves.

**A much better question is tastefully simple: “What do you think makes for a great first dance?”** This allows you to gauge a thousand things from their response including “how much have they been paying attention” and “do they know anything about music?” The best answer to this question from the DJ is “Well, that depends…” and then following it up with concrete, reality-based opinions.

## How many songs do you have?

On the face of it this might seem like a valid question, the problem is that you have no real way of judging this correctly. The Library of Congress has 90,000 songs but none of them are going to be floor-fillers. Conversely, if your DJ has too few (10,000 or less) they’re probably missing some big chunks of tunage but the vast majority are going to be songs you’ll probably want to hear. A good dance party will cruise through between 15-30 songs an hour or so (sometimes more depending on your format). Meaning that a 4 hour dance party may only have 60 song at a bare minimum, or up to 200 if they’re flying through at the end of each chorus. It isn’t that you need 80,000 songs to crush that party, the questions is do they have the resources and knowledge to respond to the particular moments developing at your reception.

In general, we recommend skipping this question entirely – it’s misleading and easy to lie about. **Instead, ask about how they organize their music and what their favorite go-to floor fillers are.** This also makes a great segue into how they can get the crowd involved. Professionals will have a variety of organizational tactics and will happily share them with you.

## Do you take requests?

The reason this question is troublesome is because THEY’D BETTER take your requests. The real question isn’t whether they take requests, it’s HOW they take requests. Some DJs will play anything a guest asks for, others will work it in when it feels appropriate (and it may never feel appropriate). Your DJ is going to be your final line of defense against inappropriate song requests, so understanding their thought process will help you decide whether to work with them.

You can nip this one in the bud by asking them for some ideas about **how they’d warm up or follow certain key songs you’re looking for.** It’s not that you’re going to legally hold them to these mixes, it’s just going to help you get a sense of where their heads are at. If you like Drake and they’re following it up with Glen Miller they’re either cutting-edge or off their rocker, hopefully you’ve asked enough questions at this point to get a sense of that.

Other Djs are uncomfortable outside of what they know so they’ll be less likely to be able to handle an esoteric request or respond appropriately.

At Stylus, whether or not we take guest requests is entirely up to you and we’re well versed on how to handle inappropriate or denied requests in a way that makes sure your guests don’t feel like we’re not taking them seriously.

## How many performances will you do that day?

Some DJs can stay fresh and thrive over long shifts (you know they’re in demand!), while others can barely maintain through one event. This is a bit of a misleading questions. **You should be asking “What happens if we want to add more time to our event?”** Pros will dedicate themselves to your event and make sure you get exactly what you’re asking for. Bear in mind, adding time at the event is usually more expensive than adding it in advance – so plan ahead!

**There are some unexpected and relevant questions you can ask your DJ. Let’s start with the ones we haven’t covered:**

## Will you also be my Emcee?

There are some DJs out there who won’t talk on the microphone, others will have a partner who’s making your announcements. Your professional DJ will guide you and your guests through the whole evening smoothly and without upsetting anyone. Your Stylus DJ is also your emcee and wedding entertainment director. We’ve got you covered.

## What’s your back-up Plan?

Sometimes things go wrong, how do we fix it? At Stylus, we’re usually the ones fixing problems, but we’re happy to tell you what our layers of back-up are and how we’ve handled difficult situations at events. The biggest thing to keep in mind is that there’s no reset button, and how you handle it moving forward requires quick wits, self-assurance, and great tunes.

## Have you been to my Venue before?

This is a great question, although the answer doesn’t have to be yes. This just leads into the discussion about how your professional DJ will be knowledgeable and prepared in time for your wedding. I’ve been to scores of venues that I’m not very familiar with, the difference was I did my homework and, where possible, did a site visit in advance. If I can’t do a site visit I’ll get pictures, diagrams, and specific instructions from direct contact with the coordinator, venue rep, and the clients themselves.

## How do you prepare for your events?

The answer should encompass months of communication, planning and intensive preparation immediately before your event (you should read that as a week or two out, not the night before). This should also be where your DJ walks you through everything you’ll need to do to make sure they deliver the event you’re looking for. Lots of pros will have an online form (or 4) they’ll want you to fill out, others may still do it old-school with a pen and paper. Either way is just fine as long as the details are clear and understood.

Our planning process starts the moment you contact us. We’re taking notes, preparing ideas, and getting you ready to have a great time. This involves phone calls, emails, in-person meetings, and communication with your other vendors to ensure we’re the most prepared vendor in the room.

## What’s included and are there any extras that we might need?

Some DJs start with a low price then add on the extra hours or services based on your needs. Others may throw in a bunch of extras to help win you over (or to overcome a deficiency elsewhere). The professional you want to work with makes this very clear and transparent. Some fantastic DJs don’t do any extras, others will have a bunch. Equipment doesn’t make the DJ but someone who’s been paying attention to you will be able to offer some informed opinions.

Stylus’ wedding packages include everything you need for a great event, but every client is different and we’re honored to help you make it happen.

## Will You Be My DJ?

Some less than scrupulous DJ companies (not naming any names!!!) will bait and switch you. The only compelling reason to switch your DJ would be for the same reasons you might postpone your wedding date (anything that might land you at the hospital). If not, meet your DJ and make sure you’re compatible. Personality accounts for a lot in this line of work. At Stylus, we’ve never missed an event or made a switch, although we have back-up plans just in case of something extreme (like bringing a new baby into the world!).

## What makes you different/special/ a unique and beautiful snowflake?

There’s no right answer to this, its really just for you to get a sense of what they’re emphasizing. Stylus SE was founded on quality, skill, and professionalism. Others may focus on price point, celebrity status, gadgets/add-ons or something else entirely.

For Stylus’ Marquee DJs, the answer is simply skill, professionalism, & raw dance party power.

## Will there be any breaks or silence?

Bands take breaks because, with that many people, it can be hard to keep everyone going for an extended session. Most DJs won’t have a break in the music even if they need a break to run to the restroom or get a glass of water. If they are taking a break, ask them how music will be played when they’re away.

## Is your music edited?

I feel embarrassed that we even have to include this one, but there are some people out there who think your wedding is deserving of the audio equivalent of a high school locker room. It’s not. You don’t want Grandma having a heart attack because your DJ dropped the unedited version or I’m On A Boat or Greased Lighting (which is a dirty, dirty, dirty song).

Radio Edits are the way to go, usually edited for language (not content) and it’s the fine balance between Chris Rock and Kidz Bop.

## What’s in the contract and how do we pay you?

Is there a schedule? Since wedding work is sometimes feast and famine, some professionals have a payment schedule in place to make sure everything is running smoothly throughout the year. A professional will also present you with a contract that legally obligates them (and you) to perform (and pay) for services rendered. Make sure it details what services they’ll provide, start & end times, and anything else (like power or a table) they might need to be successful at your event.

## What’s your mic style and level of interaction?

Photographers will tell you that interaction is the single most important element of what makes a great DJ. That doesn’t mean they’re out front the whole time, but it does mean they know how to use the tools they have to get the results they want. Some DJs can guide your guests with limited mic work, others really work to get your guests engaged or will help create special moments. The real test of this is going to be talking to talking to them. You’re going to be listening to them all night – make sure you like what they’re doing to ensure it’s what you want. I love it when clients talk about what they DIDN’T like at a previous event they went to, that helps us narrow down exactly what they’re going for.

Picking a DJ matters – this might be the single most important vendor choice you make about the entire event. You’ll spend 4-10 times longer at your reception than you do at your ceremony and it’s certainly where the most memories are formed.

Do your homework, check out their credentials, and don’t forget to ask away (as long as it’s the right questions!).

Don’t forget to call us at [919-346-4669](tel:+19193464669) if you have any questions

**Categories:** Blog

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### [DJ Pro Tips](https://stylusweddings.com/dj-pro-tips/)

**Published:** May 5, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Picking a DJ may be one of the most important decisions you make for your wedding. They more than provide a soundtrack for your wedding – they’re in charge of handling the mood, tone, pulse, and flow of your reception. Making the wrong choice can put your guests off, cost you unnecessary time and money, and undo months of hard work.

How can you prepare yourself and make sure you’re making the best choice for your event? Let’s start with what a wedding DJ actually does – it’s a lot more than you might think.

You and your guests will spend 12 times as long at your reception as you will at your ceremony (for a 20 minute ceremony, 4 hour reception). That means the vast majority of your memories (and your guests’ memories!) will be made at the reception. This is also where your guests will either have a great time or cut out early – that’s why your choice of DJ can be so important.

## What does a DJ actually do?

Most DJs are single genre DJs, meaning they play one type of music. A Wedding DJ has to be versatile and well-versed across every style you’re going to want at your wedding, but that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

A skilled and professional Wedding DJ will help you plot out your reception to highlight your key moments and preferred music. Arriving promptly, they will set up the sound and lighting you’ve requested to your exact specifications so that guests will be able to hear and see exactly what you want them to. Professional DJs will also Emcee your event to make sure your guests know what’s happening and what’s coming next, providing the necessary flow and structure to the event. They will coordinate with your other vendors to make sure that everyone who needs to be involved is present before any of your planned events or dances start. Finally, they will help your guests have a great time by rocking your dance floor with the music you love, paying attention to your guests and guiding them through the event seamlessly with great song selection and appropriate microphone presence and interaction.

Notice that “playing music” was last on that list. Most of a DJ’s skilled efforts will become very clear before they ever open up the dance floor. Your DJ will be the one vendor your guests have the most interaction with and strongest memory of.

## Sound & Lighting

Many professional DJs will be able to provide you with a variety of options to compliment your event, including additional speakers for cocktail hour, subwoofers, uplighting, custom GOBOs, and ceremony systems. Sound quality matters, and a professional DJ will make sure to take the number of guests at your wedding and the size of your ceremony & reception venues into account when recommending a package. Big events need bigger sound.

A professional DJ will be set up before your guests even arrive. Most will show up at your venue several hours before they’re scheduled to start to make sure everything is precisely in place before the first guest arrives. Some DJs will charge extra for the set-up time, others will include it in their package.

## DJ Skills

How can you tell? First, listen to their mixes or watch their video. You’ll get a great sense of how they carry the evening though, which is really what you should be looking for. How are the transitions? Are songs flowing together nicely? If all their mixes are of one type of music you’re probably going to hear that at your reception too.

They’ll have the music you want to hear and edited versions of anything that might be inappropriate for mixed company (i.e. your parents). They’ll have most mainstream songs and will be able to pull special requests for you given enough time before the event. They should also ask you how you feel about guest requests.

Reviews are also an important way to get a sense of how previous couples felt about working with that person. Some DJs will happily provide you with contact information; others may post or send you reviews. A little bit of digging here probably tells you most of what you’ll need to know. It’s recommended that you pay attention to how old or recent the reviews are. Too far in one direction is a sign something is off.

## Event Direction & Microphone Presence

A professional DJ will be available to you and help guide you through the planning process, showing you everything you’ll need to provide in order to ensure that your event goes they way you want it to. Many have some type of planning form, you’ll want them to walk you through it to make sure you’re providing them with what they need to be successful.

Remember – your Wedding DJ is the link between your plan and what actually happens. Event direction matters.

The DJ’s microphone presence is one element that dictates part of how your event will feel. They need to be able to announce every formal element of your reception cleanly and with the character and personality you want. Some professional DJs are going to be able to do it all and will tailor their approach to your specific instructions. The evening should flow smoothly and they should be able to handle last minute changes and “emergencies” with professionalism and grace.

You can expect your Wedding DJ to complement your reception and bring out the event you’re looking for. If you’ve done some very basic homework and follow these simple rules you’re in for a great time:

## Check their mixes/videos and reviews.

Find out a little more about their background and experience. How many weddings have they done in the past couple of years? Check in on some previous clients if you can. Photographers see a lot of DJs, find out if they’ve worked with any lately and get their input.

What is their wedding preparation and what can you do to make sure they’ve got everything they need to be successful? Phonetically spell complicated names for your DJ – your guests will appreciate it.

## See if they have any recommendations for your event.

Ask about how they might pace your reception and how they’ll work with other vendors. Make sure they’re comfortable on the microphone.

Get everything in writing! A professional will provide you with a written contract (and peace of mind!) detailing exactly what their services will be and what the final cost will be. Most professionals will also be insured.

Get a ‘Finals’ meeting (or phone call) set up before your wedding to run through everything together. Since your DJ is such a huge part of your event you’ll want to make sure everyone’s on the same page.

## Finally – Have a great time at your reception!

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Guide to Wedding Traditions](https://stylusweddings.com/guide-to-wedding-traditions/)

**Published:** May 5, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Many of the traditions that make up the contemporary wedding date back to before writing; others are far more recent than you might think. While the Majority of our contemporary wedding traditions stem from three main places: Ancient Babylon, Ancient Rome, and Ancient Britain, there’s been a LOT of variation on these and the roots of them will surprise you.Ever wondered where some of this stuff comes from? Let’s lay it all out there for you!

## The Marriage
![egyptian bride](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/egyptian_bride-02b.jpg "Raleigh - Stylus Weddings")

While the Majority of our contemporary wedding traditions stem from three main places: Ancient Babylon, Ancient Rome, and Ancient Britain, there’s been a LOT of variation on these and the roots of them will surprise you.

People have been getting married for longer than we have written history. The bible attributes marriage to the Garden of Eden, although no ceremony was held and it’s easy to assume you were made for each other when you’re literally made for each other. The ancient Sumerians and Chinese, Egyptians and Indians all had marriage laws and customs on the books, we’ve got about 5000 years of written record but even uncontacted hunter-gatherer tribes have marriage laws – meaning that it seems to come less from tradition and more from social necessity. The actual idea of ceremonies and legitimacy and our idea of modern marriage come mainly through the Romans, who considered it a sacred and binding contract to preserve property and produce legitimate offspring. Yes, as unromantic as it sounds – marriage was a business deal – a lot of money traditionally changed hands as part of the bride price or dowry.

Who gets married and why has also changed throughout history (or by state). Ancient peoples used to practice polygamy (multiple wives) or polyandry (multiple husbands), or a wide variety of others arrangements. The age of marriage has varied widely too. While certain cultures dictated that 13 was the age you were legally an adult, In the US the minimum age range is between 13 (New Hampshire) and 21 (Mississipi) but is 16 in most states.

At the end of the 1700s, the average age of marriage was around 28 for men and 26 for women, and at the end of the 1800s, the average age of marriage in the US dropped a little but never fell below 22. In the early 20th century was when marriage ages plummeted thanks to a combination of factors – cars, teenage rebellion, and age discrimination civil rights.

## The Best Man

By tradition (according to the ancient Sumerians) the Best Man is supposed to help the Groom steal the bride from her family. That’s actually why the bride stands on the Groom’s left side, so he can keep his sword/club/knife hand free.

## Groomsmen

So, the best man helps steal the bride? What about the groomsmen? That’s a little more complicated. In the past, weddings were often a more violent affair (ever hear of the Romans and the Sabines?) As far back as the Sumerians (and likely long before) Brides were often stolen from her family and taken to the home of the groom (sometimes without her consent!). The family might come to get her back and the groomsmen were supposed to beat them back and preserve the groom’s ‘union’.

## Bridesmaids

Well, the groom’s got all those tough guys – that’s a little asymmetrical – let’s add some ladies on the other side. Plus, I think that once the ‘marriage ceremony’ started becoming a thing it was inappropriate for men and women to co-mingle, so you’ve got to have a retinue to help the bride prepare. Plus, it’s a lot of fun.

## Something Old Something New

![Roman Wedding Frieze](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Roman_Wedding_Frieze-e98-scaled.jpg "venueseo - Stylus Weddings")Before we talk about this, we want to **WARN YOU** that people around the world traditionally thought that special powers transfered by touch. That’s why anything the bride carries on her wedding day is lucky (i.e. bouquet, garter, money, etc…). They also thought you could transfer attributes to another person – i.e. intelligence, motherhood, strength, luck, etc…

In a traditional rhyme, first put into print in 1898 in England but implied to stretch back for generations, you can see this theme in action:

*Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe*

Here’s the thing, the something borrowed and something blue *(the traditional color of marriage*) are supposed to help ward off the evil eye (which could supposedly cause barrenness), the ‘something old’ is supposed to be the undergarments of a woman who’s already had children so that the ‘fertility powers’ would transfer to the new bride and she’d bear tons of kids. The silver sixpence is supposed to help ensure that you’ll draw wealth to your new family beacuse touching money means it will be drawn to you.

## The Veil

![545px Pompeii couple](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/545px-Pompeii-couple-f33.jpg "545px Pompeii couple - Stylus Weddings")

Another ancient Roman custom, this one originated as a bright flame-colored veil called the *flammeus* that was supposed to hide the brides from evil spirits who might make her barren or bring her bad fortune.

## The Bouquet

This is an old one; it’s something the bride carries on her wedding day that is supposed to be lucky. There are a lot of traditions that revolve around this idea – and that the young unmarried woman who catches the bouquet will be the next to get married.

## The Garter

One of the most ancient of all the wedding traditions, this dates back since before the Romans but has changed a lot over the years. Originally, a piece of the bride’s clothing was considered lucky on her wedding day (for the same reason the bouquet is also lucky – the bride has carried it). They used to cut the dress up at the reception and a drunk guest might rip the whole sleeve off for a lot of luck. It makes a lot more sense to wear something you can remove without messing up the dress, which has traditionally been passed down from mother to daughter, so in the 14th century they switched to tossing the garter instead of tearing the dress. Another more salacious (and wrong) origin attributes it to the middle eras when a practice called ‘Bedding’ would require witnesses (sometimes official or royal) to the consummation of the wedding (aka getting it on) – which meant that your wedding night might have a lot of spectators and some very awkward conversations the next morning. It’s said that the groom would throw the garter out the door to prove they’d consummated the marriage – this tradition subsequently moved from the bedroom to the reception. This seems entirely unlikely to me considering how regulated courtly social lives were during the middle ages and up through the Victorian era, when even mentioning a table ‘leg’ was considered inappropriate.

## Garter Replacement

This is a relatively modern invention – but one that allows someone else at your wedding to be a superstar for a few minutes. ‘Traditionally’ the gentleman who catches the garter puts it back on the young lady who caught the bouquet. It’s not really about putting it back on though – it’s really about the guy putting on crazy dance to ‘win’ the young lady’s heart.

## The Honeymoon

This is another ancient Sumerian custom that’s gone through a ton of phases. Originally, as part of the marriage contract, the bride’s father was supposed to keep the groom supplied with mead (honeyed beer) for an entire month. Since the Sumerians used a lunar calendar (like many ancient peoples) a month was measured by the moon (28 days). So a honeyed moon is the month after the wedding when the groom gets drunk constantly on the bride’s father’s dime. Later in pilgrimage-crazed Europe it became an opportunity for the bride and groom to travel to meet guests who couldn’t make it to the wedding. Eventually, the bride and groom struck out on their own to see the world and that’s why you’re going to the Riviera Maya after your wedding. Bring your own sunscreen, it’s expensive down there.

## The Bachelor Dinner/Party

![Athenian Wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Athenian_Wedding-9cc.jpg "hero_subtext - Stylus Weddings")Back in 5th Century BCE Sparta (Greece) they had a number of very unique traditions. They were a conquering culture and had enslaved the Messinians when they moved into the Peleponesos. As warriors, their most important social and cultural system was called the Mess. It was where all the men of fighting age lived, ate, and trained together. When it was time for a wedding they had lots of unique customs, one of which was celebrating the groom before his wedding with the guys he’s fought and lived with before he moves out of the Mess to establish his own home. Over the years the event has taken on a slightly more risque nature but the foundation is the same.

## The Bridal Shower

With it’s roots in Holland, this tradition is a little more subversive than you might think. If a father did not approve of a woman’s choice of husband he wouldn’t provide her with the necessary things to start a home. The bride’s friends would get together and ‘shower’ her with gifts instead. So, really, a bridal shower is teenage rebellion writ formal, and there’s snacks.

## Throwing Rice/Flowers

Grain has traditionally represented fecundity (fertility). The Roman goddess of Fertility is Ceres, from which we get the word cereal. In case you haven’t picked up the dominant theme yet, having babies was very important and the principal concern of a marriage in many cultures. Throwing grains was supposed to transmit the fertility to the newlyweds and ensure that they were going to have lots of kids. This is the most ancient tradition on our list and has gone through a ton of changes over the years, eventually becoming the cake cutting.

## Cake Cutting

This tradition is older than our concept of marriage. Originally, in Sumeria, the Levant, and that whole region, guests would bring grains and small cakes to throw at the bride and groom (again, to ensure fecundity). The Romans practiced this too, but early Roman bakers changed it from Throw It to Eat It. When the Romans invaded Britain in 43 ACE they stayed for 400 years and a lot of their traditions got picked up by the local people. The Brits had a different idea – make a big pile of cakes and eat them after we roast this goat. Eventually, the pile of cakes became standard, and when the British invaded France during the Hundred Years War (1337 to 1453) the French decided the British were silly and made one big cake that everyone could cut a piece off of. The tiered cake came from a tradition of stacking cakes up and seeing if the bride and groom could kiss over it (until they couldn’t anymore).

In Irish tradition, you’re supposed to break break over the head of the bride for luck, now they cut the cake over her head.

“Following the tradition of eating the crumbs of the wheat, sweet meat cakes spread throughout Europe. In medieval England the tradition broadened to include the practice of washing down the cakes with special ale called “bryd ealu,” translated as “bride’s ale,” words that eventually became the word “bridal.” (passage from Bridal Whimsy writers)

## Flowers

Ok, there are a couple of theories behind this one but I think it simpler than all that. First, the main theory: Originally people would place spread herbs, flowers, and grains to ward off evil spirits, eventually developing into elaborate displays. We can certainly recognize how warding off evil is a longstanding concern at weddings (everybody’s got that cousin…) but I think the roots of it are very simple – flowers are pretty and weddings are nice. People in every culture around the world use flowers for celebration and sacred rituals because they represent beauty and smell nice, especially in an age when no one bathed. A bunch of flowers in bloom represents a fullness and joyousness that’s perfectly suited for a great party (and let’s throw in some fertility for good measure since that seems to be what EVERYTHING at a wedding is about).

## Tying the Knot

A phrase euphemistically evoking the act of marriage, it comes from the Celtic tradition of Hand-Fasting (no, that’s not what hand models do to stay shapely). The bride and groom have their hands wrapped at the wrists signifying their lives are bound together. For most of the past three thousand years, church/temple marriages were too expensive for the average person, and hand fasting has been common-law throughout Europe through the present day. In the late 1700s the English tried to outlaw the custom to drive more revenue to the church but the Scottish held out (stubborn Scots and their Iron-Brew) and now Hand Fasting is a common way to help celebrate the ceremony in conjunction with a clergy-officiated rite.

## Jumping the Broom

![Catnach broomstick wedding 1822](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Catnach_broomstick-wedding_1822-48f.jpg "Raleigh-BW.jpg - Stylus Weddings")

A phrase that means the same thing as ‘tying the knot’ – there are a few speculative roots to this. The first is that it’s an African tradition that hails from Ghana during the Ashanti Confederacy, when European observers couldn’t help but remark about the cleanliness of the roads (especially considering how nasty places like London and Paris were at the time) and the special brooms the locals used. The brooms were also waved over the heads of brides and grooms to ‘sweep away’ evil spirits. Jumping over the broom developed into showing the bride’s commitment to keeping the courtyard of the family residence clean and overall commitment to the new home. It also became a way to end arguments because, by tradition, whoever jumps over the broom the highest (usually the man) gets to make decisions in the household. Its been my experience that trying to tell any woman how she should do anything is the fastest way to a bad day, regardless of what the broom told you.

In America, very few people officially jumped the broom at their ceremony until it was popularized in African-American culture by Alex Haley’s “Roots” although it is also practiced in Europe by the Romani (Travellers/Gypsies) and, a more recent addition, Wiccans.

With all that being said, the story is doubtful – the earliest evidence of it is actually British and French sources in the 1700s. Jumping the broom or “broomstick marriage” refers to a wedding ceremony of doubtful validity (possibly because it wasn’t performed in a church by the clergy). The idea being that it is an informal and not legally binding union that the partners are able to dismiss at will. Bear in mind, common law marriage wasn’t recognized until the Marriage Act of 1836.

It’s also easy to see why african slaves and indentured servants from the British isles would have picked it up, since, in many cases, they wouldn’t have access to, or permission for, legally binding unions.

Essentially, jumping the broom means “I don’t need your permission to be the with the one I love.” Considering America’s history with denying marriage rights to ‘unfavored’ groups I’m surprised you don’t see it at every LGBTQ wedding.

## Sawing a Log

![old italian wedding traditions sawing](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/old-italian-wedding-traditions_-_sawing-440.jpg "old italian wedding traditions sawing - Stylus Weddings")

This German tradition also has cognates in mediterranean cultures (especially italian) but comes to us from from the waves of Dutch and German immigration (especially in Pennsyvlania).

Tradition holds that it’s the first challange that a couple must overcome in their marriage and that, with their family and friends supporting them, they can accomplish anything.

## German Wedding Cup

![germanbridal cup ruby crystal](/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/germanbridal_cup_ruby_crystal-517.jpg "germanbridal cup ruby crystal - Stylus Weddings")

German Weddings have some fun ones, but this is my personal favorite. It’s got a great story too.

“There once was a young man in Nuremburg who fell in love with a burgher’s daughter. Their romance was forbidden because the young man was poor and the burgher didn’t think he was a suitable match for his daughter. Unimpressed with the young man’s persistance, the burgher had the young man thrown into jail. Eventually, he pleas caught the burgher’s ear and he gave the young man an impossible task to prove he was unworthy and would give up his amorous pursuits. The burgher challenged the young man to drink from the same cup as his daughter at the same time, and if he succeeded he could have the maiden’s hand in marriage. The young man was resourceful and adept, and created a chalice that accomplished this very task. The burgher was so impressed with the young man’s accomplishment that he allowed his daughter to wed for love and they lived happily ever after.

Nice, right!?

## Beau Mains Deux

Beau Mains Deux (pronounced Bo-Man-Du) – From the French, literally meaning ‘Two Beautiful Hands”, it’s a traditional decoration of folder paper or fabric that covers your glass at a table setting. Essentially a sophisticated drink hat, this tradition comes from the same place Tapas does – how do you keep flying things out of your drink. Etymology ties this to the French who originally colonized everything west of Appalachia in the 1700s, it got picked up and formalized by the southern Gentry (is it any surprise? Look at the hats you see in the Kentucky Derby!) who turned it into fancy origami with booze. The world’s foremost authority on Beau Mains Deux actually lives in Raleigh (Gretchen Garret), and if you’re looking for a fun take on a southern tradition, Beau Main Deux can help.

## Traditional Wedding Gifts

People love throwing a good party, but what’s a wedding without presents?

## Jordanian Almonds

A tradition from the Middle East that was picked up from the Crusades, lost, and then reintroduced. It’s customary to give guests 5 almonds to represent the five wishes – fertility, health, wealth, happiness and longevity. The almond is candy coated representing the bitter and the sweet of marriage or, as I think, to make them tastier.

## Glass Eye Charm

From Greece, this tradition involved giving a glass charm in the shape of an eye to ward off evil spirits (the ‘good’ eye to ward off the ‘evil’ eye) and bring good luck. Called the ‘Evil Eye’ or Mykonos Eye, it’s everywhere in Greece and dates back to the ‘Classical’ Greek period of the 5th century BCE and earlier. They believed that the eyes were capable of sending out negative ‘rays’ (ever heard of staring daggers at someone?) and that you could combat them with this charm.

## Eggs

So we all know that Easter is named after the Pagan goddess Eastre (related to Astarte/Aphrodite) and that eggs are symbol of fertility (so’s the bunny rabbit for that matter). It’s not surprising that the same concept of coloring eggs to promote fertility is a longstanding Malaysian wedding tradition too. I’m just glad they’re not throwing them at the newlyweds to promote fecundity, that would get messy.

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### [Uplighting - The Why & How of It](https://stylusweddings.com/uplighting-the-why-how-of-it/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Uplighting has become a popular trend for many weddings, almost a necessity for certain venues. Just a few uplights can dramatically alter how you feel about a space, taking you from “Didn’t we go to a wedding here last summer” to “OMG!” There are a lot of very pretty venues out there – but the vast majority of them benefit from uplighting – how can you tell if your wedding venue could use a little extra pop?

Uplighting is the term we use to describe par cans placed around the perimeter of the room to shoot up the walls and architectural details. Sometimes called accent lighting, uplighting is the cheapest, fastest, and most impressive way to affect a room. Conference halls, hotels, and the vast majority of traditional meeting space are usually done in very safe and neutral colors. Chances are your wedding colors aren’t taupe, beige, khaki, and puce, uplighting is how we fix it.

The trick to uplighting and figuring out what’s right for you is the type of impression you want to make.

If you’ve got the budget to do the whole room you’re in for some truly amazing options and color combinations – allowing you to pull the whole room together with a series of spectacular color combinations that compliment everything from your florals and linen color choices to your bridesmaids shoes or wedding cake. If you’ve got a smaller budget and can only afford a limited number of lights you’re better off selecting a key area to highlight.

It’s better to light one area correctly than spread them too thin.

Like you and your partner – they work better together.

Uplighting is great as a stand-alone options, but works best in combination with other elements, including custom GOBOs, drapery, beads, and select spatial details.

There are two principal approaches to how we light a space. Either we’re lighting the details or we’re lighting the space as a whole. The former means we’re structuring the lighting to create a visual pattern that carries through, allowing for an impressive visual component that lasts throughout your whole event. With the latter, we’re creating dynamic contours and emotional interaction through our delineation of space (real or perceived depending on your venue).

Let’s unpack that a little.

Par cans come in a few varieties, but break down into two main categories: incandescent & LED.

Incandescent are the lights that have been used for over a century (you probably still have them everywhere). They’re cheaper but have a much higher power draw and a severely limited range of colors, although they do certain warm colors particularly well.

The vast majority of modern uplighting is done with LED lighting and these break down into a few different categories.

draw your guests to these unique spaces?

You can talk with us about your venue and we’ll be happy to make recommendations based on your needs, space, and budget.

RGB (Red Green & Blue)

RGBA (Amber)

RGBAW (White)

RGBAW-UV (Ultra Violet)

By combining the intensity of the different colors we can hit any color in the rainbow. LED par cans were all originally a single color, then they started adding three principal colors (Green replaces yellow as the primary mixing color for most LED manufacturers) to allow the end user to adapt the fixture to fit their exact color needs. Initially, you’d think that RGB would be enough but it was found they there were certain colors they didn’t do as well as the incandescants, including amber and white – so they started adding those LEDs to bring us to the full range of color we have now.

You can use lighting to create broad splashes of color across the wall, create vertical columns of luminance, or activate spaces to draw guests to certain conclusions or their eye to particular details.

The trick to this is figuring out what matters most to you. Is the venue a little bland and you need to spice it up a little or are you going for a warmer, more subtle effect? Are you having your reception in a place with large columns that would pop with a little extra color or are you looking to light the colonnade and draw your guests to these unique spaces?

You can talk with us about your venue and we’ll be happy to make recommendations based on your needs, space, and budget.

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### [Why Price Should Never Be Your First Question](https://stylusweddings.com/why-price-should-never-be-your-first-question/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Most couples, when they’re contacting a wedding vendor, will usually jump right to the heart of what they think the matter is.

“What’s the Price?”

That’s actually the last question you should ask after you’ve asked everything else.

Why? That’s because price and value are actually not related the way lots of people think they are.

In Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill there are 70 different DJ companies. Most of them fall into several different pricing categories, but that doesn’t actually tell you what they do or how they do it. You should really be focused on the VALUE of what they’re bringing to the table, because you’ll find that makes your decision even easier.

Let’s think about this another way.

For instance, if you’re looking to provide dinner for your guests and you’ve got three caterers to choose from, with the first offering a fancy meal at the highest price (let’s say $50/pp), another offering an unispired but OK meal at $40/pp, and the third offering chicken nuggets and Ramen noodles at the lowest price of $10/pp, what’s the best value?

The best value in this case is, without a doubt, the highest price meal. Not because it costs more, most people would think that the best value would be the lower cost meal, but for only $10 more per person you’re getting filet mignon instead of frozen chicken. That’s what we call the added value. At that point we’re examining the fixed costs associated with caterers (serving staff, washing dishes, broken glasses, office rental, kitchen costs, food costs) and looking at how we can get the most out our experience.

Meanwhile, if you’d gone to a caterer and said “we can afford $35/pp” and judged their proposals you’d have a great opportunity to examine where those values really are. The biggest flub a lot of couples make is they come at a vendor with a budget that’s unrealistic. If you’ve budgeted $400 for a dinner of 100 people you’re going to have to hit the McBurger drive-through and hope your aunt is nice enough to serve everyone.

Obviously, setting a budget is crucial, and we recommend talking with lots of different people to start getting a sense of what costs really are, and then you need to identify what’s most important to you, but pricing isn’t as important a questions as you might initially assume.

On of the main things we hear is ‘Why is everything in a wedding so expensive?” I remember working for another company years ago and they offered videography. A client called and said, “Why do you charge so much for a DVD of our wedding when I can buy a DVD at Wal-Mart for $10?”

Wal-Mart carries your wedding video there? So they sent videographers out, spent 20 man-hours capturing your wedding, spent another 30-40 editing, and then the additional 8-10 hours rendering and converting it? All while using unique skills, professional equipment, and techniques developed over years of effort? Of course not.

It’s the same with photographers. They spend 3-4 times the amount of time they spent AT your wedding working ON your wedding pictures. That 10-12 hour day they just pulled is just the beginning for them.

Again, this goes to the heart of the matter – assessing VALUE.

For most of our clients, a great party and wedding day experience are the most important things. Not that they don’t put serious thought into the other details of their event, but it’s the experience of having a great time with their friends and family that matters the most.

For you, it might be something different, you might be more focused on the dinner, or the florals, or the guest gifts.

That’s where we start really assigning value.

If you don’t value what a DJ brings to the table, you’re probably not looking to spend a lot on it.

If you really value the difference a DJ can make on your wedding day (this is a really easy choice for people who’ve seen bad DJs at weddings) then you’re going to want to work with the best of the best.

Once you’ve identified what’s most important, start looking at the vendors who might be able to help you make the most of your event. That’s why price is the LAST question you ask, because you’re really interested in the true VALUE of the service they’re providing, and that value is only really determined once you take stock of what their offering really is.

I see this all the time with different vendors. Yes, a photographer might be $1000 more than another photographer, but you’re probably getting a full-time pro with more experience and a catalog of work that really speaks to you, versus a photographer who’s part time, with less experience, and who’s work doesn’t exhilarate your soul. Would you budget the difference and maybe back off the florals, cake, or accoutrements a little?

If I book a high-end photographer for $3500, who puts 10 hours in on the wedding day and an additional 30 hours on the back end editing and preparing my photos, that averages $87 an hour. If I’ve got a guy who’s offering to shoot my wedding for $1500 but will only give me the raw files that’s not as great a value because I’m paying nearly twice as much per hour and not getting the highest quality edited and prepared images of my wedding day. The value of the high-end photographer is easy to see.

It’s somewhat similar to Djs. Yes – there are lots of Djs and it’s a little harder to make sense of it because no DJ is going to say “Yeah, I’m bad, but I’m cheap!” Everybody’s going to tell you how amazing they are, but there are a few things to look for, and follow this link a list of the questions you should be asking.

Yes, Stylus is a little more expensive than a lot of other Djs, because we’re full-time, do better work, and put more effort, time, and energy into a wedding than most other Djs. We work best with clients who understand real VALUE when they see it, because Stylus is your absolute best value. It’s not because we’re the cheapest Raleigh DJs, but because your cost/benefit ratio is better than anywhere else.

If you’re looking at flowers, check with several different florists and find out what options are available at different price ranges and see how it aligns with your goals. Again, if flowers are more important, you’re going to want to really invest in it and downplay other elements. But, you’re not going ask about price until you ask the other important questions: How long have you been doing this, are you full-time, what are your back-up plans, what’s your philosophy on design, are there things that you do that really set you apart…

One of the biggest mistakes couples make (and we’ve seen it a hundred times) is trying to do EVERYTHING instead of really focusing on what matters. For instance, I didn’t do a lot of flowers at my own wedding because I was more interested in transforming the room with lighting. I wanted the WOW factor instead of traditional big bouquets. Because we were on a tight budget, I also didn’t do a traditional food service because I wanted to make sure I put my resources into the things that were most important to me (the party).

When I’m assigning value to something, it’s not necessarily the cheapest thing, it’s the one that thrills me and makes me happy with my purchase. Most of us would rather pay a little more than be stuck with something we wish we hadn’t gone the cheapest route with. That’s why I don’t drive a jalopy, eat nothing but mac n cheese, or wear tattered clothes, because the true value of something isn’t just how cheap it is – it’s how well it’s done.

As Aldo Gucci said, “The bitterness of poor quality is remembered long after the sweetness of low price has faded from memory “

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### [Picking the Perfect Wedding Songs - Wedding Music Guide](https://stylusweddings.com/picking-the-perfect-wedding-songs-wedding-music-guide/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

**Ultimate Guide to The Best Wedding Music Songs**

For some people, picking their wedding music is really easy – they either know the perfect wedding song or just let the DJ do it.

If you’re having a hard time picking out the perfect wedding songs, here’s a little help to get you started.

Let’s start with the songs you’ll need to pick out and then look at some fun options.

**Ceremony** **Prelude** – This is the music that’s playing 1/2 hour before you come down the aisle while your guests are being seated. Some couples want nice instrumentals, others want classic love songs, and others want grand piano versions of Usher and Beyonce. This is a great way to set the tone, but we recommend making the instrumentation and styling DIFFERENT than the choices you’ll use for your actual ceremony music.

Vitamin String Quartet

Piano Guys

Mark Magnusen

David Sides

**Ceremony** **Processional** – This is the song that plays when you come down the aisle. The most classic choice is the Dum, dum, da-dum, dum DUM da-dum…. (AKA Mendelsohn’s Wedding March from his incidental music for A Midsummer Night’s Dream). The most popular modern song is “Thousand Years” by Christina Perri, but, you’re not limited to classical music or even instrumental music.

Some other great options include:

Train – Marry Me

Pachelbel – Canon in D

Haley Reinhart – Can’t Help Falling in Love

Brother Iz – Over the Rainbow

John Legend – All of Me

Etta James – At Last

Star Wars- Throne Room/End Titles

**Ceremony Recessional** – This is the song that exclaims “We’re Married Now!” and plays when you’re walking BACK down the aisle. I usually recommend picking something that expresses how you feel to be officially married to the LOVE of your life.

Jackie Wilson – Higher and Higher

Stevie Wonder – Signed Sealed Delivered

American Authors – Best Day Of My Life

Ray Lamontagne – You Are The Best Thing

Hall & Oates – You Make My Dreams come True

Big & Rich – Lost in This Moment

**Introductions**

This is the moment when the wedding party (or just you two) enter the main reception area. We recommend picking something upbeat and energetic because it helps get everyone ready to party. If it’s just the two of you then the song won’t usually play very long. If you’ve doing a larger wedding party, just remember to pick a song that’s good for you the WHOLE way through.

Justin Timberlake – Can’t Stop the Feeling!

Bruno Mars – Marry You

Black Eyed Peas – I Gotta Feeling

T.I. & Jay-Z – Bring ‘Em Out

AC/DC – Back in Black

DJ Khaled – All I Do Is Win

Blue Swede – Hooked on a Feeling

**First Dance Song**

This is the song you’ll play when you and your partner take to the dance floor for the first time. In southern culture it’s considered inappropriate for anyone to dance before the VIP couple dances, which is why most couples do this dance right when they enter the reception area.

It’s great to pick something that makes you happy and fills you all the right feels, no matter what that song is for the two of you.

DON’T pick a song because you THINK it’s appropriate. Pick a song that’s just right for the two of you. This applies to your parent dances too, but it’s especially important to remember for this dance because you’ll have this as your first dance for the rest of your lives and every time you hear it it will be YOUR song.

Also, DON’T be afraid to pick a song that someone close to you has already used. Neither of you wrote the song and your cousin or friend from college doesn’t have a monopoly on the relationship YOU and your partner have with that song.

Here are some great wedding first dance songs to inspire you:

Dan & Shay – From the Ground Up

Ed Sheehan & Beyonce – Perfect Duet

Thomas Rhett – Die a Happy Man

Adele – Make You Feel My Love

Christ Stapleton – Tennessee Whiskey

Ben E King – Stand By Me

Here are some slightly more unconventional first dance songs:

Sam Smith – Latch (acoustic)

Outkast – Baby Take Off Your Cool

Steve Azar – Lay Your Heart Next To Mine

Bright Eyes – First Day Of My Life

Dave Matthews – Crush

Tamia & Eric Benet – Spend My Life with You

And here’s the songs my wife and I danced to:

Aphex Twin – Kick-Ass Violin Solo

The Flamingoes – Only Have Eyes For You

**Parent Dance Wedding Songs**

The parent dances can be one of the most poignant moments of a wedding, and the same rules apply – pick something that fits your relationship with your mother/father , whether it’s something unapologetically cliched but important in your lives or something out of left field. You’ll invite your parent (or someone you want to honor and recognize) out to the dance floor for a very special dance.

The thing many clients think is that they have to cut this dance short, which you can absolutely do. I would argue that you don’t have to though. This may be the most time you spend with them on your whole wedding day, and if your guests can’t sit down and shut up for 4 minutes out of respect while you share this special moment with one of the most important people in your life then their opinions on the matter are irrelevant.

**Father Daughter Dance Song**

Heartland – I Loved Her First

Tim McGraw – My Little Girl

Temptations – My Girl

Frank Sinatra/ Tony Bennet/ Maroon 5 – The Way You Look Tonight

Stevie Wonder – Isn’t She Lovely/ Ribbon in the Sky

Paul Simon – Father/Daughter

Beach Boys – God Only Knows

**Mother Son Dance Song**

Rascal Flatts – My Wish

Louis Armstrong – Wonderful World (it’s short!)

Lynyrd Skynyrd – Simple Man

Boyz II Men – Song for Mama

Beatles – In My Life

Phil Collins – You’ll Be in My Heart

Reba Mcentire – He Gets That From Me

Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell – Ain’t No Mountain High Enough

**Cake Cutting Song**

You may be wondering why you have to pick out a cake cutting song, that’s because it’s going to take a few minutes for you to get over, have the photographer explain how to cut it and position you for the best pictures, and then actually cut the cake. Usually we recommend picking TWO cake cutting songs because it often takes longer than just one song. This is a good place to play around with whole sweet/sugar/cake/food thing because your guests can certainly appreciate a good song selection.

Maroon 5 – Sugar

James Taylor – How Sweet It Is

DNCE – Cake By The Ocean

Archies – Sugar Sugar

Def Leppard – Pour Some Sugar on Me

Four Tops – Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie Honey Bunch)

Flo Rida – Cake

Average White Band – Cut the Cake

**Bouquet Toss**

This is where you invite all the single (read: unmarried) women to the dance floor and toss a bouquet to them. From the get go, it doesn’t have to be just the women. You can invite any guests who are looking for a partner. This tradition is one of the oldest and can give you some great photographs for your wedding album.

Some fun Bouquet Toss Songs are:

Beyonce – Single Ladies

Meghan Trainor – Dear Future Husband

Cyndi Lauper – Girls Just Want To Have Fun

Shania Twain – Man! I Feel Like A Woman

David Guetta – Where Them Girls At

Spice Girls – Wannabe

Ludacris – Move B\*tch

Pat Benatar – Hit Me With Your Best Shot

TLC – No Scrubs

**Garter Removal**

This is the moment where your partner pulls your garter off your leg (if you’re wearing one) BEFORE he throws it to the assembled single men. There’s a lot to have fun with in this moment if you decide to include it and the right song can absolutely make the moment!

Georgia Satellites – Hands To Yourself

Mission Impossible Theme Song

Kenny Loggins – Danger Zone

Nelly – Hot in Herre

Justin Timberlake – Sexyback

Jimi Hendrix – Foxy Lady

Big Pimpin – Jay Z

**Garter Toss**

Just like the bouquet toss but for the fellas. This is a great photo op and a lot of fun when you set the right tone. Some really fun Garter Toss songs include:

Queen – Another One Bites the Dust

Panic at the Disco – Death of a Bachelor

Killers – The Man

Jidenna – Classic Man

Inner Circle – Bad Boys (Theme from Cops)

Aloe Blacc – The Man

ZZ Top – Sharp Dressed Man

**Garter Replacement**

One of the most controversial wedding events, it’s great for some crowds but inappropriate for others. This is where the guy who caught the garter puts it back on the leg of the person who caught the bouquet. In reality, that’s just the set-up – the main event is the dance routine!

Garter Replacement Songs:

Ginuwine – Pony

Marvin Gaye – Let’s Get It On

Hot In Herre – Nelly

David Rose Orchestra – The Stripper

Warrant – Cherry Pie

AC/DC – You Shook Me All Night Long

R. Kelly – Bump & Grind

Weeknd – Earned It

Big & Rich – Save A Horse, Ride A Cowboy

Niall Horan – Slow Hands

**Last Dance Song**

This is the final song you want played before you head off into the world as a married couple. There are three schools of thought about this dance – Romantic (either for everyone or just the two of you), Full Party Mode (wild it out!), and Sing Along. Any of these can be great, but what’s best for your wedding day?

Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’

Semisonic – Closing Time

Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes – (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life

Michael Buble – Save the Last Dance for Me

Donna Summer – Last Dance

Billy Joel – Piano Man

Old Crow Medicine Show – Wagon Wheel

’N Sync – Bye Bye Bye

Isley Brothers – Shout

Queen – Bohemian Rhapsody

Luke Bryan – I Don’t Want This Night To End

Fun – We Are Young

There are lots of other songs you can pick out for your event (short list below) but these are the most popular moments to pick songs for. If you’ve got questions or are looking for more song options, feel free to reach out to us at  or call us anytime at 919-346-4669.

Other Song Choices

Groom’s Ceremony Entrance Song

Seating of the Mothers

Bridal Party Song

Unity Ceremony Song

Receiving Line Song

Cocktail Music

Dinner Music

Toast Songs

Anniversary Dance Songs

Newlywed Game Song

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### [Raleigh Wedding DJs Who Don't Settle for Just OK](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-djs-who-don-t-settle-for-just-ok/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

**Don’t Settle for Average! Have a Stylus Wedding Experience Instead!**

We’re always thinking about weddings. It’s because helping you celebrate with your friends and family is one of our all-time favorite things. But some couples are settling for a less than average or just OK DJ experience – when nothing else about their wedding reflects that same lack of attention to detail. Here’s why Stylus might be the right fit your for your Raleigh wedding DJ experience.

Let me be up front about this – there’s nothing wrong with an OK DJ for some events. Some events just need someone to play appropriate music and maybe talk on the mic a little. For that – there are plenty of OK DJs who will do just fine. An OK DJ will probably be able to deliver and will might get a great review because the bar is set fairly low. At that point, all they have to do is avoid playing too many songs with words that will make grandma frown and refrain from saying the bride’s name wrong over and over and over again.

But Stylus is far from average – and it’s important for you to understand the difference before you book your Raleigh Wedding DJ (don’t worry, we’ll do your event if it’s around the country or the world too!)

Let’s start at the begining with what makes a Stylus Wedding DJ special and why Stylus doesn’t have any ‘filler’ cheap Raleigh Wedding DJs on staff.

**NO FILLER**

To start with – we don’t have anybody on staff who hasn’t been DJing for longer than you spent in High School. Imagine the difference between 13 year-old you and 20 year old you – it’s a huge difference, and that learning curve isn’t something we want our clients subjected to. That’s how each and every Stylus DJ brings a true party to your event – not just someone pushing a play button.

**PARTY EXPERTS**

Stylus DJs are party experts, and it’s an expertise that’s been built up at hundreds and thousands of parties – it’s something you can’t buy – it has to be earned. Every Stylus DJ has earned their place.

**FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING GOOD IN THE WORLD – DO MORE THAN JUST PUSH THE $%@\*! PLAY BUTTON!**

There also the matter of HOW they’re playing – and it can’t be *just pushing play*. Stylus DJs do more than just play a song, then another song, then another song until time runs out. Stylus DJs are club resident DJs, that’s essentially the highest level of performance accountability – which means we can deliver more music, more fun, and more experience to you and your guests in a way that sounds uniquely you.

**A PERFORMANCE, NOT A PLAYLIST**

A STYLUS wedding experience is more than just a playlist -it’s a performance. What that means is that each and every Stylus DJ knows how to read a crowd and develop the energy and sonic experience into something uniquely you. An OK DJ will play the same set at wedding after wedding after wedding. We’ve all heard it before. At Stylus, we set higher standards on what you should expect and we over-deliver. With on the spot remixes, clever solutions for your event needs, and an unparalleled energetic delivery, you’re getting something really special and uniquely yours.

**NOT JUST ANOTHER WEDDING, MC**

Microphone Skills aren’t for the faint of heart. I couldn’t tell you how many coordinators I’ve heard from over the years complaining that the DJ refused to talk on the microphone, and the coordinator had to hop on the mic and bring in the bridal party or introduce the cake cutting or lead the toasts. It’s horrifying. While an OK DJ will make the most basic announcements, a STYLUS DJ builds a story into your experience. It’s not overly wordy and it’s not distracting, because with a few words we can create a narrative thread that ties it all together and helps develop the very real sense that this once-in-a-lifetime event is more than just *another* wedding – its YOUR wedding. Every Stylus DJ is a microphone master – a capable master of ceremonies who guides your event the whole way through.

**WHAT YOU CAN’T BUY**

The stuff you can buy is a key part of any DJ set-up, but that’s not what sets Stylus apart – it’s how we put it together. While an OK DJ is fine with using cheap gear or low-quality music rips from YouTube, the Stylus difference isn’t just the quality of the equipment or the music – it’s how we put it all together – and that’s the stuff you can’t buy or fake your way through.

**ANY OTHER VENDOR**

Finally, the thing that’s overlooked more often than anything else when clients are looking at their wedding DJ is how they run the event. Your DJ is responsible for 80% of your reception, and how they run the event is going to determine more about how your wedding feels and what your guests think about your event than ANY OTHER VENDOR. Stylus DJs are wedding pros – and no matter how complex or streamlined your event is – your Stylus Wedding DJ is going to help you make the most of it.

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Raleigh Wedding - Guide to Raleigh Wedding DJ Price](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-guide-ot-raleigh-wedding-dj-price/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

**Raleigh Wedding DJ Price & Types**

I have a question for you:

**Are you looking at the DJ as an experience or as a commodity?**

Specifically, are you just looking to fill in your DJ with someone who’s cheap, someone who’s not going to screw anything up, or someone who’s going to do a better job than the other people you’ve been getting quotes from?

Remember – your DJ is responsible for 80% of your wedding – so this one choice means a lot more for your event than most people think. What does a Raleigh Wedding DJ cost and why?

Most couples haven’t planned a wedding before – and the idea that you’re supposed to know everything once you get a ring on your finger is crazy. Don’t worry – we’re here to help you wrap your head around what you might want to budget for your wedding. Considering the DJ’s resposible for 80% of your reception – it’s easily one of the best values in any part of your wedding planning. However, some budgets are tighter than others – and the questions of how you value the entertainment is something you’ll need to really consider and address.

Budgeting is a crucial part of event planning – getting an idea about what your budget might get you is important to help you get a real idea of how to proceed.

DJ pricing generally breaks down into a couple of categories. Bear in mind, this is generic pricing for a 4 hour reception. Adding services or elements can get any DJ package way up. These prices are cobbled together from what I’ve heard over the past couple of years, and doesn’t reflect every single DJ’s pricing, and you may find higher performing DJs at a lower price point (rare) or lower-performing DJs at a higher price point. I’ve also learned that nearly every DJ will tell you they’re the best.

This accounts for the vast majority of what I’ve seen and heard over the years – but I’ve seen/heard of messy set-ups and middling performances from higher-tier DJs, and decently respectable performances from basement-rate DJs. One of the things you’re really playing here are the odds – for good or ill.

Finally – price points are often a reflection of how much work you’ll be doing versus what your DJ is doing. A lower price point likely means you’re carrying more of the respsonsibilities of your event, whereas a higher price point usually means they’ve got more time invested in preparing and executing your event. Lower pricing generally means more risk – higher pricing generally means less risk – but there are benefits and concerns at every tier you need to consider.

### Ipod/Tablet/Streaming/Bare Bones DJ: 

 $0-$400 – WE NEED SOMETHING & HAVE NO BUDGET!

Not often a ‘DJ’ in the conventional sense – but it will certainly be music for an intended audience. You’re probably looking for background music & might not be expecting a lot from your DJ. You can rent a sound system and plug in your favorite tunes or put a close friend or ally in charge of picking tunes – or maybe letting your guests hop in. MP3 players can carry a lot of music – or you can stream a playlist – but the secret to a great party is the selection – that’s a big part of what you’re getting with a more experienced DJ/Emcee. You may even consider hiring a pro DJ to help you design your playlist even if you’re not going to have them at your event – it’s amazing how flow and tone can impact your event. Plus every song on your player is mastered differently and you’ll need to adjust the volume every song to make sure it’s not too loud or too low. You’re taking a risk in order to keep costs down – make sure you’ve got someone who can help you troubleshoot in case of emergency.

### Craiglist DJs / ‘My friend’s a dj and can do the wedding’:

$300-$700 – THE DJ ISN’T OUR TOP PRIORITY BUT WE CAN STILL DO IT

Usually the lowest price – but there are some pros working here too who keep their costs down by advertising on a free platform. With that being said – we get panicked calls every week from people who just found out their DJ didn’t show/isn’t coming. Many of the DJs in this category are single-genre DJ, which means they’re comfortable with ONE TYPE OF MUSIC. Or perhaps they’re first-timers who are going to use your wedding to start dipping their toes in. You’re likely getting very little planning insight and you’re taking a gamble so you can invest in the stuff that matters more to you than your party. Have a back-up plan in place. This is the choice for the couple that prioritizes most other things more than the DJ – they just need something. The equipment could be cobbled together, possibly mismatched, and might be too little or WAY too much. I’ve heard about guys showing up with small speakers and huge subs, meaning they don’t have a lot of experience with how to balance the sound in a room (makes a big difference). They likely don’t have insurance, a website, a business license, or much by way of flexibility, but they’re ready to party as long as someone doesn’t offer them more money for your date. Please make sure you get a contract. Most of the people we hear from didn’t have a contract. *Ask any coordinator about their DJ horror stories and they’re often from this category of DJ.*

### New & Training DJs / “In House DJs” / Standard Lite 

$600-$900: YOUR IDEAL LIMITED BUDGET CHOICE

With a reputable company they’re definitely going to show up. They might not have a lot of music, experience, equipment, or back-ups, but they’re looking to build their experience and you can get a decent price if you’re just looking to check the DJ box. Sometimes you’ll find the venue owner’s son is available/required as a DJ for your event – it’s easy and they know the space well. Kind of like the DJs at resorts – there’s a set they do and that’s what you get. The biggest complaint from other vendors about this group is that they might not know how to handle tricky situations or equipment malfunctions, and you might hear comments about the way they dress or their event dynamics might be choppy or uneven. The new DJ’s inexperience might show up during the planning as well as the execution- you’re less likely to get opportunities to customize but they’re usually well-meaning and eager to please. This is a great budget choice if the DJ isn’t something you value as much as something like the flowers, cake, linens, photographer, coordinator, ceremony musician, food truck, invitations, bachelor/bachelorette parties, ETC… Music will play, people will listen and you’ll have some dancing, and you might even have a great event! Their set-ups might look rougher than most standard DJs pros though, it’s something that takes time. There are also some more developed DJs in this category, they like to stay busy by keeping their costs down, and their price point makes it worth it for their preferred clients – not as much pressure – just show up and have fun. Key points here include contracts, timelines, and music choices.

### Standard Wedding DJs

$850-$1300: STANDARD ON PURPOSE – EXACTLY WHAT WE WERE EXPECTING (YOUR DEFAULT BEST CHOICE)

They’ve got experience, pro equipment, and a DJ playlist that includes the top 200 songs you’re going to probably want played at your wedding. This is the baseline for professional DJs – not necessarily a whole lot of Wow! but it’s just the right fit for many couples. They’re usually competent on the mic and play songs, usually one after the other, kind of like radio DJs. They’re aiming for the middle so that they can avoid anything outside your comfort zone. They’ll usually have a good command of all the songs you’re going to want at your wedding and you’re going to get some useful planning advice. They’ll know how to run a wedding *(it’s an important skill that not everyone has!)* and how to avoid making a terrible mess of things. You’ve got some customization & personalization here and they’ll know how to handle some of the issues that can show up often at weddings. Standard set-up includes two speakers on stands, a nice looking DJ rig (controller, CDJs, turntables), usually they’ve cleaned up their cables and taped down everything so that your guests don’t trip. They’re there to ‘just push play’ and make sure your names are pronounced correctly. They’re mostly likely going to have back-ups and solutions to handle possible event issues – there’s peace of mind here. There are also some really fun DJs in this category. Manyof the DJs at the bridal shows are going to be in this range. They’re accessible, competent, and generally reliable. If you found you vibed with someone and have a light budget- this is probably where you want to be.

### Club DJs as Wedding DJs –

$900-$1600 : (SPECIFIC) POWER SETS – LET’S GET TO THE DANCING (YOUR IDEAL GENRE CHOICE)

There are some technically talented DJs in this category, but, as a general rule, they’re going to lack in the MC and event direction categories. Don’t expect a lot of planning, and another element to keep an eye on is they might not have ‘clean’ edits of songs and are more likely to dress in a club friendly style. My only caveat at this level is don’t expect too much more than powerful DJ set and make sure they understand that they need to show up early to set-up since most club DJs aren’t regular event pros. They’re more likely to need more input from your other vendors to make sure they know what to do – but there are some real gems in this category – they’re just really hard to come by. This can be a real win if you REALLY like a specific genre, maybe something clubby, or something Trap, Hyphy, or Techno/House. With some of them, you might not be able to expect a lot of songs your parents will know &, as I’ve often seen, their turntables/controllers will generally be fancier equipment but they are more likely to have them set up messily and their sound systems are often going to be older, rented, or borrowed.. You’re also more likely to have mispronunciantions in this range than the standard wedding DJ, since thye’re not practiced event MCs in the usual sense – but you’re going to have a lot of power under the hood so it might be a good trade off if that’s what you’re going for. They’re not going to have much by way of back-ups, so you’re probably going to want to make sure they have a plan if anything goes wrong. The other element to keep in mind is that many of these DJs might not have a back-up in case they get sick or their backup is a club DJ with even less experience. Finally, you’re probably getting what you’re looking for – the set the DJ wants to play – give them the freedom to do what they do best.

### Top Local Wedding Pros:

$1500-$2500: THE EVENT WE WERE LOOKING FOR (*MY BEST WEDDING CHOICE*)

This is the group you can be really comfortable with in almost every situation. You’re going to get a solid showing on the MCing, DJing, Event Direction, and Planning. The music will be customized and appropriate for every situation. They’re going to be right in everyone’s wheelhouse and you’re going to get great feedback from your guests about your choice. Great planning help, top notch execution, clean looking systems & cord management, and lots of opportunities to personalize your event. Even here you’ll see a wide range of styles – and it’s really important that you like your DJ’s overall approach to your event. They’re the director of the most expensive event you’ll ever put on. The biggest complaints about this group are varied because it’s very individual and not reflective of the category as a whole. You’ve got some great options and are going to be able to find something that works for you. *This is the baseline I chose for my own wedding when we were on a really tight budget of less than $10,000 because I knew that the DJ makes more of an impact than anything else I chose.I chose this instead of a fancy dinner, invitation, cake or flowers since those things didn’t engage my guests as long.*

### Wedding DJ Best of the Best:

$2000-$6000: WE’RE CREATING THE BEST WEDDING THEY’VE EVER BEEN TO

These are the DJs who are doing far more than just pushing play. They can be part of company or on their own. Just like certain restaurants and venues know what they have is great – there’s a premium on the experience. More engagement, personalization, music opportunties, and elements that highlight you and your guests engaging together. There’s a lot of variation in set-ups, but they’ll all look amazing and everything will be safely secured and clean. They are usually insured, have great reviews, and can offer lots of great ideas for how you can develop your event dynamics. Your guests will be more than impressed because the DJ knows how to make it happen for you. They don’t get to that level with their secret sauce. There are a few DJs who are operating at this level – this is the top tier in the region. If you’re doing something REALLY DIFFERENT – then this is probably where you want to be. The biggest issues I’ve heard about at this level are managing extended set-up & tear down times (i.e. you can’t tear down a big event in 30 minutes), and a slightly higher catering need since they’re often bringing an assistant or two. Also, some of the highest paid DJs in this category don’t mix a single song. Seriously. They mix like a standard DJ but their level of service is through the roof, which means they’re earning their higher fee in different ways. In some cases you can expect more of a production, although having expensive equipment is sometimes seen as a substitute for skill and experience – it’s not. While equipment matters, it’s not what they’re playing on that determines what the experience is – it’s how they use it to deliver a great event. But, they’re generally going to be using gear that costs 2-10 times what budget DJs are using.

### Celebrity DJs: 

$5,000-$2,000,000: REMEMBER WHEN WE…

You’ll need to get your equipment rented, delivered, and set-up and make sure you read the rider carefully. For the love of everything good in the world please get a professional event planning company – something like this requires way more than you think. This is when you just HAD to have the DJ who made the track you danced to the night you met. Find out how many extra people they’re bringing and double check. Have a back-up plan in place in case flights get delayed. Be prepared for a crazy story. Calvin Harris was 2 Million for a private event a few years ago – it may be even higher now.

**Categories:** Blog

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### [New 2020 Wedding Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/new-2020-wedding-songs/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

### New 2020 Wedding First Dance Songs

At Stylus – we’re obsessive about music and we’re always looking to help our clients find the perfect fit for their special day – so if you’re looking for 2020 New Wedding Frist Dance Songs then we can help. Click to explore some new and exciting options for your First Dance – there’s a ton of great songs to fit every style, genre, and mood.

**What makes for a great first dance? It could be something classic, or an updated classic, or something brand new from a favorite artist or a brand new song from an unfamiliar artist whose song speaks to your soul.**

What Should You Pick? That’s easy – pick the song you love most. Preview the songs below :

Whether it’s John Legend, Taylor Swift, Mario, Harry Styles, Dan & Shay, Chase Rice, or something a little more left field like Why Don’t We or Gabby Barrett, you’re sure to find something you love in this playlist full of songs that most couples haven’t considered yet. Enjoy 🙂

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Classic Wedding First Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/classic-wedding-first-dance-songs/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

**Looking to Explore some great options for your First Dance as a married couple at your wedding?**

**Here’s a lot of great options to look into – you may find the perfect song or you may just get the creative juices going – but either way you’re sure to find something you love on this custom Wedding First Dance playlist!**

**What makes for a great first dance? As long as it speaks to your love it’s perfect. My first dance with my wife was a track called [“Kickass Violin Solo” by Aphex Twin](https://vimeo.com/92852733) and we did “[I Only Have Eyes for You” by the Flamingoes](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvzNeh4Mq1o) as a coda. Anything goes!**

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Wedding Special Effects](https://stylusweddings.com/wedding-special-effects/)

**Published:** May 7, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

**Add some additional flair to your event with special effects like:**

**[Dancing on a cloud ](/what-we-do/special-fx/)**

**[Confetti](/what-we-do/special-fx/)**

**[Indoor cold-spark fountain](/what-we-do/special-fx/)**

 **[Geyser jets](/what-we-do/special-fx/)**

**Contact info@stylusweddings.com for pricing & details**

![Stylus Dancing on a Cloud](/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/First-Dance-on-a-cloud-300x200.jpg "First-Dance-on-a-cloud - Stylus Weddings")

[![Stylus SE - Cold sparks](/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/cold_spark_wedding_2-300x203.jpg "cold_spark_wedding_2 - Stylus Weddings")](/classic-wedding-first-dance-songs)

![Stylus SE - Fireworks](/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/indoor_fireworks_cold_spark-300x215.jpg "indoor_fireworks_cold_spark - Stylus Weddings")

![Stylus SE - TV Inspired Raleigh Wedding DJ at Market Hall](/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/Raleigh_Wedding_DJ__Lighting_Ceremony__Reception_at_Market_Hall_Better_View_From_Booth-300x225.jpeg "Raleigh_Wedding_DJ__Lighting_Ceremony__Reception_at_Market_Hall_Better_View_From_Booth - Stylus Weddings")

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Southern Wedding Fun In Southern Pines](https://stylusweddings.com/southern-wedding-fun-in-southern-pines/)

**Published:** May 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Elegant & Fun Southern Wedding DJ at the Weymouth Center in Southern Pines Southern Pines Wedding DJ Fun & Romance Are you the kind of couple who loves southern charm and has a deep love of literature & lush gardens? As Wedding DJs, we help with your wedding ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, no matter where in North Carolina or beyond that you happen to be. We’ve done events throughout the Southeast and the Sandhills, from Weddings in Fayetteville to Weddings in Southern Pines, Pinehurst, and Aberdeen. Southern Pines is a unique spot, full of equestrian ranches and centennial houses, and there are very few spots quite as lovely as the Weymouth Center for a beautiful southern wedding. Southern Pines is a literary city, and they take great pride in their tradition of artists, writers, intellectuals, creatives, and their deep appreciation for beauty in all its forms. The Weymouth Center is the writer’s cultural hub for this area of the North Carolina Sandhills and whether you’re from Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, (the Triangle), or from points further south (even in South Carolina, where this gorgeous spot is just a little bit further away but well worth the drive) you’re going to fall in love with the possibilities of this historic southern charmer.

The Weymouth Center in Southern Pines, North Carolina, hosts writers in residence and takes its inspiration for James Boyd, a local resident who was famous for his novel “Drums.” According to their website: “Boyd made Weymouth the seat of the Southern Literary Renaissance. F. Scott Fitzgerald and Thomas Wolfe were regular visitors. Weymouth is also home to the North Carolina Literary Hall of Fame.” 
Imagine strolling the grounds and finding paths through the long-leaf pines where Fitgerald, Boyd, and Wolfe developed their ideas for their powerful stories while cardinals chirp and bluebirds glide from the three hundred year old oak tree to the glistening fountains, while your family and friends laugh and enjoy each others company under the shade outside on this historic property. It might just be your perfect wedding solution. 
The couple we were working with were not just informed about their location, they knew their guests very well too, and had taken lots of opportunities to craft a one-of-a-kind event for their family and friends. There were scores of individual touches that illuminated not just their own personalities, but also the love they felt for their guests.
The wedding ceremony took place in the gardens behind the mansion, and we couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful summer day. While there had been a slight threat of rain, our back-up plan included moving guests inside the house, we didn’t need to because everything worked out perfectly for this wedding ceremony in the sunlight.

The Groom’s vows were delivered with a little help – specifically a board that he’d written his vows on, and had pasted the bride’s favorite treats to incorporate into his vows. Saying, ‘I know we’re just a couple of (NERDS) but I love you from here to the (MILKY WAY) and you bring so much (JOY) into my life that I can’t image I’d trade a moment with you for (100 GRAND).” 
Once the ceremony was over, the guests made their way up to the cocktail hour under the tent where games, special treats, and activities were in store while our newlyweds took photos. A Unique Wedding Cocktail Hour Experience Having seen lots of cocktail hours, we’re treated to a different wedding experience than most couples are, since they’re out taking pictures while guests are mingling. This particular couple at our Southern Pines, NC wedding at the Weymouth Center took care to make sure their guests had lots of entertainment options for their wedding. 
They’d added cornhole, giant jenga, can jam, spikeball, and a delicious assortment of special treats on each and every table, from small baskets full of ice cold bottled waters, soft drinks, lemonades and fruit punches, to baskets on the table featuring all their favorite candies (including many featured in our groom’s cleverly sweet vows!). Guests mixed and mingled and then got some truly amazing news – we’d arranged for a food truck to show up and make their favorite fair foods, including deep fried Oreos and funnel cakes.

Once the Cocktail hour was over, it was time to ask everyone to be seated for our bridal party introductions (Let’s Get It Started by Black Eyed Peas) and our couple me in to Beyonce’s “Crazy In Love” and they immiediately went into their first dance, followed by their touching father-daughter dance (My Little Girl by Tim McGraw) and poingnant mother-son dance (Because You Loved Me by Celine Dion since mom was a big fan). 
Because of the southern North Carolina sun, it was decided the couple would do their cake cutting before dinner was served, so before we invited guests into the house for the buffet they were treated again to one of the most delicious traditions in weddings.

After a delicious dinner, it was time to party. Normally, many couples will work with our online planning forms to craft a playlist that hits many of their favorites as well as including songs that they know their guests will love, but this Raleigh couple with a heart of service decided to make sure that we were as accommodating to their guests as possible – they had seen us perform many times at other events at our club residencies throughout the triangle and knew we had the party covered and to make sure that we were taking requests as their guests felt at the time. and it was a great party! With lots of dancing in store, the uplighting we’d done around the tent really enhanced the overall experience as the sun set, and family, friends, and guests partied the night away under the southern stars. 
We are incredibly grateful that we got the chance to share in this beautiful southern wedding experience as their DJs to help with their sweet wedding ceremony, unique cocktial hour, and fun & romantic reception, especially at a place as historic and lovely as the Weymouth Center in Southern Pines. Of all the weddings we get to do across North Carolina, both in the Raleigh Area and in the Fayetteville area, this was definitely one of the most unique weddings we’ve had the pleasure of participating in. 
If you’d like some insight into how we can help #SaveYourWedding we’d love to chat with you about Wedding DJs, Lighting, Ceremony, Cocktial Hour, Games, Treats, and Decor.

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Stylish & Modern Summer Wedding at The Barn of Chapel Hill](https://stylusweddings.com/stylish-modern-summer-wedding-at-the-barn-of-chapel-hill/)

**Published:** May 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Wedding Ceremony with Friends and Family Dylan & Dragana’s Stylish Summer Wedding at the Barn of Chapel Hill There are a lot of great wedding venues in Chapel Hill, but we were thrilled to see what this Los Angeles couple was able to achieve with their vision for their wedding day at the Barn of Chapel Hill. There’s no way we couldn’t inaugurate our new blog posts with a recap of their amazing event. For anyone unfamiliar with Chapel Hill, it’s a city that defines the third point of North Carolina’s Triangle, along with Raleigh and Durham. Not to be confused with the Piedmont Triad (Winston Salem, Greensboro, and High Point), the Triangle is a massive population, entertainment, and technology hub in NC. Being part of the outer edge of the foothills, you’ll often find lush farmland, huge trees, and lots of hidden gems for the brides and grooms of North Carolina to find.
Chapel Hill is unique in this area, home to the storied University of North Carolina (UNC) and the world famous UNC Hospital system, it’s also the proud home of many amazing wedding venues, including The Barn of Chapel Hill at beautiful Wild Flora Farm. 
Wild Flora Farm is tucked off a series of roads that make it hard to believe you’re near a big city because it’s a glorious off the beaten path find for weddings and private events. Seeing the sign for the farm, you turn onto a gravel driveway and then the Barn appears just around the curve, with the greenhouse set off to the side.
This particular wedding was supposed to happen last year, but the impact of COVID-19 on weddings can’t be overstated. Most of our 2020 wedding clients had to move their weddings to 2021 and all of them have been a long time coming. This particular wedding couple rolled with the punches and we were happy to accommodate their new wedding date and adjusted wedding plans. 
It was also the day that North Carolina’s governor relaxed the mask mandate, so while all the vendors were still wearing their masks, vaccinated guests were able to engage and party unrestricted.
Even before the ceremony had started, our phone lines were ringing off the hook with country clubs and venues who were looking to throw parties the very next day! Luckily, we were able to accommodate.
Before we arrived, we’d already had great communication with Chelsy from The Gathering Co. and knew what to expect for the day, but we didn’t expect to find their photographer Kasey Smith with Kasey Smith Creative leading the bridal party along the path for some great photos.
Once we got in, we were able to set up inside the massive 300 person barn space with huge vaulted ceilings and an actual honeybee hive safetly built into the wall to protect the guests and bees. They treat their honey bees well becausee the bees actually pollenate the plethora of flowers in the greenhouse and around the lush property.

Catered by Rocky Top Catering , the venue was expertly decorated with lots of rustic charm and elegant elements from CE Rentals and Cottage Luxe . Everything from the table settings and silverware to the florals by Wild Flora Farm were chosen with care and a specific vision in mind by our savvy couple.

The ceremony was on the patio and featured officiating by the groom’s father Kevin who did a great job making the ceremony both personal, engaging, and fun. The best officiants tell the story of the couple’s love and Kevin had a front row seat, spicing up his oratory with lots of personal stories that spoke to the individuals and the couple as one.

After the ceremony, which featured readings and reflections by the Best Man and Maid of Honor, requiring additional ceremony microphones, guests were directed to the back covered patio and green lawn for cocktail hour. They’d put their guests’s seating assignments on clear acryllic boards and hung them from a small trellis, and featured drinks courtsey of Pour Bar Services and a champagne cart by Vita Mielie.
 
After moving guests inside they got to view our set-up and our decor as well as the cake by Ashley Cake s.

Our wedding DJ booth set-up included a custom plush facade, white speakers and subwoofers for their large group inside a large wedding venue, and custom lit totems and uplighting to tie the room together. We also did some cake lighting so that guests would stop and take a look at how beautiful it was! It’s really easy to add lighting to the cake and makes a world of difference in how guests choose to engage it. 
Throughout the nearly two years we’d been working with this couple, it was really obvious that music was a huge part of their lives, and we love working with couples like this. 
We began with their Introductions, welcoming the bridal party as a whole down the stairs to the dancefloor to Bassnectar’s You & Me, and we had times everything so that the doors would open right as the bass dropped and crowd went wild. They went right into their first dance, Bob Marley’s Is This Love. 
Right afterward, they immediately went into their Father Daughter dance song – John Mayer’s Daugthers and their Mother Son Dance Song – Free Falling by Tom Petty. After a quick welcome by the bride and groom to thank their guests for joining them, dinner was served, individually, beginning with plated salads while we soundtracked the service with songs by Dermot Kennedy, Grouplove, Black Keys, Portugal the Man, Mark Brussard, Ray Lamontagne, and Leon Bridges, James Blake, and James Morrison.
 After Dinner, the toasts from the Best Man, Maid of Honor, our Bride’s parents were touching and featured everything that makes a great wedding toast – personal details, funny and appropriate stories, and genuine emotion. 
After that, it was time to start the dance party, and there was no shortage of activity on the floor. The couple’s wedding playlist featured their favorite songs and songs they knew their friends and family would love. 
We also incorporated a traditional Serbian dance called the Kolo, which is in a Slavic wedding tradition related to the Bulgarian Holo, the Macedonain Oro, and is possibly related the Greek Chorus, the Jewish Hora, and the step dances of the Levant and many Arabic cultures, the Debke.

They partied hard until 11:00, with lots of uptempo dance mixes that worked in elements of their tastes and what their guests were most passionate about, blending all the styles together into one amazing event.
At the end of the night, we invited our guests outside for a sparkler grand exit and sent our newlyweds off in style, but not before they came back in to give us hugs and record a wedding video review. The groom, Dylan, ran up and said – “That was the best party I’ve ever been to, you absolutely crushed it!” Even though we didn’t have our phone out at the time, you can see their review and hear their elation for yourself. Dylan & Dragana’s wedding dance Playlist: LOVE IT:
Big Gigantic Feat. Logic & Rozes All Of Me Kaytranada Together Klangkarussell Feat. Will Heard Sonnentanz (The Sun Don’t Shine) Kygo & Whitney Houston Higher Love Riton x MNEK x House Gospel Choir Deeper LIKE IT:
Avett Brothers I And Love And You Avicii Levels Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes (I’ve Had) The Time Of My Life Black Keys Weight Of Love Daft Punk Feat. Pharrell Williams Get Lucky Daft Punk Feat. Pharrell Williams Lose Yourself To Dance Disclosure Latch Ed Sheeran & Justin Bieber I Don’t Care Elton John Your Song Flume Feat. Tove Lo Say It Grouplove Tongue Tied John Legend All Of Me John Phillips California Dreamin’ Magician Las Vegas Major Lazer Feat. Ellie Goulding & Tarrus Riley Powerful Michael Buble Everything Neighbourhood Sweater Weather Portugal. The Man Modern Jesus Santana Feat. Rob Thomas Smooth Sister Sledge We Are Family Skrillex & Diplo Present Jack U Feat. Justin Bieber Where Are U Now Skrillex, Boys Noize & Ty Dolla $ign Midnight Hour Swedish House Mafia Feat. John Martin Don’t You Worry Child Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers Mary Jane’s Last Dance Whitney Houston How Will I Know Whitney Houston I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me) Anderson Paak Am I wrong Anderson Paak Miss Right Bassnectar You and Me Big Gigantic Burning Love Calvin Harris we fell in love Jack Johnson Angel Marc Broussard The beauty of who you are The Magician Las Vegas Tinlicker Need You That was the best party I’ve ever been to. You crushed it! Dylan & Dragana

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### [Beautiful Spring Wedding at the Umstead in Cary NC](https://stylusweddings.com/beautiful-spring-wedding-at-the-umstead-in-cary-nc/)

**Published:** May 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Wedding DJ at The Delightful Umstead Hotel and Spa The Wedding Lawn A Beautiful Spring Day at The Umstead Hotel and Spa in Charming Cary, North Carolina. Here at Stylus, we’ve had the delightful fortune to work with some of the most beautiful venues that North Carolina has to offer. Centrally located within the Triangle (just a short drive from Raleigh, Durham, Apex, Chapel Hill, and RTP), this beautiful venue is a hot commodity. It never ceases to amaze us the amount of heartfelt work some of these venues put into ensuring couples are experiencing their \*perfect\* day, but our friends at The Umstead Hotel and Spa in Cary, NC truly go above and beyond to cater to their clients, guests, and vendors.

With a few different stunning on-premise locations to choose from, some of the best food and catering you’ve ever tasted, and professional and hardworking staff – you can’t go wrong with The Umstead as a wedding venue for your elegant fete. 
We couldn’t have picked a more beautiful North Carolina spring day for our event this past Saturday. Surrounded by sweet-smelling flowers that were freshly in bloom and the relaxing sound of the lake and waterfall behind our Bride and Groom, it was a picturesque Cary, North Carolina wedding.

As our Bride and Groom decided on our very popular Classic Wedding Package , we were blessed with the opportunity to set up outside for the ceremony and enjoy the sights before we headed inside for the real party. We ensured that each separate setup was put together well before the event took place for a seamless transition. As one of North Carolina’s premier wedding and event DJ companies, we pride ourselves on ensuring that each step of the event process is executed seamlessly on our end. We are so very blessed to have been surrounded by an absolutely extraordinary wedding planning team. Our friends over at A Southern Soiree flawlessly organized and executed the flow of the day and ensured clear and effective communication between all parties. Our great pal at Brian Mullins Photography captured the big day through his incredibly artistic eye. And the FLOWERS! They were remarkably well coordinated by our friends at Fallon’s Flowers . Not to mention, they truly popped with the stunning cake from one of \*THE\* best catering companies the Triangle has to offer, Catering Works. Let’s not forget the movie star perfect makeup from Julie Robbins Makeup and that absolutely incredible wedding dress from Coastal Knot . All around, we had a great team to help our couple’s big day go off without a hitch and we couldn’t be more grateful. 
But now let’s talk about the PARTY. Our wedding DJs take a painstaking amount of time to prepare for each and every single wedding we are booked for. We meet with each of our clients to discuss exactly what kind of wedding they want. Elegant? Boho Chic? Multi-Cultural? Party until you just HAVE to take your shoes off? Discoteque? Laidback instrumentals? 90’s pop party complete with entire Backstreet Boys discography? We can do it all and we can do it well. Not only do we work extremely hard to ensure we meet YOUR vision, but we also LOVE our work immensely. Whether you want to walk down the aisle or into your reception to Abba’s “I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do” or John Legend’s “All Of Me” – we’ve got you covered. You can even pick your own cake-cutting song!

With the Classic Package our couple chose for this event, we included cake lighting, enhanced floor lighting, SOUND, a SUPER fun Photo Booth (it was a BIG HIT), and more. We took our time setting up to match the elegant theme of the wedding and worked with the Bride and Groom alongside the wedding planner to ensure our visions aligned. 
Everyone danced the night away and enjoyed great fellowship after this harrowing year of Covid-19 lockdown.
Remember, a great wedding DJ that understands how to read a crowd and has a massively diverse playlist can be the difference between “just a wedding” and a “GREAT wedding!”. Let us help you #SaveYourWedding.

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### [City Vibes Wedding in Beautiful Downtown Raleigh](https://stylusweddings.com/city-vibes-wedding-in-beautiful-downtown-raleigh/)

**Published:** May 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

City Vibes Wedding in Beautiful Downtown Raleigh Market Hall The Dazzling Market Hall In City Market Nestled right in the center of downtown Raleigh within the bustling “City Market” is the absolutely dazzling Market Hall. With gorgeous exposed ceilings and beautiful, appealing brick inside and out – this venue can be decorated to fit absolutely any vibe or style you can imagine for your wedding. Elegant wedding? Boho Chic wedding? Rustic wedding? Whatever you’re dreams are for your big day, this is a wonderful choice aesthetically. We here at Stylus are also \*very\* fond of the incredible staff (and especially the catering and food). Downtown Raleigh Wedding Venue Has It All We here at Stylus have enjoyed working with many of our clients in Raleigh, RTP, Durham, Chapel Hill, Knightdale, Wake Forest, and beyond. With venues abound in the beautiful state of North Carolina, there is a space for every vision. For those who prefer a venue centrally located in Downtown Raleigh, Market Hall in City Market is an absolute stunner and we highly suggest you give them a call. Not only is the space beautiful, but they also have an incredibly talented and versatile chef, Chris Hill, that can provide a perfectly tailored menu for your big day. 
For this beautiful Spring wedding this past weekend, we had the pleasure of providing the wedding DJ, uplighting, sound, and party vibes from our Classic Wedding Package. Each package includes a meeting with our DJ Matchmaker who expertly helps you pick out the BEST DJ for you. Based upon what kind of vibe you’re trying to meet for your big day, we’ll put together a few options of DJs that we personally think will deliver exactly what you’re looking for. Each of our Wedding DJs is very well trained on how to be diverse, engaging, and provide you with the exact type of party you’re looking for. Are you more of a sit-back and relax type? Country line dancing? Dance until you have to take your shoes off? Elegant and fancy? Rave until the sun comes up? For whatever kind of party you’re looking to have at your reception, we are 100% ready to provide!
As with most successful weddings, there were a lot of hardworking hands at play to ensure this day went off without a hitch. While we are thorough believers that having epic entertainment at your wedding is a pretty massive portion of every wedding’s success, we would be remiss if we didn’t give a massive shout-out to all the wedding planners out there. What absolute gems. If you pick your wedding planner with care, you’ll end up with a MASTER of their craft that will flawlessly execute and help you plan every single step of your big day. We love wedding planners here at Stylus. For this lovely soiree, we were blessed to work with the charming Chelsey at The Gathering Co. 
Of course, every successful event has several other wonderful people handling different facets of the event. From wedding venue staff, wedding planners, florists, and caterers all the way to hair and makeup and of course last but CERTAINLY not least, a wonderful wedding DJ. Thanks to all you wedding professionals out there, we are forever thankful you exist. For those looking to tie the knot soon, we have TONS of referral sources for you and would love the opportunity to meet with you and give you some suggestions based on your vision and goals for the big day. 
Our awesome couple, Jill and Jesse picked a great team for each piece of their wedding. We had some stunning flowers from English Garden, Hair and makeup from the very talented Nina at Wedded Kisses and perfectly captured video from Dogwood Media. All around, we had quite the crew for this wedding. Thanks to all who contributed to such a great day. 
Now, let’s talk about that RECEPTION. Our resident PARTY DJ, Nyghtro met with Jillian and Jesse to discuss what type of vibe they were looking for in a wedding reception. We make 3 distinct lists for each and every event we are hired for. Love it, Like it and Hate it. We want to be sure our DJs have an in-depth understanding of what kind of music you’ll want to be showcased at your wedding. We avoid any and all artists and songs you don’t want to hear and build a MASSIVE playlist based upon all of the music you love. Not only do we take into consideration the music YOU love, we also want to be sure your guests will be dancing and having a blast as well. From country music, hip hop, pop, and top40 to EDM, multicultural and classical – we can do it all. As we have a pretty much unlimited music catalog, we’re always quite excited to tailor our playlist to your needs.

Nyghtro is a super talented, engaging and all-around wonderful wedding and events DJ. He’s great as an emcee and really knows how to guide a crowd while still ensuring that the happy couple is the center of attention for the evening.

Remember, the entertainment is responsible for 80% of your event and the #1 thing that your guests will remember. We would LOVE to meet with you and discuss how we can #SaveYourWedding

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### [Wedding DJ At The Het Landuis Farm/Mansion Of Pittsboro](https://stylusweddings.com/the-mansion-of-pittsboro/)

**Published:** May 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Het Landhuis Countryside Carouses It’s no secret that we love everything about the great state of North Carolina. From the beautiful oceanside coastal views of Wilmington, NC, to the breathtaking Blue Ridge Mountains in Asheville and beyond, we are absolutely, inexorably in love. Throughout our travels as one of North Carolina’s premier Wedding DJ companies, we’ve had the distinct privilege of working with more venues than most people will ever see in one lifetime. 
While North Carolina has no shortage of stunning wedding venues, we need to take a moment to tell you a bit more about an extraordinary venue called Het Landhuis.
From the moment you step foot onto the sprawling property of Het Landhuis, your immediate thought is, “wow, now THIS is the penultimate ‘Rustic Wedding Venue.'” With 8 (yes, you read that right, EIGHT) different venues inside the property, each with absolutely STUNNING backdrops, there is quite literally something for everyone at Het Landhuis. Elegant wedding? Boho Chic wedding? Rustic wedding? Whatever you’re dreams are for your big day, this is a wonderful choice aesthetically.

 Title the picture Wedding Party At The Barn We here at Stylus have enjoyed working with many of our clients in Pittsboro, Raleigh, RTP, Durham, Chapel Hill, Knightdale, Wake Forest, and beyond. 
 This past weekend, we enjoyed providing the wedding DJ, uplighting, sound, and party vibes from our Modern Wedding Package . Based upon what kind of vibe you’re trying to meet for your big day, we’ll put together a few options of DJs that we think will deliver exactly what you’re looking for. Each of our Wedding DJs is very well trained on how to be diverse, engaging and provide you with the exact type of party you’re looking for. Are you more of a sit-back and relax type? Country line dancing? Dance until you have to take your shoes off? Elegant and fancy? Rave until the sun comes up? For whatever kind of party you’re looking to have at your reception, we are 100% ready to provide!
 There were many hardworking hands at play with most successful weddings to ensure this day went off without a hitch. While we are thorough believers that having epic entertainment at your wedding is a pretty massive portion of every wedding’s success, we would be remiss if we didn’t give an enormous shout-out to all the wedding planners out there. What absolute gems. If you pick your wedding planner with care, you’ll end up with a MASTER of their craft that will flawlessly execute and help you plan every single step of your big day. We love wedding planners here at Stylus. If you’d like a list of our very favorite wedding planners, please shoot us an email and we’d love to connect you. 
Het Landhuis is a Dutch phrase that literally means “the country house” (Land-House) – and this beautifully decorated dutch-style interior reveals the charming Germanic low country aethetic rich in hardwoods, finely wrought details, and comfortable rustic elegance. Imagine sitting fireside while eating dinner in this carefully appointed intimate interior with your favorite people in the world and you’ll have an idea about what might be in store for you just outside of Raleigh in Pittsboro.
Of course, every successful event has several other wonderful people handling different facets of the event. From wedding venue staff, wedding planners, florists, and caterers to hair and makeup and of course last but CERTAINLY not least, a fantastic wedding DJ. Thanks to all you wedding professionals out there, we are forever thankful you exist. For those looking to tie the knot soon, we have TONS of referral sources for you and would love the opportunity to meet with you and give you some suggestions based on your vision and goals for the big day. 
 
Our fabulous couple, Meagan and Brian picked an excellent team for each piece of their wedding. From the beautiful flowers and stunning wedding dress to the impeccably rustic venue and delicious catering from Exclamations Catering. We’re big fans of a good wedding day crew; thanks for all your hard work, team. 
Now, let’s talk about that RECEPTION. Our fearless leader Jason met with Meagan and Brian to discuss what type of vibe they were looking for in a wedding reception. We make three separate lists for each and every event we are hired for. Love it, Like it, and Hate it. We want to be sure our DJs have an in-depth understanding of what kind of music you’ll want to be showcased at your wedding. We avoid any and all artists and songs you don’t want to hear and build a MASSIVE playlist based upon all of the music you love. Not only do we take into consideration the music YOU love, but we also want to be sure your guests will be dancing and having a blast as well. From country music, hip hop, pop, and top40 to EDM, multicultural and classical – we can do it all. As we have a pretty much unlimited music catalog, we’re always quite excited to tailor our playlist to your needs.

Jason is a super talented, engaging, and all-around INCREDIBLE wedding and events DJ. As the fearless leader of our crew and the founder of Stylus – you really can’t go wrong letting Jason guide you and yours through the best party of your life! 
Remember, the entertainment is responsible for 80% of your event and the #1 thing that your guests will remember. We would LOVE to meet with you and discuss how we can #SaveYourWedding

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### [Cary Wedding DJ and Photo Booth at The Umstead](https://stylusweddings.com/cary-wedding-dj-and-photo-booth-at-the-umstead/)

**Published:** June 2, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Here are a few of the images Brian Mullins Photography captured at our wedding at the Umstead in Cary, North Carolina a few weeks ago. The Triangle is full of great wedding venues, but the reality is that it takes a great Raleigh wedding photographer like Brian Mullins and his associate Rebecca Faulk with Red Bridge Photography.

![Stylus SE -Summer Wedding - DJ Photo Booth and Lighting - Oaks at Salem in Apex, NC](/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/Summer_Wedding_-_Summer_Wedding_DJ_Ceremony_Cocktail_Reception_Photo_Booth_and_lighting_-_Oaks_at_Salem_in_Apex_NC_Bridal_Photo_Booth_with_Guests_2-1024x768.jpeg "Summer_Wedding_-_Summer_Wedding_DJ_Ceremony_Cocktail_Reception_Photo_Booth_and_lighting_-_Oaks_at_Salem_in_Apex_NC_Bridal_Photo_Booth_with_Guests_2 - Stylus Weddings")

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### [Spring Wedding DJ & Photo Booth Walnut Creek, Goldsboro NC](https://stylusweddings.com/spring-wedding-dj-photo-booth-walnut-creek-goldsboro-nc/)

**Published:** June 10, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Experience the enchantment of a spring wedding at Walnut Creek Country Club in Goldsboro, NC. Witness the culmination of Sarah & Dakota’s dreams in this captivating venue. Join us as we relive their extraordinary celebration!

Eastern North Carolina boasts a rich tapestry of cultural, artistic, and musical heritage, often overshadowed by more prominent regions. From the historical landmarks of European settlement to the vibrant musical legacy, this area has much to offer.

Sarah & Dakota’s choice of Walnut Creek Country Club reflects their discerning taste. The grandeur of the ballroom set the stage for a memorable event, accommodating their extensive guest list with ease.

Their DJ package was carefully curated to blend elegance with affordability, featuring plush leather facades, ambient uplighting, and a state-of-the-art sound system. The addition of a photo booth added a touch of whimsy, ensuring endless entertainment for all.

Their celebration, held at their family church, was a testament to love and joy. From heartfelt speeches to spontaneous dance-offs, every moment was filled with laughter and camaraderie.

Following the formalities, guests were treated to a sumptuous dinner catered by the club’s talented chefs. As the evening progressed, the dance floor beckoned, and the party truly came alive.

Sarah & Dakota’s playlist, though concise, encapsulated their eclectic taste, inviting guests to dance the night away. With the expert guidance of their DJ, the atmosphere was electric, creating unforgettable memories for all.

As the night drew to a close, guests departed with hearts full and smiles bright, captured forever in the photographs taken by Greenville Wedding Photographer Chad & Beth Winstead of Winstead Photography.

If you’re planning your own North Carolina wedding or seeking a wedding DJ or photo booth, look no further. Let us help you create the wedding of your dreams, just like Sarah & Dakota’s. Contact us today and let the magic begin!

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### [Hillside Farm in Henderson NC w/Photo Booth & Uplighting](https://stylusweddings.com/hillside-farm-in-henderson-nc-w-photo-booth-uplighting/)

**Published:** September 14, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Here at Stylus, we’ve had the delightful fortune to work with some of the most beautiful venues that North Carolina has to offer. Located about an hour away from Raleigh, Durham, Apex, Chapel Hill, Clayton, and RTP, this beautiful venue is easily accessible for those in and traveling to the Triangle. Ideally located just outside the Triangle (just a short drive from Raleigh, Durham, Apex, Chapel Hill, and RTP), Hillside Farms in Henderson, NC is a very popular venue for many couples around the Triangle and beyond. 
Many people don’t realize that Henderson, NC is a town with a rich history of economic growth and has produced some really talented names in music. Henderson was chartered in 1841 after roughly 6 years of rapid growth due to its convenient location to the Gaston Railroad, which was completed in 1835. One of the most exciting musicians to come out of Henderson is the infamous Ben E. King. Yes, THAT one! Ben E. King is most known for his hit song, Stand By Me, which also happens to be one of THE most popular wedding songs of all time. Fun fact about this song: the title was inspired by a “spiritual” written by Same Cooke and J.W Alexander that went by the name of “Stand By Me Father” and was performed by The Soul Stirrers. 
“Spirituals are a genre of American folk music that articulate the suffering, longing, and religious passion of African Americans during slavery and its aftermath. Religious hymns, work songs, along with traditional African rhythms and chanting styles all contributed to the development of spirituals.
Spirituals are an excellent example of folk music. In modern parlance, the term ‘folk music’ is often used to describe virtually any type of music played on an acoustic guitar. Folk music is not, however, a style or genre of music; it is a process through which music is created and performed. As the folklorist Dan Ben-Amos has argued, folk music is created by a community over a period of time and must be understood in the cultural context in which it is collectively composed, adapted, performed, and experienced by audiences. Spirituals are a tradition that falls under this categorization very well and must be understood in the context of the African American slave experience.” ( Spirituals: Definition, History & Artists, 2016 ) 
Henderson also produced Gerald Alston of The Manhattans, his aunt Shirley Alston Owens of The Shirelles, and Danny Flowers. It’s no secret that North Carolina has a very substantial history of music and we LOVE learning about the musical history of each and every town we visit.
Whenever we visit Henderson we make SURE to stop by the incredible Sadie’s Coffee , which is a cute little coffee spot in the center of Downtown Henderson. They have bagels flown in from NYC, delicious fair-trade coffee, and a really nice area to chat, work or read. We also always make sure to stop by the Supply Line Market when we can! Supply Line is full of all sorts of incredible local merchants where one can pick up a nice little souvenir or a whole cow, depending on your needs. If you ever find yourself stopping into Henderson, we highly suggest you check out these awesome local gems. 
Henderson is also a very close drive to Kerr Lake which has several very nice state parks and amenities nearby, which is always very nice for a picnic or a nice walk or train to clear your head. If you plan to get married in Henderson, make sure to reach out to us and we’ll give you a solid list of fun things to do in the area and places to check out.

As their site vividly states, Hillside Farms offers a variety of ways to transform the venue into the wedding of your dreams! With professional, kind, and hard-working staff, you really can’t go wrong with this stunning wedding venue.
We couldn’t have picked a more beautiful North Carolina summer day for our event this past Saturday. With a gorgeous, rustic pavilion and beautiful greenery as the backdrop for the ceremony, your photographers are sure to find the perfect shots during your big day.
Our Bride and Groom decided on our super popular Jason Huggins Signature Package which includes a ceremony up to 6 hours, 2 subwoofers, a custom GOBO (monogram in light), 16 advanced dynamic uplights, cake lighting, enhanced dance floor lighting, one of our amazing photo booths, custom audio production, enhanced bridal party introductions and more.
We ensured that each separate setup was put together well before the event took place for a seamless transition. As one of North Carolina’s premier wedding and event DJ companies, we pride ourselves on ensuring that each step of the event process is executed seamlessly on our end. We are so very blessed to have been surrounded by an absolutely extraordinary wedding planning team for this particular wedding. Having a great wedding planner makes all the difference in the world to ease the typical wedding stresses.

Now, let’s talk about the PARTY. Our wedding DJs take a painstaking amount of time to prepare for each and every single wedding we are booked for. We meet with each of our clients to discuss exactly what kind of wedding they want. Elegant? Boho Chic? Multi-Cultural? Party until you just HAVE to take your shoes off? Discoteque? Laidback instrumentals? 90’s pop party complete with entire NSYNC discography? We can do it all and we can do it well. Not only do we work extremely hard to ensure we meet YOUR vision, but we also LOVE our work immensely. Whether you want to walk down the aisle or into your reception to Abba’s “I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do” or John Legend’s “All Of Me” – we’ve got you covered. You can even pick your own cake-cutting song! 
Throughout the meeting process, our wedding DJs will work hard to get a better understanding of your musical tastes along with your families and guests’ general preferences. If you have any MUST HAVE songs or genres through the night, we will have it on hand to drop at the exact right time of the night. If you have any “NO WAY” songs or genres, we will put them on a DO NOT PLAY list and make sure they stay off the dance floor. Our DJ’s WILL take requests, and if something is requested that we don’t already have on hand – we will use our vast resources to track it down for you and your guests. We also have resources to help you pick songs for specific parts of the wedding. You can choose from the Top Wedding Songs or our DJ’s can help you find something else more your style and speed if you are unable to find anything you love on the list.
Here’s what our couple decided on for their dances: 
Married Couple’s First Dance: Then – Brad Paisley
Father/Daughter Dance: Cinderella Steven Curtis Chapman
Groom/Mother Dance: Simple Man – Lynyrd Skynyrd
Last Dance – Ne-Yo and Pitbull – Give Me Everything
With the Signature Package our couple chose for this event, we included cake lighting, enhanced floor lighting, lots of killer SOUND, a SUPER fun Photo Booth (it was a BIG HIT), and more. We took our time setting up to match the rustic theme of the wedding and worked with the Bride and Groom alongside the wedding planner to ensure our visions aligned. 
Everyone danced the night away and enjoyed great fellowship after this harrowing year of Covid-19 lockdown.

Remember, a great wedding DJ that understands how to read a crowd and has a massively diverse playlist can be the difference between “just a wedding” and a “GREAT wedding!”. Let us help you #SaveYourWedding.
And lastly, here are just a portion of the songs we played that night by request of our couple to keep the reception grooving all night long. These awesome folks were an incredibly fun crowd! 
 
Rebellion – Joe Arroyo
Nadie como ella – Marc Anthony
Vivir mi vida – Marc Anthony
Robi Rob’s boricua anthem – El general & C+C Music Factory
Promise – Romeo Santos & Usher
Te Extrano – Xtreme
Volvi – Aventura & Bad Bunny
Te Bote Remix – Bad Bunny, Ozuna, Nicky Jam
Baila, Baila, Baila – Ozuna & Daddy Yankee
Farruko – Pepas
Oye Mi Canto – N.O.R.E & Nina Sky
I like it – Cardi B & Bad Bunny
Go Crazy – Chris Brown
Questions – Chris Brown
Bartender – T-pain
Real Love (2019 Remix) – Mary J Blige 
Raise up – Pettey Pablo 
Mo money mo problems – Notorious BIG
Like that – Doja Cat
Can’t take my eyes off of you – Lauren Hill
Killing me softly- The Fugees
Return of the Mack – Mark Morrison
This is how we do it – Montell Jordan
Bruno Mars
Papas got a brand new bag – James Brown
Never too much – Luther Vandross
Sitting on the dock of the bay – Otis Redding
Landslide – Fleetwood Mac
My Girl – The Temptations
I’m your boogie man – KC and the sunshine band
Drink in my hand – Eric Church
Up down – Morgan Wallen & FGL
Beer Never Broke my heart – Luke Combs
Friends in low places – Garth Brooks
Tennesse Whiskey – Chris Stapleton
Save a horse – Big & Rich
Strawberry Wine – Deana Carter

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### [Stylus Weddings Guide to Pandemic Era Weddings Part 1](https://stylusweddings.com/stylus-weddings-a-guide-to-pandemic-era-weddings-part-1/)

**Published:** December 13, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

The Stylus Weddings Guide to Pandemic Era Weddings: Part 1 COVID Wedding Guide – Engaged Couples Planing How To In A Pandemic Planning Your Big Day During a Pandemic

 Whether you’re planning an intimate, formal wedding with a handful of close friends and family or a lively, casual event with hundreds of people from every part of your life, the COVID-19 pandemic has certainly impacted the way you envision your big day. 
We understand where you’re at- you want to make sure your wedding lives up to your wildest expectations and that you, your fiance, your wedding party, and every guest stays healthy and happy before, during, and after your event. You also want to avoid family drama about pandemic disagreements while keeping everyone focused on what truly matters- the first breathtaking moments of your marriage. 
With COVID-19 rates falling in North Carolina, we hope the pandemic will soon be a distant memory. In the meantime, there are steps you can take to increase safety and decrease pandemic anxiety at your wedding. Luckily, your Stylus Weddings DJs are here to help you navigate the details! 
 Set the Tone For Your Big Day
We all have different expectations and comfort levels related to COVID-19 precautions, vaccinations, and social gatherings in the pandemic age. You get to decide what works best for you and your fiance, but don’t forget that others can’t read your mind. 
And don’t assume that your spouse-to-be has the same expectations and feelings about these things as you do. Have a conversation with your beloved early to avoid misunderstanding and conflicts between the two of you or with your wedding party and guests later on.
Once the two of you are on the same page, it’s time to set the tone for your wedding party and guests. Be clear and upfront with your expectations. And always remember that the act of setting boundaries isn’t letting people down or stepping on their toes. It’s keeping everyone as safe as possible so that you’ll all be able to celebrate other big days together decades into the future. 
 Be Prepared for Big Feelings
Even though setting boundaries isn’t personal, it’s likely at least a few of your wedding guests or wedding party members will have feelings about them. Remember that others may or may not share your views or comfort levels related to COVID-19. They may have had different experiences with loss, work requirements, or life changes over the past two years that influence their response to your plans. 
Most people will accept your decisions and not say a word, but you may have one or two people that make a fuss. There’s no need to argue, just remind them that you love them and want to include them if possible and refer them back to your expectations. They have to decide what’s best for them too. 
You or your fiance may have your own feelings about others’ responses or choices. Keep in mind that other people’s boundaries and actions are theirs alone. Unless they tell you otherwise, these things aren’t a reflection of how they feel about you or your wedding.
 Wedding Invitations, RSVPs, and Other Communication
An easy way to include COVID-19 related boundaries and expectations early on is to include them with the wedding invitation. Invitations can be worded to include these elements, an insert with more information could be added to the envelope, or you could include a statement or card directing invited guests to your wedding website where you describe your expectations in more detail. 
If you know that you only want vaccinated guests at your wedding and reception, consider including that in the wording of your RSVP. For example, you could say something like:
\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ number of fully vaccinated guests attending
\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ regrets
This makes it clear that vaccines are required without any need for discussion on why vaccines are required or whether the invited guest is or isn’t vaccinated. 
As the big day approaches, set up a way to communicate with your wedding party and guests to remind them of expectations. This also gives you a great way to communicate any last-minute pandemic-related changes. This could happen on your wedding website (don’t forget to offer help to older relatives and others who are not tech-savvy), with an email list, a text thread, or a phone tree. Whatever method works best for you is a good choice. 
No matter how good your communication is, be prepared to field a few questions about COVID-19 precautions at your wedding and reception from well-meaning family and friends. We’re all getting used to being around others again. Some people may be extra nervous or cautious. If someone asks a question that’s answered on your wedding website or invitation insert, gently direct them back to that resource. If someone asks a question you haven’t answered yet, consider adding the answer to your wedding website. If one person has a question, chances are another person is wondering about that same thing. 
No one wants to think about it, but it’s a good idea to have a plan in mind for how to contact and inform wedding guests after the event too. You need to be able to reach people quickly and easily in the unlikely case that someone who was at your wedding tests positive for COVID-19 shortly after. Carefully planning the details of the day in advance will hopefully mean you never have to put this part of the plan into action. 
 Venue Considerations
Even if you don’t care if guests are vaccinated or not, check with your wedding ceremony and wedding reception venues to see if they have a vaccination requirement. The venue may require proof of vaccination or have other COVID-19 related requirements (like a temperature check at the front door, a recent negative COVID-19 test, an indoor mask requirement, etc.). It’s important to pass this information on to your wedding party and invited guests as early as possible. 
If you’re worried about how some invited guests might react to you and your fiance setting boundaries about vaccination or testing- choosing a venue that requires vaccination or a recent negative COVID-19 test may help you keep the boundaries you want while also taking the spotlight off of you. 
Outdoor venues are also a great option for reducing risk. Plus, many outdoor wedding venues provide stunning views that can add even more beauty to your day and provide a phenomenal backdrop for your wedding photos.
 Planning from a Distance
If you and your spouse-to-be are being extra careful about social distancing, there are a lot of ways you can make venue and vendor plans from a distance. Many wedding venues have added virtual tours of their space on their website. Other vendors- from caterers to wedding cake bakers- are often happy to send you pictures of their work or answer your questions via phone or email. Stylus Weddings makes it easy to plan your dream ceremony and reception from the comfort of your home through our easy-to-use client portal with online music and event planning tools. We can also help you plan for the right lighting, photo booth, order of events, and more without needing to be in the same room.
 Don’t Forget Your Budget
Adding elements to your wedding to increase safety during the pandemic may impact your budget. Don’t forget to factor in things like hand sanitizer, masks, signage, or other safety elements (more on those below) when adding up the numbers
 Be Aware of Local COVID-19 Rates and Restrictions
Throughout the wedding planning process, it’s a good idea to keep up with local regulations and restrictions related to COVID-19. Keeping an eye on any big jump in infection rates may also be helpful. Up to date information for the state of North Carolina can be found on the state’s COVID-19 Information Hub or you can view more local information on each county’s webpage. If this feels like too much to take on while planning the rest of your wedding, ask a member of your wedding party to help. If any new regulations, restrictions, or concerns come up, send the information out to your invited guests ASAP. Communicating these changes can be especially helpful for guests planning to travel a long distance to attend your wedding. 
 Make a Plan and Be Prepared for the Unexpected
Making a plan to help protect yourself, your fiance, wedding party, and guests from the risk of COVID-19 will help the day go by smoothly and happily. However, as we’ve all learned over the past two years, none of us knows what lies ahead. Hopefully, any bumps in the road will be minor. But if big bumps do come along, know you’ll have the phenomenal Stylus Weddings team behind you to smooth the way. And at the end of the day, you will be married. Whether things go exactly to plan or not, you’ll know you’re loved and will have a great story to tell!
 Prepping Your Wedding Team
Masks may not be traditional wedding attire, but they can still show your style and personality. Many bridal shops are now selling coordinating masks for the whole wedding party. You can choose masks with coordinating colors or masks that help the wedding party stand out with the words “Mother of the Bride,” “Flower Girl,” “Best Man,” and so on. Some wedding couples have even made masks a part of their ceremony- taking off masks that say “Bride to Be” and putting on a new mask that says “Mrs.” after the vows, for example. 
While planning your wedding ceremony processional, wedding reception introductions, and reception seating for your wedding party, think about the comfort level of your wedding party. Some members of your wedding party may feel more comfortable entering alone instead of in the traditional pairs. You could also consider having a VIP section with smaller tables instead of one large banquet table during the reception to add some distance. If all members of your wedding party have frequent close contact outside of your wedding, this will likely not be a concern. If you aren’t sure how others feel, ask! It’s better to have a conversation during the planning process than being surprised by an unhappy wedding party member on your big day. 
If you plan to hug a lot of people on your wedding day, consider extra social distancing for the week or two before your event. If you’re not vaccinated or have had a recent possible exposure, it may also put your mind at ease to get a COVID-19 test right before the big day. 
 Working with Your Vendors
Vendors often have their own COVID-19 policies and procedures. Ask about these during the planning process and check in with them about any extra measures they’re taking to decrease risk while still providing awesome service. At Stylus Weddings, we are helping to keep you, your fiance, your wedding party, and your guests safe by upping our sanitation game, wearing masks, washing our hands frequently, using hand sanitizer when away from a sink, and following all local safety guidelines and restrictions. Your Stylus DJ will also help your day go smoothly by coordinating with your venue staff, photographer, wedding coordinator, and others to keep everyone on the same page to create the wedding you envision.
We’d love to be an active part of your wedding planning! Let us know about your questions and concerns. We can’t wait to help you build an out-of-this-world experience for you and your guests!
Don’t forget to check out part two of our pandemic wedding guide! For help in realizing your best event, in North Carolina, or beyond, reach out to the Wedding Event Entertainment experts at Stylus to help make your experience something worth being excited about – no matter the challenges!

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### [Stylus Weddings Guide to Pandemic Era Weddings Part 2](https://stylusweddings.com/stylus-weddings-a-guide-to-pandemic-era-weddings-part-2/)

**Published:** December 16, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

The Stylus Weddings Guide to Pandemic Era Weddings: Part 2 COVID Wedding Guide – Engaged Couples Planing How To In A Pandemic (part 2) Today is the Day!

 By the time you get to your wedding day, you’ve put in countless hours dreaming about and planning for your ideal day. You want your day to be full of joy, fun, and memorable moments. And, most importantly, you want it to reflect the style of you and your soon-to-be spouse and the beauty of the life you are building together. That is no easy task- even without a pandemic. But it’s a task worthy of time, attention, and care. The events of the past two years have highlighted what’s important and why we all want and need to celebrate love and connection. 
We covered a lot of the basics for pre-planning the wedding you envision while keeping safety in mind and avoiding potential unwanted drama in Part 1 of The Stylus Weddings Guide to Pandemic Era Weddings. Now we’re turning our attention to the day itself. A day we know will be one of the best days of your life!
 Welcoming Your Guests
With all the work you’ve done before your wedding day to make everything flawless and safe, your wedding guests will arrive at your venue ready to celebrate. Their minds will be at ease knowing that you and your soon-to-be spouse have been planning with their comfort, safety, and happiness in mind. 
Adding elegant or clever signage at your wedding venue outlining your safety precautions and expectations lets you feature your personality and style while reminding wedding guests of what to do (and not to do). It shows that you care and take your guests’ health and safety to heart- what a great way to spread love on a day that’s all about celebrating just that! Signs can be placed in the parking area, outside the venue, just inside the entrance, or anywhere people are likely to gather. 
Before using tape or other adhesives to post signs, check with venue staff about their policies. If you have questions about the optimal placement of signage, venue staff or your Stylus Weddings DJ can help. Your DJ can also announce your expectations or point out the locations of other resources (like hand sanitizer stations, etc.) to your wedding guests if you’d like. During the planning process, your Stylus Weddings DJ will talk with you about your preferences to ensure they are supporting your vision for the day. 
A safety station with masks and hand sanitizer is a great reminder for all guests to be careful. It can also be a comfort to guests who may be anxious about being in a crowd. Large hand sanitizer stations can be set up around the venue. Or you can hand out small custom bottles of hand sanitizer featuring your names and wedding date. 
Custom masks can also make for a great wedding favor. The masks can be understated with a small monogram in the corner or boldly display your wedding # across the front. Both options show off your style and add to the fun of your wedding day and wedding photos.
Many of your guests may have additional personal boundaries not covered in the expectations you set before your wedding. For example, some wedding guests may be very happy to sit with and talk to others, but not want any handshakes or hugs. Adding a wristband station and asking wedding guests to pick one as they enter lets them set their own boundaries without the need for any awkward conversations. 
A simple stoplight wristband system can clearly broadcast a wedding guest’s preferences and make them feel more comfortable, allowing everyone to relax and celebrate together:

 Green- Talking, handshakes, and hugs are all welcome.
 Yellow- Talking in a close group is great, but I don’t want to touch.
 Red- I’m happy to be here, but please stay 6’ away when we talk.

 Your Wedding Ceremony
This is what you’ve been waiting for! As your friends and family gather to witness your vows and celebrate your new union, you want to be focused on your big moment. You don’t want to be thinking of all the details that go into creating a safer and comfortable environment for your guests. A little attention paid to the particulars of your ceremony before the big day will let you focus on what’s important- starting a new chapter in your life with your soon-to-be spouse by your side. 
Seating during the pandemic era can be challenging, but there are great options for maintaining social distance while still providing everyone with a great view of your wedding ceremony. Wedding venue staff can show you options specific to the layout of the venue. And your Stylus Wedding DJ will also ensure that every wedding guest will clearly hear your music, vows, and “I do”s with the best sound equipment for your preferences, venue, and budget no matter how far apart guests are sitting. 
If COVID-19 restrictions keep some of your invited guests from attending your wedding ceremony in person, consider including them through live streaming or by recording the event. Even if you can’t get everyone in the same place, you can still include all the people who matter the most. 
Honoring loved ones who have passed during your wedding ceremony shows care for, connection to, and gratitude for all who have guided you along your path. One option is to dedicate an empty chair in the front row and place an item that reminds you of your loved one on the seat. You could also play a song with significant meaning or read a poem to remember those who have passed during your ceremony. Adding all of the loss of the past two years to the personal loss of a loved one is a lot. Expect a powerful wave of emotions and keep the tissues and extra hand sanitizer within reach. 
 Your Reception
Congratulations! It’s official! As you, your new spouse, and your guests arrive at your wedding reception, everyone will be ready to socialize, eat, and celebrate. Remind guests of your COVID-19 expectations with additional signage and a safety station greeting them as they arrive. 
Like the ceremony seating, wedding reception seating can also pose a challenge. But you don’t have to figure it out alone! Enlist the help of your wedding reception venue staff to help plan the layout. When thinking about reception seating, you may want to seat guests with people they already have close contact with. Or you could let guests choose their own seats to be as close to or far away from others as they are comfortable. There is no right or wrong answer- whatever you decide, your guests will appreciate you taking their comfort into account.
Plated dinners and drinks served at the table instead of buffets, family-style dinners, or an open bar may help decrease risk and increase guests’ comfort. Providing extra hand sanitizer at each table is another thoughtful way to lower risk and add convenience for your wedding guests.
Delivering drinks directly to the tables at specific times throughout the reception may cost less than having an open bar. And it could also help prevent those who may be inclined to drink a little too much from getting to a point where they are less likely to respect your COVID-19 related expectations or other wedding guests’ personal boundaries. 
If the idea of a traditional reception line makes you nervous in the pandemic era, consider greeting wedding guests at each table. Your Stylus Weddings DJ can help announce your plans and manage the fun and flow of the event for other guests while you make your rounds with your new spouse.
The toasts and speeches at your reception will likely make you laugh and cry and may even give you some new stories to tell after your wedding. The team at Stylus Weddings will make sure every word is heard. They will design the perfect flow for all aspects of your wedding reception- announcing your entry and the entrances of your wedding party, introducing featured dances, and guiding the feel and energy of the event. Plus, they’ll be taking care of all the technical details in the background so that you can relax and party with your new spouse and guests.
Setting up your wedding reception dance floor to maximize space and create a feeling of connection while keeping safety in mind is absolutely essential these days. Your Stylus Weddings DJ is a master at creating both the sound you want and the flow and design you need. Customized lighting design from Stylus Weddings can be a powerful tool to build the mood you want for your wedding celebration. Lighting can also guide wedding guests to or away from specific areas of the dance floor to keep them safe, happy, and dancing. 
When you’re planning your reception, talk with your Stylus Weddings DJ about traditions that are important to you. Like all other aspects of your wedding, COVID-19 safety concerns may cause you to rethink which traditions to include or how to include them. For example, instead of throwing the bouquet, you might present a small bouquet to someone who’s hoping to catch it while giving a short heartfelt speech about your hopes for them and their future. Keeping extra hand sanitizer or clean and dirty pen cups next to your guest book is another way to encourage wedding guests to participate in traditions safely. Custom lighting design can also be a great way to spotlight your cake cutting or your first dance while also providing a natural boundary that encourages social distancing. 
Just like with your ceremony, there are great ways to include guests who couldn’t attend in person. Live streaming or recording are two good options. Asking guests who can’t make it to send a short video with a recorded toast, poem, or song to play at your reception is a great way to include them. Set a deadline for videos to ensure they all arrive in plenty of time before your wedding day.
Your wedding reception is another perfect time to honor loved ones who have passed. Consider playing one of their favorite songs, projecting a few treasured photos, or asking someone to say a few words or read a meaningful passage. Be prepared for more powerful emotions as we’re all feeling loss in a new way after the past two years. This can be a lovely and memorable part of your wedding day. Your Stylus Weddings DJ can help guide the moment to hold space for your loved one while also embracing the celebration and joy of your special day. 
 After You Both Say I Do
Planning, having, and celebrating a wedding during the COVID-19 era isn’t an easy task. But it will certainly be one of the most memorable times of your life together! After the wedding, take some time to rest and enjoy your new connection. You’ve earned it!
We’re so excited to celebrate with you and your guests! Let us know what traditions you’d like to include and what songs you want to dance to. We can’t wait to help you build an out-of-this-world experience for you and your guests! For help in realizing your best event, in North Carolina, or beyond, reach out to the Wedding Event Entertainment experts at Stylus to help make your experience something worth being excited about – no matter the challenges!

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### [Best Questions To Ask When Looking for a DJ](https://stylusweddings.com/best-questions-to-ask-when-looking-for-a-dj/)

**Published:** December 23, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Best Questions to Ask When Looking for a Wedding DJ and Why You Need to Ask Raleigh Wedding DJ – Best Questions to Ask When Looking for a DJ Picking a wedding DJ is the most important decision you’ll make for your wedding (except for deciding who you’ll marry)! Here’s how to make the best choice. If you’re like most people we work with, you’ve never planned a wedding before. You may have a pretty good idea of what you’d like the day to look like and you know you want a ceremony that is perfectly suited to you and your beloved. 
But even with this picture in mind, it’s hard to focus on and remember all the little details that go into planning a great wedding and reception. 
Thankfully, there’s a whole host of wedding professionals to turn to for advice, not to mention your friends and family members who have planned their own weddings and can offer valuable insight. 
Still, you may not know exactly what to ask these folks to get you to the wedding you envision (don’t worry, that’s normal- you’ve never done this before!). 
Here at Stylus Weddings, we have decades worth of experience working with wedding couples to design their perfect event. And we strive to make the wedding planning and reception planning process as seamless and enjoyable as possible. 
We know the absolute best questions to ask to make sure you find a wedding DJ who

 Is easy to work with
 Understands what’s important to you
 Get’s your style

 AND

 Can throw a phenomenal event

To help get you started, we’ve put together this handy list of illuminating questions to ask when searching for the perfect wedding DJ. 
The First Things to Ask When Picking a Wedding DJ
These questions will give you and your fiance a strong sense of whether the DJ you’re interviewing has the experience to meet your needs. They can also let you know right away if the wedding DJ is confident in their skills and able to answer your questions clearly, directly, and honestly- all qualities that are essential to a smooth planning process and a magnificent wedding day. 
How many weddings have you done? 
With this question, you’ll learn how experienced your DJ is with the type of event you are planning. A DJ may have years of experience playing corporate events or clubs, but if they don’t know weddings, you may be in for a bumpy ride. 
What other DJ experience do you have and how will this experience make our day better?
Wedding experience is a must, but other types of DJ experience can be incredibly helpful, as well. For example, a DJ who knows how to read a room in a club and shift gears on the fly to keep the party going will be better at keeping your dance floor filled than someone who only has experience playing a preset list of songs. Also, a DJ with serious emcee experience will likely do a better job introducing you and your wedding party at your reception than a wedding DJ who is an expert on sound equipment but has little experience actually using the mic. 
What makes you and your wedding DJ company different? 
Asking the prospective wedding DJ what makes them and their company stand out is a great way to give you a sense of what’s important to that person and company. 
Not all DJ companies are created equal. Some specialize in a certain type of event. Some have long-standing relationships with other wedding vendors or wedding venues. Some offer additional services like lighting or photo booths. And some may have an unusual local claim to fame. 
Whatever answer they give, the wedding DJ’s explanation should be clear, to the point, and show how what makes them exceptional will also make your wedding day exceptional. 
Someone who instantly gets lost in talking about themselves without showing how it relates to you and your wedding, may not be able to focus on your unique needs down the line. While a DJ who gets too stuck in technical details, may not be able to clearly answer the more specific questions that will come up for you along the way. 
Do you have samples of your work? 
Any wedding DJ worth your time will be able to quickly and effortlessly provide you with samples of their work. This may take the form of an online mix, video clips of them at other weddings, an invitation to come to see them at a club, or a combination of formats.
A testimonial or review you read before setting up a consultation with a DJ may give you useful information about what it’s like to work with them or if other wedding couples have been happy with their services, but these shouldn’t take the place of work samples. 
A review or testimonial won’t show the DJ’s style or skill. A sample will give you a direct look at what this wedding DJ can bring to your big day. 
If the DJ has samples from multiple events, check them all out! Being able to see how the DJ handled different weddings and crowds gives you a taste of their versatility and ability to customize their services to you and your fiance. 
If you watch your prospective DJ at a club, remember that the feel of a club is different from the feel of a wedding. Still, you’ll get excellent clues about how they might handle your wedding. 
 Look for:

 Skill with transitions between songs
 The interaction (or lack of interaction) the DJ has with the crowd
 If they treat others with respect
 How the DJ responds to requests
 Their ability to read the room and shift gears based on how the crowd is responding

Check out the work of Stylus Wedding DJs by listening to our mixes or watching us in action. 
Essential Questions About Music and Other Services 
Chances are when you think “DJ,” you think “music.” Your wedding reception is the ideal time to show off your musical style and highlight the songs that mean the most to you and your beloved. And your DJ is the person responsible for moving your musical wishlist off the vision board and into the real world- creating the soundtrack for the day you will never forget. 
It is absolutely essential that you choose a wedding DJ who gets you and the tone you want for your wedding day. Use these questions to quickly get a sense of if your DJ is both knowledgeable about the music you like and able to respond to the musical tastes of your wedding guests.
We love \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ (fill in your favorites) music- what are some of your top songs and artists in these genres right now?
Any well-rounded DJ will be able to quickly name a few tracks and artists related to your musical preferences. But a DJ who is a great fit for you and your wedding will show you something beyond song titles and band names.
Your ideal DJ will be excited about your interests and be able to give you an example or two on the spot about how they can use your unique musical style to get your wedding guests up and dancing. 
We know you’ll have our must-play and our do-not playlists, but how do you decide what else to play? 
This question will give you a peek into how this DJ thinks, processes, and listens. 
You’ll learn about how they approach choosing music that matches your style and keeps your wedding day flowing beautifully. And you’ll have an opportunity to learn a little more about the DJ’s prep work and pre-wedding day planning. 
Most importantly, you’ll get a sense of if the wedding DJ has been listening to you and if they’ve picked up on your likes and dislikes and the tone you’d like to set for your wedding. 
How do you respond to requests during the wedding reception?
Some couples love for their guests to have a say in what gets played during the wedding reception, while other couples like to limit requests or eliminate requests altogether. 
Just like wedding couples, every DJ has a different feeling about taking requests and how to (or not to) take them. 
This is an excellent question to make sure you and the prospective DJ are on the same page. 
At Stylus Weddings, our policy is to follow your lead. We leave it up to the wedding couple to decide if and when to take requests at their wedding reception. 
All Stylus Weddings DJs are experts at both seamlessly blending in unexpected wedding guest requests and respectfully denying guests’ requests- all based entirely on your preferences. 
If you are unsure about whether you’d like to allow guests to make requests or not, a skilled DJ will be able to give you the pros and cons of both so that you can make the decision that’s right for you. 
Do you offer other services?
Many, but not all, DJ companies offer services beyond music for your wedding reception. It’s smart to consider how these other services or lack of other services might impact your wedding planning and budget. 
If you know you want a photo booth or specific cake lighting for your wedding reception, for example, choosing a wedding DJ company that offers these services in addition to music could save you a lot of time and money. It limits the number of vendors you need to work with and you may be able to get a lower price by packaging services. 
By asking this question, you may also learn about services you hadn’t considered- like displaying your monogram in lights or sound equipment to ensure all of your wedding guests can clearly hear every syllable of your vows.
Stylus Weddings offfers a full range of DJ services for your wedding, including emcee services, phenomenal music, lighting, photo booths, easy online planning tools, and more!
Wedding DJ Costs, Contracts, and the Unthinkable
We all wish we could plan our wedding day without concern for budgets or what if’s. Unfortunately, though, these things are a fact of life and of wedding planning. Cost and contingency plans are an important part of choosing the best wedding DJ for you. Ask these questions to help you find a perfect fit. 
What’s the cost of your wedding DJ services?
Every wedding DJ will have variations in what they charge and what is included in their services. In our experience, you get what you pay for but that doesn’t mean you need to reach beyond your means. 
Many wedding DJ companies offer packages and a la carte services designed with wedding budgets in mind. And every experienced wedding DJ is used to working with couples who want to have an unforgettable wedding at a reasonable price. 
Having at least a general idea of your wedding budget in mind before talking with prospective wedding DJs will set you up for success. Letting the wedding DJ know your estimated budget upfront allows them to give you an accurate picture of which packages and services will meet or exceed your expectations for your wedding day without emptying your bank account. 
A first-rate wedding DJ can also offer a few ideas on maximizing their services for efficiency and cost-saving or for taking advantage of other services they offer to keep you from having to pay multiple wedding vendor fees. 
Stylus Weddings offers a range of wedding packages to meet the variety of needs, preferences, and budgets of the couples we work with. Have a question about our packages? Ask us!
What details do you include in your contract?
Contracts may not be super romantic, but they are important tools to protect both you and the DJ company. A good wedding DJ contract includes all of the details of your wedding day, from venue to start/end times to services included. The contract should also outline what happens in the unlikely event something does not go as planned. 
Asking the prospective wedding DJ about their contract (or even asking to see a sample contract) gives you insight into their professionalism and can provide you with peace of mind as you make your final decision. 
What would you do if we needed to change the date of our wedding?
Wedding dates rarely have to change once the venue is reserved, but as we’ve learned over the past couple of years, surprise changes do happen. Choose a DJ who can answer this question without batting an eye. 
What would you do if something goes wrong on our wedding day? 
We all hope that your wedding is perfect in every detail, but we also know life happens. Whether a hurricane forces your wedding and reception indoors (or further inland) or a piece of sound equipment fails at your reception, you need to have a wedding DJ who has your back and has a plan!
The DJs answer to this question could mean the difference between an unexpected yet delightful wedding day story and a wedding day disaster. Look for someone who has thought through the possibilities, has a solid backup plan for anything within their control (i.e. sound or lighting equipment, transportation, additional staff needs), and can think well on their feet. 
Final Questions for Picking the Right Wedding DJ
As you’re wrapping up your consultation with a wedding DJ, you’ll likely already have a good sense of who the DJ is and what it might be like to work with them. Still, you may be a person who wants to make sure you’ve covered all of your bases or you may be on the fence between two DJ companies. Your last few questions can help make sure you’re picking the wedding DJ who is just the right fit for you. 
Now that we’ve talked a bit- do you have any initial ideas about a first dance song or cake cutting song for us?
You definitely won’t plan all the details of your wedding and reception during your initial consultation with a DJ company, but asking this question toward the end of your conversation can still be quite helpful. 
Their answer lets you know if the wedding DJ has been paying close attention to who you are and what elements are important to you and your fiance. 
If the DJ suggests something way off base, it’s time to look elsewhere.
If they suggest your favorite song without knowing it, you probably found the perfect wedding DJ for you!
Can we talk to some of your past clients?
A reputable DJ company will never give out past client information without their permission, but they are likely to have a few past clients who have offered to be a point of contact for prospective clients. Talking with these references may be just the reassurance you need.
Are there things we didn’t ask about that you think are important to know as we make our decision and plan our wedding?
Experienced wedding DJs, like the DJs at Stylus Weddings, are not simply fantastic DJs. They are knowledgeable guides who can help you plan out the details of your ceremony and reception months before the big day. 
This question lets you take advantage of the wedding DJ’s expertise and allows you to see what they have to offer beyond introductory questions. 
It can also give you one last glimpse at what it might be like to work with this DJ before you make your final decision. 
Last Words of Advice
It’s a good idea to shop around and talk to several different DJ companies to find the right fit for you and your spouse-to-be. Experience, state-of-the-art equipment, and a deep knowledge of music go a long way, but it isn’t everything.
 You need a wedding DJ you can trust who understands all of the complexities of weddings and wedding planning!
Any good wedding DJ will be able to understand and support your musical vision. But it takes an outstanding wedding DJ to showcase your musical style while also:

 Flawlessly supporting you and your wedding party
 Making sure the spotlight is on you during those special moments- like your first dance or your cake cutting
 Keeping your event schedule on track

 AND

 Getting everyone up and dancing all night long

We know that Stylus Weddings DJs are the complete package and we can’t wait to work with you to create your dream wedding! 
 Set up a consultation with us today to learn about all the ways Stylus Wedding DJs are exactly the right mix of professionalism, expertise, enthusiasm, and fun!

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### [5 Southern Wedding Traditions We Love](https://stylusweddings.com/5-southern-wedding-traditions-we-love/)

**Published:** December 25, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Five Southern Wedding Traditions We Love Southern Wedding Traditions We Love The South is unique in more ways than one! And Southern weddings are no exception! North Carolina is rich in history and tradition! At Stylus Weddings, we love our Southern roots and all of the traditions that make weddings extra special.
Connecting to traditions that your parents, grandparents, or great-grandparents participated in are excellent ways to honor those who came before you and set an example for those who are yet to come. 
No day is better to make these connections than your wedding day- a day that is all about creating and celebrating love and connection. Plus, you’ll likely have wedding guests who span multiple generations, giving you a rare chance to connect the past with the present and the future in real-time. 
Here are just a few traditions that can make your wedding the stunning Southern affair you deserve!
Bridal Portraits
It’s a Southern tradition for the bride to take bridal portraits weeks before her wedding day. Traditionally, these photographs are displayed at either the bridal luncheon, reception, or both. After the wedding, the bridal portrait is often displayed in the homes of the bride’s mother or grandmother alongside their own bridal portraits.
But did you know that the first bridal portraits weren’t photographs at all? They were oil paintings! European aristocrats commissioned paintings of brides to capture their youth and innocence before marriage. When wealthy Europeans began immigrating to the United States, they brought this tradition with them. 
Advancements in photography made this tradition accessible to nearly anyone who wanted a little taste of luxury by the early 20th century. Plus, on-the-spot wedding photographers were a rarity before the 1940s, so bridal portraits were taken before the wedding to allow the happy couple and their family to record the momentous occasion. 
Today, bridal portraits remain quite popular in the South. Taking bridal portraits allows the bride to finalize her make-up, hair, and dress details before her wedding day. If a bride is worried about feeling rushed, too busy, or overwhelmed on her wedding day wedding, bridal portraits can give her some time to relax, pamper herself, and ensure she has stunning wedding photos no matter what!
If you plan to display on your wedding day, ask your Stylus Weddings DJ about lighting and display options to make sure you’re always being shown in the best light! 
The Groom’s Cake
The groom-to-be may not get his own portrait session, but many Southern grooms do get their own cakes! 
The tradition of the groom’s cake also has its roots in Europe. Likely originating in 17th century England, the tradition became more common in the Victorian era. The original groom’s cakes were baked by the grooms themselves. They featured a rich flavor profile- often chocolate infused with alcohol or fruits. Victorian groom’s cakes were typically served before the wedding. The leftover cake was packed and given to unmarried female wedding guests in hopes they would find a husband.
The modern groom’s cake is all about the groom!
Today’s groom’s cakes come in all shapes and often highlight an interest or hobby of the groom or give a nod to an inside joke. Like the groom’s cakes of earlier centuries, today’s cakes are usually smaller than the wedding cake and feature a different flavor of cake. Some couples feature the groom’s cake at the rehearsal dinner, while others make it a part of the wedding reception. Either way, groom’s cakes are an excellent opportunity to bring a little extra light-hearted fun and uniqueness to the wedding celebration!
The unveiling of the groom’s cake is a great time to show off your personality and share personal stories and memories. With the right soundtrack and introduction, the groom’s cake reveal is sure to be a moment that is talked about long after your wedding. Talk with your Stylus Weddings DJ before your big day about what makes the groom (and his cake) memorable and how they can help highlight how phenomenal he is! 
Burying the Bourbon
The original roots of this tradition are unclear, but that hasn’t stopped it from becoming a Southern staple! Tradition has it that a full unopened bottle of bourbon buried upside down exactly one month before the wedding ceremony will ensure good weather on the big day. Some folks bury the bottle at home, while some do it as close as possible to the spot where the vows will be exchanged. Just after the ceremony is complete, the bottle is dug up, opened, and passed around. No matter the burial spot or the actual wedding day weather, the reception is sure to benefit from this tradition! 
Many couples choose to keep this tradition small- reserving it for the wedding couple, wedding party, and close family. Others want to bring all their wedding guests to the party. Whether you want to pass the word to a select few or announce it to the world, Stylus Weddings DJs will get the message out to the right folks at the right time. They will take care of the details so that all you need to do is enjoy your day!
Cake Pulls
Like bridal portraits and groom’s cakes, cake pulls (also known as ribbon pulls) came to the United States from earlier European traditions. In the United States, the cake pull tradition initially took root in New Orleans and has spread to other Southern states in recent years.
In a cake pull, sterling silver charms are attached to ribbons and baked into the bottom layer of the wedding cake or a smaller cake presented at the bridal luncheon, bridal shower, or wedding reception. Single women at the event are gathered together at a set time. Each woman stands by the tip of a ribbon coming out of the cake. At the count of three, they pull out their ribbon and their charm is revealed. 
Every charm has a different meaning that is said to give a hint of what’s coming next for the woman who pulled that charm. A four-leaf clover suggests good luck is on its way. A hot air balloon points to adventure and travel. And a ring symbolizes that the puller will be the next person to get married!
Your Stylus Weddings DJ is a true master of ceremonies who can announce and build excitement for the cake pull while keeping the celebration on schedule and making sure all of the unique elements of your wedding happen just as you imagine them.
Monograms
Monograms have been used for centuries- ever since the ancient Greeks and Romans put the emperors’ initials on coins. Over the centuries, the use of monograms has taken many forms for both royals and commoners alike. When it comes to weddings, monograms are a lovely way to mark pre and post-nuptial time and the merging of two lives and families.
For wedding invitations and other pre-wedding items, it’s traditional to have separate monograms for both members of the wedding couple. A traditional Southern bride might have her pre-marriage monogram- first initial to the left, middle initial to the right, and maiden surname in the center and slightly larger than the other initials- embroidered on the robe she wears when preparing for the wedding. The groom might display his personal monogram on his cufflinks.
Once the “I do”s have been said, it’s time to reveal the wedding couple’s married monogram! Many brides and grooms use their reception to show this special symbol of their union. The new monogram may appear on napkins, glasses, wedding favors, your photo booth pictures, or even in lights! 
The traditional marriage monogram displays the new wife’s first initial to the left, the new husband’s first initial to the right, and the married surname initial slightly larger in the center. 
You don’t have to be traditional, though, to include this tradition in your wedding! Many contemporary wedding couples display only their first initials both pre and post-wedding ceremony. Others choose a new hyphenated or hybrid surname when they tie the knot and a custom monogram is a lovely way to honor the creation of the new family name.
Monogrammed items are also common wedding gifts in the South. If you have a custom monogram made or if you’re going with a non-traditional monogram, make sure to let guests know as a part of your wedding gift registry!
Bringing Your Own Traditions to Your Wedding
Whether you choose one (or more) of these Southern wedding traditions or have other traditions in mind, the most important element of any wedding and wedding reception is the wedding couple! 
Stylus Wedding DJs have a passion and talent for bringing out exactly what makes you, your spouse-to-be, and your wedding exceptional. And we’d love to help you find the best ways to highlight the traditions that are meaningful to you with music, lights, and emcee skills that put you and your beloved in the center of attention- exactly where you belong! 
 Tell us about the traditions that mean the most to you! The Stylus Weddings team would be honored to be a part of your one-of-a-kind wedding day love story.

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### [Wedding Reception Photo Booths 101](https://stylusweddings.com/wedding-reception-photo-booths-101/)

**Published:** December 27, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

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Wedding Reception Photo Booths 101 Guide to Wedding Reception Photo Booths Photo booths are a must have for nearly every wedding reception! Everyone thinks about getting a wedding photographer for their big day, but have you considered a photo booth? 
 You’ve probably seen photo booths at other weddings. And if you have, you’ve most likely left the wedding with a great photo booth memory! Maybe you even have a few special photo booth moments from a friend’s wedding on display.
 But did you know that a photo booth is more than just a good time?
 Having a photo booth at your wedding reception is a lively and unforgettable way to capture unique memories, get guests up and moving, and save money at your wedding reception.
 Your professional wedding photographer will no doubt provide you with gorgeous photographic memories of your wedding day suitable for framing and hanging in your living room for years to come. 
 But in this age of selfies and social media spontaneity, professional photos may not entirely capture the mood of your wedding celebration in the free-spirited casual way many of us are used to. Plus, even the best professional wedding photographers can’t be in all places at once! 
 Photo booths provide an impromptu and intimate space where your wedding guests (and you!) can really let their personalities shine through! A photo booth adds to the wedding reception fun in a way that’s more relaxed, familiar, and exciting for your guests. 
 And it brings out everyone’s charisma and playfulness like nothing else we’ve seen! 
 You may not hang the photo booth pics up in formal frames and display them in prominent places in your home (or maybe you will- we won’t judge!). But imagine how much fun you’ll have on your fifth or tenth or fiftieth wedding anniversary flipping through an album of your closest friends and family in full celebration mode!
 Wedding reception photo booths are fun for everyone!

 Guests who haven’t seen each other in months or years may want to document their reunion. 
 Long-married couples who feel moved to record a moment of love inspired by your nuptials. 
 Young wedding guests who are simply having a great time being silly in front of the camera.

 And with a photo booth, you get to witness it all without giving up a single moment with your new spouse on your wedding day! 
 Photo booth pics are also a great wedding favor for your guests! You’ll save money on takeaways, while making every guest feel like a star. 
 Some couples worry that a photo booth at their wedding reception might be a distraction or an eyesore, but, in our experience, we’ve found the opposite to be true! 
 Photo booths boost the energy level of your celebration and get folks up and moving- often straight from the photo booth to the dance floor! 
 Stylus Weddings offers a range of photo booth options to match your venue and the tone you want to cultivate at your reception. We’ll also work with you and your venue to find the perfect location for the photo booth. You’re in total control of how much you’d like your photo booth to stand out or blend in with the decor. 
 Before the wedding day, your Stylus Weddings DJ will help you pick exactly the right photo booth to match your needs and style. And on the big day, they’ll time the opening and closing of your photo booth perfectly to maximize the photo fun without drawing attention away from your most important moments, like your first dance or cake cutting. 
 The Stylus Weddings team will take care of all the details so that you, your wedding party, and your guests can relax and enjoy your big day! Every Stylus Weddings photo booth comes with a stellar collection of props to make your guests’ photos fun, memorable, and unique at no extra cost. 
 At the end of the night, your wedding guests will leave your reception with a meaningful picture all their own and a memory forever tied to your unforgettable day right in the palm of their hands! 
 And there’s no need to wait to see all of the moments captured in your photo booths! You and your new spouse will have a digital copy of every single photo taken before your guests even have a chance to drive home!
 Talk with your Stylus Weddings DJ during your wedding planning about choosing the photo booth that’s best for you! Answers to Common Photo Booth Questions and Which Questions to Ask What is the picture quality like?
All photos are taken with professional-grade equipment and the prints are made on state-of-the-art printers that put an image in your guests’ hands in seconds! Don’t worry, though, the speed won’t impact the quality of the photos. At Stylus Weddings, we use superior inks and high end paper to make sure every photo is (almost) as special as the wedding couple! We pride ourselves in giving you both the highest quality prints and impeccable timely service.
Do photo booths take up a lot of space?
All of the photo booths we provide at Stylus Weddings are designed to take up minimal space while providing an exceptional experience for you and your wedding guests. 
Depending on your choice of photo booth and any backdrops you choose, the exact space needed may vary. But don’t worry too much about space. We have yet to come across a venue that didn’t have the perfect spot for one of our photo booths. 
Keep in mind, it works in your favor to position your photo booth in a high traffic area in your reception venue. More wedding guests walking by means more photos, more fun, and more opportunities to capture all the joy of your big day. 
If you’re concerned about space limitations, the best positioning for your photo booth, or have other logistical questions, just let us know so that we can get you the answers you need. 
Does Stylus Weddings offer custom photo options?
Yes! We are happy to add custom messaging to your photos that fit your wedding style. We also offer custom templates and backdrops to make sure your photos are truly yours. 
How big are the printed pictures?
Stylus Weddings photo booths offer a range of photo sizes and styles. Many couples choose the classic 3-4 photo strips. Others go with 4×6 or even larger prints that are sized perfectly for guests to frame after the wedding day. The choice is yours! 
We also offer digital copies of all photo booth photos that you can print in any format you’d like after your wedding day. 
What about social media?
We know that every wedding couple has different preferences when it comes to wedding guests sharing pictures live from the wedding reception. Because of this, Stylus Weddings’ offers a variety of options for social media integration.
Depending on what’s important to you, wedding guests can upload their photo booth pics instantly to either their or your social media account. Or you can have the digital photo booth pictures saved for you to go through later. This lets you curate the pics you’d like to highlight from the event and prevents any pics you don’t love from even making an appearance on the web. 
Either way, you’ll have access to a digital copy of every photo booth photo taken at your reception the very same day! So you can start enjoying the photos right away!
How much do photo booths cost?
A photo booth is automatically included in Stylus Weddings’ Total Party Package. And they can be added to any of our other wedding packages for an additional fee. The final cost of your photo booth will depend on the options you choose. Your Stylus DJ can walk you through the options that interest you during your wedding planning and give you a proper estimate. 
Are you sure a photo booth will fit in with our wedding decor and style?
Absolutely! Our photo booths come in a range of designs to meet your needs and match your style. 
Read on to find the one that suits you and your wedding!
Stylus Weddings’ Photo Booths
Rustic Photo Booth
If you like a rustic vintage style, this photo booth is an outstanding option for your wedding reception! It features a nostalgic mid-century modern style with warm wood, clean lines, and laid-back confidence reminiscent of the best 1940s and 1950s design. 
But don’t let the retro vibe fool you! This photo booth has everything you could want from a state-of-the-art photo booth including a professional-grade DSLR camera and a range of high-quality photo printing options you and your wedding guests will love. 
Modern Photo Booth
If you prefer a sleek contemporary look that shouts, “Let’s celebrate!” check out our modern photo booth!
This photo booth features LED lighting that can be coordinated with your wedding colors to blend in seamlessly with your venue. Or it can be set to change colors with the music of your wedding reception adding a touch of unexpected fun and enticing wedding guests over to take a photo. 
The modern photo booth also includes robust social media integration and even offers options for video clips, text, and email. The user-friendly LED screen allows your wedding guests to easily choose one or more of the options you have preselected for them, from slow-motion video clips to a classic printed 3 photo strip and so much more. 
Party Photo Booth
Stylus Weddings’ party photo booth offers a sleek photo booth style in either black or white that compliments every wedding decor. 
Both the black and white color options include dimmable halo lighting to make sure all your guests look their best! They also feature a ring of LED lights around the edges of the photo booth that can be adjusted to suit your style from a soft consistent glow to a flashy attention-grabbing chasing light and nearly all points in between. 
The most amazing thing about this photo booth, though, isn’t what it looks like. It’s what it can do! 
This photo booth features augmentative reality (AR) technology that allows you and your wedding guests to select from a wide range of virtual props, animations, and virtual backgrounds! These virtual photo gems can be easily printed or shared through social media right from the photo booth based on your preferences. With this photo booth, there’s no need for a large or fancy backdrop if you’d like to have a little extra space for more seating or dancing.
With so many options, the party photo booth truly allows your guests to customize their experience! And you get to enjoy all the photos even after everyone has gone home!
Strolling Photo Booth
Stationary photo booths are always popular with guests, but trips to the photo booth often slow down as the night goes on no matter how great the wedding reception is. The strolling photo booth keeps the memories coming all night long! Our strolling photo booth brings all the fun of a photo booth straight to your guests!
A specially trained member of the Stylus Weddings team carries the strolling photo booth throughout your event, interacting with guests and building excitement while capturing professional-quality photos and lively videos of your big day. And sharing on social media is a breeze whether guests share the pics instantly or you select your favorites for sharing later on.
Your professional wedding photographer will no doubt be capturing gorgeous spontaneous photos throughout your wedding reception. But the type of interaction the professional photographer has with you and your wedding guests is completely different from the ones guests will have with the strolling photo booth. 
A professional photographer is trained to frame the perfect wedding reception shots from the best angles with ease while staying out of guests’ way and nearly disappearing into the background. 
 The Stylus Weddings’ strolling photo booth is made to be noticed! 
Most wedding guests would never dream of interrupting a wedding photographer at work, but the strolling photo booth experience encourages guests to interact and take the lead in creating the photos they want to see. 
Many wedding couples choose to pair the strolling photo booth with one of our other photo booth options. The relaxed action shots captured by the strolling photo booth perfectly complement the well-thought-out selfies, group shots, and intimate couples’ photos of our more traditional photo booths, as well as the elegantly documented shots from your wedding photographer. 
Closing Thoughts
No matter which one you choose, a photo booth will absolutely take your wedding reception to the next level! Tell us which photo booths you’re excited about and we’ll help customize it just for you and your wedding day. Have a great photo booth story? Share it with us! We’d love to hear it!

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### [Group Dances: Your DJ’s Best Kept Secret and What You Need to Know](https://stylusweddings.com/group-dances-your-dj-s-best-kept-secret-and-what-you-need-to-know/)

**Published:** December 29, 2021
**Author:** stylusevents

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Group Dances: Your DJ’s Best Kept Secret and What You Need to Know Group Dances And Carolina Weddings Wedding Group Dances – The Controversy Explained Stylus Weddings DJs live and breathe music. We have our personal favorite songs and our favorite songs to play at weddings. We know how to use the beat to control a crowd and can change the tone of a wedding reception in an instant. But we also know that it’s not our wedding- it’s yours! 
You always get to pick the music you can’t live without and banish the music you can’t stand. We love working with couples with a wide range of music preferences and thrive on the challenge of finding the ideal mix for you and your big day. 
But no matter what your style, there is one genre out of the hundreds of genres out there that always seems to divide folks like no other, especially when it comes to weddings- group dance songs. 
Go ahead, love them or hate them- we won’t judge!
But wherever you and soon-to-be-spouse stand in the debate, there are some great reasons to include at least a couple group dances at your wedding reception. Including a few you likely haven’t thought of. . . before now. 
Thankfully, you have the outstanding Stylus Weddings DJs to let you in on some of the best tricks of the wedding DJ trade! 
Not All Group Dances Are Created Equal
Before we get too far into how group dances can be used to make your already unforgettable wedding reception even more memorable, let’s make sure we’re all talking about the same thing. 
When people hear the words “group dance,” they often have an instant mental picture. 
Maybe it’s a slow-motion video of their great uncle doing the Chicken Dance that they’d rather forget. 
Maybe it’s their best friend going the wrong direction during the Electric Slide leading to a very awkward interaction with a cousin that everyone still laughs about to this day. 
Maybe it’s that viral video of their little niece getting down to the Twist. 
Whatever the image, for nearly everyone, the words “group dance” come with a strong and specific reaction. But even though the term is well known, group dances remain one of the most varied and misunderstood tools in your DJ’s toolbox.
Yes, the Wobble, the Electric Slide, and the Twist are all group dances that are frequently found at wedding receptions. But these group dances are only a small part of the story. 
Group dance songs also include call and response and sing-along songs, like Sweet Caroline or Lizzo’s Truth Hurts. If your wedding invite list includes die-hard Gleeks (fans of the show Glee, for those not in the know), admirers of the short-lived masterpiece Freaks and Geeks, OG Journey fans, or a combination of all three, a group chorus of Don’t Stop Believing can get your wedding guests on their feet and quickly connect the whole room in fun and unexpected ways. 
Ballroom dances also fall into the group dance category. These dances are unparalleled in their ability to let you show off your hard-earned, impressive dance skills- and natural talent, of course. They can also be an amazing opportunity for older generations to show off and pass down the dances of their youth- from the waltz to swing to the hustle. 
Group dances can include dances that hold cultural significance, as well. Dances like the hora, dabke, or kalamatiano have been performed for generations. Including group dances at your wedding reception that are tied to your or your fiance’s heritage can be a lovely way to add your union to your grand family story. Traditional group dances can also be a wonderful way for wedding reception guests from other backgrounds to learn a bit more about who you are, where you come from, and where you’re headed. 
Finally, though it often gets left off the list, slow dances are a common form of group dance at wedding receptions. We understand why slow dances often get left off. They can feel so intimate. Think about it- what could be better than the chance to hold your beloved close to you on the day you both said “I do” while the rest of the world melts away? Only the chance to do this while your guests surround you feeling the same love for their beloveds or dreaming about how sweet it will be when they find a love like yours. 
The Songs You Love to Hate and Hate to Love
Now that we’ve covered the breadth of what a group dance is and can be, let’s look at the most common reasons wedding couples and their guests either love or hate them. 
When first working with a Stylus Weddings DJ, some soon-to-be-wed couples tell us that they love group dances and immediately put them on their playlist. However, many more couples tell us that they don’t want any group dances played at all. These couples often feel like they’ve seen too many group dance songs at other weddings. They fear that including them at their reception will take away from the uniqueness of the event and make their wedding reception a forgettable night instead of the memorable affair they have in mind. 
We see why they might think that. It is certainly true that many group dances are routine elements of a large number of wedding receptions. But that doesn’t mean that including a group dance (or two or three) will ruin their wedding reception. No song or dance has the power to erase or overshadow the elements that make both the couple and their big day absolutely extraordinary. In fact, including group dances can often have a stunningly opposite effect! 
Instead of making your wedding reception feel like “just another wedding reception,” group dances can actually highlight the special bonds and one-of-a-kind shared history of your wedding party, friends, and family. Sparking old memories and stories and creating new ones. It’s amazing how uncommon a common group dance can feel when you’re surrounded by your people on a day that is all about celebrating you!
Unlike many soon-to-be-married couples, many wedding guests are quick to tell us that they love group dances! In fact, group dances are often the songs wedding guests request the most during receptions. 
While the wedding couple may be looking for an experience unlike any other, many guests like having a bit of familiarity or the ability to request a song that gets everyone on the dance floor. We’ve also found that guests sometimes feel angry, disappointed, or left out if the DJ has to let them know that the wedding couple has their favorite group dance on the do not play list. 
It’s important to remember that at least a few of your wedding guests are likely shy or insecure about their dancing skills. Other guests may not have been on a dance floor since their own wedding reception a few decades earlier. Group dances allow all of these guests to participate in the party without the pressure of needing to be a great dancer or be up-to-date on the latest dance trends. 
Sometimes there is a specific group dance song that a wedding couple simply despises. By all means, if this is you, put that song on your do not play list! 
We never want you to suffer through any song or group dance at your wedding! 
It is your day!
But if you’re on the fence about a group dance or don’t mind the idea of certain styles of group dance songs at your wedding reception, consider letting your DJ make the call or giving your guests the option of requesting a song that will help them feel comfortable and welcome at your reception. 
Your Wedding DJ’s Take on Group Dances
From the very beginning of your wedding planning journey with Stylus Weddings, your DJ will work with you and your fiance to make sure you are building the wedding you envision. Your DJ will go out of their way to understand your likes, dislikes, and the style and tone you want for your wedding ceremony and reception. You’ll also be able to use the Stylus Weddings client portal 24/7 to make lists of your favorite songs and to make sure songs you don’t like are on your do not play list. 
It’s extremely important to us to listen to and honor your preferences and requests, including avoiding every song on your do not play list. 
No matter what songs end up on your definitely play or do not play list, one of the best things about having a Stylus Weddings DJ is that you’ll be working with one of the top DJs in the area. Every Stylus Weddings DJ has the skills to quickly read the energy in the room and choose the songs that will both set the right tone for your reception and keep your big day on schedule. 
While your wedding DJ concentrates on the music, they are also keeping an eye on countless details around them- from the ages of the people on and off the dance floor to how your wedding guests are moving (or not moving) around the room to the clock on the wall, and more! 
Paying attention to all of these tiny details lets them know when it’s time to pick up the pace, slow things down, change the mood entirely, or get people dancing in the first place. These details also give them clues to find the exact right song to keep your wedding reception on track from the minute your wedding party enters the room until the last wedding guest says goodnight. 
Giving your DJ the option of choosing a group dance song on the fly could save the day if wedding guests are slow to move to the dance floor, the schedule of the event gets a little off track, or your dance floor starts to clear out too soon.
Wedding receptions typically include guests from all stages of life, including many who haven’t been on a dance floor in years and some younger guests who may be experiencing a dance floor for the very first time. These wedding guests often lag behind their 20-something counterparts when moving toward the dance floor. Your reception will likely also include many guests who know and love each other but haven’t been able to spend much time together over the past couple of years. These guests may want to spend a lot of time chatting and mingling rather than rushing to dance. 
It can take 15 to 20 minutes of music to build up the energy to the point where these guests can’t help but get out of their seats or pull away from their conversations. But a group dance played early on in the reception can fill the dance floor in a matter of seconds.
Once all of your wedding guests are up and dancing, they are much more likely to keep dancing. Plus, having a good mix of guests of all ages on the dance floor encourages intergenerational connection and allows the young and old to learn from and enjoy each others’ company. It’s also an excellent way to party after having to be away from each other for so long!
No matter how great the wedding reception is, there will come a moment that calls for a change in mood to keep things interesting or to give tired wedding guests a second wind. A group dance can be just the thing to keep the party going. It may even create an opportunity for a few more fantastic candid photos to remember your day or to share with invited guests who weren’t able to celebrate with you in person. 
Have a great group dance story? Tell us about it! What made it amazing?

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### [All You Need to Know About the Wedding Bouquet and Toss](https://stylusweddings.com/all-you-need-to-know-about-the-wedding-bouquet-and-toss/)

**Published:** January 1, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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All You Need to Know About the Wedding Bouquet and Toss Before Your Wedding Day Raleigh Wedding Bouquet Toss Questions Answered The lowdown on a perennial wedding favorite- the bouquet! A Brief History of the Wedding Bouquet
The first recorded use of flowers in weddings goes back to the ancient Egyptians, Greeks, and Romans. In ancient Egypt, garlic and thyme were carried to ward off evil spirits, while Greek and Roman brides and grooms made crowns and garlands of flowers and greenery. And some brides across the Mediterranean and Fertile Crescent carried sheaves of wheat to symbolize fertility. In Greece, certain herbs were added to honor Hera, a goddess who was thought to be a protector of marriage and childbirth. 
During the Middle Age (5th to 15th centuries) in Europe, floral garlands continued to be worn by both brides and grooms. And small bundles of herbs, grains, and flowers were carried by brides. It was also common for Medieval brides to pin bundles of herbs or flowers to their dresses. These traditions were tied to fertility as they had been in ancient times. There was a practical reason to add fragrant elements to wedding attire, as well. Frequent bathing was uncommon in Medieval Europe. So the flowers and herbs helped mask less pleasant smells.
During the mid-16th to the early-17th century in Europe (the Elizabethan and Tudor periods), wedding flowers began to look like what we think of today. Nosegays (small bouquets) were carried by brides on their wedding day. And flowers started to be used as wedding decorations. Still, they included many herbs and other greenery, like dill, garlic, ivy, and thistles, which wouldn’t make the top ten list for most 21st century brides. 
One notable floral decoration in the Elizabethan era was the kissing knot. These were bundles of buds or flowers arranged in a sphere and hung up above the newlyweds’ table at their wedding reception. Like the Christmas tradition of kissing under the mistletoe, which has its roots in this period too, the husband and wife would kiss when they found themselves under the kissing knot. 
During the Victorian era (mid-19th century through the early 20th century), it was common for particular flowers to be associated with specific attributes or meanings. The bridal couple often chose their flowers based on this coded language of flowers. 
In the 1910s, floral arrangements at weddings became more complex leading to lavish cascading bouquets and stunning composite bouquets that were all the rage in the 1920s. Though they debuted many years earlier, boutonnieres for grooms and groomsmen also became more popular in this era. 
The Great Depression and World War II led to more modest bouquets, but by the 1980s, grand floral arrangements came back into style. 
Over the past twenty years or so, there’s been a move away from tradition for tradition’s sake. Today, wedding couples generally pick floral arrangements and bouquets that highlight their personalities, tastes, and heritage. We think this is a great way to honor the past, while also bringing your whole self to your big day!
Throwing the Bouquet
Like the bouquet itself, tossing the bouquet has a very long history. It all started back in the Middle Ages in Europe when it was considered lucky for wedding guests to touch the bride on her big day. 
Over time, touching a bride’s dress evolved into wedding guests attempting to rip off a piece of the wedding dress. The bouquet toss was born to distract the crowd and give the bride a way out! 
The bride would throw her bouquet in one direction and then head as fast as she could in the other, hoping that the wedding guests were content with the bouquet. Eventually, this tradition became much more subdued, though no less exciting for many brides and those wanting to catch a bouquet. 
Today, the bouquet toss is an opportunity for a bride to support her single friends instead of a chance for the single friends to get a piece of the bride. Since the 1800s, it has been the tradition for single female wedding guests to gather around the bride as she tosses her bouquet backward over her head. According to this more modern version of the bouquet tossing tradition, the woman who catches the bouquet will be the next one to get married. 
Many brides today like to hold on to their bouquets as a keepsake from their wedding. But keeping your bouquet doesn’t mean you have to abandon the bouquet toss! Brides often choose to order a second slightly small bouquet made especially for the moment. 
There is no hard and fast rule about when the bouquet toss should happen during your wedding reception. But it typically happens toward the end of the wedding reception after toasts, speeches, dinner, the cake cutting, and some dancing. 
Planning out all of these details might feel a bit overwhelming, but you don’t need to fear!
 Stylus Weddings DJs are masters at making sure each piece of a wedding reception is timed out flawlessly! They’ll work with you and your fiance to set the schedule that works for you. And they’ll also help keep everything running right on time during your wedding reception. 
When planning your reception, it’s important to remember that the entire bouquet toss ritual is relatively short (about the length of a song from start to finish). Still, many find it to be one of the most memorable moments of the wedding reception. Especially if there’s more than one woman committed to catching the bouquet!
 Choosing the right song for your wedding bouquet toss sets the mood you want for your big day. You want a song that shows your style. A song that gets everyone in the room up on their feet or at the edge of their seat! 
The options for bouquet toss songs are endless. Beyonce’s All the Single Ladies, Cyndi Lauper’s Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, or Martina McBride’s This One’s for the Girls are perennial favorites. But you could also choose a song that references an inside joke only your true besties will get. Either way, your Stylus Weddings DJ will work with you to find the ideal song for your big bouquet toss moment. 
Modern Twists on Tradition
Some brides today feel that the tradition of the wedding bouquet toss unfairly or unappealing singles out their unmarried female friends who may not be interested in finding a husband ASAP. Similarly, some LGBTQ+ couples may feel that the bouquet toss just doesn’t speak to them in the same way it does for many other wedding couples. 
There’s no shame in including or not including this tradition!
It’s your wedding. You should love every bit of it! 
Tradition is a wonderful thing, but only if it means something to you! 
If you don’t want to include this tradition in your reception, several traditions could take the place of the bouquet toss. 
Consider having a women’s only dance to honor the strong, confident women who have supported you and your new spouse and all the younger women and girls who are looking up to you. Don’t be afraid to say a few words before the song to let them all know how important they are and how you wish the best for every one of them. 
If an engaged couple is attending your wedding, you could also pass the torch to them by presenting them with the bouquet and offering a toast of good wishes for their upcoming wedding. 
Another frequent substitution is the anniversary dance. In this modern tradition, all married couples are asked to step out on the dance floor. Once the music begins, your wedding DJ calls out a number of years (1 year, 5 years, 10 years, and so on). Couples who have not yet met that mark are asked to leave the dance floor. By the time the song ends, the couple with the longest marriage finishes the dance. 
It’s an absolute gift to see the love still very much alive between long-married couples! You may have a couple who have been married 50 or even 60 years at your reception. The anniversary dance is a lovely way to honor them and to spotlight your new life with your spouse, as well. 
No matter what you choose, your Stylus Weddings DJ will be with you and your beloved every step of the way to take care of the details and get everyone at your wedding reception to the right place at the right time. 
How to Modify the Bouquet Toss for a Pandemic Wedding
The COVID-19 pandemic has caused many wedding couples to rethink what their dream wedding looks like. At Stylus Weddings, we’re doing everything we can to help keep you, your spouse-to-be, your wedding party, and all of your wedding guests safe and healthy. Part of that means talking with wedding couples to find out what traditions are most important to them and coming up with creative ways to include everything they envision for their big day even in a pandemic.
The bouquet toss is no exception! 
Pandemic etiquette has us all keeping our distance as much as possible, but there are still ways to incorporate the bouquet toss into your wedding reception if you choose to.
One option is for the bride to present single flowers or small bouquets individually to single women at the wedding reception. This would allow you to pass on your hopes for your guests in a personal and special way while also avoiding an unwanted crowd. You could hand out the flowers individually by going from table to table. Or you could take control of the mic and let all your guests know who is getting flowers and why. This approach can be an excellent opportunity to share memories that get every one of your wedding guests laughing or crying. Or both!
Another option is to toss a breakaway bouquet- a large bouquet that breaks apart into many smaller ones. As long as you have a pretty good throwing arm, a breakaway bouquet allows for some space between those waiting to catch the bouquet. Everyone can stand a few feet away from each other and still be within catching distance of a piece of the bouquet. 
A bouquet box is another alternative to consider. Place your wedding bouquet in a locked box. Then give a key to everyone who would typically be participating in the bouquet toss. Only one lucky woman will be randomly given the key that opens the box. When the time is right, your wedding DJ will announce that the box is open for everyone with a key to try her hand at opening it. This twist on the tradition is sure to bring excitement, suspense, and laughter to the moment! 
If you go with the bouquet box, have hand sanitizer available before and after each try or add to the drama and intrigue by asking everyone to donn a new pair of clean cotton gloves before touching the key or box. 
At Stylus Weddings, we thrive on your happiness and know that the little things can make all the difference in the world. Whether you choose the traditional bouquet toss, an alternative to the toss, or a modern twist on this classic wedding tradition, your wedding DJ will make sure you have everything you need to make the moment memorable and moving.
Do you have a terrific bouquet toss story? Please tell us! We can’t wait to hear it and to hear all about what wedding traditions mean the most to you!

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### [Make Your Wedding Ceremony Your Own -Tips for LGBTQ+ Couples](https://stylusweddings.com/make-your-wedding-ceremony-your-own-tips-for-lgbtq-couples/)

**Published:** January 3, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Making Your Wedding Ceremony Your Own- Tips for LGBTQ+ Couples Tips for LGBTQ+ Couples Planning Their Weddings in North Carolina At Stylus Weddings, we love love! We’ve proudly served the LGBTQ+ community since before marriage equality was the law of the land. And we believe that all couples should have the wedding of their dreams! 
 We also understand that LGBTQ+ wedding planning can bring particular stressors and questions for the wedding couple that many other wedding professionals aren’t willing or able to address in knowledgeable and respectful ways. 
 We’re here to save the day!
 Stylus Weddings DJs have the experience, awareness, and style needed to answer all your questions and create a wedding day experience that exceeds all of your expectations! 
 To get you started, we’ve put together some tips and considerations to create the wedding ceremony you and your spouse-to-be deserve! 
 Create a Wedding Ceremony That Works for You
 LGBTQ+ couples are in a unique position to create a wedding that wholeheartedly embraces all that they are and all that they want to be. 
 Wedding guests often expect LGBTQ+ weddings to depart from the traditional. This gives you and your spouse-to-be incredible freedom to fully recreate the meaning of “wedding,” to surprise everyone with a thoroughly traditional affair, or to combine the two to highlight the multitude of complexities and blessings that come with being a part of the queer community. 
 Stylus Weddings specializes in wedding ceremonies and wedding receptions that go above and beyond the typical. We work with you to learn what makes you and your fiance extraordinary and will craft a wedding experience tailored to exactly who you are!
 The Wedding Party
 When thinking about who you want to stand next to you as you say your vows and kiss your beloved for the first time as a married couple, consider all of your options. 
 Yes, it’s traditional to have groomsmen on the right and bridesmaids on the left during the wedding ceremony and you can certainly go with tradition. But that tradition (not to mention the wedding party titles) can be too confining or downright repulsive for many LGBTQ+ wedding couples when thinking about their own wedding. 
 Instead, you could arrange your chosen family around you and your soon-to-be spouse in a way that feels right without regard to gender- gathering one spouse-to-be’s close people on one side and the other’s on the other side. 
 Alternately, if you find that you have an equal number of femmes and butches of all genders that you’d like to include in the wedding party, it might be delightful to ask femmes to stand on the left and butches on the right (or vice versa) in a nod to tradition with a distinctly queer twist. This may work especially well if you and your spouse share a friend circle.
 Don’t forget that members of the wedding party do more than just stand there! They are your support system during the wedding planning and your indispensable crew on the day you tie the knot. 
 For many cis-hetero wedding couples, the roles and jobs of wedding party members are assumed and set in stone. Happily, this is not the case for LGBTQ+ couples! 
 Wherever wedding party members stand or what titles you bestow on them, think about what tasks are best suited to each member of your wedding party.

 Who will be the best help in finding the perfect dress or suit? 
 Who would be great at taking the lead with set-up on your big day? 
 Who can hold on to your rings without any risk of them misplacing them?

 You know your friends better than anyone- let them be themselves too! 
 Invitations, Communications, and That One Relative
 Invitations, wedding websites, and other communication with wedding guests can be stressful for all wedding couples. But they can be especially treacherous for many LGBTQ+ couples. 
 Nearly all queer couples have at least one family member who is not supportive of their love. You may also have a family member (or many family members) who are inconsistent at best in using the correct names and pronouns for one or both spouses-to-be, members of the wedding party, or other wedding guests. 
 There is no shame in having difficult feelings or struggling with what to do in these situations, but remember- this is your wedding and not theirs.
 Your wedding day is one of the most joyous, tender, and memorable days of your life! You want to be and deserve to be fully present to enjoy it. And that goes for the pre-wedding events and details, as well. 
 If you go by a name that’s different than your legal name, you may need to fill in the legal name on your wedding certificate. But your guests only need to see and hear the name that is truly yours! Always use the names you love on your wedding invitations, website, wedding program, etc. You’ll likely want to keep some of these items to remember your wedding day decades from now. You won’t regret being yourself. 
 If you’re worried that some wedding guests might get your, your fiance’s, or other wedding guests’ names or pronouns wrong, consider including an invitation insert about respecting names and pronouns or putting a statement or link to educational information on your wedding website. 
 That being said, know that it isn’t your job to educate others on these topics. Setting expectations and providing guidance on respecting names and pronouns before the wedding day may curb unwanted drama on the day itself, but it’s never a required part of your wedding planning. 
 If a member of your wedding party or another close friend or family member is particularly skilled at educating others on respectful name and pronoun use, consider enlisting their help. 
 Many LGBTQ+ wedding couples also have concerns about whether or not to even invite that one relative (or two or ten or fifty relatives) who may be less than supportive at the wedding. There are many different schools of thought on whether these relatives should be invited or not. 
 For some, weddings can be a great place to bring people together and to start (or continue) the work of healing past traumas. For many others, it’s simply too stressful or painful to think about including someone who’s been hurtful or disrespectful in the past. 
 Only you and your fiance can decide what’s best for your wedding. Trust your gut and, if you’d like, enlist the input of those you trust. And remember, even if the invitation process is anxiety-producing, you’ll end up with a solid group of wedding guests and wedding professionals like our Stylus DJs looking out for you and holding you up on your big day!
 Send invitations that show your style! 
 Feature your favorite photos on your wedding website! 
 Tell everyone what you love about your fiance and your relationship! 
 Do what feels best to the two of you! It’s your day! 
 Attire and Accessories
 Your wedding day attire is yet another opportunity for you and your spouse-to-be to be unabashedly you! 
 If you’d both like to wear suits or would both like to wear dresses, one option is to wear the same cut of suit or style of dress in different colors or fabrics. You could also mismatch your suits and dresses to highlight your individual styles while adding color-coordinated accessories like boutonnieres, earrings, or shoes. 
 Going with a traditional suit and dress can also be a fun and exciting option for LGBTQ+ couples. Depending on the couple, this typically traditional pairing can be anything but traditional! Instead, it can be a way to play with gender presentation in a distinctly queer way. Or it could be an opportunity to finally feel at home within yourself as you put on the outfit you longed for as a child. Or both!
 You could also consider mixing traditionally masculine and traditionally feminine elements within each outfit- add a train to your suit, wear stilettos with your tux, or donn a perfectly tailored blazer over your gown. 
 If formal isn’t your thing, consider ditching the suit or fancy wedding dress for khakis with a cardigan or a flowy skirt and tank top. And don’t be afraid to mix formal with casual elements. A white dress with black boots or a gray pinstripe suit with a lilac t-shirt will both look stunning! 
 Whatever you and your fiance choose, it’s always a good idea to have a stylish friend or a knowledgeable tailor or boutique owner take a look before your big day. They can help make sure that you both look stellar and well-coordinated without looking too matchy. 
 Walk Down the Aisle in Style, Or Don’t
 While a lot of cis-hetero couples don’t give a second thought about how to make an entrance at their wedding ceremony, LGBTQ+ couples often have a lot to think about. 
 Would you both like to be given away? If so, do you want to be given away by a member of your family of origin or your chosen family?
 Are you more comfortable entering alone? Or Together? 
 Do you both want to find a stealthy way to get up to the front without making the long walk down the aisle?
 There’s no right or wrong answer to any of these questions. Here are just a few options to consider:

 Walk down the aisle one at a time ahead of your wedding party
 Each walk down the aisle with a member of your wedding party
 Meet together at the back of the aisle and walk together hand in hand to the front
 Both enter from side doors or entry points at the front near the spot where you will say your vows
 Set up the seating so that there are two aisles and walk down alone at the same time, one of you in each aisle
 Arrange the wedding guests’ chairs in a circle and enter from opposite sides

 And don’t forget the music! Stylus Wedding DJs are well versed in helping you choose the ideal music for your grand (or subtle) entrances- from the traditional wedding march to the Indigo Girls’ Power of Two to ABBA’s I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do , and more. 
 Wedding Guest Seating
 Traditionally, wedding guests are seated according to how they are connected to the wedding couple. People connected to the bride sit on the left and people connected to the groom sit on the right. At LGBTQ+ weddings, this may not make a lot of sense as there may be two brides, two grooms, or two nonbinary spouses. Even if your LGBTQ+ wedding has a bride and a groom, you may not feel comfortable with this traditional seating method. Plus, LGBTQ+ couples are more likely than cis-hetero couples to share a circle of friends, which can make it awkward for guests trying to decide where to sit. 
 If your wedding venue is set up for two clear seating areas, but you don’t want to follow the traditional seating rules, consider adding signage that shows your personal style while instructing guests to sit wherever they’d like. Signage can also be helpful if you do want to separate the guests into one spouse’s side or the other’s as some guests may assume there will not be any separated or assigned seating at an LGBTQ+ wedding ceremony. 
 If your venue allows, you could also do away with the traditional two sides altogether. Consider arranging seating in three or more sections to create two or more aisles. Or arrange the seating in a circle and say your “I do”s while literally being surrounded by your friends and family. 
 Traditional seating or not, it’s still a nice gesture to reserve seats for special guests, such as parents, grandparents, or children of the wedding couple. 
 It’s also important to consider sound. You want to make sure everyone can hear the music, readings you’d like to include, and, most importantly, your vows. Your Stylus Weddings DJ can give you input on how to set up seating or sound equipment to make sure there isn’t a dry eye in the place. 
 The Ceremony and Vows
 Just like other aspects of the wedding, LGBTQ+ wedding couples can be as traditional or non-traditional as they’d like with the wedding ceremony itself. 
 If religion or a specific spiritual tradition is important to you- incorporate it!
 Religious communities may not always approach LGBTQ+ folks with open arms and queer communities may not always approach religious communities with open arms either (often for good reason). But if you’ve found a home within a religious and spiritual community and it plays a role in your commitment to your soon-to-be spouse, don’t shy away from your beliefs because of the views or expectations of others. LGBTQ+ people are just as deserving of divine love and connection as anyone else!
 Similarly, if you’re not religious at all or don’t feel comfortable including religious or spiritual elements in your wedding ceremony, don’t include them!
 Secular weddings and marriages are just as valid as religious ones. Incorporating religious elements that might make you or your spouse-to-be uncomfortable (or worse) simply for the sake of tradition isn’t worth it. This day is yours and you deserve to feel at home and supported in all the ways that are important to you. 
 Incorporating non-religious cultural traditions from your or your fiance’s family heritage can be a great way to include connection to tradition and history whether you have a secular or religious wedding ceremony. 
 Another fantastic way to celebrate LGBTQ+ love and tradition is by including the work of other LGBTQ+ people in your ceremony. Think about reading a poem by a queer poet, playing a song by a queer musician, or mentioning the LGBTQ+ elders who came before you and helped make this day possible in your vows. 
 A Few More Thoughts
 As you’re planning your wedding ceremony, you may feel the abundance of joys and struggles of the LGBTQ+ couples who came before you. You may also have big feelings about how far you’ve come in your own queer life. It can be healing and inspiring and a bit overwhelming to take a moment to recognize that you come from a long line of queer love and that you are also lighting the way for the next generation. 
 Still, don’t put too much pressure on yourself. You are also simply one singular rare and beautiful couple- the history of LGBTQ+ love is big, but this day is also all about you and your extraordinary love. 
 We look forward to hearing your love story and playing a part in its next chapter! 
 Let us know what you’re envisioning for your wedding day and we’ll help you get all the details in exactly the right place! 
 Keep watching our blog for tips on throwing a fabulous LGBTQ+ wedding reception and for information you can give your family and friends to help get them up to speed on LGBTQ+ wedding etiquette before your big day!

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### [Why You Need A Wedding DJ For Your Ceremony](https://stylusweddings.com/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/)

**Published:** January 24, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

You Need a Wedding DJ for Your Wedding Ceremony- Here’s Why This is Why You Need A Wedding DJ for Your Ceremony in Raleigh Your Wedding Ceremony Is More Than Words It’s a well-known fact that a fantastic wedding DJ is an essential part of any wedding reception. But many people don’t realize that an exceptional wedding DJ is just as essential for the wedding ceremony. 
Not only can your wedding DJ play great music, but they can also:

Ensure that every word of your ceremony is heard by every wedding guest- even through happy tears or unexpected background noises, like wind or birds
Handle any technical issues with microphones or other sound equipment
Set the mood with prelude music
Provide smooth cues and transitions for the wedding ceremony, including processionals, wedding ceremony music, special ceremony elements (like a unity ceremony, handfasting, or jumping the broom), and recessionals
Help you prep for your big day with a solid backup plan if something doesn’t go as expected

Every Stylus Weddings package includes all the things you need to make sure your wedding ceremony is the one you have been dreaming of! From the planning process to the first kiss, a wedding DJ complements and enhances all elements of your wedding ceremony. Before the Wedding Ceremony
Before you’re even in your wedding dress or suit, your Stylus Weddings DJ will be hard at work setting up your big day. 
Most wedding couples aren’t sure what equipment they’ll need to make everything sound great and flow seamlessly on their wedding day. But no need to worry! 
Stylus Weddings DJs are expert guides who will be with you every step of the way. 
During the planning phase, your DJ will work with you to pick the perfect sound equipment and sound design for your venue and the things you want to include in your ceremony (ex. music, readings, a musician, a soloist, etc.) to make it unique. A violinist needs a different sound set up than a full band or a solo reading from the Bible, Rumi, Einstein, or The Settlers of Catan Rule Book, Volume 3 (no, that’s not a joke- we heard this reading at a wedding we provided sound for and it was lovely and memorable!). Details about whether your ceremony will be indoors or outdoors are also an essential part of the sound design.
Stylus Wedding DJs can help with other aspects of your big day too. We can even make recommendations for lighting and provide lighting equipment if needed. 
On the day of your event, your Stylus Weddings DJ will arrive on time (long before your ceremony is scheduled to begin) to set up and test equipment. Ideally, you, your spouse-to-be, your officiant, and any musicians will be available for a very brief sound test before your guests arrive. But we understand that this isn’t always possible with a tight wedding day schedule. Either way, your DJ will run a thorough test of all the equipment to make sure everything is working as planned so that your wedding sounds flawless. 
This test also includes checking for potential sound equipment interference- an essential step that should never be missed! 
Most people don’t realize how sound equipment interference can impact, or even ruin, their big day by causing feedback or decreasing the quality or volume of the sound. To have the best sound possible, your DJ will ensure that there are no obstacles between the microphone transmitter (i.e. a handheld mic or a mic worn on a lapel) and the receiver (the box that connects the transmitter to the sound system) to prevent interference. Sometimes even a single guest with a cell phone sitting between a microphone and receiver can cause big problems.
If any potential interference issues are found, your wedding DJ will work on the spot to re-design your sound setup. If you’re having an outdoor wedding ceremony, your wedding DJ will also consider the weather and sounds in the environment. Re-designing on the fly can be challenging and takes a lot of effort, but when you work with the best wedding DJs, like those at Stylus Weddings, you’ll have nothing to worry about! 
Your Stylus Weddings DJ will go above and beyond to assure everything sounds just right. 
And those aren’t empty words. We mean it! 
We have experience covering for bands that don’t show. 
We’ve quickly secured a backup generator when the power supply for an outdoor wedding turned out to be less than optimal. 
And we’ve even reconfigured a wedding ceremony timeline at the very last minute because of a hurricane.
Hopefully, your wedding ceremony won’t have any complications at all. But if it does, we’ve got your back! And we’ll make sure everything is ready when you walk down the aisle. 
During the Wedding Ceremony
You’ve made it to your big moment! And we are here to make sure you, your spouse-to-be, wedding party, and officiant all sound great and get the entrances you deserve!
Will you have a quiet, formal ceremony with classical instrumentals to match? A ceremony with relaxed sophistication and the latest indie tunes? A boisterous celebration of life with the wedding party dancing down the aisle?
Whatever your style, your Stylus Weddings DJ will choose the ideal prelude music to welcome your wedding guests and set the tone for your ceremony. 
Once your wedding guests are seated, it’s time for the processional! Choosing the right music for each person isn’t always as easy as it sounds. But an experienced wedding DJ will be able to provide you with options tailored to you and play every song on cue. 
Most weddings will have separate entrances for the:

Officiant
Parents of the wedding couple
Groom
Bridal party
Bride

Some wedding couples choose to have the same song playing for all of the entrances, while others choose a different song for each. Most wedding couples go with one song for the wedding party and groom and a second song picked especially for the bride’s entrance. There’s no right or wrong choice and your wedding DJ can guide you to what makes the most sense for you and your wedding. If you’d like a more non-traditional entrance for your wedding ceremony, your wedding DJ can help you plan for this too!
Your wedding DJ doesn’t stop working once everyone is in place! They stay focused on providing the best sound and are constantly making adjustments so that every wedding guest can clearly hear readings, special songs (like music played when lighting a unity candle or signing a ketubah), and your vows. 
And if something comes up at the last minute with your musician or soloist, your DJ is there to cover. Unless you make an announcement about a change to the program, your guests likely won’t even know that something didn’t go exactly as planned. 
After the “I do”s have been said and the first kiss as a married couple has been kissed, your Stylus Weddings DJ will take care of your recessional music- making sure your exit is as memorable as your entrance. 
Many wedding couples also choose postlude music to play as wedding guests exit or have a band or musician play the guests out. The wedding DJ will be there until after everyone has gone- ensuring a smooth and enjoyable end to the wedding ceremony for everyone. 
If needed, your wedding DJ can also assist with any needed announcements about the reception, location for pictures, or any other after ceremony events. When the same wedding DJ provides services for all parts of your wedding, you’ll have a smoother experience and more consistent style throughout your big day. 
Most importantly, having a wedding DJ during your ceremony takes the pressure off of you, your spouse-to-be, your wedding party, and any other friends and family members who are there to help you out. No one will have to worry about what music to play, how to get the timing right, or what to do if something goes wrong. All you have to do is enjoy your day!
Hiring A Wedding DJ for Your Ceremony is a Great Investment
We know that wedding expenses can add up quickly, but the cost of a wedding DJ is money well spent that can save you unexpected costs, time, and hassle on your wedding day. 
By hiring Stylus Weddings for your ceremony, you won’t have to waste your time looking for other professionals (or friends and family members) to help set up equipment for your ceremony. You won’t risk asking someone who doesn’t know how to make sure your ceremony sounds phenomenal. And you’ll help create a cohesive wedding experience for both you and your guests. 
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life! You want it to be exquisite and memorable for all the right reasons. Investing in a wedding DJ for your wedding ceremony in addition to your wedding reception sets you up for success, leading to the delightful and unforgettable wedding celebration you deserve. 
Stylus Wedding DJs have the skills and passion to help you create a wedding that exceeds your wildest expectations. But that’s not all! We can give you one of the best wedding gifts you’ll receive, the confidence you need to relax and enjoy your wedding day without worrying about the details. Just take a look at what other happy wedding couples had to say about Stylus Weddings!
From wedding planning to the bride’s big entrance to the last second of your wedding reception, Stylus Weddings DJs are committed to making your wedding day fun, worry-free, and absolutely stunning. 
Want a custom look at how we can make your already special day even better? Set up a consultation with Stylus Weddings today!

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### [Stylus Weddings Favorite Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/stylus-weddings-favorite-dance-songs/)

**Published:** January 24, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Stylus Weddings’ Favorite Dance Songs Stylus Favorite Wedding Dance Songs All DJs love music, but only the best DJs know how to choose exactly the right song for every moment of your wedding day. Stylus Weddings has worked with dozens of wedding couples over the years to make sure the music for their wedding reception is as spectacular as they are. Most couples come to us with a good understanding of what genres they like and the mood they’d like to set for their big day. 
But knowing what you like and knowing how to put it all together to create the greatest event of your life are two different things. That’s where Stylus Weddings comes in!
No matter your style, Stylus Weddings DJs have the musical knowledge and technical skills to ensure your wedding day is exactly the day you imagine, if not better. 
We have decades of experience choosing precisely the right music to make all of your memorable moments absolutely unforgettable. From the first dance to the dance floor- here are a few of our favorites to get you started: First Dance Songs
Your first dance with your new spouse at your wedding reception is your opportunity to show the world who you are as a couple. It also sets the tone for the entire reception. And it’s a great opportunity to get all eyes focused firmly on the dance floor early in the night. 
Some couples have a special song picked out for their first dance before they’ve even set their wedding date. Others need more guidance to pick the song that will start things off right.
Either way, your Stylus Weddings DJ will work with you to make sure the song you choose for your first dance sounds exceptional and works well with the overall style of your wedding reception. 
If you and your soon-to-be spouse are stellar dancers, choosing a song with an upbeat, energetic vibe may be perfect for showcasing your skills. 
If you’re worried about tripping over your toes (or stepping on your beloved’s toes) or if you’d just like to savor the first few moments of your marriage while holding each other close, a low-key, tender love song may be a better fit. 
Here are three of our current first dance favorites:

[The Way You Look Tonight](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqv79aFSUIg) covered by Maroon 5- This is a classic track first made famous by Frank Sinatra. This version brings the song into the 21st century while keeping all of the timeless style of the original. If you want a vintage feel that turns heads with its updated approach, this is the song for you! 
Favorite Day from Wonderful Smith- This sweet indie tune is perfect for couples who want to showcase an unexpected and charming uniqueness in their first dance. If you’re nervous about your dance skills, the length of this song (not even two and a half minutes long) lets you put your love in the spotlight where it belongs without having to keep your dance moves there for too long. 
[Each Day Gets Better from John Legend](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=US65YdmJOtQ)– In our opinion, this early John Legend tune doesn’t get the attention it deserves! If you’re looking for a smooth, soulful vibe that’s a great alternative to some of the overplayed tracks, this is an excellent choice. This song truly speaks to how happy being with your love makes your heart. 
[Beautiful Crazy by Luke Combs](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rItv9i6c7AY)– Let’s face it, love is sometimes a bit more complicated than a fairy tale. And this song sums it up really well. Yes, we can all get a little crazy sometimes. But the fact that your partner still warms your heart while driving you crazy might make this the perfect song for you.
[The Best Part by Daniel Caesar & H.E.R](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKgl5-lkT8U)– Smooth, heartfelt, stirring, and romantic. Reaching to the depths of our souls, it’s the shameless admission that the love you’re committing to isn’t easy or delicate. It’s as necessary as the air that you breath. And the thing you’re most looking forward to when weathering any storm or just waking up from a beautiful dream.

Father-Daughter Dance Songs
The father-daughter dance is traditionally the second song of the wedding reception. It’s a tender moment that brings the best parts of a father-daughter relationship (closeness, trust, joy, and love) into focus, while also marking an important turning point in the life of each person. 
This dance is often one of the most memorable of any wedding reception, but it can be difficult to pick the right song. It’s important to choose a father-daughter dance song that captures the strong, meaningful emotional ties between a father and daughter without falling into “love song” territory. 
These are three songs we think create the ideal father-daughter dance moment:

[Somewhere Over the Rainbow covered by Israel Kamakawiwoʻole](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1bFr2SWP1I) (aka Bruddah IZ)- This delicate and soaring rendition of the classic song was recorded in one take and the world was never the same. This song is tender, memorable, and one of the most enchanting songs we’ve had the pleasure of hearing.
[Daughters by John Mayer](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZLbUIa7exE)– A nostalgic and beautiful take on the future a bride has in front of her and the role her father has played in making her the person she is. A sweet song without the leaves-an-aftertaste saccharine sweetness of other similar tracks. (We’re looking at you Butterfly Kisses !)
[It Won’t Be Like This for Long by Darius Rucker](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5zCaRaJ-kE)– Capturing the fleeting moments that we wish would last forever, this song comes off as equal parts triumphant and heartfelt. It highlights why 7 out of the 10 most requested father-daughter dance songs are country songs. And we think this is one of the best.

Mother-Son Dance Songs
In Western traditions, the father-daughter dance usually gets the most attention, but this has started to change over the past few years. And we’re happy to see moms are starting to get the attention they deserve!
Millennials are the most likely to call their parents their best friends and this shows in the enthusiasm many grooms have to include a mother-son dance in their wedding reception. However, being excited about it doesn’t mean that grooms know the best song to pick! 
Sometimes grooms let their moms pick the song, which is sweet but may lead to a song that doesn’t fit in well with the overall vibe of the wedding. These songs also tend to be much longer than most grooms would like. One of the top requests we get from our wedding couples is to choose a short mother-son dance to limit how much time a non-dancing groom needs to spend in the spotlight.
And sometimes grooms simply google “mother-son dance songs” and come back with T. Carter’s A Mother’s Song in hand. No offense to T. Carter, but that song shouldn’t be on anyone’s top pick for their mother-son dance!
Choosing a song for the mother-son dance is the ideal time to enlist the help of a knowledgeable wedding DJ, like those at Stylus Weddings. We’ll make sure you pick a song that is full of emotion, in-line with the style of your wedding, and exactly the right length to let your mom know you love and appreciate her without having to go overboard on the dancing. 
Here are three of our top choices for mother-son dances:

[I Loved Him First covered by The Green Rovers](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTLgUrtoTvI)– This song takes a popular father-daughter dance song (Heartland’s I Loved Her First ) and flips it on its head. It’s a heartwarming reminder of the memorable moments between a mother and her son. And we love the hint of traditional Irish sound this Boston-based band brings to the track.
[What a Wonderful World from Louis Armstrong](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqhCQZaH4Vs)– You can’t get more classic than this song. It’s beautiful, tender, familiar, and the perfect length for the mother-son dance (under two and a half minutes). You can’t go wrong with this song!
[Song for Mama by Boyz II Men](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdTnuc3ktzo)– If you’re looking for a more contemporary option, this is a fantastic choice. It’s a memorable statement on the unique relationship between a mother and son with harmonies that are out of this world! It’s longer than most songs we recommend for the mother-son dance, but you’re not locked into the full song. If you love this option but worry about the length, just let us know! We can smoothly fade out at the perfect moment (a couple minutes early) without anyone suspecting a thing.

Group Dance Songs
Group dances are often a point of disagreement at wedding receptions. Some wedding couples love them, some hate them, and some are split down the middle. No matter where you stand on the issue, at Stylus Weddings, we think group dances are a great opportunity for your wedding DJ to create the party you want and deserve!
These three group dance songs never fail to spark a good time or to create very memorable moments:

Copperhead Road by Steve Earle- A country favorite, this group dance may look a little complicated from the outside. But from your wedding guests’ perspective, it’s a stomping good time! It’s a simple four-wall dance with repeating doublets (like the other two songs we recommend here) that makes just about every dancer look like a professional. An interesting note about this group dance song: the dance is done differently depending on what part of the country you’re in. Here in North Carolina, we do it just a little bit differently than our northern neighbors in Virginia. 
Cupid Shuffle by Cupid- The defining group dance of our current generation, this song has been a wedding staple since 2007. Because of its popularity, Cupid Shuffle has made it to the top of the do-not-play list for many wedding couples, but we think it deserves a second thought. There are very few songs that can get everyone up in the room dancing faster than this lively, well-known track. And once your wedding guests are on their feet for this group dance, they’re more likely to stay on their feet dancing throughout the night!
Wobble by V.I.C.- This may be the toughest of the group dances on this list, but it’s still a necessity for most wedding receptions. The song came out in 2008 and quickly made its way onto must-have song lists for weddings around the country. The dance looks impressive, allows a lot of room for personal interpretation and improvisation, and it’s a ton of fun! If you have some great dancers at your wedding reception, there are very few group dances that let them show up and show off like this song. Important note: to avoid angry grandmas, we always play the radio edit of this song at Stylus Weddings’ events.

Simply Great Dance Songs
Having exceptional songs for the unforgettable moments of your wedding reception is absolutely essential, but don’t neglect the moments in between! Most of your wedding reception will be spent socializing and having fun with your new spouse, wedding party, and wedding guests. You need a fantastic soundtrack for every moment! 
Here are some of our top picks for keeping your wedding reception going all night long:

I Wanna Dance with Somebody/We Found Love mix featuring Whitney Houston, and Calvin Harris- Putting these two hits together creates something really special! Your Stylus Weddings DJ starts with the original I Wanna Dance with Somebody and, as the bridge approaches, they drop in the rising line of We Found Love. The combined force of these two power jams paired with the emotional voice of one of the greatest singers of all time is simply unforgettable. What a way to lift up your love and your party!
My Girl by The Temptations- This isn’t just a favorite song or wedding receptions, this is one of Stylus Weddings’ owner and DJ Jason Huggins’ favorite songs of all time! It’s a classic tune that combines Motown, beach music, and so much of what we love about love! It’s a mid-tempo song, which means it’s a good choice for everyone at your wedding reception. It can be danced alone or in the arms of your beloved. Plus everyone can sing along. This is a rare song that has wide appeal across generations and genres. There’s a reason it has remained at the top of so many must-play lists for nearly sixty years! Don’t miss out!
Shut Up & Dance by Walk The Moon- There are few songs that capture the thrill of falling in love on the dancefloor with quite as much raw confidence as this indie-rock turned power pop dance jam. It’s a great opportunity for your guests to shout out, sing along, and celebrate the moment!
Juice by Lizzo- This smooth, confident power girl anthem features the best of classic Minneapolis funk sound with a fresh 21st-century approach. It’s a phenomenal track in its own right and also perfectly suited to mix with Prince’s earlier Minneapolis funk classic, 1999 . Plus, this song can work magic when worked in next to tracks from all kinds of artists, from Kool and the Gang to Doja Cat. Juice brings a flawlessly good vibe that lifts up all the ladies in the room! And we know the fellas can’t resist singing along either! (Don’t pretend you don’t know the words, Kevin.) 
Dancing Queen from Abba- This Swedish pop phenomenon has been experiencing a renaissance since 2008’s Mamma Mia movie. Now, 14 years later, everyone who loved the movies when they were little are flooding the dance floor! This can’t-miss jam gets everyone on the floor, from you and your friends to your parents to older guests as well.

Whatever songs you choose, we can’t wait to build an unforgettable soundtrack for your wedding day! 
Let us know which of these songs are your favorites! Tell us which dance songs you wish had made our list!

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### [Raleigh Wedding DJ Spotlight at Wakefield Barn](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-dj-spotlight-at-wakefield-barn/)

**Published:** January 24, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Blair & Patrick’s Extravagant Wedding at Wakefield Barn Raleigh Couple’s Over The Top Wedding at the Wakefield Barn Real Wedding Spotlight- Raleigh Couple Blair and Patrick As we start a new year, we’re looking back at some of our most memorable weddings from 2021.
 
 Stylus Weddings owner and DJ, Jason Huggins, met Blair while DJing at a club years ago. One night in the club, Blair told Jason that she’d ask him to be her wedding DJ if she ever got married.
And she meant it!
We were so excited to hear that Blair had met her fiance, Patrick! And even more excited to be there for them on their wedding day- especially when things were not going quite as planned!
Like many recent wedding couples, Blair and Patrick were affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. The couple contacted us at Stylus Weddings in January 2020 with their wedding date set for November 2020. We started working with them right away to plan all the details of their big day, but the pandemic had other plans. But by August 2020, it was clear that the pandemic wasn’t going anywhere. And Blair and Patrick made the difficult decision to postpone their wedding day. 
A new wedding date was set for April 30, 2021, but the pandemic showed no signs of stopping, and the couple was forced to make another tough choice. 
They set a new date for July 9, 2021. And what a wedding day it turned out to be! While the pandemic was still far from over, by July of 2021, COVID-19 infection numbers were down and Patrick and Blair decided to go ahead with the wedding. The wedding couple encouraged guests to get vaccinated in plenty of time for the special day. Blair and Patrick took extra precautions- setting up hand sanitizer stations and providing masks for wedding guests. 
The wedding ceremony and reception took place at The Historic Wakefield Barn in Wake Forest, NC. This is a gorgeous venue that’s rich with North Carolina history, exquisite attention to detail, and magnificent views. It was an excellent choice for such a lovely couple!
Blair and Patrick are music lovers who wanted a mix of live music and tracks specially selected for them by our Stylus Weddings team. They didn’t want just any live music, though, they wanted a boy band! And The Historic Wakefield Barn was the perfect venue to feature such a unique wedding experience. 
Boy band, Larger Than Life, came all the way to North Carolina from their home state of New York for the special day!
Blair and Patrick chose a classically styled ceremony that mixed both the old and the new. 
The prelude and wedding party processional featured classical instrumental music, including an instrumental cello and piano cover of Can’t Help Falling in Love for the bride’s entrance. Meanwhile, Stylus Weddings’ Jason Huggins took care of all of the technical details of the ceremony including multiple microphones, other sound equipment, and playlists. 
The ceremony, held in the grand hall upstairs, has a secret back entrance that was blocked by a flower wall. The bride and her father spent a few quiet moments together before smiling, and making the long walk to their friends, family, and- most importantly- Patrick.
The ceremony was performed by Pastor Paul and included the lighting of a unity candle while Holly, a friend of the wedding couple, sang a solo cover of Jasmine Rae’s When I Found You . After their first kiss and introduction as a married couple, The Platters’ With This Ring signaled the start of their recessional 
It was the perfect wedding ceremony for Patrick and Blair!
 So perfect, it’s hard to believe what was happening in the background- a hurricane!
Yes, you read that right. 
At the last minute, a hurricane threatened to postpone their wedding again! 
Luckily, they had the Stylus Weddings team on their side. Jason from Stylus Weddings joined forces with Sarah Skrobioalowski (one of Southern Oak Events’ amazing wedding coordinators) to reconfigure the timeline and adjust the setup to save the day- all while Blair and Patrick enjoyed time together and with their wedding guests.
Following the wedding ceremony, Blair and Patrick joined their guests for a cocktail hour with music coordinated by Stylus Weddings. At the same time, three members of the Stylus Weddings team and the couple’s wedding coordinator were busy transitioning the space used for the wedding ceremony into the space for the wedding reception. While the hurricane was not a part of the original agenda for the day, we made it work!
Even though the weather had interfered with the plan, the Stylus Weddings team was not going to let a little hurricane interfere with a good time!
By the time the wedding party and guests were ready for the reception, the space was ready for them while the storm raged outside. 
The party got started as the wedding party was introduced to loud applause with Pitbull’s Fireball playing in the background. 
The wedding couple chose Montel Jordan’s This is How We Do It for their big entrance- a fun, lively song that showcased the couple’s style. 
Blair and Patrick’s first dance to Dan and Shay’s Speechless set the tone for the first part of the wedding reception, which was full of memorable, emotional moments. Wedding photographer Lindsay Cash and videographer Morgan Scott were there to capture the moment and record all that was yet to come on this special night. 
Blair and her father, Steve, danced to the classic My Girl. And Patrick brought his mom, Candi, to the dance floor with The Perfect Fan by The Backstreet Boys. 
Like many wedding couples, Patrick and Blair were thinking of loved ones who couldn’t share in their big day, but who joined them in spirit. In memory of Blair’s mother Vicki, Dan Kiernan (a member of Larger Than Life), sang a special song that reminded all of us to treasure those we love and appreciate the moments we have with them. 
Following this song, a blessing was given by Blair’s brother-in-law, Jason, and a delectable dinner by Mulino Italian Kitchen was served. 
In the toasts given by Ron (Best Man/Patrick’s dad), Jenna (Matron of Honor/Blair’s sister), and Paul (Bridesman/Friend), it was clear how much love was in the room. 
Once the food was eaten and the toasts were given, Jason from Stylus Weddings, played an upbeat mix of beach tunes, country songs, and Motown. Because the pandemic caused the wedding to be postponed (and a hurricane outside threatened to shut it down), Beyonce’s At Last (You’re Finally Getting Married) was a favorite of the night.
It was a big day for the wedding couple! And it was also a big day for Patrick’s parents who had celebrated their 49th wedding anniversary a day earlier on July 8, 2021. Watching the two of them dance to Roberta Flack’s The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face was a beautiful tribute to their love and marriage. It was also a wonderful way to highlight everyone’s hopes and wishes for Blair and Patrick’s on the first night of their marriage. 
For most couples, that would have been the end to a perfect wedding day. 
 But Patrick and Blair aren’t most couples!
Stylus Weddings DJ, Jason Huggins, slowly faded the music and shifted the lights as the band, Larger Than Life, made their appearance at the upper level, and began making their way down the staircase flanked by cold-spark generators, delivering a stunning grand entrance to start their first live set.
Larger Than Life entertained the crowd while Stylus Weddings staff monitored the on-stage sound for the band and made sure the performance was going as planned as the storm continued outside.

After singing a set of more than twenty songs, Larger Than Life took a well-deserved break and the attention turned back to Blair and Patrick for their cake cutting. The bride and groom chose a lively song that matched their upbeat celebration for this special moment- Earth, Wind, and Fire’s September.
The cake cutting was followed by another round of dynamic dancing led by the DJ stylings of Stylus Weddings’ Jason Huggins that transitioned seamlessly into Larger Than Life’s second set. 
As Larger Than Life soaked up the applause from the wedding guests, DJ Jason Huggins handled all of the transitions to guide the attention back to joining Blair and Patrick on the dance floor. The Stylus Weddings’ team also repositioned the cold sparks to the dancefloor and our guests of honor climbed up top to be flanked by the dynamic FX while their guests cheered them on.
The last DJ set of the night featured a mix of favorites from Miley Cyrus to Dr. Dre to Guns ‘N Roses and more. Finally fading from Jay Z into Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes’ (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life , Patrick and Blair took to the floor for the last dance of the night. 
When the song faded out, the guests were directed to form a grand exit for the wedding couple. Surrounded by friends and family lighting the way with sparklers, Blair and Patrick walked together into their new life as husband and wife.
With pandemic date changes and unexpected weather concerns, Blair and Patrick were certainly met with challenges along the way. But nothing was going to stop this couple from having their dream wedding. It was a day they’ll never forget and just the beginning of their unique and excitement-filled love story. We at Stylus Weddings are honored that Patrick and Blair chose us for their special day!
We’d love to be there for your big day too! Let us know how we can help make your dream wedding a reality!

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### [Unity Ceremony Ideas For Southern Weddings](https://stylusweddings.com/unity-ceremony-ideas-for-southern-weddings/)

**Published:** March 2, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Wedding Unity Ceremony Ideas for North Carolina Brides Wedding Unity Ceremony Ideas for North Carolina Brides Wedding Unity Ceremony Ideas for North Carolina Brides A unity ceremony is an interstitial moment in a wedding ceremony that, along with reading, performances, and formal pledges, can help make your wedding ceremony even more special and unique for you and your guests.
There are lots of ways to incorporate what you’re passionate about and have fun with it too. It can be very traditional, or something new and dynamic, involving just you and your partner, or all of your guests. There’s a multitude of options for any style – Is there something you’re drawn to?
 
Wedding Sand Ceremony – Very popular for Beach Weddings you and your partner each have a container of sand, each container featuring a different color of sand, and then pour them together into a larger container which is often stoppered to prevent unfortunate overturnings. This might also be a great one for blended families since the kids can get their own color too! It’s a great talking point and mantlepiece focal point for generations to come!
Tree Planting -A great way to symbolize how your love will grow and stay strong, couples will plant a small tree in a decorative pot and water it together. Tree types can have lots of different meanings depending on your cultural background, so there’s a great opportunity to really make this tradition unique to you. Plus, in 50 years, your grandkids may look out back to see a giant Oak growing strong and the story of your tree may become part of their idea about what real love looks like.
Tying the Knot – This originally comes from Celtic traditions, it’s literally tying your hands together in a knot that represents the binding commitment of your love.
Anniversary Capsule – A series of letters, written by the newlyweds, to be opened at their 1 year anniversary, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, or beyond! A truly touching time capsule from your younger self to the love of your life to the distant future together.
Burying the Whiskey – A uniquely Southern wedding tradition that I haven’t heard of anywhere else, burying the Whiskey comes from a tradition that says that burying a bottle of bourbon upside down on the site of the wedding ceremony will keep the rain away. That also means you can dig it up at the wedding and have shots!
Candle Lighting – Usually this involves the parents of our newlyweds lighting a candle and the couple using their family candies to light a new central candle representing the new family being established at the ceremony. The fires of love are strong with this one – just remember to be careful and have nicely weighted candle-holders – you can never be too careful with fire, especially with an outdoor (and potentially windy) wedding ceremony.
Releasing Doves – You can find professional white dove release companies across the carolinas and these specially trained doves can be a memorable and poignant expression of how your love helps you take flight. Dove coos can be such a romantic backdrop to your ceremony and the release can drive some truly amazing pictures!
Circling – Originating from Jewish tradition, we’ve seen this happen in a variety of contexts, and it’s a physical representation of how your love and protection surrounds each other. Each partner will circle the other, usually 7 times, and there are lots of ways to play around with this tradition including inviting honored guests to circle around the newlyweds.
Glass Pouring – Similar to a Sand Ceremony – the glass pouring uses small glass beads instead of sand, which means the color will stay vibrant a little longer. It’s also a little easier to clear up if it spills! This is a modern and clean variation that might be perfect for you.
Braiding the Cross – This wedding unity ceremony is a great way to bring your faith front and center and have a unique reminder in your lives every day about the Bible verse, Ecclesiastes 4:12, which says that “though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” Each partner has a strand that represents them, and the third strand represents God and how he’s interwoven in your lives, holding them together. This is perfect for couples who want to emphasize their faith.
Flying Wish Lantern – Chinese lanterns are a gorgeous and stunning element to include in your wedding ceremony. Couples can light the candle and the lantern will rise into the air, sending your love into the heavens and out into the universe. You can choose to do one individually, together, or ask your guests to participate too. Just remember to check local fire codes and regulations before including because we need to very careful with fire – just ask anyone who’s had a ‘gender reveal’ go wrong!
Floating Lantern – A tradition that can provide a great way to get everyone involved and provide some stunning images, if you’re getting married next to a lake or pond this might be a great one to include. The couple, or guests, would light a candle in a floating lantern and place it on the water, sending it out. If all the guests participate, you’re going to have some truly amazing photographs, especially if you’re doing a sunset ceremony! In many ways this is significantly safer than the flying wish lantern, since the water will put out any accidents!
Lasso Ceremony – Originating from spanish influenced cultures including Mexico and the Phillipines, once the vows have been pledged the officiant will wrap a ‘lasso’ of flowers, a braided cord, or a rosary around the bride and groom, knotting it (maybe use a series of knots for the looped infinity symbol), and then removing it at the end of the ceremony. Similar to the hand fasting, it can be a great to way to honor the cultural traditions of your family.
Jumping the Broom – there are some questions about the true origin of this tradition but it has gained popularity in the US when a great many weddings weren’t performed at the church, mostly popular at African American weddings – it’s a longstanding tradition that provides a great series of photos and, perhaps, settle potential marriage questions because, according to tradition, whoever jumps highest gets to make the decisions! Of course, couples realize that decisions should be made together, so we don’t know that anyone should put too much stock in that interpretation unless both partners are willing to wear heels.
Wine/Beer Blend – If you’re passionate about either, this might be the ceremony for you (especially if you’re getting married at a winery or a brewery). Couples will select their own style or varietal, then blend them together to create a new drink – then share it together. If you are interested in doing enough, you can also share with honored guests or everyone! Did you find the unity ceremony idea you were looking to include? Don’t forget, you can create your own and Stylus has lots of great options for you if you’re still on the fence but want to include something really special. Reach out to us today at [919-346-4669](tel:+19193464669) or visit the [CONTACT US](/contact/ "Contact") form.

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### [Cary Wedding DJ Photo Booth and Lighting at the Matthews House](https://stylusweddings.com/cary-wedding-dj-photo-booth-and-lighting-at-the-matthews-house/)

**Published:** March 4, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Cary Wedding DJ Ceremony, Reception, Photo Booth, Lighting, and more! Cary Wedding DJ Photo Booth & Lighting A Real Cary Wedding – feat. DJ Ceremony, Reception, Photo Booth, and Lighting Adam & Olivia’s Late Winter Wedding at The Matthews House in Cary North Carolina

Adam & Olivia got married this past weekend – and their wedding was full of magical moments, ecstatic joy, and a few surprises that made guests say this was the best wedding they’ve ever been to.
Our newlyweds met online two years ago and, according to Olivia, it was “Love at first swipe.” Their first date was to a local brewery and the conversation was even headier than the brews. Olivia likes to say that Adam fell in love with her French bulldog, Luna, first, but Adam knew he was going to marry our eponymous bride before the date had reached its second, third, or fourth hour.
He proposed on her birthday, somehow managing to keep it a secret despite having her friends and family involved! She’d thought it might be coming, since all her friends were getting engaged, but he’d kept it secret until she’d convinced herself it wasn’t happening any time soon. “I thought I was going crazy!” she confessed.
Once they got engaged, the hard work of planning a wedding got under way. First steps included finding the perfect venue and securing their date. It wasn’t until after checking out venues across the Triangle that they found and fell in love with Cary wedding venue The Matthews House .
The Matthews house is a local favorite for couples planning events from 15-200. If that seems like a huge discrepancy, it would help to know that couples get access to not just the gorgeous reception hall in the back, but they also get the Victorian glory of the historic home, including its parlors and dining rooms. They also provide most of a couples needs, including tables, chairs, and linens. With Southern Harvest Wedding Catering as the on-site caterer as well – couples get to have a gorgeous event and a gourmet meal.
They put together an all-star team as they built their event, and it was full of amazing surprises and unmitigated joy throughout.
They’d initally reached out to Stylus wedding DJs after meeting us at a bridal show in March of 2021. Back then, the question of whether or not they’d be able to hold their event, even 11 months later, wasn’t clear. It just so happened that their wedding was on the first weekend that local mask mandates were dropped and people were excited and enthusiastic to participate – especially after nearly two years of safety precautions!
They’d chosen Raleigh wedding photographer K. Star’s Photography to document their day – and what a great choice it was for this young couple who loved her bright and romantic style and easy professionalism.
The final piece that set the stage for their surprising and delightful ceremony was Raleigh Interfaith Wedding Officiant Ann McKenzie . This ceremony featured so many surprising elements that allowed the couple, their friends and family (and Ann’s storytelling, and the way she gets to know her couples) to be on full display.
Just wait til you hear about what happened… The Wedding Ceremony – an in-depth review It was an outdoor ceremony in late February so the couple made the choice to provide custom fleece blankets at every other chair, allowing guests to share the blankets if they needed and to take them with them as a great memento of the day’s events.
As guests were seated to a custom playlist of soft acoustic guitar favorites for the prelude, we put a lapel microphone on the groom, Adam, and an over-ear microphone for our officiant Ann Mckenzie. While we didn’t have any readers during the ceremony, we did prepare two additional handheld microphones as a back-up – just in case someone got added last minute or, in case of extreme sunspot activity, as audio reinforcement.
We also had two subwoofers for the ceremony – and you’re about to find out why.
The ceremony began with the Seating of the Parents, for which we played the Vitamin String Orchestra string quartet version of “Wouldn’t It Be Nice” by the Beach Boys. As Grandma Jean, and the honored parents and family members took their seats, we gently faded the music down and left a momentary pause to puncturate what came next…
The moment the first plucked strings of Dr. Dre’s “Still Dre” instrumental stirred, everyone started looking around with wide eyes just to make sure they weren’t the only ones hearing it. Then, the bass hit, and the reason for the subwoofers became as clear as the notes themsevles. The groom and his groomsmen, dressed to the nines, paraded in to the rolling sub-bass and perfectly balanced instrumental. They took their places up front to wide smiles and knowing glances.
Next, it was our bridal party’s turn. The bridesmaids came in to an instrumental of Usher’s “Yeah” and the party vibe for the ceremony was in full swing, even as we had to seamlessly loop the instrumental to make sure the music would cover the whole bridal party, since they were walking in individually and there were so many women who wanted to be part of this special day! Trailing behind the bridesmaids in his most adorable finery was their 3 year-old nephew as the ringbearer who delighted guests with his dapper dance down the aisle.
No one was ready for what happened next. The couple wanted to set the scene so the song they picked for who came down the aisle, Adam’s best man, was perfect. Billy Squier’s “Stroke” began one of the most memorable moments of the reception as the Flower Dude confidently strutted to the back, then threw open his jacket to reveal a fanny pack/belt bag full of flower petals. All credit to his preparation, because he looked liked like a brawny construction worker ice dancer as he gracefully peppered petals from his outstretched hands to delighted guests, then promenaded one row up to drop it down, with surprising skill, almost as though he’d eith taken the care to practice just how to make the most of this raucus and hilarious entry, or he was just naturally that flexible, athletic, and – dare we say – sassy. Grandma Jean wasn’t even trying to hide her laughter as she clapped and cheered with the rest of the guests as our Flower Dude made the most of his time on the runway.
Once he took his place up front – Ann Mckenzie asked the guests to stand as the instrumental for One Direction’s ‘Olivia’ set the stage for our beautiful bride’s entrance from the front of the Victorian glory and Southern finishes of the Matthews House, escorted by her dignified father performing a duty that was very clearly one of deep pride and profound joy. Her wedding dress was expertly chosen to reveal both her fun loving character and her unique personal style – all emphasizing the distinguished beauty a wedding dress can capture. With all of that said – the most radiant part of the entire procession was her smile, and the look on Adam’s face as he watched her approach.
Once they’d reached the front, Ann Mckenzie regaled guests with the love story of our newlyweds and her storytelling was on full display. It was clear that she’d taken the time to identify what they loved about each other – and it helped make their ‘I do’ moments even more poignant.
During the ceremony, they decided to include a wedding tree planting. An opportunity to grow more than a marriage, it’s a unique way to include a great Unity Ceremony (Click HERE for more unity ceremony ideas). Since the TV show Jeopardy is a big part of what they enjoy together (ask anyone who knows them – they’re really passionate about it)- they decided to include the Jeopardy “Think Music’ theme as they made their way over before Ann McKenzie started explaining the meaning behind it.
Once they’d made their way back, they said their vows, and as they were pronounced husband and wife and introduced as the newly-minted Mr. & Mrs, they kicked off the celebration with Lil Nas X’s “That’s What I Want” (the edited version). As our newlyweds headed off for photos with K. Star’s Photography, the guests headed over for cocktails and socializing under the portico and in the courtyard which The Matthews House had decorated and added lawn games for guests to enjoy.
The reception followed, and Stylus has prepared a number of elements to make sure everyone had a great time, including elegant uplighting, a custom GOBO (monogram in light), a gorgeous all-white DJ set-up, and a Rustic Wedding Photo Booth – you can view the review video to see how it went 🙂

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### [Raleigh Corporate Entertainment - Fashion Show DJ at Triangle Town Center for Saks Fifth Avenue](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-corporate-entertainment-fashion-show-dj-at-triangle-town-center-for-saks-fifth-avenue/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Raleigh Corporate Entertainment – Fashion Show DJ at Triangle Town Center for Saks Fifth Avenue Raleigh Corporate Event DJ at Saks Fifth Avenue Fashion Show Raleigh Corporate Event DJ for Saks Fifth Avenue Fashion Show We love doing lots of different types of events because there’s always something that makes each event unique and special. For this particular event at Saks Fifth Avenue in Triangle Town Center in Raleigh, they were premiering their new line of clothing for the summer and wanted to make sure that each of the staff knew what the new menswear line was capable of – so their amazing salesperson Veronica had a great idea – let’s do a Fashion Show!
 Luckily, when she asked if anyone knew a great DJ who could help her pull this off multiple people immediately told her “You have to call Stylus!”
 We had a limited window of opportunity to get in, get set up, and get the party rocking so we needed to make sure we had everything she needed ready to go because this fashion show was for employees only and had to be wrapped up before the door opened for guests.
 We went with a clean white set-up and a smaller sound system that would reflect her style preferences but give us enough boom to fill the space appropriately and balance her MC/Mic needs to a staff that was going to be arranged down the ‘runway’.

 Veronica is the perfect person to head up Saks Fifth Avenue’s menswear department because she’s incredibly fun to be around, stylish, and knows how to make an impression. When she asked some of her team to participate they knew they’d be in great hands because she knew how to dress them for maximum impact.
 There were multiple lines of clothing she wanted to highlight: streetwear, active wear, and formal, and the fellow Saks Fifth Avenue staff threw themselves into their role as models and fashion icons.
 To make it even better, Veronica and I had worked out some rough soundtracks to fit the vibe of each series, with a combination of uptempo lounge, derezzed hip hop beats, and club dance tracks. With lots of little asides that allowed us to get their staff hyped while informing them about the best ways to help incoming menswear clients to find their best looks.
 Songs included:
 Feeling Good – Nina Simone
 Dance Crip – Trueno
 Vente Pa’ca – Ricky Martin
 Can’t Hold Us – Macklemore
 Respect – Aretha Franklin
 and a few additions by us to fit their vibe by artists like the Isley Bros, Grammatik, Dave Nada, Medusza, Fat Rat, Claude Von Stroke, UZ, J Balvin, and LTJ Bukem as well as Raleigh’s own legendary DJ Severe.

 While a lot of corporate events in Raleigh, Durham, and the rest of the Triangle can be large and very production heavy – others can be more targeted to make sure that you’re achieving very specific goals.
 This is was the second year we’ve done this and we can’t wait to help make the next fashion show even more amazing. The store manager wanted to know what else we could help with and I started showing her some of the photos from our larger events and it was very clear the creativity and passion of the Saks Fifth Avenue store isn’t limited to their floor staff.
 Of course, the best part is the great feedback we get, and Veronica didn’t hesitate to give me a huge hug and thank us for all our hard work. “This was perfect! As always!”
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### [Durham Wedding Ceremony & Reception At Motorco Music Hall](https://stylusweddings.com/durham-wedding-ceremony-reception-at-motorco-music-hall/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Durham Wedding Ceremony & Reception At Motorco Music Hall for a Creative and Musical Couple Durham Wedding DJ Cermony & Reception at Motorco Music Hall Durham Wedding DJ Cermony & Reception at Motorco Music Hall with A Creative Couple who Loves Music & Travel! “LET’S GET WEIRD!”

There are some weddings where we get to share a lot about the event and others, like this one, where non-disclosure agreements and party behavior might prevent us from sharing too many pictures. You know it’s going to be something truly memorable.
Suffice to say, that this was an absolute honor to be invited to perform for this couple and their assembled friends and family.
Taking place at Motorco in Durham, this venue is well known for it’s kickass shows and dive-bar flair. It’s the perfect place to cut loose, celebrate, and bring a unique vibe to an event like a wedding that, for some people, can feel a bit stodgy.
This couple, Mark & Kate, was anything but traditional, stuck-up, stodgy, or too focused on the forest to see the trees. They did their wedding the way they do their life – freewheeling and powerful (and well organized!)
Kate is an educator, podcaster, and creative artist, and Mark is a scene-defining DJ whose exploits on the decks have earned him praise across the Carolinas and beyond.
Their guest list included a veritable who’s who of certain scenes (bass heads, we’re looking at you) and the number of DJs in attendance might have spooked a great many DJs. But you know who wasn’t spooked, intimidated, or walking away from an opportunity to shine? Stylus.
Playing to discriminating listeners is what we’re here for. That’s why we DJ for so many DJs. When a DJ gets married, pay close attention to who they’re brining in – it says a lot about what they’re going for. DJs and audiophiles will take the sound equipment, presentation, and energy of the performance to heart where a great many people might not even know how to bridge the conversation.
Luckily, with Stylus, they never have to worry.
The day began by setting up the equipment. You’ll notice that we’ve got two subs and two tops resting on the stage, low, so that they’re not interfering with the ceremony pictures or giving us feedback. Normally you don’t want the speakers BEHIND the microhones but we had everything dailed in and there was no danger of a messy ceremony.

Yes, that’s Raleigh Photographer Dave Severance climbing the ramp (and there’s a ramp!!!)
The groom was a little nervous before the cermony but I was there to make sure he was calm and ready to go before he went out to let the women he loves more than anything else in the world seal her fate to his. This is one of my favorite groom’s pictures in a hot minute, it says so much about his personality.

Finally, it was time to get married!

Once they’d made their vows, it was time for photos with Dave Severance Photography and their guests started making sure the bar knew they were there. The amazing staff at Motorco Music Hall was phenomenal to work with. They bent over backwards to make sure the couple and their guests were happy. I hope we get to do a lot more shows at this venue.
Here’s one group of people I was allowed to take a photo with. That’s our very own Wedding DJ Concierge Robyn (AKA Bass Bunny) over on the left and the inimitable DJ Shatta and his lovely wife (also a Stylus couple from almost 6 years ago!)

I can’t show you much about the event but here’s a flavor of their flavor:
 
GUYDRA SPORKILL THE NOISEFEED ME (ALTER GENRE)ZARDONIC (NOT FOR EVERYONE)ALWAYS LOVE PENDULUMUK SHIT – REALLY DARK/ HEAVY AND SOME FUN UPBEAT PENDULUM and CALYX & TEEBEEDarkness I Believe In A Thing Called Love Led Zeppelin Thank You Lizzo Good As Hell Outkast Hey Ya! Run-D.M.C. It’s Tricky ‘N Sync It’s Gonna Be Me Aqua Lollipop (Candyman) Backstreet Boys I Want It That Way Bonnie Tyler Total Eclipse Of The Heart Britney Spears Oops!…I Did It Again Capital Cities Safe And Sound Carly Rae Jepsen Call Me Maybe Cascada Everytime We Touch Chumbawamba Tubthumping Cobra Starship Feat. Sabi You Make Me Feel… Cure Friday I’m In Love Daft Punk Feat. Pharrell Williams Get Lucky Frankie Valli Can’t Take My Eyes Off You Harry Belafonte Jump In Line (Shake, Shake Senora) Immortals Mortal Kombat Jimmy Buffett Margaritaville Junior Senior Move Your Feet Los Del Rio Macarena Luis Fonsi & Daddy Yankee Feat. Justin Bieber Despacito O-Zone Dragostea Din Tei One Direction What Makes You Beautiful Post Malone & Swae Lee Sunflower Queen Crazy Little Thing Called Love Rednex Cotton Eye Joe Reel 2 Real I Like To Move It Saweetie f./Doja Cat Best Friend V.I.C. Wobble Vengaboys We Like To Party! Walk The Moon Shut Up And Dance Whitney Houston I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me) BER The Night Begins to Shine Craig Armstrong Glasgow Love ThemeEstelle Stronger than You Lynyrd Skynyrd Simple Man acousticNoisestorm Crab Rave Paul Canning You’re My Best Friend
 
Finally, just to give you a sense of just how fun-loving the couple really is. Here’s a photo I can share about their last dance:..

We had a great time at Motorco and can’t wait to celebrate there again soon. If you’re getting married in Durham NC, we’d love to help!
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### [Raleigh Corporate Event at the Angus Barn Pavilion](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-corporate-event-at-the-angus-barn-pavilion/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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Raleigh Corporate Event Awards Ceremony at the Angus Barn with Classical, Modern Art, and Heavy Production Vibes Raleigh Corporate Event Awards Ceremony DJ at the Angus Barn – Art Gallery & Museum Theme Raleigh Corporate Event Awards Ceremony DJ at the Angus Barn – Art Gallery & Museum Theme with Live Dancers, Modern Performances, and Awards for the Superstars! Corporate Events, whether it’s in Raleigh, Wilmington, Durham, Charlotte, Greensboro, Winston-Salem, Highlands, or Manteo are often going to fall into one of two categories: Either they’re trying to keep the budget very small because they’re just getting started and they’re still testing the waters or they want to show off just how much they value their team and they’re looking for ways to make the experience memorable and top the previous year.
Each and every corporate meeting planner has the same goal as almost every bride or groom planning their wedding day – MAKE ME LOOK GREAT AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE SAYS THIS WAS THE BEST ONE THEY’VE BEEN TO!
That’s where we come in. While the set-up for the event involved nearly 56 man hours (between 10-4) and the teardown took another 24 man hours over a 2 hour period, you’ll agree that it was well-worth the effort.
When we first started working with this company back in 2013, it was a much simpler affair. Every year since then, they’ve come to us with more ideas, asked us for suggestions on how we could help them take it to the next level, and developed amazing plans that have radically transformed what was once a simple ‘thank you’ dinner with a few recognitions into a can’t miss annual event that showcases the best of the team and the company they’re loyal to.
It’s a relationship that’s built on trust, namely that their planners can come to Stylus and they trust that we’ll over-deliver for them on every front.

That leads us to this event – where we were able to pull everything together for them in a matter of weeks after several months of not being sure if the pandemic restriction were going to impact their 2022 plans the same way they’d impacted their 2020 and 2021 plans.
Their event lead, Diane, has long been with the company although this was her first year running this program so she was understandably nervous and made it very clear what she needed from us:
“You know more about this than I do, but I know what I want, so let’s make it great!”
She had a lot of great ideas and we were able to provide a lot of great solutions. There are a lot of challenges with an event like this and we were able to accommodate every request and help dial in the exact vibe and tone she was going for to make sure that her higher-ups remembered this event as an example of her professionalism, leadership, creativity, and follow-through. We had to knock this one out of the park because, if you’ve ever met Diane, you’d know she’s an unstoppable force of awesome!
The key elements we needed to take into account were defined by the size and dimensions of the Angus Barn Pavilion, a gorgeous facility built on the site of the world-famous steakhouse from reclaimed Atlanta antebellum rafters that somehow survived Sherman’s March to the Sea. The challenges presented by the venue dictated that we’d need to use LED Panel Screens to achieve the stage effect rather than projectors (there wasn’t enough room behind the stage for the projectors). Even though it was slighly more expensive than doing projectors and screens, the effect was certainly better and it was the only way to achieve their goals given our space limitations.
Diane was also going for a Museum and Gallery Vibe. We were able to accomplish this in a few different ways. We incorporated a lot of classical elements which, when lighted correctly, gave them exactly the kind of stylish classical vibe they were excited about. We included corinthian columns, large urns with modern boho elements, clear plexiglass podium/lectern, and a few pieces of statuary to complete the look. Since there were several people named David on the stage, we made sure that the bust of Michaelangelo’s David was an accesory, not competition.

Outside for cocktail hour we created a modern art gallery of five distinct exhibits by combining decor elements to create unique art fixtures. We also featured living art exchibits from Elevate, including their live body painter and a pair of signature ballet dancers out front as guests arrived for the red carpet. We also had a Selfie Frame for guests to make themselves part of the exhibit!

Since the body painting experience was going to be in the gallery, we wanted to make sure we had the proper backdrop since we knew so many people were going to be taking pictures, so we incorporated some Corinthian columns in a bronze color to compliment the boxwood hedge wall backdrop.
The main event started with a quick welcome and few words from the CEO and CSO before guests enjoyed the delicious dinner provided by the Angus Barn’s truly world-class staff.
After dinner, the awards program began.

For most guests, they don’t realize that an awards program like this involves hundreds of pages of notes and pre-planning that we have to take into account. Each and every award needs to be accounted for both on the music side and the production side. The stage has to be lit correctly, the video displays need to be completely synced, and the exact flow is rehearsed well in advance. This takes a massive amount of time on both Diane’s end and ours as well to make sure that, for the guests, everything seems smooth and flawless.

With a corporate awards ceremony of this magnitude, featuring nearly 200 awards across scores of categories, we need to be efficient, effective, on point, and on message each and every time.
The combination of lighting, video, music, and MC abilities propelled this event to success with team members telling Diane this was the best awards ceremony they’d ever been to!

We are honored to be such a trusted resource for our Corporate Event partners and love working with the amazing staff at the Angus Barn.

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### [Raleigh Bnai Mitzvah Simcha Party DJ Photo Booth & Lighting](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-bnai-mitzvah-simcha-party-dj-photo-booth-lighting/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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#### Raleigh Bar Bat Bnai Mitzvah Simcha Celebration at Whittaker & Atlantic – DJ, PHOTO BOOTH, LIGHTING, AND CUSTOM GOBO WITH DJ LESSONS FOR OUR YOUNG VIPS! 

## WE WANT IT TO BE LIKE COACHELLA!

Raleigh has a lot of truly outstanding event venues for all types of events. There are some key elements to keep in mind about how to select your venue but let’s just say that the family planning their Bnai Mitzvah for their triplets couldn’t have picked a better spot for their vision, vibe, and crowd size than Whittaker and Atlantic in near north Raleigh. It’s a truly unique location that allowed them to get creative and enhance all their excitement.
For starters, Kathleen at Whittaker & Atlantic is just a treasure, and we felt so lucky that we were working with her as our partner for this event.
This family originally found us when they were looking for DJ Lessons for their son Zev, who wanted to throw some tracks at his party. Since we teach DJ lessons to kids across the Triangle, we knew we’d be able to get him ready in no time at all.
Once we started talking with Jay & Eva, they knew we were going to be a great fit. They wanted to GO BIG. Jay said, “We want it to be like Coachella!” They wanted big effects, massive impact, and immactulate party vibes!
That just so happens to our party speciality!
The event developed over several months and included mulitple planning meetings, lots of phone calls, and lots of input from their triplets who each had their own style and wanted to make sure we accommodated not just their tastes, but their friends and the family as well.

Some of the key elements they finalized were:
Large Sound System to make sure they got the BOOM they wanted
Indoor Cold Sparks
DJ Lessons for Their 12 Year Old
Photo Booth with a Custom Balloon Backdrop on the Wall
Custom GOBO in two different locations throughout the night
Sound and Microphones for their Bnai Mitzvah Ceremony & Lessons
Dynamic Color Changing Uplighting to Enhance their Party Vibe
Custom Facade for the ceremony & the All-White DJ Set-up with Totems and Dancefloor Lighting

It took a fair amount of time to get everything set up but we were ready long before the first family and friends started showing up.
For those unfamiliar with what a Bar (son) Bat (daughter) or Bnai (children) Mitzvah is it literally means Son or Daughter or Children of the Commandments. It’s the public ceremony confirming the child(ren) have studied their religious lessons and are committing follow the biblical commandments. It’s a very public vow and a huge moment of pride for everyone they love. In previous eras, it was also part of the journey to adulthood, and after the age of 13 those who passed their Bar/Bat Mitzvah were considered ready to actively participate in their community as adults.
Getting here takes a lot of time and months if not years of dedicated study with the guests of honor and their spiritual leader (in this case, Rabbi Jason).
This particular ceremony involved a whole host of people speaking (there were 3 VIPs!) so we needed to make sure we had hands-free over-ear microphones for each of our main presenters, the triplets and their Rabbi. We also had handheld microphones as back-ups and additional readers.

For the uplighting elements, we made sure to dial in colors that would match the color scheme chosen for elements like florals, table linens, and the overall vibe of the venue they’d selected. The GOBO initially went along the middle of the back wall but shifted to the other wall once the party got started (that’s where I took that AMAZING photo of the three VIPs under the GOBO).
The ceremony ended and guests made their way outside to enjoy the PHOTO BOOTH with their CUSTOM BALLOON BACKDROP as well as appetizers and drinks while the staff at Whittaker & Atlantic flipped the room to preapre for the Simcha (celebration) reception.

Because of the nature of the event, the crowd size doubled during social hour as some of their friends weren’t able to attend the ceremony. We were ready for them though and the PHOTO BOOTH was a huge hit. They were going through repeatedly with different groups of friends, trying out different props, and having a great time showing off outside of school!
After getting all our guests inside and seated I went to chat with our guests of honor about their Grand Entrance and make sure everyone knew where to stand and what to do before we really got going. Once they came in the ENERGY was THROUGH THE ROOF!
One of my favorite parts was their younger brother, who was only 7, got up and gave one of the best toasts I’ve ever seen. It was so good I asked for a copy! Here are a few of the standouts:
He opened with ‘Sisterhood – the world’s oldest cult. No one worries about equality more than the 4 siblings when there is only one ice cream sandwich left in the freezer. Having a big sister is knowing your darkest secrets will always be kept – for a price. Older siblings are likey our parents’ personal science fair – they’re a bunch of experiements. I wouldn’t trade my siblings for the world – I don’t have anywere to put it!”
Other great lines included: “I’m really lucky that I get three siblings to love me, accept me, and sticup up for me. I woulnd not change my life for anything but to wish we were a set of quadruplets instead of triplets plus one.”
“I know this event is not about me, but like with everything in our lives, it sort of is. I mean, you’re all just coming to this to make sure you get an invite to mine in a few years. I like to the think of the tirplets as an appetizer to my main course.”
They also includes some life lesson they’d learned: “Never let an angry sister comb your hair.”
After the speeches it was time for dinner which included a buffet and three VIP specific stations featuring their favorite foods: a mac & cheese bar, a slider station, and a potato bar.
Then it was time for a very special video put together by their father, Jay, that had everyone in tears and after that, to open the dancefloor.
While much of the music during dinner featured selections from Beach Bunny, The Living Tombstone, and a lot of indie & video game themed tunes, the party itself was a raucous affair that was almost impossible to conceive of – it was almost like three separate parties were happening at the same place at the same time! Each of our VIPs had their friends and their guest list and they were all thrilled to be hanging out with each other.
By the time we got to the Chair Raising Hora we were in full force and we kept the party going until we wrapped up several hours later by playing their requests and using our DJ skills to dial in what we knew was going to bring everyone together.
Although he was a little anxious at first, Zev mustered up the confidence to start throwing tracks and absolutely crushed it! Those DJ lessons really got him ready!

At the end of the event the family was thrilled. Jay & Eva came and had hugs and praise for how we ran their event and kept everyone dancing all night. They said the kids loved the photo booth too and even wanted the photos we’d taken because they turned out so great.
As we were packing up Kathleen came over. This was only the second time we’d ever worked together but she said, “You are amazing. You’re the best DJ we’ve ever seen out here. I’m going to have to stop doing my recommended vendor list alphabetically!” That’s high praise indeed!
We’re so lucky to be able to help families in Raleigh, North Carolina, and beyond celebrate their Bar Mitvah, Bat Mitzvah, and Bnai Mitzvah experiences – we love getting families and friends together to have a great time!
Please let us know if we can help at all so you can be as thrilled as Jay, Eva, and the Triplets (plus one) were!

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### [New Raleigh Wedding Venue - Heights House Special Sneak Peek](https://stylusweddings.com/new-raleigh-wedding-venue-heights-house-special-sneak-peek/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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New Raleigh Wedding Venue – Heights House Raleigh Sneak Peek with Stylus New Raleigh Wedding Venue Heights House Wedding DJ Sneak Peak Tour New Raleigh Wedding Venue Heights House DJ Sneak Peak First Look Tour
We had the chance to do a behind the scenes tour of the newly completed Heights House, a wedding and event venue and hotel located in Boylan Heights in Downtown Raleigh. It’s gorgeously rebuilt and the history behind it is almost as impressive as what it took to bring it back to live.
We were given special access by the owners who’ve spent years remodeling this property, bringing it up to code, and restoring it’s character. The number of challenges were truly mind-boggling, especially considering that just a few years ago, this property was abandoned and decaying!
Originally built as Montfort Hall for William Boylan (who owned all the land that Boylan Heights takes its name from) in 1858, This Italianate masterpiece was one of the few mansions to survive the Civil War in Raleigh.
Let’s take a quick look:

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 History
William Montfort Boylan, known as “Buck,” was the youngest son of prominent Raleigh businessman, William Boylan. The younger Boylan was born in the former home of Joel Lane after his father purchased the Wakefield Plantation in 1818. In addition to Wakefield, the senior Boylan owned plantations in neighboring Johnston and Chatham counties and in Mississippi, making him one of the wealthiest men in North Carolina. In 1855 Boylan deeded his son William 100 acres (0.40 km2) of Wakefield land.
William Montfort Boylan chose William Percival to design his home in 1858. In addition to designing Montfort Hall, some of Percival’s work included renovations to the State Capitol and designing the New East and New West dormitories at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill. William Montfort Boylan died in 1899. In 1907 the former plantation land around Montfort Hall was sold and subdivided as Boylan Heights, one of Raleigh’s first planned suburban neighborhoods. Since then, Montfort Hall has passed through a succession of owners, but the building still retains much of its original character. \[5\]
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Montfort Hall was bought in June, 2018 by Jeff and Sarah Shepherd. Keith Shepherd and Natalia Luckyanova, founders of Imangi Studios, helped to fund the project.

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The Hotel also won the award of one of the top 100 best new hotels in the world! Check this out!
 https://www.visitraleigh.com/plan-a-trip/visitraleigh-insider-blog/post/raleighs-heights-house-hotel-named-among-worlds-best-new-hotels/
And, the Visit Raleigh website feature about the Heights House also says this about the Hotel: “The house has nine large en-suite guest rooms, sleeping up to 20 guests. In total, the house is ~10,000 square feet, with 15-foot ceilings, original hardwoods, large pocket doors, 10 fireplaces and grand common spaces including a library and parlor. It has been meticulously and thoughtfully redesigned, highlighting the authenticity of the original architecture while incorporating modern and vintage touches. ”
Here’s your sneak peak:

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 AND MY FAVORITE LITTLE DETAIL: LOOK AT THE TOP OF THE COLUMNS… SQUIRRELS!

It was an outstanding opportunity for us to get to understand the best ways to help couples have their wedding ceremony, reception, or private party at this historic and newly renovated Raleigh Wedding Venue. We know their preferences, best load-in procedures, and how to help couples make the most of their time at this amazing property. We look forward to being your DJs of choice at the Heights House in Raleigh North Carolina!

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### [Wedding DJ & Photo Booth at the Highgrove in Fuquay-Varina](https://stylusweddings.com/carolina-wedding-dj-photo-booth-at-the-highgrove-in-fuquay-varina/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
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Carolina Couple Wedding DJ & Photo Booth at the Highgrove in Fuquay-Varina Raleigh Wedding DJ Photo Booth Lighting at the Highgrove Estate Fuquay Varina North Carolina Raleigh Couple’s Wedding DJ Photo Booth Lighting and Outdoor Ceremony at the Highgrove Estate Fuquay Varina North Carolina
While we’ve done many events at the Highgrove over many years (since it was a tent in fact!), we don’t find ourselves out there too much these days. There are a number of factors at play including the fact that couples often don’t think about their entertainment until well into their process (aka after they accidentally blew a big chunk of their budget on things they didn’t mean to prioritize) and Stylus, while very affordable for many price ranges, isn’t the cheapest DJ in Fuquay-Varina, Apex, Holly Springs, Clayton, or even in Raleigh or Durham, NC.
While we value high-quality equipment, top-tier professional event experts, emergency back-ups, club-resident quality DJs, and an involved and extremely customizable planning process, there are lots of ways to cut corners that I’m just not comfortable delivering to clients. I’ll take my chances that couples value the same level of quality and standards that we have at Stylus.
With that being said, after performing at the Highgrove for so many years it’s always special to be back in a place that’s you’ve spent so much time in.
Because we know it so well, we are able to do some really remarkable things in that space, including dailing in all the sound and lighting and knowing exactly what we can get away with in that space.
This particular couple, Erika & Mike, were lucky enough to book us early last year, which meant they weren’t scrambling last minute for someone to #saveyourwedding. We worked with them to create the atmosphere, style, and vibe that would transform the event into THEIR event.
That’s usually one of the great unsung challenges that couples can face, making any given venue feel like it’s THEIR wedding instead of just A wedding. And they did a fantastic job with Florals by Fuquay-Varina Florist Expressions of Love and a combination of decor and lighting from Stylus. Photography was by Rosy Shell Photography’s Rishelle.
They began their event with their Wedding Ceremony and it was one of the first times in a long time where guests were all in place before the ceremony began. Often you’ll see a few people straggling in if they had trouble finding a venue or if they’d gotten caught in traffic (or just delayed getting ready).
Many people don’t realize how organized we have to be in order to deliver a great wedding ceremony experience. It’s not just the songs for special moments (seating of the parents, bridesmaids entrance, groom or bridal processional), but it’s also all the microphones and timing cues that have to work in concert with the coordinator, officiant, and photographers and videographers. And let me tell you how hard it can be to put a bunch of microphones on or in the hands of people who don’t normally use them. We have to do some ninjitsu coaching when we can to help get the best possible sound.

Luckily, they were working with Angela who is a master at making great events work seamlessly at the Highgrove.
Here’s a brief look at our planning forms for the day and the additonal notes that get added because details often change last minute. We have to be on our toes!

 The ceremony was absolutely beautiful on that day, thanks in no small part to the choices the couple made on their dresses and suits, layout, location, vendors, and blessed luck with the weather! Pastor David Pratt was a pleasure to work with!

 Their Ceremony Music included:
 Prelude Music: Classical, popular instrumental love songs

Seating of the PARENTS: CAN’T HELP FALLING IN LOVE by Alan Ng

Groom/Officiant Entrance Song: ALL THE SMALL THINGS – VITAMIN STRING QUARTET

Bridesmaids Song: YOU ARE THE REASON by Daniel Jang

Bridal Song: THOUSAND YEARS by The Piano Guys

Speakers/Readings: 2 readings / verses

Unity Ceremony: CANDLE LIGHTING – THE BLESSING by Cody Carnes, Elevation Music, Kari Jobe Recessional: A SKY FULL OF STARS by Coldplay
After the ceremony – everyone moved over to cocktail hour on the patio. One of the great things about the Highgrove is the bar on the patio, but it can present a unique challenge to overcome for certain events when guests have to leave the main reception hall to get a drink. Luckily, we know exactly how to manage it so everyone has a great time.
Erika & Mike also included a photo booth as part of their wedding entertainment package. We always take test photos to make sure the design is approved before the booth opens. We were actually able to accommodate guests wanting to do the photo booth three hours sooner than expected because we had set everything up so early.
Here’s a quick look at test print with me and my assistant Josh:

Couples can choose their layout, colors, design elements, number of pictures, backdrop, and so much more. We’ve done everything to make sure that when you get your photo booth with Stylus, you get way more than you were expecting!
The Reception began with energy and excitement as we introduced some of their key family and friends. We recognized their grandparents and parents from their seats (recommended in many cases) before bringing in the bridal party to Avicci’s song Le7els.
After the newly minted Mr. and Mrs. came in to Blink 182’s First Date they shared their first dance to Calum Scott’s song Biblical.
While some couples want to cut their first dance short, this couple spent the entire song just being in love and it was wonderful!
After a heartfelt welcome by the Father of the bride (whom we’ve been in contact with for nearly four months to make sure that his special surprise is ready) and a blessing by Pastor Pratt, the Highgrove’s crack team of catering staff delivered a bounty of delicousness from their in-house catering excellence.
After a dinner hour of delicous food and tunes by Elvis, Adele, Tony Bennet, Ed Sheeran, James Taylor, Ella Fitzgerald, and many hothers, it was time for toasts, cake, parent dances, and partying!

 Cake Song 1: Four Tops – I CAN’T HELP MYSELF (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch)

Cake Song 2: Archies – SUGAR SUGAR
Their Parent Dances were definitely unique. The father of the bride had reached out to us in 2021 to make sure that we could help him achieve his goal of a very special gift for his daughter on her wedding day. While she’d originally chosen the theme from Pinocchio (When You Wish Upon A Star by Cliff Edwards) he wanted to surprise her by recording “I Loved Her First” by Heartland.
Now, let me tell you how much time went into this:
First, we had to explain all his recording options since he was in Orlando, Florida and had no history or background with any type of audio. He eventually decided he was going to record it on his phone but when he sent us the file, his vocal elements were so off from not using a click track that we couldn’t use the original recording. We were able to get him to a workable solution by having him listen to the instrumental in his earphones while recording directly into another phone and sending us the file. From there, once we’d gotten his heartfelt performance, we were able to work our studio magic. There were over 100 edits in the finished project, and it was about to be heard, for the first time, by a woman who had no idea her dad had spent so much time creating an audio heirloom.
IT WAS POWERFUL AND BEAUTIFUL! We played her initial song through the end of the first chorus then her Dad signalled me to cut the music and bring him the microphone. He then explained that, while this was a lovely song, he had something he’d been working on and wanted her permission to share it with everyone. Once the song started playing her eyes got huge when she realized it was her dad singing – AND HER DAD DOESN’T SING! She burst into happy tears and squeezed him so tightly that it’s a wonder he was able to stay up. This song held so much meaning for them and the fact that he was singing it was truly special to their entire family.

After they tearfully and gratefully wrapped up their father daughter dance, Mike brought his mother onto the dancefloor for Shinedown’s acoustic version of Lynyrd Skynyrd’s Simple Man.
After that, we invited all the married couples out for the Anniversary Dance (aka the dance of the years) with songs by Glen Miller, Etta James, and Billy Joel.
Then we flipped the switch on the party. Their playlist included:
 Darius Rucker Wagon Wheel
Kings Of Leon Sex On Fire
Usher Feat. Ludacris & Lil’ Jon Yeah
Usher Feat. Pitbull DJ Got Us Fallin’ In Love
Whitney Houston I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me)
NO HANDS – WAKA FLOCKAA-Ha Take On Me
Bee Gees Stayin’ Alive
Bon Jovi Livin’ On A Prayer
Bruce Springsteen Dancing In The Dark
Cardi B Feat. Bad Bunny & J Balvin I Like It
Cascada Everytime We Touch
Cure Just Like Heaven
Dan + Shay From The Ground Up
Dexy’s Midnight Runners Come On Eileen
Earth, Wind & Fire Let’s Groove
Earth, Wind & Fire September
Enrique Iglesias Feat. Pitbull I Like It
Flo Rida Feat. David Guetta Club Can’t Handle Me
Flo Rida Feat. Sia Wild Ones
Garth Brooks Friends In Low Places
Isley Brothers Shout
Jackson 5 I Want You Back
Killers Mr. Brightside
Lionel Richie All Night Long (All Night)
Lizzo Truth Hurts
Luis Fonsi & Daddy Yankee Feat. Justin Bieber Despacito
Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell Ain’t No Mountain High Enough
Michael Jackson Billie Jean
Neil Diamond Sweet Caroline (Good Times Never Seemed So Good)
Nicki Minaj Super Bass
Pitbull Feat. John Ryan Fireball
Pitbull Feat. Ne-Yo Time Of Our Lives
Pitbull Feat. Ne-Yo, Afrojack & Nayer Give Me Everything
Queen Bohemian Rhapsody
Rick Springfield Jessie’s Girl
Robin Thicke Feat. Pharrell & T.I. Blurred Lines
Sister Sledge We Are Family
Third Eye Blind Semi-Charmed Life
Toploader Dancing In The Moonlight
Walk The Moon Shut Up And Dance We partied for hours and, when it came time for the last dance, Dirty Dancing was the Songof the Night as everyone got excited for ‘I’ve Had the Time of My Life’ by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes. From there, it was outside for sparklers and a limo ride off to the rest of their lives together. WWe were thrilled to have helped Mike & Erika celebrate such a joyous event and we look forward to celebrating with you! Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Integer adipiscing erat eget risus sollicitudin pellentesque et non erat. Maecenas nibh dolor, malesuada et bibendum a, sagittis accumsan ipsum. Pellentesque ultrices ultrices sapien, nec tincidunt nunc posuere ut. Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Nam scelerisque tristique dolor vitae tincidunt. Aenean quis massa uada mi elementum elementum. Nec sapien convallis vulputate rhoncus vel dui.
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### [Raleigh Wedding DJ Costs, Pricing, and What To Expect](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-dj-costs-pricing-and-what-to-expect/)

**Published:** July 1, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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## WEDDING DJ PRICING IN RALEIGH DURHAM CHAPEL HILL NORTH CAROLINA

Every couple has got to keep an eye on their budget. Considering your entertainment is doing most of the heavy lifting for your event, what does wedding DJ pricing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, Chapel Hill, or around North Carolina look like and how can you maximize your budget?
While it’s possible to find a great experience at nearly every price point, being honest about your needs can help you find the right fit.
Just like every decent wedding planner will tell you, you’re going to have to make some savvy budget choices to make sure you’re getting the most bang for your buck. For some couples, that means investing heavily in the entertainment to make sure they’re getting their wedding day right the first time. For other couples, that means getting the cheapest wedding DJ they can find and taking on more of the work themselves.
For instance, you don’t necessarily need Raleigh’s Most Fun and Interactive DJs if you’re doing a superior 12 course dinner that will take up 98% of your event time, you can make do with a DJ who’s just doing background music that suits your vibe. At that point, a decent sound system and basic mixing and transition skills will likely cover your event just fine.
Simultaneously, if the entertainment is going to be a big part of your event (and for most weddings it’s around 75%-85% of the average North Carolina couples’ wedding day) then you might want to prioritize the entertainment higher in your budgeting.
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Wedding DJ pricing has shifted more in the past 6 months than they have in the past 15 years. This is because wedding DJ pricing was artificially depressed due to a variety of fears by the service providers themselves. One ‘low-mid’ tier service provider hadn’t changed his pricing since 2004. His fees were $875 for the most ‘basic’ 4 hour event in 2004. That would be equivalent to $1,353.94 in 2022 monetary value. He only just recently considered raising his prices. When demand increased, the price increased.
Here’s a quick survey of what you might expect at different price points, as communicated by our interviews with over 30 different local Raleigh Wedding Coordinators, Planners, DJs, and entertainment directors in the Triangle:
96.6% of Coordinators said that they expected a ‘standard’ DJ to be taking care of the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, and to cost between $2,500 and $3,500. One planner said that her couples were expecting it to be around $2,000-$2,500. Another planner suggested that, while she knew what clients were and weren’t getting at lower price points, it wasn’t her place to tell the DJs what they were charging since she felt the average DJ was underpriced anyway.
The ‘standard’ expectation for a Wedding DJ included two speakers on stands and a DJ ‘rig’ for the reception, as well as a wireless microphone for toasts and announcements, and to include ‘emceeing’ or MCing for the event as well. They felt that this was going to be a very ‘standard’ and ‘acceptable’ and ‘decent’ DJ experience. Several coordinators mentioned that they saw a difference in the dance parties based on what the DJs equipment looked and sounded like. Five (16%) of the coordinators expected this to include live mixing/transitions between tracks.
90% of coordinators expected the upper-tier experience Wedding DJs to run between $3,500 and $5,000. They expected this experience to include a nice-looking set-up, more than just ‘average’ dj lighting, uplighting, and to cover all necessary audio needs for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception. They also expected it to included planning time, early set-up (as early as 3 hours prior to event start for one planner, but average of 2 hours for most), and a higher level of skill on the turntables (live mixing, great transitions, mashups) and the microphones (more interactive and engaged MCing). They also expected this DJ to work closely with them and other vendors both before and during the event. They expected this to include 10-12 total hours on the event day, including roughly 6 hours of performance and 2 hours of set-up and breakdown time on both sides of the event start/end. They estimated that this would include the top 10% of wedding DJs in the area. They also expected that this tier of service would also feature an assistant for the DJ to make sure everything would be set-up on time.

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The state’s most expensive wedding DJ is in Charlotte, North Carolina and costs $6,000 for a starting package. He has over 30 years experience and is a phenomenal MC as well as a very charming and professional wedding DJ service provider.
No coordinator thought that a DJ should cost as much as a band, even if the DJ is providing a better entertainment experience. The average band cost for most coordinators was estimated between $6,000 and $15,000.
100% of coordinators expected the cheapest and most basic DJ service they’d book for an event to run between $1,500 and $2,800 (no ceremony, ‘average’ DJ/MC with ‘average’ set-up of DJ controller, two speakers, and basic 2 hour event pre-planning). They expected this service to last around 4-6 hours.
The most affordable & reliable budget-friendly DJs in Raleigh, Elite DJ Solutions, were charging $250-$300 hour for standard DJ services. They’re a great team who have streamlined the process to decrease the back-end and prep time, allowing them to keep their costs lower. Their DJs are also, in general, younger & less experienced. This can be a great option for clients who blew their budget on other elements.
The absolute cheapest DJ services in Raleigh can often be found on Craigslist or by asking a ‘friend’ to help. Every coordinator shared various stories about weddings where a ‘friend’ or a ‘cheap’ DJ backed out at the last minute, costing the couple even more headache, money, and a lot of lost time. While every coordinator suggested that they weren’t comfortable working with clients who were choosing to go that direction, they sometimes had no choice and had a lot to say about it. The interviewed experts had stories of cheap DJs who ruined weddings for some very interesting reasons. The cheapest wedding DJ option in 2019 was a DJ in Greensboro for $400-$500. He’s currently charging $2000 in 2022.
Some elements of the lower price point DJs that repeatedly came up in our interviews was the lack of equipment, lack of professionalism, or the lack of music. Several triangle-based wedding planners reflected that, since some DJs were just streaming music, being in rural venues or in areas with bad reception or wifi meant that some events ended early or had gaps in music throughout the night. Others commented on how DJs weren’t bringing microphones for the ceremony or reception, or showed up dressed inappropriately. Nearly every coordinator and wedding planner shared a story of a DJ who played inappropriate music (i.e. unedited) or embarrased the client in other ways.
Nearly 85% of the coordinators said some variation of “You get what you pay for.” The others could be far less polite in their assessment. This isn’t to suggest that you might not get lucky if you opt for a lower price point. Great talent has to start somewhere! But their personal experience reflected a sentiment was that it was a risky gamble for many couples.
Just under 99% of DJs are part-time. Very few are full time DJs. The average entry level DJ will have between 1 and 4 years of experience. Your mid-range experienced professionals are going to have between 5 and 10 years experience. Your most experienced professionals are going to have even more. Some professional DJs in Raleigh have been event experts for over 30 years! Stylus’ founder, Jason Huggins, just celebrated his 25th year (he started very young). Stylus only features experienced professionals and doesn’t feature entry-level DJs.
Basic Reception Sound System Rental, Delivery, and Set-up in Raleigh will usually run between $400-$700 depending on your supplier, equipment (i.e. how good are the speakers), and timing (i.e. if you need it delivered at a certain time or if they can drop it off when it’s convenient). This would include a DJ controller or CDJ & Mixer system (usually $150-$400), two speakers ($150-$300) and stands ($45-$80), as well as an additional $40-$75 for a wireless microphone, and $35-$50 in cables. The average delivery and set-up fee within the triangle was around $50-$125, although the pricing has been going up recently.
The average a-la-carte wedding ceremony system package runs around $500. That would include one or two small speakers (usually 10’’ or 12’’ speakers), a basic mixer, and a handheld microphone at a minimum (or a couple of lapel microphones for the more inclusive services). Many DJs are adopting over-ear microphones (think of Britney Spears) for the officiant because of the superior sound quality.
Some DJs have moved to an ‘unlimited time’ format at a higher price point ($2500-$3500) for ‘standard’ DJ services. The average ‘unlimited time’ event is estimated to be at 6.5-7.25 hours including ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception.
While the ‘standard’ or ‘basic’ DJ set-up just uses a 6’ table, there are some DJs using ‘command center’ style displays that dispense with the table or facades that cover the table. These can be great opportunities to customize your DJ’s overall presentation.
The ‘standard’ DJ lighting package will often include a ‘gig bar’ or ‘light tree’. More inclusive lighting packages may include moving-head fixtures, wash lights, black lights, light bars, intelligent lighting, uplighting, custom GOBOs or projections, or pinspot features.
More inclusive sound systems will usually feature subwoofers (recommended by nearly every DJ for most events, with some saying anything over 50-75 people depending on the situation), additional speakers for ‘near-field enhancement’ or a variety of ‘looks’ (i.e. white speakers).
To review, your most affordable and entry-level DJ options in Raleigh and the Triangle area are going to run between $1200 to $2000.
The next level up will likely feature enhanced sound & lighting options, as well as additional services like cocktail hour and ceremony. The average cost on this will run between $2500 to $3500.
The ‘top performers’ in North Carolina will run between $3500 and $6000 or even higher. These performers are bringing experience, high quality sound and lighting, and usually a team of people to help them achieve what they’re looking for.
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Another growing trend is offering special effects. Some DJs have added cryo-cannons (co2 blasters), dancing on a cloud dry-ice effects, or indoor-safe cold spark machines. It’s also more common to see ‘party packs’ featuring foam light batons, glow sticks, led bracelets, and other party props.
The trend we’re most excited to see is that couples are choosing to skip many of the traditions that don’t apply to them or their group and are focusing on what really matters to them. For Stylus clients – that’s the party.
We hope this has helped put the Wedding DJ Pricing in perspective and allowed you to figure out your wedding DJ budget expectations. This was designed to reflect the Triangle wedding market (specifically Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary, Garner, Clayton, Morrisville, etc…) and is just a guide, since you can sometimes find a ‘diamond in the rough,’ so to speak, or excellence at nearly every price point.
The feedback the coordinators gave us during their interviews was that the lower price points often meant more work for the couple, but a lower cost that reflected in the way the event was handled. The higher price points offered more customization and engagement, but there were variations throughout. While the DJ you choose may offer things that seem familiar, others may offer more or less, so please get a sense of what you’re getting before you try to gauge value.
While there were lots of other great insights, we’ll be reflecting on those in future posts. Contact Stylus for the best wedding you’ve ever been to! We’re here to help anytime – reach out by the CONTACT US page or call us at 919-346-4669 anytime to set up an appointment with our DJ Matchmaker to make sure you have the wedding everyone can’t stop talking about!

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### [2022 Summer Mix Series - 4 DJs, 20 Songs, 4 Wild Mixes!](https://stylusweddings.com/2022-summer-mix-series-4-djs-20-songs-4-wild-mixes/)

**Published:** July 7, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

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##  2022 SAME SONG CHALLENGE 2022 SAME SONGS CHALLENGE – Challenge Accepted!

As DJs in the Raleigh/Triangle area we’ve done more than our fair share of parties where each group loves music that other groups love too. Some people want the songs that thrill the crowd, others want their event to sound different and unique.
We’ve been saying for years that you could give us the same songs and each one of us would make it sound different. So we put that on display with our first Summer Mix series.
The Challenge: 4 DJs Pick 5 Songs and add them to a playlist (20 songs total)
Each DJ has to make a mix featuring those 20 songs in some way. That could mean sampling, remixing, or doing mashups on the fly. But it had to be a LIVE mix, not some 30 minute long ableton edit.
The Result: Hear for yourself:

[![Stylus SE - 2022 - Summer Vibes Mix Series - THE SAME SONG CHALLENGE!?](/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/same-songs-4-album-1024x1016.png "same-songs-4-album - Stylus Weddings")](https://hearthis.at/stylusevents/#stage)
Click here to listen
Which one is your favorite? Vote on our Instagram Page 🙂
**You could win a free party featuring the winning DJ!**

So why did we do this?
To put it simply, DJing is a lot more than just pushing buttons. There’s nearly infinite freedom to make the music more unique to each event than a lot of people are going to give it credit for. It’s not just what you’re playing, it’s how you play it, what you’re playing it with, and how you’re using the sound and the energy to create a certain vibe.
Here’s the playlist & who added which songs to the DJ Mix Challenge:
**DJ Huggy:**
Bossa Per Due – Nicola Conte (this is, in my estimate, the most summery song EVER!)
Vacay – Sunny & Gabe –
Watermelon Sugar – Harry Styles
About Damn Time – Lizzo
Summertime – DJ Jazzy Jeff & the Fresh Prince
**Rare Form:**
What Lovers Do – Maroon 5
Jenny from the Block – Jennifer Lopez
Keep Moving – Louis the Child
Boom – X Ambassadors
Live Free – Mac Miller
**Nyghtro:**
Drinkee – Sofi Tukker
Dreams – Fleetwood Mac & David Guetta
Back To Life – Benito Bazar & Soul II Soul
Clap Your Hands – Kungs
Pepas – Farruko
**Samson:**
Summer Days – Martin Garrix
Sledgehammer – Peter Gabriel
Power of Love – Huey Lewis & the News
Head & Heart – Joel Corry
Body – Loud Luxury

## Which mix is your Favorite?

Vote for your favorite on our Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/stylusevents/
Facebook 🙂
https://www.facebook.com/stylusevents1

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### [The Truth About Being a private event DJ for High Profile Clients in North Carolina and Around the World.](https://stylusweddings.com/the-truth-about-being-a-private-event-dj-for-high-profile-clients-in-north-carolina-and-around-the-world/)

**Published:** April 10, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

![Stylus SE - What Working with Millionaires, Billionaires, Corporate CEOs, Professional Athletes, and Celebrities](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/grand-marquis-wedding-1st-dance.png "grand-marquis-wedding-1st-dance - Stylus Weddings")### First Dance at the Grand Marquis – Stylus Raleigh Wedding DJ North Carolina

What Working with Millionaires, Billionaires, Corporate CEOs, Professional Athletes, and Celebrities Taught Me About DJing for Private Events in Raleigh, Chapel Hill, and Durham. First Dance at the Grand Marquis – Stylus Raleigh Wedding DJ North Carolina High Profile Stress & Putting Your Best Foot Forward Every Time
Over the years, before starting Stylus SE, my background as a journalist for magazines and newspapers and more newspapers (and more newspapers) prepared me for a how to handle what, for many vendors, can be a really anxiety-ridden experience. It’s understandable how someone who, really admiring the person they’re going to be working with, would want to put their best foot forward.

I remember how nervous I was the first time I had to do a major interview. Here I was, sitting face to face with someone genuinely famous, with a list of hard questions that I needed to get comments on, and a lump in my throat at the thought that I was going to embarrass myself. I was 16 and had been writing for the state’s biggest newspaper for two years already.

Although I was told I did a great job, I still ran through the hundred thousand little things I could or should have done. Should I have held my hands like \*this\* or should I have sat forward more or should I have asked the questions differently – you know exactly what I’m talking about: the minutiae of neurotic thoughts that come way too late to make any difference but you can’t help obsessing over because it means a lot to get every detail correct.

## North Carolina & Internationally – The Rules Are The Same for Every Client

When I was in school, I did a lot of sneaking into places I wasn’t supposed to be. Anytime there was a famous writer or speaker visiting the area, I had a plan and it worked every time. I’d go to the presentation, and, as soon as it was over, I’d sneak backstage and start helping out. My background in live theater helped make sure I was actually being helpful rather than just taking up space. Once no one was looking at me, I’d slip on a sport coat and make my way to the afterparty. I’d be one of the first ones there so everyone who arrived just assumed I was supposed to be there.

I got to meet some truly wonderful people and party with people I’d never have expected to. I even saved Ray Bradbury’s life once (it’s crazier than it sounds).

## playmates, billionaires, actors, models, musicians, CEOs and league MVPs

Living in Jaipur, India, the circles I ran in meant that I got to meet more celebrities, high profile expats, and some genuinely amazing people who were more than just famous in their neck of the woods. I hobnobbed with artistic geniuses, got wined and dined by a princess, held debates with luminaries, and played cricket (very poorly) with Bollywood superstars. This was shortly before I ended up homeless in New Delhi for a while after I got robbed.

After college, I headed out west to Los Angeles and worked for a very high profile magazine (the now-defunct Sleek) and my social circles included playmates, millionaires, actors, models, musicians, CEOs and league MVPs. By that point, I’d gotten very comfortable with learning how to just be myself in any environment.

![Stylus SE - What Working with Millionaires, Billionaires, Corporate CEOs, Professional Athletes, and Celebrities](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/s-l1600.jpg "s-l1600 - Stylus Weddings")

Back in Wilmington, it’s a small town with a big movie industry so the parties I attended were not infrequently attended by people who lit up the screens both big and small. Sometimes the houses we slunk off to at 3 AM after the bars closed were decorated with the truly fantastic (my personal favorite was a chrysknife from the 1984 Dune film) or the comfortable, where people more accustomed to Armani suits and Louboutins could happily kick off their shoes and just be themselves.

The thing that I learned from all of those instances was the simple reality that everyone is the same everywhere – and that, while it’s exciting to run into someone you feel like you already know because you’ve been watching them for years or followed their career with great interest, they’re still real human beings with the same feelings, needs, and desire for fairness and respect. The public persona is sometimes a reflection of their inner life, and other times they just want the space to be themselves without having to feel like they’re on display all the time.

## after the event, we get to go out to restaurants and not get mobbed.

With a lot of celebrities and high profile personalities, that sense of always being on display is something that we are pretty used to because it’s a little bit like being the DJ. People want you to do something, they have strong feelings about it, they feel like you’re a public figure, they feel like they can approach you in a certain way because of the role you’re playing – except, (key difference) after the event, we get to go out to restaurants and not get mobbed. It can be really exhausting for people in that situation all the time because it can feel like everyone wants something from you. Eminem has written a lot of songs about it if you want to explore that sentiment further.

### https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_EEDbhZRKng
Eminem didn’t adjust to fame very easily – here’s an expletive-laden diatribe about it.

And that’s informed a big part of how we work with high profile clients and why we continue to work with them. I don’t want to sound dismissive, but our job isn’t to treat anyone differently – it’s to treat everyone with the same level of care, attention to detail, and genuine enthusiasm for doing a great job.

## “if you could make him happy you could make anyone happy.”

There’s an amazing man named Howie who used to run the Brunswick County airport, just outside of Wilmington. Prior to running the airport, he was the head flight attendant on Air Force One from Nixon through Clinton. He quite lovingly called Kissenger his ‘old Jewish grandmother’ and is more proud of making him happy than any other president or dignitary he ever worked with because, as he said, “if you could make him happy you could make anyone happy.”

There’s a lot to be said for getting the opportunity to work with high profile clients. It can help raise your profile or expose you to new audience that you’d love the opportunity to work with/for. Our general position has never been to spend too much time fanboying or too flamboyant with our promotion of the association – we’re there to do a job.

With the type of corporate events we’re often working side by side with some of the titans of local and international business. With the type of weddings we do we’re often helping superstars party next to great aunts. And the fundamental truths are all there all the time.

## Celebrities are just like everyone else, which means you could be treated like you’re a celebrity too

The biggest issues one would expect to run into working with high profile clients are the same kinds of personality elements we deal with for every single event, whether it’s being hired by a corporate client who desperately needs to impress potential clients or the C-level executives or by a couple who wants their wedding day to be a reflection of who they truly are – and those are elements that are soothed by attention to detail, competent execution, and a willingness to be flexible to fluctuating event needs.

I’m really excited about the project we’re working on right now. Unfortunately, I can’t talk about it, since it requires an NDA in order to participate, but once the video gets released you’d better believe we’re going to put this one in our brag book, along with every other event we’re so proud of participating in over the nearly ten years of Stylus’ history.

Here’s to the clients who want to be treated like a celebrity regardless of how many follows they have, how many movies they’ve done, or how many championship rings they’ve got. Celebrities are just like everyone else, which means you could be treated like you’re a celebrity too.

![Stylus SE - What Working with Millionaires, Billionaires, Corporate CEOs, Professional Athletes, and Celebrities](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Stylus-Wedding-DJs-1024x572-1.png "Stylus-Wedding-DJs-1024x572 - Stylus Weddings")A couple enjoys a first dance at their wedding surrounded by the dancing on a cloud effec

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### [Raleigh Wedding DJ -10 Helpful Side By Side Comparisons](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-dj-10-helpful-side-by-side-comparisons/)

**Published:** April 10, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Raleigh Wedding DJ Price & Your Budget – What Are You Getting? 10 Helpful Budget DJ Comparisons with a Local Budget DJ Company (with their permission) Raleigh Wedding DJ Stylus Best Experience to Create a Dynamic Event Raleigh Wedding DJ Budget and Pricing Comparison TL;DR at the Bottom One of the hardest things you’ll do when doing your Raleigh Wedding Planning is choose a DJ/MC.
Part of that is because it’s rare that you get to ‘test’ out your DJ the same way you might audit a Raleigh Wedding Photographer, a Durham Wedding Caterer, or a North Carolina Wedding Venue – because you get to experience each of those directly BEFORE you sign an agreement. You can visit the Wedding Venue and fall in love immediately. You can view the wedding photographer’s portfolio and say “This is exactly what we want!”. You can taste the wedding caterer’s food and design the menu knowing what your guests are going to expect.

It’s not like that with wedding DJs in North Carolina or anywhere else. With the rare exception of seeing a DJ at a wedding in Raleigh or Durham and thinking ‘This is exactly what we’re looking for!’ you’re probably going to be putting your trust in someone that you haven’t seen perform the same way you can gauge other wedding vendors (the one notable exception to this is wedding planners/coordinators – you’re taking their word for it as well).

We were talking about this with the owner of another local Affordable Budget Raleigh DJ company the other day – specifically about price points and how most DJs have their starting price point roughly the same regardless of where they are in the country. Stylus’ price point and this other company’s price point weren’t all that far apart for a fairly straightforward Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, and Reception. Most DJs, whether they’re in Las Vegas, South Dakota, Hawaii, Miami or New York, tend to be around the $2500 mark. However, what you’re getting for that price point is very different.

We were talking about the difference in services between different price points and we realized that there wasn’t really a useful side-by-side wedding DJ price comparison so that a potential bride or groom could get a sense of what they were, or weren’t getting whenever they were booking their DJ so this DJ gave us the lowdown on how they keep their prices low and what couples are giving up to keep their budget down.

This is NOT a ‘look at those guys over there’ post. This isn’t meant to demean the other DJ company in any way – they are proud of how they’ve streamlined their service and costs and are able to provide a great experience to wedding couples who are on a tight budget and are working with clients who aren’t prioritizing their wedding entertainment. We actually recommend the Budget DJs all the time for clients who need their budget as low as possible but still need a reliable DJ who’ll do a good job.

This IS an informational and educational opportunity so that you can make the right decision for your event. Some couples need the lowest possible price point for their event and we are glad they exist to help serve that clientele.

They see themselves as the McDonalds of DJs. As the owner put it, “You know exactly what you’re going to get and it’s affordable.” What to Expect from Your Wedding DJ at Different Price Points

TOTAL PRICE POINT FOR A ‘BASIC’ WEDDING PACKAGE WITH CEREMONY, COCKTAIL HOUR, AND WEDDING RECEPTION

The total price difference is present, but it’s not as big as you might think:

STYLUS – $2500.

BUDGET DJ – $1700

WEDDING CEREMONY SYSTEM

This is an easy place to see the difference. You’ll see it in the number of speakers and the number of microphones. The cost difference in equipment alone is around $4000 between the two

STYLUS – 2 pro speakers, 3 professional microphone (1 over-ear mic for officiant, 1 lapel to pick up bride and groom, 1 handheld & mic stand for any readers/singers). $5000 total equipment cost

BUDGET DJ – 1 speaker, 1 handheld mic for officiant. $1000 total equipment cost.

RALEIGH WEDDING DJ PREP TIME

Preparation is important & is often a big difference in price point among DJs, although it is possible to pay more for a DJ without additional prep time included. In our experience, this is the biggest difference in how your event will turn out. I heard a photographer, Christobal Perez with Azul Photography (twice Pulitzer Prize nominated – check him out if you need a Raleigh wedding photographer) talking about this just yesterday while he was throwing appropriate shade on DJs who couldn’t be bothered to learn the names of the couple & their wedding party.

STYLUS – preparation is already included. On average we’re putting between 10 and 25 hours into an event BEFORE the event even starts. “We start our preparation pretty intensely from the first conversation or email. Most people wouldn’t believe the notes we take or the special details we incorporate into the reception.”

BUDGET DJ – “They’ll get about 1 hour max, usually just the ‘finals meeting’ which runs around 30 minutes. If we have to spend a lot of time with them we probably weren’t the right fit for them, they needed somebody like you. We get them sometimes, but we’ll charge for extra planning time.

AVERAGE SPEAKER COST

This is inside baseball but it’s a useful comparison. With speakers, you get what you pay for, and there’s a huge difference in sound quality & reliability. We don’t want speakers causing problems during a wedding.

STYLUS – $1700-$2500 per speaker. Average Reception System Cost $8500-$10,000 (including DJ Rig, Cables, & Lighting if Included)

BUDGET DJ – $300-$600 per speaker – Average Reception System Cost – $2600 – $4000 (DJ controller was the biggest variable)

RALEIGH WEDDING DJ’S YEARS OF EXPERIENCE

Another big difference is who your DJ options might be. With Stylus, we only bring in the best of the best. They have to have the fire in their set that makes for a great party – and that’s something you can only learn from experience. Stylus expects the best from ourselves so we can deliver the best wedding dj experience in the Triangle to you. The Raleigh Budget DJ company usually hired college students (everyone has to start somewhere!) and relative beginners – that’s part of how they’re able to keep their costs down.

STYLUS – 6-15 years Experience (Jason started when he was 16, we’re not even including his experience). Meet our DJs to learn more.

BUDGET DJ – 1-3 years. One staff member with 4+ years and another more experienced DJ on the website.

MUSIC COLLECTION

A lot of people are offering wedding DJ services but they’re streaming their music. We’ve heard horror stories of wedding ending early because there was no wifi signal (which is what can happen when a bunch of guests enter a reception hall). While streaming does offer access to lots of music, what we’re looking at here is how many songs the DJ will have ‘on hand’ regardless of the Wi-Fi signal and what kind of party they’re going to be able to throw for that group. Fewer songs means fewer opportunities to find that ‘Perfect Song’ for the party.

However – staying on top of the music is both time consuming and expensive. Avoiding that expense helps them keep the costs down.

STYLUS – On average around 200-400k songs (two full terrabytes). Some of our DJs carry 4 tB of music (700-800k songs). Yes, it may seem like it’s overkill, but there are a lot of ways to play a song and all the different remixes and edits help us customize the party to fit the couple & the group. We get about 400 new songs a week.

BUDGET DJ – 600-1200 songs. According to the owner: “We only need the most requested songs. We can throw a great party with just the top 200 songs.”

MC/ MICROPHONE STYLE

This difference has a lot to do with experience but it’s also a big part of how we’re training our teams to do events. We believe that a DJ should direct attention, not take it. That means calling attention, appropriately, to what the couple wants to emphasize. There are a lot of special details at a wedding, and even basics like the first dance and the wedding party introductions can vary wildly depending on which DJ you chose.

STYLUS – Reserved or Engaging depending on the couple’s preference – always appropriate, with a level of detail and modulation that sets the narrative tone for how the couple wants their guests to perceive the event.

BUDGET DJ – “We keep it simple, just some basic Announcements as needed, sometimes the DJ might ask the coordinator to make the announcements if the DJ isn’t comfortable on the mic yet.

CUSTOMIZATION & PERSONALIZATION – PLANNING FORMS

This is where your wedding starts taking shape.

STYLUS – Easy to navigate online planning form, available 24 hours a day from anywhere in the world, with complete music customization, detailed descriptions and suggestions for couples who need help.

BUDGET DJ – 1 page PDF with basic details. “Our couples want basic, and we just get their basic details.”

CUSTOMIZATION & PERSONALIZATION – MUSIC LISTS & REQUESTS

This is where your wedding truly becomes YOURS.

STYLUS – While the most common playlist size is around 20-50 songs, couples can add a hundred song requests or do-not-plays to their list, some couples have even more. We narrow down their favorites and use the rest to guide us through their event based on what they told us would work best for them. We’re happy to take requests at the event. We have a massive collection of music and can handle just about anything your guests can throw at us if it’s appropriate for your event (and you’ve told us you’re OK with requests).

BUDGET DJ – “Couples get their 5 or 10 key specialty songs and we allow up to 15 song requests. We charge the client more if they have a bigger list. We charge extra for large lists becuse it takes hours to get all of that in place. We take requests if we can.”

CHOOSING YOUR RALEIGH WEDDING DJ

Do You Get to Choose Your DJ?

STYLUS – Yes, we work with clients to match them with a DJ but it’s only a suggestion based on our insights, couples have the final say over who they work with.

BUDGET DJ – Not usually. “We’ll send who’s available for their date. If a couple wants to pick their DJ that’s extra. This is one of ways we’re able to keep the costs so low too. If a couple wants a specific DJ, there’s a premium on that. We try to match them with someone who’s going to be a good fit for them. We want to make sure they have a great time.”

RALEIGH WEDDING DJ TL;DR OVERVIEW

Clients who want to keep their costs down are usually sacrificing prep time, equipment cost, DJ Experience, personalization, music availability, and MC elements. If these things aren’t as important as the price difference, you’re going to be well served by the Budget DJ Team.

If you are looking for your Wedding DJ to elevate your experience with things at are important to you, it’s probably best that you look at setting a higher budget for your entertainment.

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### [4 Things to Look Out For In Potential Wedding DJ Reviews](https://stylusweddings.com/4-things-to-look-out-for-in-potential-wedding-dj-reviews/)

**Published:** April 10, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

4 Things to Look for in Your Wedding DJ Reviews Stylus – Raleigh’s Best Wedding DJ Bride and Groom standing in front of the Stylus booth at the Forever and Co. Wedding Show with florals by Faux Real Flowers. Hanging truss and moving head lights color matched in light blush and clear white.Title the picture Making A Decision on Your Raleigh Wedding DJ – Great Reviews & How To Read Them When you’re looking at North Carolina wedding DJs, you’re trying to make a decision on one of the most consequential parts of your wedding. Whether you’re planning a Raleigh wedding reception, visiting wedding venues in Wilmington, or checking out custom caterers in Cherokee, you’re going to need entertainment at your event. This means that you’re going to be visiting websites, getting recommendations from friends and family, gleaning whatever insights your can get from other vendors, and hoping for the best.

By now, most couples know that they’re putting 75%-80% of their event in their wedding DJ’s hands. No matter how much you spend on your DJ, they’re in the driver’s seat as far as most of your evening is concerned.

Since most reputable DJs are going to be clustered around certain price points (even the more experienced and professional DJs are only a fraction of your total budget compared to a newer or less experienced DJ), that means you’re going to be trying to figure out which one makes the most sense for you.

This means you’re going to be looking at websites, reading reviews, and talking with them to learn more about their services and options.

Let’s take a quick look at the 4 things to keep an eye out for when you’re reading reviews: What To Look For In Your Wedding Potential DJs’ Reviews

## 1. The Real Positive Raleigh Wedding DJ Review

These should be the majority of your DJ’s reviews. DJs who prioritize client happiness are likely going to have great responses from couples who were thrilled with their service. The really useful reviews will talk about the entire experience. We’ve even had couples write great reviews for us BEFORE their event! It will give you a sense of what you might be headed into. Did the DJ communicate? Did it make the client feel heard and important? Are all the reviews detailed and talking about specific elements they appreciated? Or is it something where it sounds cookie cutter?

![Stylus SE - 4 Things to Look for](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.32.26-PM-1024x251-1.png "Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.32.26-PM-1024x251 - Stylus Weddings")

The flip side of this is when you have a bunch of reviews that all sound too similar. Or it’s just a bunch of 5 star ratings without any real depth. That might be a sign that they asked their friends to boost their reviews or paid for positives rather than earning them. You’ll sometimes see new DJs doing this because they don’t have enough events under their belt to have earned it organically. This particular company had their friends give them 5 star reviews because they were just starting and needed to hit a certain point before clients felt comfortable.

![Stylus SE - 4 Things to Look for](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.26.42-PM-1024x722-1.png "Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.26.42-PM-1024x722 - Stylus Weddings")

## 2. The Real Bad Wedding DJ Review

Bad Reviews are going to happen sometimes. I once got a negative review from a couple who never booked me because they were trying to write a bad review for another DJ and got confused. It’s also possible that the DJ had an off day or they did a poor job of helping a client understand what they could or couldn’t do. Some DJs just aren’t very good at their job. However, bad reviews can actually be really instructive to you as a potential client.

I’d rather see a bad review or two out of 50 or 60 reviews and look at the DJs response. You can learn a lot about your Raleigh Wedding DJ by how they approach criticism or if they can admit fault when they fall short and take steps to make it better. Let’s face it – events are complicated and it’s possible to drop the ball. Did they attempt to make up for it? Is it a client who spent too much on their wedding and they’re trying to get drinking money back by going after their DJ?

A friend of mine once had a client (a lawyer actually) sue them for the full value of their package (they are a ‘budget’ dj service) because it snowed and the DJ STILL showed up and delivered despite a really complex and potentially dangerous situation. They actually went to court before the judge dismissed their suit. The countersuit actually cost the couple quite a bit.

Sometimes it can be hard to tell.

Here’s an example of a ‘run away’ real bad review.

![Stylus SE - 4 Things to Look for](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.26.42-PM-1024x722-1.png "Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.26.42-PM-1024x722 - Stylus Weddings")

You’re often likely to see bad reviews on the ‘budget’ DJ services because clients can sometimes have ‘Caviar taste’ on a ‘Ramen budget’. That might not be a terrible sign if you’re trying to stay within a tight budget – it’s just telling you to be communicative and realistic about your expectations. However, you don’t get to do too much complaining when you booked the cheapest DJ willing to do your event.

We get calls every week from couples who found out their DJ ‘friend’ or ‘craigslist dj’ is abandoning them for a client who’s offering more money.

There are also situations where (usually guests) don’t quite understand what’s going on. I’ve heard guests blame the DJ for a client’s song choices (“I can’t believe the DJ played ‘X’ when the couple entered the reception”). It can be hard to navigate, but it’s less about the individual review than it is about the TOTAL of the reviews.

Bad reviews for your Raleigh Wedding DJ can be really instructive.

## 3. The Fake Good Wedding DJ Review

You’ll see this sometimes, often with people who are trying to get their business started. For many clients, 40 or 60 reviews may seem ‘safe’ but do a quick double check on the quality of the reviews. Are they short and formulaic? Do they repeat the same thing over and over again (and not in a good way).

“DJ BOB from BOB DJ Service did a great job.”

“We had DJ BOB with BOB and they did a great job.”

“BOB DJs did a great job with our event.”

It’s hard for new wedding DJs, even ones with promise, to get into the mix when couples are looking at a DJ company with 300 or 500 reviews (even though none of the DJs those reviews are about are still on staff) or there are lots of experienced single-op (one person) in the area. They’re trying to give themselves a chance in a very competitive marketplace. It’s usually the signal of newness and/or inexperience. However, it could be someone new to the area trying to find some way to get in front of you.

## 4. The Fake Bad Wedding DJ Review

You’ve seen review bombing on movie websites. It can happen in the Wedding DJ world too. We once got a negative review from another DJ in the area who felt threatened when we made a name for ourselves. Here’s an example of a fake bad review and useful response from the Wedding DJ.

![Stylus SE - 4 Things to Look for](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.46.24-PM-1024x433-1.png "Screen-Shot-2022-10-04-at-5.46.24-PM-1024x433 - Stylus Weddings")

## The Takeaway:

When you’re looking at Wedding DJ reviews, there are a few key things to keep an eye out for: The quantity of reviews, the type of review, and the language the reviewer uses.

Remember, it’s not just each individual review, but how everything comes together. While it can be difficult to parse everything out, paying attention to how the reviews interact with the others around it can be really useful.

Reviews are a great way to get a sense of what the couples who worked with that particular Raleigh Wedding DJ valued the most. If you value communication, look to see if that is something that shows up in some reviews. If you value equipment, see if other clients are raving about their sound system.

While there’s no hard and fast rule to narrowing down your Raleigh Wedding DJ search, reviews should definitely be a part of how you do it.

If you enjoyed this article, here’s an article I found from a Boston DJ who tackles this subject differently: https://www.discjockeyboston.com/how-to-spot-a-real-review/

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### [Summer Wedding - DJ Photo Booth - Oaks at Salem in Apex, NC](https://stylusweddings.com/summer-wedding-dj-photo-booth-oaks-at-salem-in-apex-nc/)

**Published:** May 26, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

## “We saw you at our friends wedding and knew you were the DJ we had to have!”

**How we learned to embrace the rain – one couple adapts & has a great wedding!**

Apex North Carolina is a big small town. It’s a somewhat suburban and somewhat rural area with an adorable downtown, lots of farmland, and several truly spectacular wedding opportunities, including the Oaks at Salem, just a spell down the road from the aforementioned adorable downtown.
The Oaks at Salem features a beautiful restored 3 story home, a massive property full of ancient trees perfect for pictures, a stunning large pond with a gorgeous ceremony site overlooking it, and plenty of hidden parking for lots of guests.
This May, we were fortunate enough to celebrate the wedding day of Alexandra & Mark. They’d attended a wedding we DJ’d at the Sheraton Downtown Raleigh back in June 2019 for Shelby & Thomas (one of my all-time favorite wedding reviews – I’ll post it later), who was the sister of a bride whose wedding we’d done at the Homewood Suites in Apex (Amanda and Adam) back in 2015.
Interestingly, Adam & Amanda’s wedding in 2015 was also the event where we found the couple who’d been married the longest out of any couple we’ve ever found during the anniversary dance – married for over 80 years! It was adorable – when I interviewed them a little he revealed that he and his wife had eaten lunch together every day since they’d been married. He said, “If she’s not there I don’t eat.”
Alex and Mark knew the Oaks at Salem was perfect for them as soon as they saw it. Ceremonies usually take place by the lake, the bar area is just inside the (air conditioned) house, and the reception takes place under a tent attached to the main house.
There is a unique challenge associated with this venue, namely that the DJ has to plug into their house system in order to play the reception. The Oaks does this in order to limit the amount of noise DJs are throwing across the lake. The speakers are mounted in the ceiling and pointed directed down onto the dance floor. Luckily, we have several options to help us navigate this requirement that helps us deliver the best possible experience for guests, our couples, and the venue itself. We don’t get noise complaints because noise complaints cost the venue money and can shut a wedding down just as it’s getting good.
However, your DJ will provide all the sound for the outdoor ceremonies and we usually use a combination of over-ear, lapel/lavalier, and handheld microphones to make sure we’ve got microphones for every person who’s going to be speaking. As a general rule, everyone who speaks during the cermeony needs a mic, otherwise the things that make a ceremony beautiful (wind through the trees, birds chirping, etc.., not to mention possible traffic noise from down the road) make it hard to hear from even a few rows back.
While we’ve done many beautiful outdoor ceremonies at the Oaks at Salem for couples from Apex, Raleigh, Durham, and even further afield (this couple lived in Florida!), it wasn’t to be on this particular day. The chairs were all set, and we waiting until after we’d set up the Reception system (which would be our emergency back-up plan in case of rain) before we put $15 grand in sound and equipment out for a wedding ceremony that might feature water falling from the sky. Water is not well known for its impact on electronics.
As we were getting close to the ‘We Need to Make a Decision’ time, the sky made up our minds for us and started raining down epic deluges and sheets of powerful drops, followed shortly by quarter sized hail. We’re definitely not doing an outside ceremony for this event. But luckily – we’re prepared!

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Adjusting our approach, we get everything in place and we’re ready to go long before the first guest enters.
By the time the ceremony actually starts, the rain has stopped, but everything is so beautiful and everyone is so caught up in the emotion of the moment that no one thinks twice.
This particlar ceremony was notable for a number of reasons, but two in particular stand out:

1. Their vows were amaing. Seriously moving. These two are as perfect for each other as you could ever hope to meet (they have that in common with Shelby & Thomas and Amanda & Adam too!)
2. They were the first couple in a long time that I’ve seen use both **Wagner’s Bridal March** from **Tannhauser** (the traditional ‘here comes the bride’ song you remember) and **Mendelsohn’s** Wedding March from A Midsummer Night’s Dream.
3. **Bonus reason** – Yes, I still get teary-eyed when I get to witness the powerful emotion of a wedding ceremony. You can ask my wife – I text her during almost every ceremony to let her know how much I love her and how lucky I am to live our lives together. I totally texted her. That’s how great this ceremony was.

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Once the ceremony was done, the guests of honor headed out onto the newly sun-drenched grounds to take some amazing photos. Guests made their way inside to the bar for social hour. During the social hour, the Groom and his groomsmen made their way inside some some, as they put it…’Responsible shots.’

**“I GOTTA BE RESPONSIBLE – SO WE’LL DO RESPONSIBLE SHOTS OF TEQUILA!”**

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After the social hour it was time for introductions, recognizing respected elders and parents from their seats, before bringing out the wedding party – and they brought the party (you’ll see later).
They shared their first dance to Willie Nelson’s All of Me, then their father daughter dance to Tom Petty’s Wildflowers, and the mother son dance to Carole King’s Child of Mine.

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There was a welcome by our guests of honor as they offered their heartfelt thanks to everyone for traveling from around the Carolina’s and from around the world to attend. There were attendees from Canada, England, and one woman who had flown all the way from Australia to attend!
After that, dinner began and guests were not disappointed by the options at the buffet. It was obvious the couple knew their guests because people went back multiple times to sample more of the delicious food.
After dinner, the couple cut their cake and we had a series of wonderful toasts that honored the couple and their commitments to each other.
One toast I was eagerly anticipating was Thomas’ toast. See, Mark was his best man at his wedding three years ago. To this day I can still remember how crazy they got as we partied, with Mark taking his shirt off and tying his tie around his head. At one point he actually mooned the mother of the bride in the photo booth (I can’t share that photo because only Thomas and Shelby have those photos). The toast he gave at Thomas’ wedding was very short – only a few words, before he got choked up and just pulled Thomas in for a big hug while everyone clapped and cheered.
Thomas gave a much longer toast than Mark did, almost 5 minutes – but the result was the same. Tremendous cheers and big hugs for all!

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Then – it was time to party!
The photo booth was set up just outside the bar which meant guests were stopping by and taking pictures with friends and family every time they moved from the dancefloor to the bar and back again. It’s the perfect location at that venue!

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The party was outstanding thanks to our hard work to prepare the space with sound and lighting. Plus, their playlist of requested songs were excellent too!

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**Some examples of their song requests:**
**Bennie & the Jets – Elton John**
**Wagon Wheel – Old Crow Medicine Show**
**Stevie Wonder – Signed Sealed Delivered**
**Pepas – Farruko**
**Moondance – Van Morrison**
**There She Goes – The La’s**
**The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra**
**My Girl – The Temptations**
**A Song for You – Leon Russell**
**Stan – Eminem & Dido**
**Southern Nights – Glen Campbell**
**Back That Azz Up – Juvenile**
**Dancing Queen – Abba**
**Come On Eileen – Dexy’s Midnight Runners**
**Mr. Brightside -The Killers**

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During the party – we had a special guest stop by: A frog perched on the far-side DJ Lighting stand.

**WEDDING FROGS ARE GOOD LUCK!**

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And there was even a brief moment of potential calamity in that the staff was alerted to a Tornado watch. As soon as I got the alert I contacted several of the catering staff and some of the bridesmaids and groomsmen and made sure that they understood exactly where I needed them to help me move everyone as quickly as possible (into the basement) in the event of a potential emergency. The Stylus staff, the catering staff, and the staff at the Oaks at Salem were all ready to spring into action just in case! I’ve been through a lot of tornados (Thanks Indiana!) so I know exactly where to go.
Side note, I was actually Djing a wedding at the Sheraton Downtown Raleigh when it was struck by the tornado. Everyone was fine and the wedding featured one of the best bacon displays I’ve ever seen. The couple were awesome and we were able to get everyone safely into the internal hallways and safely away from flying glass or debris. Their grandma was German and made wedding cookies for every family member – they were delicious! Also, they were the first couple that I’d ever seen do the German Wedding cup – and I remember we did some really fun ‘minute to win it’ style challenges during the wedding. Good times!
Once the wedding wrapped up – it was time to get everyone out for sparklers and before the bride and groom headed off to their lives together I presented them with their instant digital copies of every photo from the photo booth and a digital print of every session. I handed it to him with the warning that I’d seen Thomas over there a few times – view carefully. After a quick hug and a hearty handshake, the Stylus staff headed back into the venue to clean up and the couple and guests headed off to make new memories, wherever they happened to be traveling to next.

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So, if you’re getting married in Apex, Holly Springs, Morrisville, or Raleigh – we’d love to help make your wedding day special if you’re looking for a fun, profesional, and amazing party experience at your wedding!

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### [TV Inspired Raleigh Wedding DJ at Market Hall](https://stylusweddings.com/tv-inspired-raleigh-wedding-dj-at-market-hall/)

**Published:** May 27, 2022
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

## Powerful Love Story and a Love of Sitcoms Help Create a Memorable Wedding

## Creative Raleigh Couple Incorporates their love of Sitcoms to help make their wedding day something uniquely personal and delightfully idiosyncratic.

I’m going to try something a little different for this post. Instead of doing a complete rundown of everything (which I may still do a little later), I’m going to put some of the images up and show you a little bit about how we keep track of everything, especially at an event like this with so many moving parts.
When we’re looking at a Raleigh wedding in a post-industrial space it doesn’t get much better than Market View / ParkView at Market Hall (formerly 214 Martin). With two separate spaces for ceremony and reception, a cool patio area along the brick stricks, and a great historic vibe, you’ve got plenty of room. But it also calls for plenty of BOOM. You’ll notice there are 4 subwoofers and 4 tops for the reception space. We only needed two subs and two tops for the ceremony along with the requisite microphones for everyone who’ll be speaking during the event.
This particular couple, Liz & Anthony, were creative, compassionate, and full of really unique ideas to make their wedding day as uniquely them as they wanted it to be. Their love of sitcoms led to a really fun way of releasing table during dinner because each table was assigned a sitcom instead of a number. That meant that whenever I played the theme from that sitcom – the tables could make their way to the buffet. This required some very tight coordination with superstar wedding coordinator Nicole Conder and Market Hall Rep Audrey.
This wedding also featured a large NC State contingent (of course it would, we’re in Raleigh baby!), so there was a special NC State Alumni photo op and fight song shoutout! Go Wolfpack!

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Unique calligraphy wedding sign

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Ceremony Highlights:
Prelude Music Type: instrumental, mostly guitar, covers of pop & pop/rock songs
I found some really fun instrumental ACOUSTIC (like in bridgerton) covers of pop and pop/rock songs on Spotify. Doesn’t have to be all or these exactly, but my favorites are “Take on Me (Instrumental Guitar) by Go Fret; “Malibu – Instrumental” and “Bad Guy – Instrumental” by Guitar Tribute Players. Also by them: “Sunday Best – Instrumental”, “Island In The Sun”, “Cool – Instrumental”, “Africa – Instrumental”, “Old Town Road – Instrumental”, “Watermelon Sugar – Instrumental”, “Havana – Instrumental”, “My House”
5:00 CEREMONY
OFFICIANT FIRST – SIGNAL TO BEGIN
Groom/Officiant Entrance Song: “THE OFFICE (Instrumental Cover)” The Acoustic Guitar Force (ALL THE GROOMSMEN SINGLE FILE) (LOOPED)
Seating of the Mothers: “SIMPLY THE BEST (Instrumental Guitar)” – Go Fret
Bridesmaids Song: “I CHOOSE YOU” SARA BAREILLES – Guitar Tribute Players
Bridal Song: “HERE THERE & EVERYWHERE” – Stephen Bennett (FROM THE BEGINNING)
Recessional Song: (OPENING FROM YOU CAN CALL ME AL! THEN INTO CHORUS!)

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Cocktail Music: Yes Cocktail Music Type: happy pop & pop/rock
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Cocktail music: soft wedding-appropriate pop songs like “Marry You” by Bruno Mars. Some specific requests: “Lucky” Jason Mraz, “The Way I Am” Ingrid Michaelson, “Love Her” Jonas Brothers, “You Are Mine” Avvett Brothers, “Hey Pretty Girl” Kip Moore. We love Avett Brothers, Jonas Brothers, Tim McGraw, OAR, and anything 90s-2000s pop/rock. ALL BECAUSE OF YOU (ARTIST), PEACE OAR
WE’RE OAR GROUPIES
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RECEPTION
Bride & Groom Intro Song: Hootie & The Blowfish – ONLY WANNA BE WITH YOU
Bride & Groom Formal Intro: Mr. and Mrs.
Bride and Groom Song: Tim McGraw – WHEN THE STARS GO BLUE
Bride and Father Song: James Taylor – YOU’VE GOT A FRIEND
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Personal Welcome by you?: No
Blessing By: Rev. DENA WHALEN
Dinner Served: Yes Style: Buffet Line
AUDREY IS MARKET HALL BRIDAL COORDINATOR – 3 BRIDAL PARTY TABLES RELEASED FIRST

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Dinner Music Type: TV sitcom theme songs
Dinner Music special request: In addition to numbering tables, I am assigning each a title of one of my favorite sitcoms. I would LOVE if the theme songs to these shows could be played as the tables are released for dinner. And then songs related played in between tables. Example: New Girl theme plays for New Girl table, then play “Anything Could Happen” by Elllie Goulding (song from pivotal moment in the show). If it’s too complicated to play the song corresponding to the table being released to the buffet, that’s understandable. It’d be great if the themes and related songs could play during dinner regardless.
Tables: 1 Parks & Recreation, 2 Arrested Development, 3 New Girl, 4 Brooklyn Nine-Nine, 5 Friends, 6 The Office, 7 Scrubs, 8 Schitt’s Creek, 9 Superstore, 10 Community, 11 Seinfeld, 12 30 Rock, 13 How I Met Your Mother, 14 The Golden Girls, 15 Modern Family. If you let me know how much this can be incorporated, I’ll add information like related songs and likely order they’ll be dismissed for buffet.
COPA CABANA ROBIN SPARKLES LETSVGO TO THE MALL SONG BARENAKED LADIES
Cake Cutting: Yes When: Before Dinner
Cake Song 1: DNCE – Cake By The Ocean Cake Song 2: James Taylor – HOW SWEET IT IS
“IN MY LIFE” – BEATLES – GREAT SLOW DANCE
TRAVEL SONG OPTIONS – MALIBU CRAZY LITTLE THING CALLED LOVE
Other Special Dances: Yes
Special Dance & Song 1: “Travel appreciation dance” acknowledging all guests who don’t live in town; eliminate by state/mileage until honoring the guests who traveled farthest. “I’m Gonna Be (500 miles) – The Proclaimers
8:15 – FAKE SPARKLER EXIT W/ B&G & FEW VIP GUESTS

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\*\*\*\*\*\*NC STATE DANCE THEN WAGON WHEEL!!!! \*\*\*\*\*\*

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WE LOVE TAYLOR SWIFT – I LOVE MIXED STUFF, MAYBE MORE MASHUPS AS THE NIGHT GOES ON (BLENDING IS AWESOME!)
LAST CALL 10:00 BAR CLOSES 10:15
10:15 Last Dance of Evening: Yes Last Dance Song: ‘N Sync – BYE BYE BYE
Last Dance Includes: Everyone (All guests)
Grand Exit: Sparklers
Afterparty?: Yes Afterparty Details:
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### [Stylus Weddings Spotlight: Nadia and Zain](https://stylusweddings.com/stylus-weddings-spotlight-nadia-and-zain/)

**Published:** April 11, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# Pakisthani Wedding Party: Faith, Family, & Fun in Cary, NC

## Taking a look at memorable events the Stylus Weddings team loves!

In March of 2021, Stylus Weddings owner and DJ, Jason Huggins, was thrilled to be a part of the engagement celebration of a wonderful couple at Prestonwood Country Club. This exceptional couple calls Washington, D.C. home. But it was important to them to return to the bride-to-be’s home state of North Carolina for this once-in-a-lifetime event.

We’re freqently asked to perform multi-day events for Pakisthani, Indian, and couples from across the Arabic Diaspora. With this couple, the engagement party took place 8 months before the 3 days of wedding celebration and each event was a unique combination of goals, incorporating the traditional elements that meant the most to them and the

We were delighted to find out that our VIPs were returning to North Carolina for their wedding. And even more excited that they again asked [Stylus Weddings](https://www.weddingwire.com/reviews/stylus-s-e-holly-springs/4c02af27724ad457.html) to be a part of their wedding celebrations!

## And we do mean celebrations!

One day could not hold all the love and joy of this couple and their families and friends!

Zain and Nadia had a phenomenal three-day wedding celebration that beautifully highlighted and blended their Pakistani heritage, Muslim faith, and contemporary style.

Like many recent wedding couples, Nadia and Zain had to postpone their initial wedding plans due to the COVID-19 pandemic. The wait made their celebration from November 19 to November 21, 2021, feel even more significant.

### Engagement Party

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The engagement party was a smaller affair, featuring around 80 people and one of the elements they were most excited about was matching the DJ’s look to their other choice. In this particular case they opted for the All-White set-up and you can see why!

The event began at 6:30 at the Prestonwood County Club and guests mixed and mingled for half an hour until the Groom’s entrance. Escorted by his brothers and his parents, they came in to a special edit of Koi Aanay Wala Hai by Strings.

Next, our bride entered to In Dinon by Atif Aslan flanked by her Father & Mother.

Once inside, our guests of honor performed their Ring Ceremony which featured a live-mixed blend of 3 of their favorite songs: Dil Diyan Gallan by Atif Aslan, Din Shgana Da by Phillauri, and Reflections by Toshifumi Hinata.

After the Ring Ceremony, where the engagement is ceremoniously recognized – it was time to celebrate with a delicious dinner featuring an assortment of foods that left the palatte singing as brightly as the wedding attendants formal wear!

After a quick speech by our bride’s father, it was time for my favorite part of the night – the F**UN DANCES TO HONOR OUR ENGAGED GUESTS OF HONOR!**

This is absolutely one of my favorite parts and I remember telling the couple how jealous I was that they had friends who were willing to do this because I don’t know if any of my friends love me this much 🙂

It’s a tradition whereby the groomsmen, bridesmaids, friends and family members will perform choreographed dances to songs of their choice. It’s a pretty big deal because song choices and dance moves speak a lot to the feeling of joy and celebration that everyone feels during the performances!

![Stylus SE Parkistani wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/StylusPakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Raleigh1-1024x768.jpg "StylusPakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Raleigh(1) - Stylus Weddings")

After that wrapped up – it was time for cake and dancing and photographs before guests made their way home around 10:30 with warm hearts, full bellies, and happy memories. But, they had no idea what was in store for them later that year.

### Friday – Mehndi

The party started on Friday night back at Prestonwood Country Club’s [main clubhouse](https://www.prestonwood.com/weddings-and-events/weddings/main-clubhouse-gallery), the site of Nadia and Zain’s engagement party.

In preparation for the night, Stylus Weddings set up [top-notch sound equipment](/what-we-do/dj-services) and lighting to make sure the couple sounded and looked as magnificent as they are. Uplighting was added to the stage and dance floor. And more focused lighting was set up to highlight a background flower wall and, of course, the wedding couple.

Guests were welcomed with appetizers and cocktails before the groom-to-be and bride-to-be made their big entrances. Zain entered first. His entrance was followed by dancing and growing anticipation for the introduction of the bride-to-be. All eyes were on Nadia entered with a traditional Pakistani wedding song, Chitta Kukkad sung by Neha Bhasin, and all eyes were on her!

The [Mehndi ceremony](https://www.weddingwire.in/wedding-tips/mehndi-ceremony--c2645) was a definite highlight of this boisterous and bright evening! Intricate henna designs were painted on the hands of the bride-to-be and many wedding guests. Stylus Weddings DJ, Jason Huggins, played a carefully curated Mehndi ceremony playlist during the festivities.

After a delectable dinner catered by Prestonwood Country Club, wedding guests took the spotlight! Many of Nadia and Zain’s friends and family members prepared choreographed Bollywood-style dances to celebrate the marriage and performed them for the couple. We were blown away by the talent and thoughtfulness of these wedding guests! Some danced solo, others in groups of three, and a few did large group dance numbers. Photographer and videographer [Mark Maya](https://markmaya.com/) captured this extraordinary moment and other meaningful moments throughout the wedding celebrations.

It was a fantastic show of love! And some serious dance moves!

![Stylus SE Parkistani wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/MehndiPakisthani_Wedding_Chapel_Hill1-1024x768.jpg "MehndiPakisthani_Wedding_Chapel_Hill(1) - Stylus Weddings")

### Saturday

The [Umstead Ballroom](https://www.theumstead.com/weddings/venues) in [The Umstead Hotel and Spa](https://www.theumstead.com/) in Cary, NC was the site of Saturday’s festivities. The ballroom was the perfect location for the more formal tone of the day with deep ruby, sapphire, and emerald jewel tones featured in the wedding decor.

Stylus Weddings was happy to accommodate last-minute lighting changes to add to the uniqueness of Nadia and Zain’s big day. The Stylus Weddings team added large ceiling-mounted lights for stage washes and intelligent lighting featuring four moving fixtures controlled from a console in the back of the room. It was the perfect lighting choice to highlight all the elements of the day, while also allowing seamless visual transitions throughout the event.

![Stylus SE Parkistani wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Pakisthani-Wedding_DJ_Traditional_Drummer1-768x1024.jpg "Pakisthani-Wedding_DJ_Traditional_Drummer(1) - Stylus Weddings")

Violinist [Trev Wignall](https://www.weddingwire.com/biz/trev-wignall-music-carrboro/56097f0a1d84ed9c.html) played as guests arrived, mingled, and found their seats, while Zain was preparing for his baraat, the groom’s procession.

Zain made his grand entrance along with the baraat, complete with a performance by dhol drummer [G2 Singh](https://www.facebook.com/g2singhmusic). Zain’s brothers, Hasan and Yasir, spoke to welcome the groom and set the stage for Nadia’s entrance.

![Stylus SE Parkistani wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Pakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Umstead_Cary_North_Carolina1-1024x768.jpg "Pakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Umstead_Cary_North_Carolina(1) - Stylus Weddings")

When it was time for the bride-to-be to make her entrance, the room went dark and a spotlight shone on the opening doors. The focus was all on Nadia as she entered and revealed her gorgeous wedding dress. Nadia’s father, Ghazanfar, escorted her to the front of the room while violinist Trev Wignall played along with the song Ghar Nari. Zain met Nadia at the front of the room to escort her up to sit on the stage.

Family photos were captured as the bride and groom took their places on the stage for the ring ceremony. Behka Na and Je te laisserai des mots played during the ceremony and a prayer was offered by Imam Kayzer Aslam.

Following Nadia and Zain’s ring ceremony, wedding guests enjoyed an exquisite dinner [catered by the Umstead](https://www.theumstead.com/dining/team). Speeches were given by Nadia’s father, brother, and best friend. And each one showcased the love in the room with shared memories and well wishes for Nadia and Zain.

The [Stylus Weddings team](/who-we-are) was busy monitoring the sound to make sure every guest heard each speaker clearly from start to finish during the speeches. And they were preparing for the next event of the night- the cake cutting!

Nadia and Zain cut into their spectacular wedding cake (made by [Annelore’s German Bakery](https://xiy.bwf.mybluehost.me/) in Cary, NC) with Aankhen Milaney Waaley playing in the background. Mark Maya took more action shots of the moment, while Stylus Weddings’ Jason Huggins prepared additional microphones for another noteworthy element of the celebration.

![Stylus SE Parkistani wedding](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Pakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Stylus_at_the_Umstead_Cary_North_Carolina_Wedding_Cake1-768x1024.jpg "Pakisthani_Wedding_DJ_Stylus_at_the_Umstead_Cary_North_Carolina_Wedding_Cake(1) - Stylus Weddings")

After the cake had been served, the bride’s family and Zain made their way to the stage for the dhood pilai or milk ceremony. During this Pakistani wedding tradition, the bride’s family presents the groom with a glass of milk. . . for a price. The groom really wants the milk and has to barter and pay the family to get a drink. This light-hearted and playful exchange will definitely be remembered for years to come!

By the end of the dhood pilai, the wedding guests were ready to get up out of their seats and join in the celebration! Stylus Weddings’ [DJ Jason Huggins](/who-we-are/dj-jason-huggins) played a mix of classic and newer pop music with colorful and dynamic lighting adding to the festive mood.

As the end of the night approached, the music and lighting shifted to a slower, more somber tone as the wedding couple and their families prepared for the rukhsati, or send-off. The sadness of Nadia’s family as she stood up and ceremoniously left her own family to join Zain’s family was felt by all. It was a bittersweet moment as the couple and family exited the ballroom with Neha Bhasin’s Madhaniya providing the soundtrack.

### Sunday

The wedding celebrations wrapped up with an after-wedding brunch for family members and friends at [The Matthews House](https://matthewshousecary.com/) in Cary, NC. The delightful brunch was catered by [Southern Harvest](https://southernharvesthg.com/catering/). The lovely event gave Nadia and Zain one more opportunity to spend time with their wedding guests before returning home to start their life together.

Stylus Weddings provided [emcee and DJ services](/what-we-do/dj-services) for the wedding brunch. And sound equipment and lighting that added a luminous feel. It was the perfect ending to an out-of-this-world wedding celebration!

#### The Stylus Weddings team is honored that we got to be a part of Nadia and Zain’s wedding celebrations!

We’d love to be a part of your wedding celebration too! [Tell us](/contact/) about the meaningful elements you want to include in your wedding day celebrations!

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### [4 Ways to Hire The Best Chapel Hill Wedding DJ](https://stylusweddings.com/4-ways-to-hire-the-best-chapel-hill-wedding-dj/)

**Published:** April 11, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Hiring the Best Chapel Hill Wedding DJ – 4 Key Things Title the picture Hiring the Best Chapel Hill Wedding DJ You want a wedding dj who is skilled and knowledgeable of all the varied forms of music that may be played at a wedding when you’re seeking the best wedding dj in Chapel Hill. A competent wedding DJ should understand not just the top hits, but be familiar with obscure genres and songs that your guests might like, as well as the ability to draw on those styles and genres from throughout the chart histories since your wedding will likely feature a lot of different people, at many different ages, from a lot of different backgrounds.Their playlist will include everything from oldies to up-and-coming songs that can get people excited to participate. They’ll make sure to cover it all. Wedding DJs Vary – So Watch for These Key Elements
Select for Your Size & Style

It can be hard to find a wedding dj who can do it all, someone who is both professional and has the depth of knowledge to make it work, whether you’re hosting a swanky soiree at The Carolina Inn, hosting all your favorite people at the stunning Barn of Chapel Hill At Wild Flora Farm or doing a more intimate event at the Old Lystra Inn . The skill set that makes a DJ is more than just playing great music. Not only that, but many chapel hill wedding dj services can require a substantial up-front payment, which can be hard to come by in times of financial uncertainty, like when you’re trying to hire every other vendor for your event.

You don’t want your DJ to make rookie mistakes during your wedding; you want it to be perfect. That’s why it’s essential to hire a dj who is knowledgeable about all of the elements that go into a typical wedding. In addition, your wedding DJ should be able to play the requested music for your occasion without problem.

This is especially crucial when many up and coming DJs are relying on streaming services instead of buying their music – and you’ve probably seen or heard people complaining about a Chapel Hill wedding DJ who had to stop the party because the internet went out. The best Chapel Hill wedding DJs are going to be able to throw a great party even if the wifi is interrupted by a lot of guests trying to post their socials.

There’s more to the best DJ in Chapel Hill for your event than just having the music or the ability to adapt to different groups that will make up your guest list.

Stylus Best Chapel Hill Wedding DJ

You’re Wedding DJ is More Than Music

You should look for a trustworthy, reputable wedding DJ. In addition, they must be capable of organizing your crowd, meeting your needs for the event, and playing the perfect music at the proper time. It takes skill to do it well, and the most qualified individuals are generally worth considering.

Even if your event is smaller in size and your needs are relatively simple, say an elegant wedding reception at The Story with a small sound system and a streamlined wedding event without accent lighting or a glam photo booth, your choice of entertainment can make or break your event. With small groups, it often takes a more engaged emcee to really make the guests feel like they’re a big part of the event, that their comfort, engagement, and participation is both welcome and appropriate.

Your event may not be as memorable if your DJ is merely playing music and neglecting to take the time to make your audience’s situational presence in a comfortable & welcoming environment.

Chapel Hill Wedding DJ – Great, Average, or Meh?

When it comes to selecting wedding entertainment, there are few vendors more significant than your Wedding DJ. Consider the most recent wedding you attended, even if it wasn’t in Durham. Was the DJ doing a great job of creating the party? Was the DJ ‘average’ and doing an acceptable job, or was the DJ so bad you left early? Your guests are spending most of their time in your reception, so it’s going to be what they remember most about your Chapel Hill wedding, regardless of the wedding venue.

So if you’re looking for the best Chapel Hill wedding DJ, it’s going to take more than just DJing to make the event spectacular. There’s more to doing a great job than just the music – it’s how your wedding DJ puts it together, how they guide your event, how they speak to your guests, and the way they set the narrative tone and manage the flow.

One other element to keep in mind in order to find your best Chapel Hill wedding DJ option is that your DJ is going to responsible for around 75%-80% of your wedding. That means that you’re putting most of your event in their hands. Considering that the cheapest Chapel Hill wedding DJ and the most expensive Chapel Hill wedding DJ are not all that different in terms of the overall percentage of your budget – it might make a lot of sense for your event to work with a higher service level wedding DJ because you’re going to get more bang for your buck.

For instance, the average couple will usually spend around 3.5% ($1500) on the lowest end and 10% of their budget for a higher service level wedding DJ. Be honest with yourself about the priority of your wedding entertainment.

Price and Wedding DJ Planning Differences

As you’re thinking about your wedding planning, remember that your Chapel Hill DJ is either going to make your life easy or end up putting more work on your shoulders. As someone who ran their own wedding, I strongly recommend offloading everything you can to professionals so you can put your focus on what your wedding is all about – being with your friends and family.

Hiring the cheapest wedding DJ Chapel Hill means you’re probably getting someone with less experience and fewer tools to help you achieve the best wedding day. Experience accounts for more than you’d think. While everyone has to get experience somewhere, be careful about putting too much on the shoulders of someone who can’t handle it – it can lead to ruined events and bad feelings.

The amount of prep time is often one of the big differences between your cheap wedding DJ and your best Chapel Hill wedding DJ option (although, for some couples cheap is what’s best for your event if you blew your wedding budget on stuff that means more to you). This is something couples often come to too late. We get calls every week from couples who essentially forgot they needed a DJ. It’s even more important to work with an experienced professional because they’re going to be able to get you squared away efficiently and pick up any slack.

Remember, what makes the best Chapel Hill wedding DJ for you is going to vary. It all depends on your needs, and that’s why Stylus features multiple DJs on staff – so that you can be matched with the right performance style, personality, event direction skills, and emcee style that helps you achieve your vision.

When you’re looking for the best Chapel Hill wedding DJ, you should start with Stylus. We are a professional and knowledgeable wedding dj service that offers a wide range of services, including wedding DJ, wedding MC, and wedding event direction. We also offer a no-obligation consultation so that you can get a sense of our capabilities and see if we’re the right fit for your Chapel Hill wedding. Contact us today to schedule your consultation!

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### [#1 Best Wedding DJ in Raleigh](https://stylusweddings.com/1-best-wedding-dj-in-raleigh/)

**Published:** April 11, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

\#1 Best DJ in Raleigh Raleigh’s Best Wedding DJ What Makes the Best Wedding DJ in Raleigh and What Does That Mean For You?
When you’re looking for the best wedding dj in Raleigh, you want someone who is experienced and knowledgeable about all the different types of music that can be played at a wedding. A good wedding dj will not only know how to play popular songs, but also know about obscure genres and tracks that your guests might enjoy. They will make sure to have everything from classic rock ballads to up-and-coming indie bands covered on their playlist.

It can be hard to find a wedding dj who is both professional and knowledgeable. Not only that, but most wedding dj services require a large up-front payment, which can be difficult to come by in times of financial hardship.

You want your wedding to be perfect, and you don’t want any mistakes from your DJ. That’s why it’s important to find a dj who is well-versed in everything that goes into a typical wedding. Not only that, but your wedding dj should also be capable of playing the requested songs for your event without issue.

There’s more to the best DJ for your event than just having the music or the ability to adapts to different groups.
Raleigh Best Wedding DJ – The Basics
Your wedding DJ should be someone who you can trust and who has a good reputation. They should also have the technical skills to manage your crowd, meet your event needs, and play the right tracks at the right time.

Even if your event is relatively simple, with a small sound system and not a lot of extras like wedding event lighting or a glam photo booth, you can still make or break your event with your choice of entertainment. Actually, smaller events can sometimes require far more engagement and Emcee interaction to help the crowd really feel comfortable, welcome, and ready to engage.
If you value engagement and your DJ is just playing music, without taking the time to facilitate your crowd’s situational presence in a warm & welcoming place, your event might not be quite as memorable as you’d like.

When it comes to how your event works out, there are very few vendors more impactful than your choice of wedding entertainment. Think about the last wedding you went to? Was the DJ amazing? (if they were, you should hire them for your event!). Was the DJ ‘average’ or was the DJ so bad you left early? The guests are spending a ton of time in your reception, and it’s going to be what they remember most about your event. So if you’re looking for the best wedding DJ in Raleigh, it takes more than just DJing to make the event spectacular.

One other element to keep in mind to find your best wedding DJ option is that your DJ is pretty much on the hook for around 75%-80% of your wedding. That means that you’re going to be putting most of your event in their hands.
Considering even the cheapest wedding DJ in Raleigh and the most expensive wedding DJ Raleigh are only a couple thousand dollars apart for wildly different experiences, and if you’re looking for the best possible wedding DJ experience, the cost difference is relatively small considering how much you’re spending on other parts of your event.

For instance, the average couple will usually spend around 3.5% ($1500) on the low end and 10 of their budget for a higher service level wedding DJ.

As you’re thinking about your wedding planning, remember that your DJ is either going to make it easy or end up putting way more work on your shoulders. The amount of prep time is often one of the big differences between your cheap wedding DJ and your best wedding DJ option (although, sometimes cheap is what’s best for your event if you blew your wedding budget on stuff that means more to you).

Remember, what makes the best wedding DJ in Raleigh is going to vary depending on your needs, but that’s why Stylus features multiple DJs on staff so that we can match you with the right personality, performance style, event direction, and MC style that helps you achieve your vision.

When you’re looking for a great shot at finding your solution to the best wedding DJ in Raleigh, look no further than Stylus. We are a professional and knowledgeable wedding dj service that offers a wide range of services, including wedding DJ, wedding MC, and wedding event direction. We also offer a no-obligation consultation so that you can get a sense of our capabilities and see if we’re the right fit for your event. Contact us today to schedule your consultation!

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### [Raleigh's Hottest Wedding DJ Trends of 2023](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-s-hottest-wedding-dj-trends-of-2023/)

**Published:** June 1, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Raleigh’s Hottest Wedding DJ Trends 2023 Hottest Raleigh Wedding DJ Trends What Trend Is Right for Your Wedding in Raleigh in 2023? Unveiling the Hottest Wedding DJ Trends of 2023
When it comes to creating an unforgettable North Carolina wedding experience, the choice of entertainment plays a pivotal role. A skilled and innovative wedding DJ can set the mood, keep the dance floor alive, and create lasting memories for the couple and their guests. If you want an ‘average’ wedding, you’ve can certainly just let it slide. However, we encourage radical personalization and it’s worth sharing a bit more about your options so you can create the event that fits you best.
In the past few years, the wedding DJ industry has changed a lot, and there are exciting trends and advancements that have transformed the way weddings are celebrated. In this blog post, we will delve into the hottest wedding DJ trends of 2023, highlighting the creative ways DJs are enhancing the atmosphere, incorporating technology, and tailoring their performances to meet the unique preferences of each couple.
Personalized Playlists and Music Curation:
In 2023, wedding DJs are taking customization to new heights by curating personalized playlists for couples. Instead of relying solely on generic wedding playlists, DJs are collaborating closely with the couple to create a unique soundtrack that reflects their personalities and musical preferences. By incorporating special songs that hold sentimental value, the DJ can elevate the emotional connection between the couple and their loved ones, ensuring that each moment is accompanied by the perfect melody.
How does this affect you? If you’ve had a Stylus party before, then you know that the rest of the DJ world is catching up to something we’ve been harping on for years – we want your wedding to sound like YOU – not just ‘some wedding.’
 
Interactive Song Requests and Technology Integration 
The era of paper song request slips is gradually fading away as DJs embrace technology to enhance your guests’ engagement. With the rise of mobile apps and web-based platforms, wedding DJs are utilizing interactive song request systems that allow guests to submit their favorite tracks in real-time. By embracing this type of technology, DJs can effortlessly gauge the crowd’s preferences and ensure that everyone’s musical tastes are accommodated throughout the celebration.
Stylus has a vareity of methods that we can use in these instances, although you may be the kind of couple who wants to lock down the request list a bit more (no group dances) or to make sure you have time to hear your favorite songs.
 
Live Music Collaborations 
In 2023, the fusion of live music and DJ performances is becoming increasingly popular. DJs are teaming up with live musicians, such as saxophonists, violinists, and percussionists, to add a touch of elegance and uniqueness to the wedding experience. The combination of live instruments with DJ mixes creates a dynamic atmosphere that resonates with guests of all ages, leaving them captivated by the harmonious blend of traditional and modern sounds.
Stylus can offer band/DJ combos. In the wedding we did this past weekend (May 28 2023) we not only played alongside Native American drummers & freestyled with a Jazz saxophonists, but we also featured a very special appearance by the former lead singer of the Platters – Mr. Al Zaid! You’ve also seen us play along with bands and been backed up by bands to throw the biggest party int he city!
Stylus offers a variety of instrumentation options whether your style is more focuesd on presenting style and class or if you’re interested in going IN on your party. A raleigh band/DJ combo is a great way to go.
We love helping couples create special moments that reflect them – and we’ve got a ton of ideas to help you accomplish exactly what you’re looking for.
 
Enhanced Lighting and Visual Effects 
Gone are the days of simple light setups and basic dance floor effects. Modern wedding DJs are transforming reception venues into immersive environments with stunning lighting and visual effects. By utilizing state-of-the-art technology, such as intelligent lighting fixtures, LED screens, and projection mapping, DJs can create breathtaking displays that synchronize with the music, amplifying the energy and excitement on the dance floor.
You’ll see examples of this at almost every single Stylus Wedding regardless of whether you’ve flow us into New York, Miami, or set us up in one of the grand ballrooms at the Biltmore or the Washington-Duke Inn in Durham. 
Stylus utilizes a variety of lighting to take a wedding to the next level with music-synchronized lighting, custom texture lighting, couple’s GOBOs, intelligent lighting, and much more. There are a vareity of things you can do at every price point, whether you’re looking for the most affordable Raleigh DJ or the biggest party wedding DJ experience you can get.
 
Mixing Genres and Cross-Cultural Experiences 
Weddings are diverse celebrations that bring together people from various cultural backgrounds. In 2023, DJs are adept at seamlessly blending different musical genres and catering to the diverse tastes of the guests. By skillfully transitioning between styles and incorporating multicultural elements, DJs can create a harmonious experience that resonates with everyone present, fostering unity and a shared sense of celebration.
Stylus has long been the DJs of choice for blending families, cultures, backgrounds, and ideas at weddings across Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Wilmington, Greensboro, and beyond. It’s not just any average Wedding DJ who’s going to be able to seamlessly mix all your favorite elements from all the cultures you choose to celebrate – it takes a special type of skill set we’ve been practicing for many years. That’s why Stylus is often the DJ of choice for blended cutlures, whether it’s city/country, northern/southern, East Coast/West Coast, or any combination of cultures from around the globe.
Examples of blended family weddings we’ve done include far more than just Wilmington / Raleigh Weddings, and it’s not just the plethora of cultural identities, it’s building a cohesive and wonderful moment that everyone can share in together. From Latin/Country weddings, Indian/Greek, Arabic/Carolina, and Ukrainian/Nigerian – we’ve got the music and the skill set to help make your wedding work for everyone.
 
Custom DJ Booths and Visual Branding
Wedding DJs are increasingly recognizing the importance of visual branding when it comes to helping create unique experiences. In 2023, personalized DJ booths are gaining popularity as DJs seek to establish their own visual identity. From customized LED panels displaying the couple’s names to intricately designed setups that match the wedding theme, these visually appealing booths contribute to the overall aesthetics of the event while showcasing the DJ’s professionalism and dedication to their craft.
Stylus has been providing this ultra-personalized service for years and we feature multiple set-up and design options to help you create the look that fits your wedding vibe the best. Whether it’s an all-white wedding set-up that expresses subtle sophistication, an all-black setup that presents a debonaire and edgy charm, the boxwood setup that speaks to bohemian chic impulses, or the rustic set-up that presents a professional and deligtful take on a bucolic theme.
What Wedding DJ Trends Mean for You?
The world of wedding DJing is evolving rapidly, and the trends of 2023 are testament to the industry’s commitment to innovation and creating unforgettable experiences. From personalized playlists to seamless technology integration and captivating visual effects, these stlyistic and decorative elements can go a long way to making your North Carolina wedding even more exciting and amazing than any other wedding you’ve ever been to. Stylus has been on the forefront of all of these trends for years and we invite you to learn more about how Stylus can help your wedding in North Carolina or beyond can be more than you ever imagined.

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### [Should You Hire a Wedding DJ or Have a Spotify Playlist?](https://stylusweddings.com/should-you-hire-a-wedding-dj-or-have-a-spotify-playlist/)

**Published:** August 31, 2023
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

The debate: Should I have a Spotify Playlist and rent a sound system or should I hire a professional Raleigh wedding DJ/MC?
While there’s no right or wrong per se, your own best solution probably leans more toward one or the other. We’ll examing your options and see if it can help you figure out what’s best for your wedding in Raleigh, Durham, Apex, Chapel Hill, or anywhere else for your North Carolina reception.
Let’s take a quick look at the pros and cons of both:

## Hiring a Wedding DJ

### Pros

### Having an On-Site entertainment coordinator

- One of the harsh downsides of any event can be downtime. It can make events feel stacatto or choppy. DJs are the best solution for this because they focus on FLOW. They know the order of events and are mindful of the room’s vibe.
- The wedding DJ communicates with all your other vendors to have a reliable event cohesion, even if you have a wedding coordinator, which helps you have a smoother event. The vendors work together to set up and enhance the moments in your wedding to make it more memorable for you and your guests.
- The wedding DJ helps moments seamlessly transition from one to the next. If that seems simple, just imagine what your wedding might be like with no one making it seem like the event is running organically and correctly.

###  Knowing What Songs to Play

- For the best outcomes, this only comes from experience
- Experienced DJs know that the time from when the guests arrive until the end of dinner is a great time to explore your guests musical tastes. Experienced DJs can also do this without ‘working the room’ by reading body language and reactions to songs as they’re testing them throughout the social hour and dinner music. You’ll see guests bobbing their heads, tapping their feet and lightly singing along and that helps inform the DJ’s approach to the party itself.
- Thinking ahead is one of the DJs greatest strengths. I’ve often compared DJing to playing chess – you have to think 3 moves ahead while simultaneously responding to what’s happening out on the floor and making changes to accommodate their needs.
- One of the scariest ‘failures’ during a wedding reception, or any party for that matter, is emptying the dancefloor. While some events accidentally build this into themselves (like by putting the bar in completely different area) it can happen with almost any event unless steps are taken to address it. There’s a strong benefit to having a professional paying attention to this all night – and doing it right is a coveted talent!
- Thinking ahead is one of the DJs greatest strengths. I’ve often compared DJing to playing chess – you have to think 3 moves ahead while simultaneously responding to what’s happening out on the floor and making changes to accommodate their needs.

### Knowing What To Say & How To Say It

- An amazing party is more than just great music – it can also be enhanced by the narrative threads the MC weaves. No one likes it when DJ talks too much and makes the party about them instead of the couple, but not talking enough can hurt an event just as much.
- Making announcements appropriately to elevate the event experience is a coveted skill too. Not everyone is great at this, and the very best can do it with style, class, and verve – fitting the vibe you’re going for with your event.
- Informing your guests about upcoming moments & events is a crucial part of that ‘organic flow’ we were talking about earlier.

###  Having Someone Handle Your Planning & Execution

- This could be a huge benefit to you if you’ve never planned a wedding before. A professional DJ is going to be able to help you navigate the planning much more easily and distill your converstations into a responsive plan of execution on the night of the event.

###  Monitoring the Sound & Microphone Volume

- If you’ve ever been at an event where the volume was too soft, too loud, too shrill, or too bassy, then you probably know what having someone keep an eye on this can mean.

### Cons

- You need to have trust in your DJ to create your desired event dynamics
- Whether or not the guests have a good time is in the hands of your DJ
- Increased budget costs
- Potentially additional planning time (although it could save you planning time too)

## Playing a Spotify Playlist

### Pros

### Lower Budget

- Renting a sound system and getting it delivered can be less than half the cost of getting a DJ. Most sound system rentals are going to average around $300-600, and you’ll probably get a $75-$150 delivery/set-up fee, putting your total costs around $350-$800 depending on your needs.

### Play Your Songs in An Exact Order

- While DJs could do this, Many will think it’s a wasted opportunity because you can’t perfectly predict exactly what mood your guests are going to be in days or weeks in advance, they prefer to be responsive to the guests mood. It’s kind of the same problem with getting a wedding band for your Raleigh reception. They’re usually planning their set-list weeks or months in advance because the band members have to practice. However, if you’ve got an exact playlist you’d like to see – this might be a great choice.

### Internet not necessary

- If you choose Offline Mode in Spotify, your songs will be downloaded and you won’t need WiFi. Some DJs are trying to cheap out as well by using the internet to stream their music, so you’re nipping a potential problem in the bud.

### Less Risk than Hiring an Unprofessional DJ

- Cheap or unprofessional DJs can be more risky than a Spotify playlist or professional DJ. You won’t have to worry that they won’t show up, won’t play the kind of music you want, or don’t care about the success of the event.

### Cons

- Guests might not be as engaged
- Someone needs to prepare the playlist
- Have to get guest requests
- No ability to adjust to the guests’ mood, the playlist is set in stone
- A guests will have to cue the music for specific moments of your wedding day, like first dances
- Renting a Sound System
- More of the planning and execution is on you both before and during the event

##  How Should You Decide?

For your North Carolina Wedding, your best bet for helping to determine which option is right for you depends on a couple of basic factors:

1\. Budget

- Your budget may seem like the first place to start, and for some couples it’s absolutely the single most important thing. While DJ costs can often run between $1000 and $3000, some events might require a tighter budget and in this case a spotify playlist might be the way to go. Since DJ costs are usually a small faction of the overall budget, it might be more worthwhile to get a professional DJ you’re comfortable and confident in and, if you’re trying to trim your budget, maybe trim back other elements you’re not prioritizing for most of your event.

2\. Knowledge

- Preparing a playlist can take a specialized knowledge about how songs are going to affect certain groups. If you’re very insightful about your friends and family, it will be much easier for you, but for many couples this can be a process that takes more time than it should. Factor in how easy you think this will be for you or if you’ll want to let someone else handle it for you.

3\. Time

- The amount of time it will take to get the rental, prepare the playlist, get guests requests, secure a helper or two to run the music, and, equally important, the amount of time you’ll have to dedicate to the music and volume control during the event, are just some of the elements you need to take into account. What is your time worth? Will you have the time to spare? If the answer is yes, then choose the Spotify playlist, if you don’t then you might want to hire a professional north carolina wedding DJ.

4\. Risk Tolerance

- There are a few key elements here. First, when you get your sound system, you’re assuming all the responsibility for checking the equipment and troubleshooting it if something goes wrong. Having a professional DJ is the least risky proposition, but getting an unprofessional DJ can be even worse than just having a Spotify playlist. Take a look at your risk tolerance and get a sense of where you’re the most comfortable.

Hope fully this helped you explore your options about whether you wanted to have a spotify playlist and rent a sound system or if you wanted to hire a professional wedding DJ for your event. If you have any questions or want some additional help – feel free to contact us and talk with a professional to help you get everything figured out!

**Categories:** Blog

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### [Stun With The Best 2025 Wedding Ceremony Music](https://stylusweddings.com/stun-with-the-best-2025-wedding-ceremony-music/)

**Published:** January 9, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

It’s 2025 and you’ve got lots of amazing wedding ceremony music options for your wedding ceremony! Here’s a quick guide to the best wedding ceremony songs for 2025!

Whether it’s a classic ballad or something newer, who knows – you might find your perfect wedding song among these romantic, powerful, and emotive songs.

When you’re looking to pick songs for your wedding ceremony, our recommended approach is to pick songs that speak to you. We’ve done wedding ceremonies that featured string quartet versions of popular rock songs, or a ceremony exclusively soundtracked by instrumental hip hop from Usher, Lil Jon, Ginuine, and Ice Spice. The sky is the limit and you can get as creative as you want!

You might be interested in this post about why you’ll probably need a[ DJ FOR YOUR ](/blog/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/ " DJ FOR YOUR CEREMONY")[CEREMONY](/blog/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/ " DJ FOR YOUR CEREMONY") even if you’ve got a string trio or other instrumentalist: [/blog/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/](/blog/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/)

**However, you’re here because you’re looking for suggestions for great wedding ceremony songs – so here we go!**

Before we dive too deep – We need to know what the main wedding ceremony music cues are, but feel freeskip if you just want the songs!

Wedding Cues (just the most frequent ones YMMV)
Seating of the family (Parents/Grandparents/Honored Guests)
Groom’s Entrance (processional)
Bride’s Entrance (processional)
Hymn/Prayer/Interlude (light music in the background while you do something)
Recessional (The song that plays once you’re officially married as you walk back down the aisle!)## Wedding Ceremony Music **Untraditional Favorites:**

**Marry You by Bruno Mars**
Upbeat, joyous, and perfectly themed. You might use this for your Groom’s Processional or perhaps for your Recessional!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-4PgwsXALM)

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**Golden Hour by JVKE**
One of the few slow songs from the past couple of years that we think needs to be featured in more weddings! It’s amazing and worth a look!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9cFMo0o1f4)

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**Lover by Taylor Swift**
This is a modern classic that’s going to be showing up in weddings for the next 50 years at a minimum. Your grandkids might come down the aisle to this song. We had several couples use this as their bridal processional several times in 2024, but we think it’s really going to hit its stride in 2025.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BjZmE2gtdo)

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**Forever and Ever and Always by Ryan Mack (The Wedding Song)**
If this isn’t on your radar, this song appeared in 2023 and is perfect for the couple that’s a little more online. Featured in the Ossy & Sherin proposal, a great TikTok shoutout that’s got all the feels.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfGN_A5XMg0)

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**A Thousand Years by Christina Perri**
Stately, romantic, and a little nostalgic for middle or high school dances when you were younger. Because you didn’t know it when you first heard it, but this song was about your partner the whole time. This might be a great fit for your Processional.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtOvBOTyX00)

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**Adore You by Nao (Stripped with Khalid or Piano Instrumental)**
You get to pick something with a measured midtempo groove and a lilting vibrato voice expressing true love, or soft and soulful with echoes of grace and romance.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xU-MUbRZzDA)

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**Bloom by The Paper Kites**
A delicate song that’s great for a serene and intimate processional. This song makes me think of a beautiful sunny North Carolina summer early evening, with sunlight dappling the grass as you walk down the aisle. Perfect for the indie kid that loves Noah Kahan.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8inJtTG_DuU)

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**Can’t Help Falling in Love (Acoustic) by Haley Reinhart**
Another great processional song that hits a nostalgic and romantic note. This Elvis Presley classic has been reimagined with a soft and soulful touch. Maybe this is a good song to feature for the seating of the parents?
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlBDbTYzSyY)

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**Halo (Acoustic) by Beyoncé**
Stripped down and powerful, reflecting a deep connection between you and your partner. Or perhaps because you’re saving Crazy in Love for later.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnVUHWCynig)

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**Speechless by Dan + Shay**
This modern country ballad is taking its place in the wedding music pantheon very quickly. It helps to perfectly capture the magic of the moment, and it’s not too fast and not too slow! A great Processional or Interlude choice.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7UoP9ABJXGE)

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**Best Part by H.E.R. featuring Daniel Caesar**
A modern R&B choice with a soothing and heartfelt vibe. Make sure your DJ has great speakers if you’re picking something with this level of quality production.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKgl5-lkT8U)

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**Sailor Song by Gigi Perez**
Surprising sweet and slightly naughty song for when you’re looking to do something tongue-in-cheek that doesn’t sound entirely out of place. If you like Zach Bryan, this might be up there.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oPvUR8pKpzw)

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**Hoppípolla by Sigur Rós**
It’s a shame more people don’t know about this band, but it’s entirely possible that you’ve heard some of their music in movies or shows. Our 2nd favorite Icelandic art collective, their music is transportive and transcendental—and this one is phenomenal.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4L_DQKCDgeM)

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**If This World Were Mine by Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell**
Most people will immediately recognize this legendary duo from “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough,” and this beautiful duet captures the essence of commitment and true love.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9KC7uhMY9s)

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**Turning Page by Sleeping at Last**
Soft, cinematic, and filled with deep emotional resonance, you might consider this for your processional or a ceremony interlude. Wedding Ceremony Music can hit any vibe you want – don’t be shy!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b11-37Me_a4)

**You Are the Best Thing by Ray LaMontagne**
Celebratory and soulful, a great choice for your recessional! Somehow, Ray has managed to ingrain his music into the heart of the American wedding ceremony!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJ3xTjvj9tw)

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**So Amazing by Luther Vandross**
A timeless ballad about the beauty of love, and perfect for a grand entrance to the wedding ceremony or reception!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsN4Xl7X50Q)

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**All You Need Is Love by The Beatles**
From the immediately knowable intro to the movies it’s been featured in (*Love Actually*, anyone!?), this is as classic an untraditional song as you could ask for. Everyone gets the warm fuzzies when they start singing “Love…love…love…”, and everyone will sing out the chorus! Maybe this is the perfect recessional song for your ceremony.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cL5wRBUqxCE)

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**This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) by Natalie Cole**
Feel-good, timeless, and toe-tapping anthem that will get everyone’s hearts as full as yours are. A nice element we can do with this song is just loop the very beginning so that it’s lightly playing in the background as your officiant is making their pronouncement, and then we can take the loop off as soon as they formally present you. It feels very organic and nice.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcJ9bHGce1o)

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**Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder**
From the opening instrumental to the moment the first verse hits, this is all the positive vibes wrapped up, and it’s thematically fun to play around with too. One of the nice things about a ‘classic’ song like this is that everyone is going to know it and feel emotionally connected to it.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVvn8dpSAt0)

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**I Believe in a Thing Called Love by The Darkness**
POWERFUL ROCK GOODNESS for your Recessional or perhaps when the groom makes his dramatic first appearance. This one’s for the couple that’s here for the party!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRYNYb30nxU)

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**This Is Why I Love You by MAJOR**
Triumphant and heartfelt, this is a great choice for a strong and vibrant recessional song!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wU33VtM2qA)

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**We Found Love by Boyce Avenue**
Calvin Harris and Rihanna’s 2012 smash got covered by this little-known group, and it’s a keeper! Brothers Alejandro Luis Manzano, Daniel Enrique Manzano, and Fabian Rafael Manzano formed a cover band in Sarasota, Florida, and they knock just about everything out of the park.
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9kXstb9FF4)

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**The Bridgerton Soundtrack (Vitamin String Quartet)**
Yes, that’s the Vitamin String Quartet, and yes, the whole thing is amazing (and you’ve got multiple seasons to pick from)! Standouts include the Duomo version of Taylor Swift’s “Wildest Dreams,” the Kiris Houston version of Calvin Harris’ “How Deep Is Your Love,” and the Hannah V & Joe Rodwell Version of Rihanna’s “Diamonds.” This is perfect for a lot of couples as they’re planning out their wedding ceremony music.
[YouTube Link (Wildest Dreams)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfFIyRErNQw)
[YouTube Link (How Deep Is Your Love)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EZVqfD1XkQ)
[YouTube Link (Diamonds)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUnpUdLP8wU)

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**Die With a Smile by Lady Gaga & Bruno Mars**
If you’ve been listening to the radio at all over the past couple of months, this might have been stuck in your head. It’s got drama, tension, release, and a message that definitely fits the moment!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2ICtCO8TCw)

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**Game of Thrones Theme by Ramin Djawadi**
A dramatic, bold instrumental choice for a recessional or an entrance. Perfect for fantasy lovers! This is here to remind you that your wedding ceremony music can be anything you want it to be. This isn’t your parent’s wedding ceremony, and doesn’t have to sound like it!
[YouTube Link](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7L2PVdrb_8)

### Wedding Ceremony Songs You Probably Won’t Use (but we wanted to include anyway)

Songs that we **DIDN’T THINK** you’d want for your wedding ceremony music but we wanted to give some honorable mentions:

**Beautiful Things by Benson Boone** – While we love this song it has the loss centered, which doesn’t fit most ceremonies. Although, we absolutely hope there’s a wedding version at some point, it’s a bold choice that might fit some couples.

**Too Sweet by Hozier** – This Irish musician from Bray in County Wicklow, had a huge hit with 2013’s Take Me To Church when he was 23, and his most recent album is stellar. While we love what this song does on the dancefloor, this might be one of those songs that you use as an instrumental version.

**Lose Control by Teddy Swims** – One of 2024s biggest hits, this waltz centers on loss and themes of addiction, which might not be the right fit for some events. However, you could absolutely get by if you just use the instro or loop the chorus depending on how long your aisle is.

**The Feels by Labrinth** – This had such a powerful vibe and sonic palette, but we didn’t think it would appeal to as many people so it’s relegated here.

Just remember – IT’S YOUR WEDDING and you can do it any way you want to. If it’s important to you, it will stand out to your guests. As you’re planning out your wedding ceremony music, remember that your wedding music is going to be better if it reflects YOU! (not just you, your partner too, so it’s the royal “YOU” 🙂

If you’re interested in [Wedding DJ pricing](/what-we-do/pricing/), While we’re based in Raleigh, North Carolina and serve a lot of different areas around the state (including a ton of Durham, Rocky Mount, Wilmington, and Asheville weddings), we also travel across the country and internationally. So if you’re looking to bring your favorite Stylus Wedding DJ to Athens, London, Paris, or Dubai, we’d love to chat!

![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/modernwedding.jpg "Stylus Wedding DJ Wedding Ceremony at the Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill North Carolina - Stylus Weddings")

**Categories:** Blog

**Tags:** DJ, durham wedding dj, Music, North Carolina Wedding DJ, raleigh wedding dj, recessional songs, Wedding, Wedding Ceremony, wedding ceremony music, wedding ceremony songs, wilmington wedding dj

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### [Understanding Wedding DJ Pricing in North Carolina: What You Need to Know](https://stylusweddings.com/understanding-wedding-dj-pricing-in-north-carolina-what-you-need-to-know/)

**Published:** January 13, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

When planning a wedding in Raleigh, Rocky Mount, Wilmington, Charlotte, or anywhere else across our fair state, one of the most crucial elements to consider is entertainment. A skilled wedding DJ can make or break your event (see the previous blog post), ensuring your guests stay on the dance floor and that the evening flows seamlessly. However, understanding wedding DJ pricing can be tricky, especially with so many options available. Here, we’ll break down the factors that influence [DJ pricing in Raleigh](/what-we-do/pricing/) and how to find the right fit for your big day.

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![raleigh wedding DJ pricing can be confusing - but here's the basics](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/stylus-raleigh-wedding-dj-north-carolina-wedding-dj-pricing.webp "Stylus Weddings Spotlight: Nadia and Zain - Stylus Weddings")North Carolina wedding DJ pricing can be confusing but heres the basics

### **What Influences Wedding DJ Pricing?**

1. **Experience and Expertise**
    - DJs with years of experience often charge more due to their refined skills, ability to read a crowd, and seamless event management. An experienced DJ not only plays music but also acts as an emcee, and as an event director – guiding your reception through all the special moments that are important to you. It’s crucial for a great event.
2. **Equipment Quality**
    - High-quality sound systems, wireless microphones, and lighting equipment come at a cost. DJs who invest in top-tier gear ensure that your event looks and sounds flawless, but this can also reflect in their pricing. For example – which DJ do you think will charge a bit more, the one who spends $3000 per speaker to ensure the highest quality or the one who spends $300 to make sure they actually have anything at all? Don’t get me wrong – everyone’s got to start somewhere – but the question is whether or not you want them to start with your event.
3. **Event Duration**
    - The length of your event is another major factor. A standard DJ package might cover four to six hours, but extending the time or including additional services like ceremony music can increase the cost.
4. **Customizations and Add-Ons**
    - Many DJs offer customizable packages, including uplighting, monograms, photo booths, or even cold sparklers for a dramatic first dance. While these extras can elevate your wedding, they will also add to your overall budget. Doing a ceremony in another location is going to cost more than just doing a reception in one area. You want cold sparks for your wedding? That stuff’s expensive! There’s a reason you see it in high budget weddings.
5. **Day and Season**
    - Raleigh’s wedding season peaks during spring and fall (September and October are our busiest!), and demand for DJs is highest during weekends. Booking your DJ on a weekday or during the off-season may help reduce costs.
6. **Location, Location, Location**
    - It’s a big more expensive to operate in certain areas than others, but the cost might be less once you’ve factored in travel expenses or room and board to bring another DJ in. Simultaneously, if there’s only one real DJ in a more remote area, the pricing might be a bit higher just because of supply & demand. For instance, in [New York City the average cost is around $2000-$4000](https://www.reddit.com/r/WedditNYC/comments/19eq4j9/clueless_about_dj/). In Eastern North Carolina the average is $1500-$2000.
7. **Popularity**
    - I keep seeing people dropping $10-$30K on Tik Tok DJs then complaining about how terrible they were (this literally just happened again here in Raleigh last month), and I’m reminded of an ad I saw for a superclub in a Long Island resort area right before they closed their doors: “DJ needed – no experience necessary. Must have 10000 followers.” It’s OK to pay a premium if that’s what you want, but remember that being a great wedding DJ requires a very specific set of skills, and it often takes years to get that correct. In many cases, you’d probably get a better wedding experience out of hiring a local wedding pro to babysit your [Tik Tok DJ](https://www.tiktok.com/discover/weddings-ruined). Not that everyone is terrible, you can absolutely have a [local ruin your event too](https://saveyourwedding.org/wedding-dj-horror-stories/) – just remember to do your research.
8. **Back Up Plans and Infrastructure**
    - We have people that we pay to be ‘on call’ on busy weekends just to make sure we have an emergency plan in place in case a DJ gets delayed. We spend the money on extra equipment in case something gets broken or we need something to help make the event better. That requires a bit more infrastructure and resources than one person rolling up with a couple of speakers might need, but that peace of mind is important to our clients.

### **Typical Wedding DJ Pricing in Raleigh**

In the Raleigh area, the cost of hiring a wedding DJ typically ranges between **$1,200 and $6,500**, with the average falling around **$**1500-$3000. Budget-friendly options can start as low as $1200, but these DJs may lack the experience or equipment needed for a premium experience. On the higher end, DJs charging $3,500 or more often provide a luxury experience with comprehensive packages and advanced features.

### **What’s Included in a Wedding DJ Package?**

Most wedding DJ packages include:

- A consultation to discuss your vision and playlist preferences.’
- A finals meeting to make sure everyone understands what’s supposed to happen.
- Professional sound equipment and setup.
- Music for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception.
- Emcee services for announcements and transitions.
- Travel and setup time.
- Wireless Microphone for toasts and annoucements

Some DJs also include extras like:

- Dance floor lighting.
- Special Effects (like dancing on a cloud or cold sparks).
- Backup equipment & Staff for added security (like what happens if your DJ gets sick).

### **How to Choose the Right DJ for Your Wedding**

1. **Research and Reviews**
    - Read reviews on platforms like WeddingWire, The Knot, and Yelp. Look for DJs with consistent positive feedback regarding professionalism, punctuality, and ability to energize a crowd.
2. **Meet in Person**
    - Schedule consultations to ensure the DJ’s personality and style align with your vision. This meeting is also a great time to ask about their process and any customization options.
3. **Ask the Right Questions**
    - Do they have experience with your venue?
    - Can they provide references or a demo reel?
    - What contingency plans do they have for equipment failure?
4. **Compare Packages**
    - Request detailed quotes from multiple DJs and compare what’s included in each package. Don’t just focus on price—consider value.
    - For instance – our most popular package is the Prestige and it’s over $3000 for most couples, but they’re getting a far better value out of their experience because it includes so many things at such a huge discount that it’s providing exactly the experience they’re looking for!

### **Maximizing Your Budget**

If you’re working within a tight budget, consider these tips:

- Book early to secure discounts or avoid price increases. Choose an off date (like a Thursday in the summer)
- Bundle services like photo booths or lighting with your DJ to save on multiple vendors.
- Trim event hours to reduce the DJ’s time on-site.
- Put your resources into your priorities. If the party is important, then invest in that and drop other elements that aren’t as important to you. If the food is the important part, or the florals, or the cake, then skimp on your DJ because it’s not where you plan on your guests spending most of their time.

### **Final Thoughts**

Hiring the right wedding DJ is an investment in your wedding’s success. In most cases, it’s the single most consequential vendor you’re hiring for your wedding day. By understanding what influences pricing and what to look for, you can find a DJ that fits your budget and creates an unforgettable experience. Whether you’re envisioning a classic and elegant affair or a high-energy dance party, Raleigh has plenty of talented DJs ready to bring your vision to life.

In general, expect to pay $300-$1000 per hour depending on your needs. You have a lot of control over every part of your wedding, and when it comes to having a great experience we recommend doing your research.

Checking out Wedding DJ Pricing for Stylus is Easy – Just go Here: [/what-we-do/pricing/](/what-we-do/pricing/)

**Categories:** Blog

**Tags:** DJ, durham wedding dj, Holly Springs Wedding DJ, raleigh wedding dj, Rocky Mount Wedding, Rocky Mount Wedding DJ, Wedding, wilmington wedding dj

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### [The Best Wedding Ceremony Sites in Raleigh](https://stylusweddings.com/the-best-wedding-ceremony-sites-in-raleigh/)

**Published:** January 15, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

## The Best Wedding Ceremony Sites in Raleigh, North Carolina

Planning a wedding in Raleigh, North Carolina, means you have access to an incredible variety of stunning outdoor wedding ceremony locations. From historic landmarks to picturesque outdoor venues, the Raleigh area offers something for every couple.

A few quick notes about your ceremony – even if you’re hiring other musicians, you’ll probably still need a DJ and here’s why:[ WHY YOU’LL PROBABLY STILL NEED A DJ FOR YOUR CEREMONY](/blog/why-you-need-a-wedding-dj-for-your-ceremony/)

### Here are some of the best wedding ceremony locations to consider for your special day in Raleigh:

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**The NC Museum of Art**
[The NC Museum of Art](https://ncartmuseum.org) offers an extraordinary blend of art and nature, making it a unique venue for a wedding ceremony. With beautifully curated outdoor spaces and stunning sculptures, this venue is perfect for art-loving couples.
**Why Choose It?** The museum’s sophisticated ambiance and versatile spaces make it ideal for elegant ceremonies.
**Highlight:** The Art! Plus, you’ve got stunning indoor & outdoor options – and the staff is really easy to work with.

![Weddings at the NC Museum of art can be a wonderful option for a lot of Stylus DJ couples](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/NCMA-Wedding-ceremony-1024x683.jpg "NCMA-Wedding ceremony - Stylus Weddings")Weddings at the NC Museum of art can be a wonderful option for a lot of Stylus DJ couples

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**The Matthews House**
[The Matthews House](https://matthewshousecary.com) is a charming and elegant venue located in the heart of Cary. With its historic architecture and beautifully landscaped gardens, it’s perfect for couples looking for timeless sophistication.
**Why Choose It?** The Matthews House provides an intimate setting with both indoor and outdoor ceremony options. The ceremony site beside the main house is really pretty and the couple who run it are top tier!
**Highlight:** The gorgeous ballroom and private garden spaces make it a versatile choice for weddings of all styles and sizes.

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**The Maxwell**
[The Maxwell](https://themaxwellraleigh.com) is a contemporary and luxurious wedding venue located in Raleigh. Known for its striking modern architecture and high-end amenities, it offers both indoor and outdoor spaces designed with elegance in mind.
**Why Choose It?** The Maxwell is perfect for couples seeking a sophisticated and upscale venue with impeccable service. The outdoor garden can be adapted to fit all sizes and you’d never know how close you are to downtown Raleigh. Truly a hidden gem.
**Highlight:** The grand ballroom with its high ceilings and crystal chandeliers creates an unforgettable setting for ceremonies and receptions, and that’s just the rain plan! Plus, the staff is a real highlight here.

![couple having their first kiss at the Maxwell - Stylus Wedding DJs - Wedding at the Maxwell in Raleigh North Carolina](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/The_Maxwell-wedding-ceremony-1024x683.jpg "The_Maxwell wedding ceremony - Stylus Weddings")Stylus Wedding DJs Wedding at the Maxwell in Raleigh North Carolina

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**The Highgrove Estate**
[The Highgrove Estate](https://highgrove-nc.com) is located just outside Raleigh in Fuquay-Varina. This stunning venue is known for its Southern charm and luxurious amenities. It features beautiful indoor and outdoor spaces.
**Why Choose It?** The combination of elegance and exclusivity makes it a top choice for couples.
**Highlight:** The outdoor ceremony space overlooking the pond is absolutely stunning. One guest even remarked, “Wow, this is God’s country.” while admiring the view.

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**The JC Raulston Arboretum**
The JC Raulston Arboretum is a dream come true for nature-loving couples. This 10-acre public garden over by the North Carolina State Fairgrounds and Meredith College features a variety of picturesque settings, from the Rose Garden to the White Garden, making it a versatile option for outdoor ceremonies.
**Why Choose It?** The arboretum offers lush greenery and vibrant blooms, providing a naturally beautiful setting for your vows.
**Highlight:** The A.E. Finley Rooftop Terrace is perfect for intimate ceremonies with a view. Plus, there are more ceremony options here than almost anywhere else. You can just do your ceremony here too, and your reception down the street at the Royal or downtown at Market Hall (also a great spot for a ceremony) or the Stockroom!

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**The Sutherland**
[The Sutherland](https://thesutherland.com), located in Wake Forest, is a historic estate that perfectly blends classic elegance with Southern charm. With its manicured gardens and timeless architecture, it’s a wonderful venue for a romantic wedding.
**Why Choose It?** The Sutherland’s versatility makes it perfect for both large and small gatherings.
**Highlight:** The outdoor garden ceremony space is a favorite among couples. With added walls, outside noise is minimal, ensuring a peaceful ceremony.

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**The Upchurch**
[The Upchurch](https://upchurchvenue.com), located in Cary, is a newer venue that has quickly become a favorite for modern weddings. It offers a mix of contemporary design and natural beauty, with stunning indoor and outdoor spaces.
**Why Choose It?** The Upchurch is perfect for couples looking for a modern yet warm and inviting venue.
**Highlight:** The open-air courtyard is a show-stopping spot for ceremonies. Get married by the conservatory or up by the house overlooking the dramatic sweep of the landscape!

![couple having their first kiss at the Upchurch in Cary North Carolina - Stylus Wedding DJs - Wedding at the Upchurch in Cary North Carolina](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Upchurch-wedding-27_51_2030583-167621845354860.jpeg "Upchurch wedding-27_51_2030583-167621845354860 - Stylus Weddings")couple having their first kiss at the Upchurch in Cary North Carolina Stylus Wedding DJs 

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**Haywood Hall & Gardens**
[Haywood Hall & Gardens](https://haywoodhall.org) is a historic home surrounded by enchanting gardens in downtown Raleigh. The venue’s charm lies in its blend of history and natural beauty.
**Why Choose It?** Couples looking for a venue that combines Southern elegance with a touch of history will fall in love with Haywood Hall.
**Highlight:** The lush garden paths create a storybook-like setting for ceremonies. And you’re right downtown! But you’d never know it unless you step off the property and look.

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**The Bradford**
[The Bradford](https://thebradfordnc.com), nestled just outside Raleigh in New Hill, is a European-inspired venue that exudes charm and romance. With its sprawling grounds and beautifully designed indoor spaces, it’s perfect for larger ceremonies and receptions.
**Why Choose It?** The Bradford’s luxurious atmosphere is ideal for couples seeking a refined yet welcoming venue.
**Highlight:** The outdoor terrace offers a breathtaking setting for exchanging vows. Plus, there’s plenty of parking!

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**Dorothea Dix Park**
[Dorothea Dix Park](https://dorotheadixpark.org) provides a relaxed and open space with plenty of options for a customizable ceremony. With its expansive fields and scenic views, it’s a blank canvas for creative couples.
**Why Choose It?** This park is perfect for couples wanting a laid-back outdoor vibe.
**Highlight:** The skyline view of downtown Raleigh adds a modern touch to your ceremony photos.

![Dorthea Dix Park can be a great place to have your wedding ceremony in Raleigh, and they've got lots of stellar photo options like this amazing shot by G. Lin Photography](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/G-Lin-Photography-Dorthea-Dix-Sunflowers-Couple-1024x683.jpg "G Lin Photography- Dorthea Dix Sunflowers Couple - Stylus Weddings")G Lin Photography couple at Dorthea Dix Park

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**The Glass Box**
The Glass Box is a modern and intimate venue in downtown Raleigh. This light-filled space features floor-to-ceiling windows and a sleek, minimalist design.
**Why Choose It?** The Glass Box is perfect for smaller ceremonies (think 50 or less) with an urban flair.
**Highlight:** Its rooftop terrace offers stunning views of the Raleigh skyline. Bigger crowds can head right downstairs to the stockroom. Or maybe you’ll want to head over to All Saint’s Chapel which is owned by the same company and staffed by the same amazing team!

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**The Merrimon-Wynne House**
[The Merrimon-Wynne House](https://merrimonwynne.com) is a historic gem located in the heart of downtown Raleigh. This beautifully restored 19th-century mansion offers elegant indoor spaces and a stunning outdoor lawn perfect for ceremonies.
**Why Choose It?** The venue’s timeless charm and central location make it ideal for couples looking for sophistication and convenience.
**Highlight:** The Carriage House provides a romantic backdrop for ceremonies, especially when over-adorned with florals. Like – a LOT of flowers.

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**The Barn at Wakefield**
[The Barn at Wakefield](https://thebarnatwakefield.com) offers a unique blend of rustic charm and modern elegance, making it an excellent choice for couples seeking a countryside vibe. Located just outside of Raleigh, this venue features a beautifully restored barn, lush outdoor spaces, and sophisticated interiors.
**Why Choose It?** The Barn at Wakefield is perfect for couples looking for a rustic yet polished setting for their wedding.
**Highlight:** The spacious barn provides a warm and inviting atmosphere for both ceremonies and receptions, complemented by scenic outdoor views.

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**Walnut Hill**
[Walnut Hill](https://walnuthillnc.com) is a family-owned venue located just minutes from downtown Raleigh. Set on 10 acres, this charming property offers a serene pond, a barn, and open fields for outdoor ceremonies.
**Why Choose It?** Walnut Hill is a versatile venue that’s great for rustic, boho, or classic wedding styles.
**Highlight:** The pond-side ceremony area is a picturesque spot for saying “I do.” However, keep in mind that the upstairs DJ setup might not be ideal for lively receptions.

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### Tips for Choosing the Perfect Outdoor Wedding Ceremony Location in Raleigh

1. **Consider Your Guest Count:** Ensure the venue’s capacity aligns with your guest list. I can’t stress this enough – don’t book a huge spot for a small crowd, and don’t book a small or medium spot if you’ve got a huge guest list (looking at you East Carolina University Alumni!)
2. **Think About the Season:** Outdoor venues are stunning in spring and fall, while indoor venues are better for summer or winter weddings. This list is mostly focused on the Spring/Summer/Fall weddings. Winter venues are a different thing entirely
3. **Match the Venue to Your Theme:** Whether you’re envisioning rustic, elegant, or modern, Raleigh has venues to suit every aesthetic. However, you can do a lot with lighting and decor in any venue to make it work. We just did a Final Fantasy 14 themed wedding in a post-industrial space in near-north raleigh.
4. **Visit in Person:** Photos are helpful, but an in-person visit will give you a better sense of the venue’s vibe and layout. Sometimes the pictures don’t do it justice, othertimes there might be something that drives you crazy that’s right out of frame.

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Raleigh’s got a lot to offer and its diverse wedding venues ensure there’s a perfect spot for every couple. Whether you’re drawn to historic homes, lush gardens, postindustrial chic, or sleek modern spaces, the city has it all. We hope these recommendations inspire you as you plan your unforgettable day in the heart of North Carolina!

### **Side note** – this list isn’t comprehensive, there are doubtless several wedding venues and locations that we forgot to add. If you’ve got a spot you think we need to add to this list, just let us know! Also, there’s a ton of beautiful spots outside of the city proper that we aren’t including but we’ll be doing another post with more options later!

If you’re looking for some stellar wedding ceremony music ideas, here’s a currently list of some of our [**Favorite 2025 Wedding Ceremony Songs**. ](/blog/stun-with-the-best-2025-wedding-ceremony-music/)

Also – Don’t forget to **[CONTACT US](/contact/)** if you’ve got any questions – we love to help!

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### [Thrill Your Party and Demolish Your Dancefloor With The 2025 Top Most Requested Wedding Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/the-2025-top-most-requested-wedding-dance-songs-for-your-party/)

**Published:** January 19, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

We’re finally to 2025 and it’s left us with a lot of data about 2024, including what the most requested top wedding dance songs by brides and grooms for their weddings were. DJ Intelligence is the technology behind a lot of wedding DJ request features and every year it releases its most requested songs based on the data recorded by thousands of DJs and over 100,000 events.

They just released the new list we wanted to take a look at the top 100 songs and get a sense of how the wedding music landscape has changed for 2025. Also, if you have questions about your ceremony, there’s[ great stuff here](/blog/stun-with-the-best-2025-wedding-ceremony-music/).

## The Top 20 Wedding Dance Songs for Your Party.

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### **1.** [**“I Wanna Dance with Somebody” by Whitney Houston (1987)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eH3giaIzONA)

Whitney’s iconic anthem is a surefire way to fill the dance floor with joyful energy. The number one song is always an interesting one because it says a lot about the ‘real’ American party – this is the MOST concensus song in the country – the one that will make the most people (on average) happy.

**Why It Works:** It’s nostalgic, fun, and irresistibly danceable. The upbeat tempo and Whitney’s powerful vocals create a vibrant atmosphere that draws everyone to the dance floor. Whether it’s your grandparents or your best friends, this track has universal appeal and it’s an equal blend of exuberant sing along grandiosity and it’s nostalgic without being cheesy or kitch.

**Fun Fact:** This track won the Grammy Award for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance in 1988.

![The most requested top wedding dance song of 2024 - Whitney Houston's I Wanna Dance With Somebody](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/I_Wanna_Dance_Soundtrack.jpg "Unity Ceremony Ideas For Southern Weddings - Stylus Weddings")The most requested top wedding dance song of 2024 Whitney Houstons I Wanna Dance With Somebody

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### **2.** [**“Dancing Queen” by ABBA (1976)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFrGuyw1V8s)

A wedding dance floor staple, this ABBA pure disco classic always gets people twirling. The fact that I can still drop this song in a peak hour club on the strip says a lot about its staying power and how popular the movie “Mamma Mia” was with a certain demographic.

**Why It Works:** It’s upbeat, nostalgic, and universally adored. Its cheerful melody and singable lyrics make it an anthem of celebration, and its disco beat gets everyone’s feet moving, no matter their age or dancing skills. Infectiously good, you’re not alone if this song makes you want to spread your arms and twirl.

**Fun Fact:** This song was ABBA’s only number-one hit in the United States. ABBA had 20 songs on the Hot 100 between 1974 and 1982, including four top 10 hits and 14 top 40 hits.

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### **3.** [**“September” by Earth, Wind & Fire (1978)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gs069dndIYk)

A powerhouse wedding classic that will stay near the top of the Most Requested Wedding Dance Party Songs list long after many others have faded, this disco-funk favorite always delivers thanks to its fun blend of melody and sing-along placeholding genius.

**Why It Works:** It’s a timeless tune that bridges generations on the dance floor. The infectious groove, brass-heavy instrumentation, and feel-good lyrics ensure an electric atmosphere every time it’s played.

**Fun Fact:** The famous “ba-dee-ya” lyric was originally a placeholder that the band decided to keep.

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### **4.** [**“Mr. Brightside” by The Killers (2003)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGdGFtwCNBE)

An indie rock favorite that didn’t really hit in the US when it was originally released, this anthem brings excitement and energy to any wedding even if the subject matter is a little less positive than many of the other entries, we have the UK to thank for why this song is still around – their passion for the track ended up driving it into our collective consciousnesses.

**Why It Works:** Its infectious energy gets everyone singing and dancing. The raw emotion in the lyrics combined with the driving rhythm makes it a perfect choice for everyone to belt out together in unison. Plus, just like “Henry the VIII” by Herman’s Hermits , “Second verse, same as the first…”

**Fun Fact:** “Mr. Brightside” was The Killers’ debut single and has remained on the UK charts for over 300 weeks.

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### **5.** [**“Yeah!” by Usher feat. Lil Jon and Ludacris (2004)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GxBSyx85Kp8)

This high-energy club hit is a guaranteed crowd-pleaser. It’s started getting some shade from some DJs who feel like they’re too edgy to play a song people want to hear, but chances are you’re not hiring them for your wedding. This is one of those songs that, when it first came out, you could drop it twice in a row (like Cardi B’s “Bodak Yellow” or Lil Uzi Vert’s “I Wanna Rock.”)

**Why It Works:** Its danceable beat and iconic chorus make it a wedding favorite. The combination of Usher’s smooth vocals, Lil Jon’s hype energy, and Ludacris’s catchy rap sections creates a dynamic track that gets everyone pumped. I’ll often skip straight to the Luda verse after the end of the first chorus, but to each their own.

**Fun Fact:** This song spent 12 consecutive weeks at number one on the Billboard Hot 100.

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### **6.** [**“The Cupid Shuffle” by Cupid (2007)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h24_zoqu4_Q)

This line-dancing favorite ensures that everyone hits the floor because it was designed that way.

“I was a 19-year-old Blues singer touring with the SOS Band and Lenny Williams when I recorded the song,” Cupid told [NewsOne.](https://newsone.com/3049981/the-inspiring-story-behind-the-cupid-shuffle/) “Everywhere we would go, before we’d start the show, we’d get the crowd going with a line dance. I saw how the crowd was reacting and I wanted to create a modern-day line dance.”

**Why It Works:** It’s easy to follow and gets guests moving together. The structured steps create a sense of community and fun, making it a perfect choice for all ages.

**Fun Fact:** He freestyled the lyrics (nailed it!) and Cupid broke a Guinness World Record for the largest line dance to this song in 2008.

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### **7.** [**“Shut Up and Dance” by WALK THE MOON (2014)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6JCLY0Rlx6Q)

This energetic hit never fails to get the party started. This band from Cincinnati Ohio took their name from the Police song “Walking on the Moon” and is a perfect song to use for your dancefloor or for your grand entrance to the wedding reception.

**Why It Works:** Its upbeat tempo and catchy chorus make it perfect for group dancing. The song’s playful lyrics encourage spontaneity and fun, ensuring everyone lets loose and enjoys the moment.

**Fun Fact:** The song was inspired by an actual dance floor moment experienced by the lead singer. He was at the *Funky Soul Saturday* DJ dance party in L.A. and was waiting in line for a drink and it was taking forever and he was getting frustated when his girlfriend in “a backless dress and beat up red [Chucks](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuck_Taylor_All-Stars)“, abruptly invited him to dance with her, inspiring the song’s title.

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### **8.** [**“Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey (1981)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1k8craCGpgs)

This anthem is perfect for late-night singalongs and closing out the night. For years this was a default ‘last dance song’ for many couples, but it’s been replaced by Mr. Brightside in North Carolina since 2019.

**Why It Works:** Its iconic chorus brings everyone together. The slow build-up leading to an explosive finish makes it an emotional and energetic crowd favorite. This is one of those songs that guests will sing back to us if we do it right.

**Fun Fact:** It’s the most downloaded digital track of the 20th century with over 7 million downloads, but it doesn’t even make the top 20 most downloaded songs (#1 is Party Rock Anthem by LMFAO with 20.9 million downloads as of time of writing).

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### **9.** [**“Sweet Caroline” by Neil Diamond (1969)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsLyI1_R01M)

A singalong classic that never goes out of style.

**Why It Works:** It unites guests in a feel-good moment of celebration. Its call-and-response style makes it interactive, ensuring everyone feels part of the fun. Also, especially in North Carolina where a huge influx of people from the New England area. Another call & response song (like ‘Shout’ by the Isley Brothers), it’s got an easy approach and a big finish and can even people sitting at tables can participate!

**Fun Fact:** Neil Diamond revealed the song was inspired by Caroline Kennedy.

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### **10.** [**“I Gotta Feeling” by The Black Eyed Peas (2009)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSD4vsh1zDA)

This party anthem can be the perfect way to kick off the reception with a grand entrance of a great way to start off the dancefloor with the right energy.

**Why It Works:** Its celebratory vibe and catchy beat set the tone for an unforgettable night. The lyrics are all about living in the moment, making it a great match for weddings (and Bar/Bat Mitzvahs)

**Fun Fact:** The song became the first-ever digital track to sell over 7 million copies in the U.S.

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## Notes about the 10 Top Wedding Dance Songs

There’s a lot we can learn about the top 10 wedding dance songs. One song is from the 60s, two are from the 70s, two are from the 80s, four are from the 2000s, and only one is from the 2010s. That implies that the people making the requests are prioritizing songs from their childhood and earlier. There’s a power to the music we grew up with that makes connecting with family and friends at a wedding that much more fun. It’s also possible that the list represents the songs they *think* their family and friends are going to love.

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### **11.** [**“Party in the USA” by Miley Cyrus (2009)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M11SvDtPBhA)

This pop hit is always a crowd-pleaser, especially for younger guests and is a great example of how some songs seem to encapsulate an entire era, especially with its radio-friendly shoutouts to other artists like Jay-Z and Britney Spears – letting us do some fun blends in the mix.

**Why It Works:** Its fun, singable chorus keeps the energy high. The lighthearted vibe creates a carefree atmosphere perfect for dancing.

**Fun Fact:** Miley Cyrus has said she didn’t initially connect with the song but grew to love it after its success. Because of course she did…

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### **12.** [**“Man! I Feel Like a Woman!” by Shania Twain (1997)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJL4UGSbeFg)

This empowering anthem is perfect for celebrating with your besties (and certainly a bit more appropriate for a wedding than “Before he Cheats” by Miranda Lambert.

**Why It Works:** It’s fun, lively, and gets everyone singing along. The song’s playful energy encourages guests to let loose and have a good time.

**Fun Fact:** This song was inspired by Twain’s experiences of gender inequality in the music industry.

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### **13.** [**“Hey Ya!” by OutKast (2003)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWgvGjAhvIw)

This funky track blends humor, rhythm, and energy to keep the floor buzzing. Let’s take a moment to appreciate just how hard it is to write a song that make my mom and my friends will vibe out to. It’s way harder to write a song that appeals cross-genre and cross-generation than it is to write a song in a very narrow genre.

**Why It Works:** Its genre-blending style appeals to all generations. The playful lyrics and infectious beat make it impossible not to dance.

**Fun Fact:** The phrase “shake it like a Polaroid picture” boosted sales of Polaroid cameras.

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### **14.** [**“Love Story” by Taylor Swift (2008)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xg3vE8Ie_E)

A romantic pop classic that’s perfect for capturing the magic of the day and makes full use of the 9th grade english literature class with shoutouts to William Shakespeare and Nathaniel Hawthorne.

**Why It Works:** Its heartfelt lyrics resonate with couples and guests alike. The sweeping melody creates a fairytale-like atmosphere.

**Fun Fact:** Taylor Swift wrote this song based on a real-life romance her family disapproved of. Here’s to hoping she gets it right one day (if she hasn’t already). We occassionally DJ ‘Taylor Swift vs. Her Exes’ parties.

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### **15.** [**“Wobble” by V.I.C. (2008)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDDy6fXOLfA)

This modern line dance hit gets everyone up and moving and came out at the same year as Lady Gaga’s “Just Dance” and Taylor Swift’s “Love Story”, and just a few months later than the “Cupid Shuffle.”

**Why It Works:** Its interactive nature ensures no one stays seated. The funky beat and simple instructions make it accessible for everyone. There’s also lots of room for extra flair if you’re so inclined.

**Fun Fact:** It was a sleeper hit when it first came out (used to play it in the Viper Room at the Longbranch) but became a viral sensation several years after its release due to social media.

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### **16.** [**“A Bar Song” by Shabooxzey (2025)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dummylink)

This unique track adds a fun, local vibe to your wedding playlist.

**Why It Works:** Its catchy beat and laid-back energy make it perfect for a Raleigh wedding. Its fresh appeal adds a personal touch to the event.

**Fun Fact:** This is tied for the most popular song in all of american top 40 history (with Old Town Road) song is a definite favorite among North Carolina locals. Shaboozey’s song is an interpolation of J-kwon’s 2004 hit “Tipsy” (here comes the two to the three to the four…).

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### **17.** [**“Low” by Flo Rida feat. T-Pain (2007)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2waT9TxPU0)

This high-energy track is perfect for late-night dance-offs. It’s also at a key generational inflection point and appeals to groups of all ages.

**Why It Works:** Its bass-heavy beat keeps the party going strong. The lyrics create a fun, carefree vibe that guests love.

**Fun Fact:** The song spent 10 weeks at number one on the Billboard Hot 100 and I’ll often pair it ‘Baby got Back’ by sir mix a lot at a wedding.

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### **18.** [**“Cha Cha Slide” by DJ Casper (2000)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZv62ShoStY)

This wedding staple is perfect for getting everyone on the floor. Chances are your aunts have been practicing this and the wobble to get ready for your wedding.

**Why It Works:** It’s easy to follow, ensuring no one feels left out. The interactive nature makes it a hit with guests of all ages. Remember, the reason that Chubby Checker’s “Twist” was such a hit was that it was a dance that didn’t require formal dance training like the foxtrot or the waltz, which meant that grandma and your little cousin could do it too. It’s kinda the same with many line dances today, although don’t get too ahead of yourself by thinking that Hoedown Throwdown, Walk it Out, or the Dougie have quite the same mass appeal.

**Fun Fact:** The song was originally created as an aerobics routine for DJ Casper’s nephew who was teaching at Bally’s in Hyde Park, Chicago. You’re also going to notice that there’s a part 1, part 2, and part 3. The original dance is based around the classic house anthem [Plastic Dreams by JayDee](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJ2tHzhfUOg).

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### **19.** [**“Tennessee Whiskey” by Chris Stapleton (2015)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zAThXFOy2c)

This soulful ballad adds a touch of Southern charm to your playlist. If you’ve got one slow song you’re going to play at your North Carolina wedding, this might just be the one you want to play.

**Why It Works:** It’s perfect for a slow dance moment or winding down the evening. The heartfelt lyrics and rich melody create a romantic, intimate atmosphere.

**Fun Fact:** This song was originally recorded by [David Allan Coe in 1981](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_t4tUeqjcjI), and the Stapleton version is almost a note-for-note recreation of [Etta Jame’s song “I’d Rather Go Blind”.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bcus42ihkTI)

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### **20.** [**“Everytime We Touch” by Cascada (2005)**](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4G6QDNC4jPs)

This dance hit is great for closing out the night with an upbeat and emotional vibe.

**Why It Works:** Its nostalgic and energetic feel creates an unforgettable finale. The pulsing rhythm ensures the night ends on a high note. While a lot of colleges have an absolute must-play song (Wagon Wheel for NC State, All I Do is Win for ECU, Hang on Sloopy for Ohio State), Duke has Everytime We Touch.

**Fun Fact:** The song is a remix/interpolation of a [1992 track of the same name by Maggie Reilly](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTyCLMA90xM).

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### Final Thoughts On the Top Wedding Dance Songs

These top 20 requested songs of 2025 offer something for everyone, ensuring your wedding playlist is as dynamic and fun as your celebration. Whether you’re planning your big day in Raleigh or beyond, these tracks are guaranteed to keep your dance floor packed and your guests entertained. Work with your DJ to incorporate these hits into your playlist, and get ready for a night to remember – but don’t feel like the great options start here. Here’s a list of the [DJ Intelligence top 200 Most Requested Songs](https://www.djintelligence.com/charts/DJIntelligenceMostRequested2024.pdf) of 2024 (Released January 2025).

![Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Raleigh-Wedding-DJ-Top-Wedding-Dance-Songs-3-980x1024.png "Stylus Weddings Favorite Dance Songs - Stylus Weddings")Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence

![Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Raleigh-Wedding-DJ-Top-Wedding-Dance-Songs-2-753x1024.png "Raleigh Wedding DJ Spotlight at Wakefield Barn - Stylus Weddings")Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence

![Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Raleigh-Wedding-DJ-Top-Wedding-Dance-Songs-1-752x1024.png "Cary Wedding DJ Photo Booth and Lighting at the Matthews House - Stylus Weddings")Raleigh Wedding DJ Top 200 from DJ Intelligence

## Don’t forget to[ reach out to us](/contact/) if we can help with your wedding!

While we spend most of our time in the Raleigh Durham area, we do a ton of weddings all across the country and we are happy to help if you’re in Wilmington, the Biltmore, or on a small farm in Pilot Mountain – if you need the best wedding DJ experience you could hope for, our goal is to over-deliver!

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### [10 Ways A DJ Can Make or Break Your Wedding](https://stylusweddings.com/10-ways-a-dj-can-make-or-break-your-wedding/)

**Published:** January 21, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

### 10 Ways a DJ Can Make or Break Your Wedding Day

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable moments of your life and your DJ plays a huge role in ensuring that the day runs smoothly and that you (and your guests) have an amazing time. Your DJ is in charge of around 75%-80% of the average wedding, so it’s important that you get this right.

A skilled DJ can elevate your event to a magical celebration that meets the moment and affirms everything you were hoping for, while a less experienced wedding DJ can derail the mood and leave guests disappointed. Here are 10 ways a DJ can either make or break your wedding day—and how to make sure you hire the right one.

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![a nervous anxious and awkward wedding DJ embarrassing themselves at a wedding - avoid it by hiring a professional wedding DJ in Raleigh like Stylus](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/awkward-wedding-dj-raleigh-wedding-dj.webp "Summer Wedding - DJ Photo Booth - Oaks at Salem in Apex, NC - Stylus Weddings")Your DJ can make or break your wedding day

### **1. Setting the Tone from the Start**

A great DJ knows how to set the tone for your wedding day, from the ceremony to the reception. They understand the importance of creating the right ambiance with music that matches each part of the event.

**Make:** A professional DJ will play appropriate music based on your personal preferences. You’re creating a curated and very personal event – so if you soft, romantic music as guests arrive then that’s what you should have. The DJ should be able to transition seamlessly into lively tunes during the reception.

**Break:** An inexperienced DJ might choose music that feels out of place or fails to adjust the volume appropriately, leaving guests confused or uncomfortable. The number one complaint I hear from couples about BAD wedding DJ experiences has a lot to do with the DJ just not nailing the evolution of the tone throughout the night.

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### **2. Managing the Timeline**

Your DJ is not just there to play music—they are also your emcee/MC, keeping the timeline on track. It started back in the late ’90s when couples started expecting DJs to do more than just play music, coming to a head in the early 2000s when the DJ took on a much larger role in running the event as weddings became more complex and personalized. You’re putting about 75%-80% of the wedding on their shoulders – it’s a completely different skill than what they can do on the decks. Make sure you’re talking with them about this.

**Make:** A skilled DJ will coordinate with your planner, photographer, and other vendors to ensure smooth transitions between events like the first dance, speeches, and cake cutting.

**Break:** If your DJ loses track of time or misses cues, it can throw off the entire schedule. If the DJ doesn’t help you organize your timeline then you might have some incidental snags in your timeline (like putting the toasts before dinner service starts) that can leave you short on dancefloor time. Just remember – a great DJ is going to help you get the FLOW of your wedding right.

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### **3. Reading the Crowd**

Knowing how to read the room is one of the most critical skills for a wedding DJ. It can’t be taught the same way most other skills can, and it takes years of rubber-meets-the-road experience to get this right. You can’t fake it.

**Make:** A talented DJ can sense when the energy is dipping and adjust the playlist to get everyone back on the dance floor.

**Break:** A DJ who sticks to a pre-made playlist, regardless of the crowd’s reaction, risks killing the vibe.

However, if you’re a couple who wants us to stick to your playlist, we’ll absolutely take the heat for you if that’s how we can best help you meet your expectations, but you’ll generally have a better party if you let us do what we’re best at.

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### **4. Handling Song Requests**

Balancing guest requests with the couple’s preferences is an art. There’s a trick to making sure that your cousin isn’t going to be ticked off when we don’t play “Everybody Hurts” or “Tiptoe Through the Tulips” because it will ruin the awesome dancefloor your guests are currently living their best life on. Sometimes we have to so “No” to a great song because it’s on your “Do Not Play” list, other times it’s just not a great song for the event we’ve got going on.

**Make:** A good DJ will tactfully incorporate appropriate requests without straying from the vibe you want for your wedding. However – there is ONE situation in which we will totally play the wrong song on purpose – that’s if it’s what YOU want to hear.

**Break:** A bad DJ might play inappropriate or disruptive songs just to appease one guest, which can derail the mood.

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### **5. Sound Quality and Equipment**

The right equipment makes all the difference in creating a professional sound experience. REAL TALK – larger groups and larger spaces require more sound. If you’re deciding on whether or not to add a couple extra speakers, trust your DJ to tell it to you straight.

**Make:** A professional DJ will use high-quality speakers, microphones, and backup equipment to ensure clear sound throughout the venue.

**Break:** Technical issues, poor sound quality, or failing to have backup gear can lead to awkward silences or frustrating audio problems.

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![Calm, cool, collected, and ready to make the magic happen - exactly what you'd want from the best wedding DJ experience](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/calm-cool-collected-professional-raleigh-wedding-DJ-stylus.webp "TV Inspired Raleigh Wedding DJ at Market Hall - Stylus Weddings")Calm cool collected and ready to make the magic happen exactly what youd want from the best wedding DJ experience

### **6. Keeping Guests Engaged**

The DJ often doubles as the Emcee / MC, guiding guests through key moments of the evening. There’s also a lot of back-end work that takes place to make sure everything FLOWS correctly. You definitely want an MC at your event because otherwise your event can feel staccato, choppy, or just plain off.

**Make:** A great DJ will use the tools at their disposal to make the event great. That includes the mic work and MCing. They’ll use their public speaking skills and charisma to energize the crowd, introduce speeches, and ensure everyone feels included.

**Break:** A DJ with poor public speaking skills or a lack of enthusiasm can make the event feel flat and disorganized. Imagine if your grand entrance (*ENERGY*!!!) and your first dance (*romance*) sounded the same.

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### **7. Customizing the Playlist**

Your wedding playlist should reflect your style and preferences as a couple. Your wedding should sound like you.

**Make:** A thoughtful DJ will take the time to learn your music tastes and create a customized playlist that aligns with your vision. I

**Break:** A DJ who ignores your preferences or relies solely on generic wedding playlists can make the experience feel impersonal.

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### **8. Transitions Between Songs**

Smooth transitions between songs keep the energy flowing and avoid awkward pauses. It also allows you to work in more music and blend different styles that will keep more people on the dance floor longer. It’s equal parts science & art.

**Make:** A skilled DJ will mix songs seamlessly, maintaining a steady flow on the dance floor.

**Break:** Clunky transitions or mismatched tempos can disrupt the momentum and clear the floor. Avoid mixes that sound like three sneakers in the dryer.

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### **9. Handling Special Requests and Announcements**

Weddings often involve unique moments that require coordination, like surprise dances or special announcements.

**Make:** A professional DJ will handle these requests effortlessly, ensuring they feel natural and memorable. Part of that will be because they’ve spent time preparing.

**Break:** If the DJ fumbles these moments, it can feel awkward and unpolished, or just fall flat.

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### **10. Creating Lasting Memories**

Your DJ has the power to make your wedding unforgettable by putting the focus on you, your partner, and all your favorite people who’ve gathered together for this one magical experience celebrating love and together.

**Make:** A talented DJ will help you to create your magical moments, from a romantic first dance to a packed dance floor during the reception – because they’ve worked with you to make it happen.

**Break:** A DJ who fails to engage guests or misses key moments can leave the night feeling underwhelming.

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### **How to Choose the Right DJ**

To ensure your DJ makes your wedding day a success, follow these tips:

1. **Research and Reviews:** Look for DJs with glowing reviews and a strong reputation in your area.
2. **Meet Your Actual DJ:** Schedule a consultation to gauge their personality and professionalism, either by phone, zoom, or in person. Make sure you like their voice and presentation.
3. **Listen to their mixes:** Never hire a DJ you haven’t listened to
4. **Share Your Vision:** Communicate your preferences and expectations clearly. We Recommend using 4 or 5 KEY WORDS that describe the vibe/style your going for.
5. **Review the Contract:** Ensure the DJ provides a detailed contract outlining their services and adjustment plans. Make sure the date, times, location, and package details are correct.

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Your DJ can be the difference between a good wedding and a great one. If you’re choosing wisely, you’ll set the stage for an unforgettable celebration that you and your guests will cherish and remember for years to come.

## Best Wedding DJ in Raleigh

Of course – if you’re looking for the [best wedding DJ in Raleigh](/), you should definitely consider setting up an appointment with Stylus, maybe we’re the ones you’re looking for. You can contact us here: [/contact/](/contact/)

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### [Carolina Beach Music - A Wedding Necessity for Many Carolina couples](https://stylusweddings.com/carolina-beach-music-a-wedding-necessity-for-many-carolina-couples/)

**Published:** January 24, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Excerpt:** Beach Music has been described as the most unique music genre anachronism in the US, America’s version of Northern Soul, and the “Sound of Carolina," and it might be the perfect thing to help round out the sound of your wedding.

**Content:**

If you’re from certain parts of the Carolinas, you’ve probably heard this music genre for most of your life. Your parents listened to it, maybe they’ve taken to festivals since you were a kid, maybe it’s the sound that defined every road trip to [Wrightsville Beach](https://www.wrightsvillebeach.com/index.html), [Carolina Beach](https://www.carolinabeach.org/), [Myrtle Beach](https://www.cityofmyrtlebeach.com/), or the weekly trip to lessons in [Pinehurst](https://www.vopnc.org/). Beach Music has been described as the most unique music genre anachronism in the US, America’s version of Northern Soul, or(one of several) the “Sound of Carolina” (sharing the billing with bluegrass, funk, and jazz) and it might be the perfect thing to help round out the sound of your wedding.

## The History & Development of Beach Music in the Carolinas

**[Beach music,](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beach_music)** or as DJ Frankie Hagan dubbed it, “*Southern approved Motown,*” originated in the late 1940s and early 1950s, as World War II veterans returned home and young people sought out places to relax, dance, and enjoy life. In the segregated South, mainstream pop and country music dominated white audiences, while African-American communities embraced the emerging sounds of rhythm and blues (R&B).

In seaside Carolina dance halls like the [Seabreeze in Carolina Beach](https://www.dncr.nc.gov/news/press-releases/2024/05/21/segregation-era-beach-resorts-be-featured-nc-highway-historical-marker), the Pavilion in Myrtle Beach, SC, and similar venues up and down the coast, R&B records became popular among young white listeners who were drawn to the infectious rhythms and soulful melodies. At a time when segregation was still enforced, beach music represented a subtle form of cultural integration. White teenagers, inspired by the liveliness of R&B, often traveled to Black-owned record shops to find the latest records, contributing to the blending of cultural boundaries.

Let me double down on this for a moment – the evolution of beach music represented a rebellion against the outright racism of the previous generation. Black visitors to Seabreeze and Freeman Beach were often harassed going to and from the resorts, and a lot of the people ‘breaking the rules’ were kids.

Beach music shows were equivalent to EDM/House raves in the 90s and were often targeted by police action. To the powers that be, it represented moral degeneration and societal collapse [(see the development of the Ice Cream Sundaem in Evanston, Illinois for a parallel)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sundae). That’s also part of what made it so important and so fundamental for so many people, and a big part of why that core experience maintained such a foothold when so many other regional genres died out.’

## Beach music represented a way out of the segregated past and a new way forward.

![Shag Dancing - Stylus wedding DJ Raleigh Carolina Beach Music in the 1940s](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/shag-dance-1940s.jpg "Wedding Reception Photo Booths 101 - Stylus Weddings")Shag Dancing Stylus wedding DJ Raleigh Carolina Beach Music **The Shag: The Dance That Defined the Sound** A crucial aspect of beach music’s development was its association with the shag dance, which emerged in the same period. The shag—a smooth, partner-style swing dance with roots in earlier forms like the [jitterbug](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tRFL4q5m7c) and [Lindy Hop](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkthxBsIeGQ)—became the signature dance of the Carolina coast. Its relaxed, rhythmic movements perfectly complemented the mid-tempo grooves of R&B tracks. This synergy between music and dance became the backbone of the beach music phenomenon.

The popularity of the shag among young people at Carolina beaches like Atlantic Beach, SC (historically a Black beach), and Ocean Drive Beach, SC, in North Myrtle Beach, helped create a social scene centered around music, dancing, and the carefree coastal lifestyle.

**Golden Era of Beach Music (1950s-1960s)** During the 1950s and early 1960s, beach music hit its stride. R&B artists like The Drifters, The Clovers, The Platters, and The Coasters dominated the airwaves and jukeboxes in beach towns. Their harmonies, catchy melodies, and upbeat tempos captured the spirit of summer vacations and youthful rebellion.

Some of the most iconic songs associated with beach music from this era include:

- *Under the Boardwalk* by The Drifters
- *Sixty Minute Man* by Billy Ward and His Dominoes
- *Stay* by Maurice Williams & the Zodiacs
- Carolina Girls by Chairman of the Board

While many of these artists were not native to the Carolinas, their music became adopted as the unofficial soundtrack of the region’s beach culture.

**The Local Scene: Carolina Bands Rise** By the mid-1960s, homegrown talent began to emerge, giving beach music a more regional identity. Bands like The Catalinas, The Embers, and The Tams became staples of the beach music scene, performing live at local dance halls, clubs, and festivals. These groups blended traditional R&B influences with a touch of Southern charm, creating a uniquely Carolinian sound.

If you’re interested, there’s a separate strain of Beach Music with a more blues-oriented style that came of out St. Louis.

**Decline and Revival (1970s-1980s)** As rock and roll, Motown, and later disco became dominant in the national music scene, beach music began to fade from mainstream popularity. However, it retained a loyal following in the Carolinas, where shag dancing and beach culture remained deeply ingrained.

During the 1970s and 1980s, regional radio stations like WNCT in Greenville, NC, and beach music-specific stations like WVCO “The Surf” helped keep the genre alive. Meanwhile, annual events like the Society of Stranders (SOS) gatherings in North Myrtle Beach, SC, celebrated shag dancing and beach music, creating a sense of community around the genre.

The unfortunate public introduction to Beach Music culture happened with the movie [Shag](https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/shag_the_movie) (1989). After the wild success of Dirty Dancing, it wasn’t what fans of the music could have hoped for, with Variety writing: *“As a dance flick, Shag suffers from an unexciting dance-style and so-so choreography but compensates with a fine young cast and likable story.”* But it certainly laid some groundwork for new familiarity with the genre, community, and shag dancing.

“Unexciting dance style” is uncharitable because all dancing can be as difficult as you want it to be, but it does have a kernel of truth: almost anyone can learn the dance quickly and it’s accessible for dancers of all ages. Part of why you might want to incorporate some Beach Music or shag dancing into your wedding.

**Resurgence in the 1990s** The 1990s brought a resurgence of interest in beach music, thanks in part to renewed efforts to preserve the culture of the Carolina coast. Artists from earlier decades continued to perform, and younger musicians embraced the style, ensuring its continuation. The Carolina Beach Music Awards (CBMA), established in 1995, became a major event to honor the genre’s contributors and celebrate its legacy.

**Beach Music Today** Today, beach music remains a beloved tradition in the Carolinas, particularly among older generations who associate it with their youth. Shag dancing continues to be a popular pastime, and events like the CBMA and the SOS festivals keep the culture alive. Bands like The Embers, Band of Oz, and The Chairman of the Board still perform, ensuring the music is passed down to new audiences. You’ve also seen new waves of Beach Music performers like Jim Quick and Coastline Band, Party of 6ix in Wilmington, The Castaways, and the Carolina Breakers.

### Why Beach Music in the Carolinas?

The unique geography and social culture of the Carolinas played a key role in the genre’s success. Coastal towns like Myrtle Beach, with their dance pavilions, jukeboxes, and vibrant nightlife, provided the perfect environment for beach music to thrive. Additionally, the laid-back, community-oriented spirit of the Carolinas ensured that traditions like shag dancing and beach music could be preserved over decades.

Beach music is more than just a genre; it’s a cultural legacy that ties generations together, embodying the rhythm of life along the Carolina coast. It continues to evoke nostalgia and pride, remaining an essential part of the region’s identity.

**Beach Music Today**

There are a lot of bands still performing Beach Music. Beside being popular for weddings, there’s still a thriving community that enjoys seeing bands perform at festivals, clubs, and more.

## How to Use Beach Music at Your Wedding

Beach music can be featured in a lot of different ways at your wedding. We’ll often see a couple of shag songs played during the reception when you’ve got a cadre of guests who enjoy shag dancing. We’ll also often see beach music played during dinner, cocktail hour, and sometimes even the ceremony (like the seating of the parents or as a recessional).

When you’re considering whether or not to incorporate beach music into your wedding, here’s a quick list of some classic and more contemporary beach music:

**[The Top 100 Beach Music Songs: ](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkntXqdkn1v6IXZc5Df4vNZMtrjawt-_X)**

### Beach Music **Essentials** **1-25**

1. *Carolina Girls* – Chairmen of the Board
2. *Ms. Grace* – The Tymes
3. *I Love Beach Music* – The Embers
4. *Summertime’s Calling Me* – The Catalinas
5. *Under the Boardwalk* – The Drifters
6. *Be Young, Be Foolish, Be Happy* – The Tams
7. *My Girl* – The Temptations
8. *39-21-40 Shape* – The Showmen
9. *Sixty Minute Man* – Billy Ward and His Dominoes
10. *Ocean Boulevard* – Band of Oz
11. *With This Ring* – The Platters
12. *Stay* – Maurice Williams & The Zodiacs
13. *Rainy Day Bells* – The Globetrotters
14. *On the Beach* – Chairmen of the Board
15. *Shama Lama Ding Dong* – Band of Oz
16. *Give Me Just a Little More Time* – Chairmen of the Board
17. *Cool Me Out* – Lamont Dozier
18. *You’re More Than a Number in My Little Red Book* – The Drifters
19. *Hold Back the Night* – The Trammps
20. *Party Time Man* – The Futures
21. *Gone Fishin’* – Chairmen of the Board
22. *Mama’s Drinkin’ Liquor Again* – King Tyrone & the Graveyard Ramblers
23. *May I* – Maurice Williams & The Zodiacs
24. *It Will Stand* – The Showmen
25. *Thank You John* – Willie Tee

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### **26-50: The Coastal Classics**

26. *Dancin’, Shaggin’ on the Boulevard* – Alabama
27. *Sand in My Shoes* – The Drifters
28. *Eighteen with a Bullet* – Pete Wingfield
29. *Hello Stranger* – Barbara Lewis
30. *I’ve Been Hurt* – Bill Deal & The Rhondels
31. *Percolate* – Bill Pinkney & The Original Drifters
32. *Build Me Up Buttercup* – The Foundations
33. *Knock on Wood* – Eddie Floyd
34. *Double Shot (Of My Baby’s Love)* – Swingin’ Medallions
35. *Hello Happiness* – The Drifters
36. *Don’t Let the Green Grass Fool You* – Wilson Pickett
37. *Hey Baby* – Bruce Channel
38. *Stagger Lee* – Lloyd Price
39. *Groove Me* – King Floyd
40. *Let’s Have a Party* – Wanda Jackson
41. *Big Boss Man* – Jimmy Reed
42. *Little Red Book* – The Drifters
43. *Myrtle Beach Days* – Fantastic Shakers
44. *Mr. Beach* – Fantastic Shakers
45. *Lady Soul* – The Temptations
46. *Carolina Moon* – Don Gibson
47. *Searchin’* – The Coasters
48. *Fun Fun Fun* – Beach Boys
49. *I’m Ready* – Fats Domino
50. *Cherry Grove* – Band of Oz

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### **51-75: Dance Floor Shag Favorites**

51. *Double Dealing Woman* – Coastline Band
52. *Funky Broadway* – Dyke and the Blazers
53. *Honky Tonk Women* – Rolling Stones
54. *Just One Look* – Doris Troy
55. *Lover Boy* – The Embers
56. *Something Smooth* – General Johnson & Chairmen of the Board
57. *Love is Here and Now You’re Gone* – The Embers
58. *Stand by Me* – Ben E. King
59. *I Only Have Eyes for You* – The Flamingos
60. *Cool Jerk* – The Capitols
61. *Feel So Fine* – Johnny Preston
62. *Drip Drop* – The Drifters
63. *What You Do to Me* – The Embers
64. *Baby I Need Your Loving* – Four Tops
65. *I Got Loaded* – Peppermint Harris
66. *Hey Girl Don’t Bother Me* – The Tams
67. *I Want to Thank You Baby* – Bobby Womack
68. *This Old Heart of Mine* – The Isley Brothers
69. *Shaggin’ the Night Away* – Fantastic Shakers
70. *All She Wants to Do Is Dance* – Don Henley
71. *Can’t Get Enough of Your Love* – Barry White
72. *Midnight Hour* – Wilson Pickett
73. *Baby Workout* – Jackie Wilson
74. *Walking Up a One-Way Street* – Willie Tee
75. *My Guy* – Mary Wells

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### **76-100: Timeless Beach Music Tunes**

76. *More Today Than Yesterday* – Spiral Starecase
77. *Rockin’ Pneumonia and the Boogie Woogie Flu* – Huey “Piano” Smith
78. *Lover Boy* – Maurice Williams & The Zodiacs
79. *Let Me Be Your Teddy Bear* – Elvis Presley
80. *Sweet Soul Music* – Arthur Conley
81. *Green Eyes* – Ravens
82. *This Magic Moment* – The Drifters
83. *Back That Thing Up* – Chairmen of the Board
84. *Keep on Dancing* – Gentrys
85. *Baby Come Back* – The Equals
86. *Sugar Pie Honey Bunch* – Four Tops
87. *Keep it Coming Love* – KC and the Sunshine Band
88. *Love Train* – The O’Jays
89. *Walkin’ the Dog* – Rufus Thomas
90. *Let’s Stay Together* – Al Green
91. *Fools Fall in Love* – The Drifters
92. *Second Chance* – Band of Oz
93. *You’re All I Need to Get By* – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
94. *I’ve Got a Woman* – Ray Charles
95. *Margaritaville* – Jimmy Buffett
96. *Good Times* – Sam Cooke
97. *I’ve Got Sand in My Shoes* – The Drifters
98. *Up on the Roof* – The Drifters
99. *Sha-Boom* – The Chords
100. *Sunshine of Your Love* – Cream

## Bands still performing beach music: 

### **1. The Embers featuring Craig Woolard**

- Often considered the quintessential beach music band, The Embers have been a staple of the genre since the 1950s. Now featuring Craig Woolard, they continue to tour and perform, delivering classics and new favorites to fans across the Carolinas.

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### **2. Band of Oz**

- Formed in the 1970s, Band of Oz remains one of the most popular and enduring beach music bands. Known for their high-energy performances and hits like *Ocean Boulevard*, they are a must-see for fans of the genre.

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### **3. Chairmen of the Board**

- With a legacy spanning decades, Chairmen of the Board is still going strong, led by Ken Knox. They perform iconic tracks like *Carolina Girls* and *Give Me Just a Little More Time* at beach music festivals and events.

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### **4. The Catalinas**

- Known for their timeless hit *Summertime’s Calling Me*, The Catalinas have been performing since the 1950s. They are a staple of the Carolina beach music scene, consistently delivering fan-favorite songs.

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### **5. The Tams**

- Famous for their classic *Be Young, Be Foolish, Be Happy*, The Tams continue to draw crowds with their infectious energy and signature harmonies. They blend nostalgia with a lively stage presence.

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### **6. The Entertainers**

- This band brings a modern flair to beach music while honoring its roots. Their blend of classic R&B, soul, and beach music keeps them in high demand throughout the Carolinas.

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### **7. The Fantastic Shakers**

- Often referred to as the “South’s Finest Show Band,” The Fantastic Shakers have been delighting audiences with hits like *Myrtle Beach Days*. Their live performances are legendary for their energy and crowd interaction.

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### **8. Blackwater Band**

- Known for their versatility, Blackwater Band performs a mix of beach music, R&B, and funk. They are popular on the beach music festival circuit and private events alike.

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### **9. The Holiday Band**

- This group combines traditional beach music with a modern edge, appealing to both long-time fans and newer audiences. Their performances are lively and crowd-pleasing.

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### **10. Jim Quick & Coastline**

- Known for their eclectic style, Jim Quick & Coastline bring a unique blend of swamp soul, R&B, and beach music. Jim Quick’s charismatic stage presence makes their shows a memorable experience.

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### **11. Steve Owens & Summertime**

- This group has quickly become a fan favorite in the beach music community. They perform a mix of beach music classics and original songs, always with a fun and upbeat vibe.

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### **12. Sea-Cruz**

- Featuring the dynamic vocals of Butch Barnes and Dino Fair, Sea-Cruz is known for their energetic live shows and dedication to beach music traditions.

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### **13. The Carolina Coast Band**

- Performing a mix of beach music, Southern rock, and R&B, The Carolina Coast Band is a versatile group with a strong fan following in the Carolinas.

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### **14. Gary Lowder & Smokin’ Hot**

- Known for their powerful horn section and soulful vocals, this band blends beach music with a variety of other genres for an exciting live performance.

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### **15. Too Much Sylvia**

- With their humorous approach and great stage presence, Too Much Sylvia has become a favorite among beach music fans. Their setlists include a mix of beach classics and crowd favorites.

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### [RALEIGH  WEDDING COSTS - LEARN THE TRUTH](https://stylusweddings.com/raleigh-wedding-costs-learn-the-truth/)

**Published:** February 11, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Excerpt:** Here's a rough breakdown of what you can expect to pay for wedding services in the Triangle.


**Content:**

![An infographic outline of the average wedding budget in North Carolina for couples getting married in the Triangle, Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary, Morrisville, Wake Forest, Apex, Holly Springs, Carrboro](/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Stylus-Average-Wedding-Costs-in-Raleigh-Durham-Chapel-Hill-The-Triangle.jpg "4 Ways to Hire The Best Chapel Hill Wedding DJ - Stylus Weddings")Average wedding costs in the Triangle of North Carolina 

Here’s a rough breakdown of what you can expect to pay for wedding services in the Triangle. The North Carolina Average Wedding Costs are between **$30,000 to $40,000**. The Triangle (Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill) is a large and growing metropolitan area with almost 2.5 Million people, and there are almost 6500 weddings each year.

If you’re planning your wedding in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Apex, Garner, Holly Springs, Wakefield, Wake Forest, Morrisville, Cary, or any of the numerous pockets of awesome in between, here’s some potentially harsh news:

 The ‘Average’ Wedding cost in the Triangle is listed at around **$35,000**, but this also includes Courthouse weddings with small afterparties and most coordinators will tell you that the actual spend is closer to **$50,000 (tight budget)** to **$75,000 (more comfortable budget)**. “Luxury” weddings are anything over $1000 per person (**100 ppl, $100,000**).

Here’s the Sofi Bank rundown of wedding costs: [HERE](https://www.sofi.com/learn/content/average-wedding-cost/)

How does that price add up and what can you expect to spend on a wedding in the Triangle?

Skip to the [How to Keep My Budget Down ](/#how-to-keep-wedding-budget-down)section

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## WEDDING **VENUE & CATERING – 50% OF YOUR BUDGET**

### Triangle **Wedding Venue Rental** – $4,000-$12,000

This doesn’t include your food/beverage, and keep in mind that you can do a lower budget venue but spend a bit on lighting and decor to make it look amazing, but you can’t make a place like the awesome & very affordable[ Campbell Lodge at Durant Nature Preserve](https://raleighnc.gov/parks-and-recreation/services/nature-parks-preserves-and-programs/campbell-lodge-rental-information) into the [Maxwell](https://themaxwellraleigh.com/). If you’re looking to budget, get married on a Thursday. **Don’t expect to have a Saturday wedding in May or October and save.**

- **Bare Bones:** $900-$4000 City/County resources, Moose Lodge/Shriners Club/VFW/ Community Center
- **Low End:** $3000-$5000 (weekday) or some smaller or quirkier options Caffe Luna, Matthews House, Art Museum, Traine, Marbles (and the chronically underpriced Fairview – one of the best deals in any downtown in the Triangle)
- **Mid Tier:** $7,000-$12,000 Maxwell, Upchurch, Paramount, Chateau Des Fleures, 21C, Bay 7, Cotton Room, Union Station, Sky Room, many hotel ballrooms.
- **High End:** $14,000 Merrimon Wynne House et al
- **Higher End**: $30,000 (some ‘inclusive’ options) – Oxbow (RIP) was a good example of the kind of place that was charging for an all-inclusive experience for $30,000.

Your wedding venue needs to hit a few key elements for you. Does it have room/parking for the number of guests you’re expecting? If not, you might want to get some transportation. Venues will often break down into categories. It’ll be pretty obvious which one you like and you’ll be able to narrow down which ones fit your vibe.

- Classic
- Rustic
- Modern
- Post-Industrial
- Banquet
- Natural
- Quirky
- Glamourous/Luxurious

Also check to see if your venue is going to come with extras. Some venues, like the Matthews House, the Upchurch, and the Fairview are going to have tables, chairs, etc… available to you very affordably. Others will have a lower starting price but require you to use in-house options for other things (caterers in particular are a big risk for venues, so they’ll often have their preferred partners)

**Wedding** **Catering Costs:** One of the easiest places to spend or save is the catering – depending on your priorities.

- Potluck – $0-$15 per person (you’ll probably want to hire a catering staff to serve/clean up)
- BBQ – $30 per person
- Heavy Hors Doeuvres: $30 – 50 per person
- Buffet: $50-$85 per person
- Full: $95-$150 per person

### **Wedding** **Coordinator/Planner Cost Price Range**: Average $2,000-$14,000

What does a wedding coordinator do?

There have been two ‘flavors’ of coordinator in many peoples minds over the past decade, “Coordinator” and “Planner”.

Unlike a full-service wedding planner who is involved in every aspect of the planning process, a coordinator steps in closer to the wedding day to tie up loose ends and ensure the event runs smoothly.

What makes this very hard for that average wedding coordinator is that the client has essentially thrown a lot of random ingredients into a pot and then said, “You’re the chef! Make delicious soup!” Sometimes the struggle is real.

A Coordinator will help you develop the timeline (we prefer it when we get to help clients with their timelines as well since we’re focused on *FLOW*), oversee vendor communication, and handle last-minute challenges so couples can focus on enjoying their celebration. By acting as the main point of contact for everyone involved, a wedding coordinator alleviates the stress of juggling countless moving parts.

The value of a wedding coordinator lies in their expertise, organization, and ability to troubleshoot on the spot. They ensure that the vision couples have been dreaming of becomes a reality, without the couple needing to worry about logistics. From keeping the ceremony on schedule to making sure the reception flows effortlessly, a coordinator allows couples to be fully present in their moment, surrounded by family and friends. By taking the weight of the day off their shoulders, a wedding coordinator provides peace of mind and the freedom to savor every joyful memory.

Wedding planners are a coordinator plus all the up front work. Looking to remove even more stress? Hire a planner.

**Low End:** ‘Day Of Planning’ Coordination – **$2500** – **$10,000** (usually covers a bit of prep in the month leading up, a bit more or less depending on who you’re working with and how efficient they are). Don’t misinterpret all coordinators as ‘low end’, I’m just using this as a method to explore the amount of resources you’ll need to devote.

**High End:** Full Planning – **$15,000** to **$100,000** (percentage based on your total spend) Some may charges 12%, Some charge 18%. 15% is a good average.

**Wedding DJ** – **Average Cost Breakdown**  **(average $2000-$3500)**

Obviously, we’ve got some pretty strong feelings about how this should be done, but here’s a rough outline of some budgets at different service levels:

- **Rent a Sound System** (no DJ/no MC) – $450-$1000 depending on how many people and how many systems. You can get your cousin to manage a Spotify playlist. ([should you Spotify or DJ?](/blog/should-you-hire-a-wedding-dj-or-have-a-spotify-playlist/))
- **Low End:** is going to run $1500-$2000
- **Ballin on a Budget**: $2500-$4500
- **Higher End**: $5000-$6000

Your Wedding DJ is doing the most of your event heavy lifting and is the single most consequential vendor you’re probably going to hire. This one vendor will determine more about your wedding than almost any other factor. Take your time and get it right. (How to Hire the [\#1 Best Wedding DJ In Raleigh](/blog/1-best-wedding-dj-in-raleigh/))

You can cut costs by cutting the amount of time your DJ is there, cutting the number of guests so you don’t need as big of a sound system, and cutting down on the amount of prep-time your DJ needs (*almost half the time we spend on an event happens before we ever play a single song*).

### Wedding **Photographer Cost:** $2,000-$10,000

Easiest way to cut down on photography costs is to limit the number of photographers (which will limit the number of finished photos) and limit the time they’re on site. Bear in mind, 3/4 of a photographers work happens after the event, so the easiest place to save is cutting down how expensive their time is by decreasing it at the event and in post-prodution.

- **Low End**: $2000
- ****Ballin on a Budget****: $4,000-$7000
- **High End**: $10,000

### Wedding Ceremony Officiant Cost: $500-$1200

- $500-$1200 – Not too much variation here – but there are a lot of great officiants. Check out Anne Mckenzie, Kathi Moon, Ed Sansbury, Bekah Rhea, & Oak City Ceremonies.

### Wedding **Hair & Makeup Cost:** $700-$8,000

- **Bride Only Low End** – $700 (trial & day of)
- **Higher End** – $1000
- **Bridesmaids** $125-$250, $600 per additional person

You can cut costs by just doing the bride, but your bridesmaids or mom might feel some type of way.

### Wedding **Florals Cost:** $3500-$8000 average

- **Bare Bones** – Get some glass vases and throw some hyacinth from the tree out back in.
- **Low End**: $5500 
    - $5500 Minimum for many floral companies because their ordering costs are so high
- **Ballin on a Budget** – ‘fake’ flowers like Faux Real etc…
- **High End**: [Meristem Floral](https://meristemfloral.com/) $12,000 minimum

### **Wedding Bar Costs: $3000-$8,000 ($5500 average)**

- Either part of catering or separate. Usually a range per person
- Low End: $20-$25 person
- High End: $40-$50 per person
- Higher End – sky’s the limit

### Wedding Decor Costs: $5500 Average

Low End – $1000-$3000

High End – $7500-$15,000

Linens are going to be $25-$200 each. Napkins can add up. Want a nice backdrop for the ceremony? Like having lots of fun things to make the room feel more amazing? Groups like [Themeworks](https://www.themeworkscreative.com/), the Greenhouse Picker Sisters, Party Reflections, Curated Events, and more can make your wedding even more awesome, but it can add up pretty quick.

## **How to Keep Your Wedding Budget Down**

**Step 1** – **Get married anytime that isn’t Friday, Saturday or Sunday.** For the love of everything good in the world – don’t try to have a budget Saturday wedding – It’s going to make it much harder for you to get what you want. *Do you have any idea the kind of extras I can throw your way when there aren’t 10 other weddings we have to account for!?* I’m happy to throw in extra uplights if I can spare them – we always aim to overdeliver!

**Step 2** – **Avoid Popular Months**. Don’t get married in April, May, September, October, December, or around a Major Holiday. I got married in July because it was the only time I had two weekends in a row I could afford to take off. I also got preferential pricing on our venue because it wasn’t going to be booked anyway and they’d rather just have the money.

**Step 3** – **Don’t overspend on your venue.** Most couples don’t know what they’re doing and can blow their budget on the venue and catering before they ever start trying to pick other vendors. You want to save money? Step down your venue requirements. Durant Nature Preserve Campbell Lodge is $180/hr. You can have a great time at the Shriners Club for $1600-$2200 (15 hours). If you pick a $15,000 spot, don’t ask vendors to cut back on their prices.

- **In some cases, we’ll turn down clients who are trying to cut it to the bone because it would make US look bad** (*i.e. they have 400 ppl but they just want a 2 speaker set-up)*.

**Step 4** – **Put your resources into what matters to you**. If the food is the most important thing and you’re going to spend five straight hours eating, then dump half your budget into catering. If the party is the most important thing, then dump a bigger part of your budget into your DJ and lighting. If the cake is the most important thing to you – then do a big spend there. Whatever it is – be brutally honest with yourself. For most couples, the entertainment is the biggest bang for their buck.

**Step 5** – **Cut your guest list**. Brutal, I know, but a small venue and a small catering bill will drastically cut your overall spend.

**Step 6** – **Plastic**. No, it’s not a word you’re hoping to see, but here it is. Don’t spend on fancy tablecloths or dining options. Get fake flowers instead of real ones. Get plastic plates for your cake (don’t get a plastic cake – there are too many great cake vendors in Raleigh who will make you a sheet cake).

**Step 7 – Rethink the Party.** If having a dream wedding is going to destroy you, then don’t. It’s much easier to hire us to come play a regular party since we don’t have to spend 20 hours working with you over the previous 6 months. Not that we don’t like working with you, but that additional time and attention to detail adds up over time, and we have to charge for that.

- **Our average investment in a wedding experience** is usually around 15-20 hours before we even walk through the door. Then we’ve got another 4 man hours of setup, 6-8 hours of the event (another 12-16 man hours, sometimes more), and then two hours of teardown plus another hour or so of travel back to the warehouse. That grand total is often 40-46 hours of work on our end or higher. If none of that is necessary, your price can be much lower.

Hope this helps you get your head around what some of your options are. This is a tough thing you’re trying to do – people go to school to learn how to do this correctly

You’re spending more money than you’ve ever spent on stuff you’ve never bought before from people you’ve never heard of. This is tough. We’re here to make this easy.

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**Tags:** Raleigh Wedding, Raleigh Wedding Costs, raleigh wedding dj, Wedding Costs

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### [Got the 8 DJ's Hottest Wedding Trends of 2025?](https://stylusweddings.com/got-the-8-djs-hottest-wedding-trends-of-2025/)

**Published:** February 18, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

![Stylus SE Blog](/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/chapel-hill-best-value-wedding-dj-stylus-813x1024.png "chapel-hill-best-value-wedding-dj-stylus - Stylus Weddings")Stylus is an experience affirming wedding entertainment company in Raleigh North Carolina Yeah were DJs with a lot of really fun tricks up our sleeve but were really in the business of making memories

**The DJ’s Hottest Wedding Trends of 2025: Elevate Your Celebration in Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill**

As the hottest wedding trends continue to evolve, so does the role of the DJ. We’ve got even more ability to help make the hottest wedding trends of 2025 part of your celebration (unless you want something different, in which case we can still help you).

 It wasn’t that long ago (twenty years) that wedding DJs weren’t expected to be your event director. Your wedding DJ also cost way more in the 2000s than it does today (inflation is a real thing – the cost of an ‘average’ wedding DJ in 2004 was $300-$400/hr. That equates to $469 ($300) to $626/hr ($400) in today’s dollars). Over that time, we’ve seen trends come and go (remember when groom’s ‘magically’ appeared up at the front?)

 In 2025, wedding entertainment is more immersive, interactive, and personalized than ever before. If you’re planning your wedding in Raleigh, Durham, or Chapel Hill, staying ahead of the latest DJ wedding trends can help you create an unforgettable celebration, or, at the very least, you can say ‘they got inspired by our wedding” when your cousin gets married. From live DJ collaborations to hyper-personalized playlists and expert lighting integration, here’s what’s trending in wedding entertainment this year.

### **1. Live DJ & Musician Collaborations**

One of the biggest trends of 2025 is blending live music with DJ sets. This trend has been going for a couple of years, but the way it’s evolving is fascinating and is doing a lot more than just adding some spice to your event. Couples love the energy that live musicians bring to the dance floor. That’s why some couples hire bands. But bands can’t party like a great DJ can, so combining the two is an epic win!

*(I have very strong feelings on this, probably for another blog post, but bands are rarely the right answer to a wedding reception according to 65% couples who hire a band but say they wish they’d hired a DJ).*

Picture this: your DJ seamlessly mixing your favorite songs while a saxophonist or violinist plays along, adding a dynamic live element that excites your guests. We’re doing most of these with saxophonists, horn sections, and LIVE DRUMMERS! It’s great. Let us know if you’d like to do it, we love it.

![Stylus S.E. - Raleigh's Hottest Wedding DJ](/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/IMG_0DF9DBE29094-1-754x1024.jpeg "Service Area Template - Stylus Weddings")Live Music Wedding DJ Collaboration in Raleigh

### **2. Personalized Soundtracks & Interactive Requests**

Gone are the days of generic wedding playlists. Couples in 2025 are working closely with their DJs to craft personalized soundtracks that tell their love stories. Some Wedding DJs now offer interactive request features via mobile apps, allowing guests to suggest songs in real-time without disrupting the flow of the event. However, any DJ that thinks that talking to guests is an interruption might be missing a great opportunity to engage. (we actually like people).

We can do this too, but we don’t recommend it for most couples with guest lists under 150 ppl since guest interactions are a big part of how we help deliver a great experience – but if you want it – we do it!

### **3. Immersive Sound & Lighting Experiences**

This is one of my favorites. The experience of wedding music is being taken to a whole new level.

Lighting can add up quickly but it’s also possible to get a lot of heavy lifting done with 24 uplights, four totems, four moving heads, and 8 LED tube lights. All of that is under $2000 and does a ton of heavy lifting.

Advanced sound systems with spatial audio technology are making it feel like the music is surrounding the room in a more natural and engaging way. Pair this with custom LED lighting that syncs with the beat, and you have a reception that feels like an exclusive concert.

We can make it so that your lighting matches your music throughout the entire party – creating a truly world-class atmosphere that’s professional designed to enhance every part of your experience.

However, the spatial audio thing isn’t exactly what’s going to set your party off – but it does allow us to do some really interesting things *(like cutting the lighting and creating a simulated rainstorm for a romantic slow dance during your reception, with flashes around the room and you hear the rain approaching from the left before a classic love song like Moonlight Serenade or Love Story plays – it’s magic!)*

### **4. Themed DJ Sets & Genre-Specific Mixes**

More couples are opting for themed weddings, and some DJs are embracing the trend by curating genre-specific or decade-inspired sets. Whether it’s a 90s throwback dance party, a disco-themed reception, or an all-out EDM festival vibe, DJs are tailoring their sets to match the overall aesthetic of the wedding.

How can this work for you? It’s easy! Pick something you love and we’ll help. Examples include (*these are all REAL events that we’ve done)* TV Sitcom, Final Fantasy XIV, Disney, Game of Thrones *(no one died)*, or pretty much anything else that you love (Fine Art maybe?). From there, you can work in cool music, decor elements, or activities. I did a wedding for some truly amazing Space X engineers and we incorporated all the things they were passionate about (working out, math/engineering, and charity efforts) into a truly memorable evening.

![Weddings at the NC Museum of art can be a wonderful option for a lot of Stylus DJ couples](/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/NCMA-Wedding-ceremony-1024x683.jpg "NCMA-Wedding ceremony - Stylus Weddings")Weddings at the NC Museum of art can be a wonderful option for a lot of Stylus DJ couples photo courtesy of the NCMA promotional page

### **5. Sustainable & Eco-Friendly DJ Services**

Environmental sustainability remains a priority for some couples, and wedding DJs are stepping up by using energy-efficient sound and lighting equipment. Some DJs are also offering digital-only playlists to reduce waste from printed request lists and CDs (let’s be honest, no one is using CDs anymore), ensuring a greener approach to wedding entertainment.

In some ways, this feels like Apple not giving you a charging block so they can charge for charging block but calling it ‘sustainable.’ The vast majority of the carbon output of a wedding isn’t coming from your DJ, it’s coming from your food and guest travel, but there are still things we can do to help you make your event the most environmentally responsible party on the planet.

When it comes to being green – there are a bunch of things you can do, but our equipment is more efficient than it’s ever been and if you’re looking for a Green and Sustainable Wedding DJ, we can definitely help you meet these goals.

However, there are some risks of ‘streaming only’ DJs, the number of horror stories we hear every week isn’t a good sign. It’s kind of like a ‘natural light’ photographer – do your research before you get too locked in. At the very least, make sure they have local digital files just in case the wifi goes down or cousin Tommy accidentally knocks over the router.

### **6. AI-Powered Playlists & Custom Mashups**

Technology is playing a bigger role in wedding music, with DJs leveraging AI-powered tools to create custom edits or even weirder and more awesome offerings. With AI, we can now make it sound like Arnold Schwartzenegger is signing your first dance (please don’t do that, unless you really want to) or we can [take a poem you wrote to your love and turn it into a unique one-of-a-kind song](https://aisonggenerator.io/). I expect this to play a huge role over the next few years before our robot overlords decide [everyone must dance to one song and one song only](https://youtu.be/iEe_eraFWWs?si=RBlZHy8FsdxtRv4u).

### **7. Silent Discos for Outdoor & Multi-Zone Weddings**

For couples hosting outdoor weddings or multi-space receptions, silent discos are making a big impact. Guests can wear wireless headphones and switch between multiple music channels, ensuring everyone hears their favorite tunes without noise restrictions interfering with the party.

![Silent Disco at the Durham Museum of Natural Sciences with two DJs playing to a crowd wearing headphones so they can pick which DJ they want to listen to.](/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Durham-Silent-Disco-DJ-Stylus-at-the-Museum-of-Natural-Sciences-Wedding-Day-Party-1024x768.jpg "Understanding Wedding DJ Pricing in North Carolina: What You Need to Know - Stylus Weddings")Silent Disco at the Durham Museum of Natural Sciences with two DJs playing to a crowd wearing headphones so they can pick which DJ they want to listen to

### 8. Wedding Special Effects 

This is another one of my favorites. Things like cold sparks, dancing on a cloud, geysers, snow effects, cryo, and even fireworks and flame effects.

Yes, it can get pretty pricey, but much of it is also really affordable (snow machine for a magic first dance inside? Dancing on a cloud effect for unforgettable pictures and memories? Cold sparks for your grand exit? It’s epic!)

![Wedding special effects cold sparks at the chateau in Angier North Carolina ECU Wedding Couple](/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Wedding-at-the-Chateau-in-Angier-North-Carolina-Wedding-DJ-Special-Effects-Cold-Sparks-1024x768.jpg "RALEIGH  WEDDING COSTS - LEARN THE TRUTH - Stylus Weddings")

### **Why Choose a Professional Wedding DJ in Raleigh, Durham, & Chapel Hill?**

While wedding playlists and streaming services are readily available, nothing compares to the expertise of a professional wedding DJ. A skilled wedding DJ isn’t a human Ipod – they’re not a spotify playlist with a circulatory system. They’re not only reading the crowd but also curating the perfect energy for every moment of your celebration. Whether you’re tying the knot in a historic venue in Durham, a chic barn in Chapel Hill, or a luxury ballroom in Raleigh, hiring an experienced wedding DJ can ensure your wedding entertainment is more seamless and even more unforgettable.

### **Book Your 2025 Wedding DJ Today!**

Are you ready to bring YOUR FAVORITE wedding DJ trends to your big day? Is there something you wan to see that isn’t on here? Our team of professional DJs in Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill specialize in creating extraordinary wedding experiences tailored to your unique style. [Contact us today](/contact/) to book your date and start planning the perfect soundtrack for your special day!

*For inquiries and availability, visit [STYLUS’ CONTACT PAGE](/contact/) or call 919.346.4669. Let’s make your wedding one to remember!*

**Categories:** Blog

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### [For a DJ - Every Song is a Pokemon](https://stylusweddings.com/for-a-dj-every-song-is-a-pokemon/)

**Published:** July 23, 2025
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

## Why Being a DJ is Like Being a Pokemon Trainer

**DJs have a lot more in common with Pokemon Trainers than you might think – and here’s why…**

If you’ve ever seen the Pokemon cartoon, watched any of the movies, encountered the ubiquitous card game, or seen people running around different locations trying to catch a rare Pokemon on their phone with the mobile game, then you’ve got a sense of what the setup is.

In the cartoon, 10 year-old Ash Ketchum encounters Pokemon, these adorable or sometimes terrifying critters in the wild, and he can capture them and use them in Pokemon battles against other Trainers who wield their bestiary against his. Ash’s personal favorite is the brand mascot – Pikachu – a lightning-themed yellow plush with a warm heart and untapped potential.

We can actually see this play out in a slightly more meta way with the new [Pokemon Presents](https://www.polygon.com/news/614984/pokemon-presents-july-2025-news-announcements-all-recap) that just released as DJ Pikachu spins an hour of beats before the program officially began.

If you’ve ever seen a DJ deep in the zone – headphones on, eyes scanning the crowd, hands hovering over the decks like they’re about to summon lightning – you’re witnessing something that’s part science, part instinct… and honestly, more than a little like Pokémon.

Stay with me.

Every DJ has their team. It’s not just a playlist or a folder of bangers, but a carefully trained squad of songs, each one chosen with purpose. You don’t just *play* music – you deploy it, like you’re throwing a pokeball onto the arena floor and waiting for it to fully open, revealing the powerful creature inside . You pick the right track at the right moment to shift the energy in the room, flip a vibe, or land the knockout move. Every song is a Pokémon, and the dancefloor is your battlefield.

Some tracks are your ride-or-die. Your Pikachu. The ones you keep in the top slot because you *know* what they’re going to do. Maybe it’s a bass-heavy banger that always makes people lose their minds, or a silky-smooth disco groove that never fails to get the hips moving. They’re not just songs – they’re reliable allies. Crowd pleasers with a 100% success rate for most audiences.

And then there are the evolutions.

![Roman Wedding Frieze](/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/889717264.png "Roman Wedding Frieze - Stylus Weddings")

A remix is like a song’s second or third form. Still the same core, but upgraded. More powerful. Maybe it hits harder, runs faster, or glows in the dark. You’ve got 10 versions of that same track, and depending on the moment, you might reach for the mellow original, the festival-slaying VIP edit, or the bootleg that sneaks in an extra bassline just to keep heads nodding.

You can also evolve tracks on the fly with mashups and the power of stems (an exciting new software feature that some have called the ‘EQ Killer’). Doja-Chu doing a good job of setting the vibe but you need more punch so you throw a Hyphy beat underneath and a K-Pop melody riding the topline subtly while Doja’s punchy drawl soars to victory.

As a DJ, you know your team. You know what each one’s good at. That deep-cut lo-fi house tune? That’s your sleeper – unassuming at first, but weirdly effective. The big-room anthem with the dramatic build and tear-out drop? That’s your Charizard. Doesn’t come out often, but when it does, it’s carnage.

Every mix is a strategy. You feel out the room like a seasoned trainer reading their opponent. You watch the crowd as they lean in or shift their feet. You lead with something mid-tempo and funky to draw them in, then hit them with the surprise move. You hold a few tricks back for when you really need them. You swap one track out and the whole vibe changes. Every transition matters.

And sometimes you’ll throw out something unexpected – a rare one, maybe even a little edgy – just to see what happens. Because a good trainer knows when to take risks. If the crowd’s willing to go further, we’re the ones to take them there.

So the next time you’re watching a DJ at work, don’t just hear the music. See the roster. See the precision. See the time spent collecting and the lenghts we’ll go to. See the squad of sounds being summoned, one after the other, to shift energy, build tension, and land critical hits.

Because behind every killer set is someone who knows their team – and how to use it.

Gotta play ’em all.

Jason Huggins is a special event and club performer with [Raleigh Wedding DJ Stylus SE](https://stylusevents.us/)

Check out more blog posts here: [/blog/](/blog/)

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**Published:** May 4, 2026
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# Make your wedding the best party you’ve ever been to!

## A Stylus Wedding makes that a reality!

At Stylus S.E., we’ve perfected the client and guest experience, from the wedding ceremony to the last dance and grand exit.

Our award-winning team of professional wedding DJs serves the greater Triangle area and beyond, bringing the energy, expertise, and personal attention your wedding day deserves.

In Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, and across North Carolina, your wedding DJ is an important part of your celebration – and where you spend the most time with your guests.

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Step 1

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After your call, we’ll share DJs available for your date. Review bios, hear their mixes, and choose your favorite—or let us match the vibe for you.

Step 3

### Add the Extras

Select lighting, photo booth, effects, musicians, or other enhancements upfront—or add them later as your wedding plans come together.

Step 4

### Plan the Celebration

Once booked, you’ll get access to your event portal, next steps, and planning tools. Closer to the wedding, your DJ will review songs, timeline, and details. Then relax and enjoy your celebration. We’ll handle the music, timing, announcements, and production details.

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- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)### DJ Jason Huggins

     [ ![DJ Jason Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonmain.webp "jasonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)### Will Batchelor

     [ ![Smiling DJ in a gray blazer stands at a mixing console in a colorful studio with red and purple wall panels.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/willmain.webp "willmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)### DJ Nyce Danger

     [ ![Portrait of DJ Nyce Danger](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Nycemain.webp "Nycemain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)### Jennifer ‘J-Star’ Berzinkas

     [ ![J Star - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/j-starmain.webp "j-starmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)### Gordon Huggins

     [ ![Gordon Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Gordonmain.webp "Gordonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)### Robyn Fuller

     [ ![Portrait of Robyn Fuller](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Robynmain.webp "Robynmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)### Ramez Botros – DJ Mez

     [ ![DJ Mez - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Mezmain.jpg "Mezmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)

### Real Reviews From North Carolina Couples

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[Sandra Hammack](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/114287365151889174358/reviews)4 months ago

Great technology. Great songs.
Shoutout to Will for the amazing job at my brother's wedding. The sound quality was top-notch across three different locations. He blended the 'must-plays' with very personalized tracks that made it a really fun party. You're in good hands with Will!

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[Haven Bornhoft](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/113773683799255958593/reviews)4 months ago

Will set the perfect mood all day. The outdoor cocktail hour was relaxed. The reception was super high-energy. He knew exactly how to keep everyone dancing without it feeling forced. The whole night felt professionally produced event from start to finish.

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[Doug Hammack](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/115328895499762870531/reviews)4 months ago

Professionalism on Display
Will from Stylus handled a complex set-up for our son's wedding, and he did it well. He managed three distinct soundscapes, the ceremony, the outdoor cocktail hour, and reception. He did them all flawlessly. His organization is top-tier. He worked out all the details with the couple and family early, and on the night, he hit every cue. He brought a professional poise that anchored the formal moments and added energy to the party. He truly is a professional.

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[Marley Satterwhite](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/112947444325996380179/reviews)4 months ago

Spencer absolutely made our wedding. From the very beginning, he was organized, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our day feel exactly how we envisioned it. He didn’t just play music—he read the room perfectly, kept the energy flowing, and knew exactly when to slow things down or bring the party back to life. Every transition felt seamless, and the dance floor was packed all night.

And we can’t forget Gordon—his right-hand man and ultimate hype partner. Together, they were such a fun duo. Gordon helped keep everything running smoothly behind the scenes while also bringing great energy to the crowd. You could tell they’ve done this a million times because everything felt effortless on our end.

What really stood out, though, was how they felt like part of the family. They weren’t just vendors—they were fully present, supportive, and genuinely cared about making our day special. They took so much stress off our plate, which allowed us to actually relax and enjoy every moment.

We had so many guests come up to us saying it was one of the most fun weddings they’ve ever been to, and a huge part of that is thanks to Spencer and Gordon. Honestly, without them, our wedding wouldn’t have been as incredible as it was. If you’re looking for a DJ who goes above and beyond, keeps things stress-free, and throws an unforgettable party, Spencer is your guy. We truly couldn’t have asked for better.

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[chelsy choquette](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/116995955111991059722/reviews)5 months ago

We had the absolute pleasure of working with Spencer from Stylus SE for our wedding, and we truly could not have asked for a better DJ! From the very beginning, Spencer was incredibly patient, attentive, and accommodating to all of our requests and needs. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but he made the entire music process feel seamless and stress-free.

On the day of the wedding, Spencer exceeded all expectations. He was professional, organized, and kept everything running smoothly. The music was perfect, the transitions were flawless, and he did an amazing job reading the crowd and keeping the energy up all night long. We received so many compliments from our guests about how great the music and atmosphere were!

We also want to give a special shoutout to the Photo Booth coordinator, who was equally fantastic. They were friendly, helpful, and made sure everyone had a great time capturing fun memories throughout the night.

If you’re looking for a DJ who is reliable, talented, and truly cares about making your day special, we highly recommend Spencer and the Stylus SE team. Thank you for helping make our wedding unforgettable!

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[Lauren Dunbar](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/103274097858934254776/reviews)6 months ago

I have worked with the Stylus team for a couple of years now and they always seem to blow us away with their professionalism and passion for their craft. Our events have hosted around 600 people and our DJ, Jason, has always made the events incredibly fun and energetic. I've even asked the team to help with production of live feed video with in the week of an event and they were able to produce flawlessly for us with a moments notice. I greatly appreciate the work they do, it makes my job of planning an event seamless and fun!

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[Arya Jones](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/110193230251559990250/reviews)7 months ago

DJ Nyce, DAE, Jason, and Robyn all made the entire process so easy! From the very beginning Robyn answered every email with professionalism and guidance. DJ Nyce was so fun to work with and actually did my sisters wedding a few years ago so we have complete faith he would keep the dance floor alive and he did! Our Photo Booth manager DAE was also exceptional and funny enough knew me before I was even born! The entire team was so kind and we are so grateful to them for making our day so easy!

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[Mackenzie Lazerow](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/115051755157190305065/reviews)8 months ago

Cannot say enough great things about Jason and Stylus!! From the first point of contact to event execution, communication, professionalism, value, and quality were all 10/10. Jason received very little direction from us, but because he is so skilled at what he does, he knocked his role out of the park. Announcements and music for our awards ceremony - perfect. Lighting, sound, and DJing for our after-party- incredible. Jason, thank you for being a trusted partner. We are thrilled that we can count on you!!

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[Alyssa Libertelli](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/101562577538994735859/reviews)1 year ago

Jason and his team were AMAZING! They kept the party lively at our wedding and were super interactive with the crowd. We seriously so appreciate everything they did to make our wedding memorable for everyone. The dancing on the clouds for our first dance was magical! Thank you!

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[Jamie Schwint](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/103607633780729791742/reviews)1 year ago

Stylus was incredible!!! Can't recommend enough - we had Connor as our DJ for our wedding in May, and he was outstanding. The best MC we've seen at a wedding, and honored all of our requests (and we had a lot of specific requests). The dance floor was packed full the whole night, and all of our friends and family couldn't stop telling us how much fun they had. There was a slight scheduling hiccup with Stylus about 3 weeks out, but they communicated well with us and included some more lighting in our package to help make up for it, which turned out incredible. So, they're trustworthy as well. 10/10 recommend!!

## Stylus S.E. In Action

## NC wedding DJs – More Than Music: Lighting, Effects & Enhancements

[![Bride and groom dancing with indoor cold sparks during their wedding reception.](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/services01.jpg)

## Special FX](/enhancements)

Turn key wedding moments into unforgettable scenes with high-impact special effects for entrances, first dances, dance floors, and reception finales.

[See the Enhancements](/enhancements)

[![Wedding guests posing with props at a photo booth.](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/services05.jpg)

## Photo Booth](/enhancements)

On-demand, **professional photo-lab-quality** prints give your guests a fun memento from your big day, and you get copies as well.

[See the Enhancements](/enhancements)

[![Aerial performer entertaining guests during a wedding reception.](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/liveperformers.webp)

## Live Performers](/enhancements)

Add the excitement of live music to your celebration with performers who complement your DJ and create unforgettable moments throughout the event.

[See the Enhancements](/enhancements)

[![Wedding DJ setup with purple uplighting and a custom monogram projection.](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/services06.jpg)

## Lighting](/enhancements)

Turn your chosen venues into breathtaking, atmospheric spaces that come to life with a few well-placed lighting elements.

[See the Enhancements](/enhancements)

[![Wedding reception dance floor with cold sparks and cryo effects.](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/cryo-cannon-1024x580.webp)

## More Enhancements](/enhancements)

Add more energy, atmosphere, and personality to your wedding with enhancements like cryo cannons, ceremony services, cloud dancing, content creators, live performers, and more.

[Explore all Enhancements](/enhancements)

## Frequently Asked Questions

![StylusWeddings - Award Winning Wedding DJ's](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/awardwinning-1536x1024.jpg.webp "awardwinning-1536×1024.jpg - Stylus Weddings")

How Do We Plan Our Wedding With Stylus?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [How Do We Plan Our Wedding With Stylus?](#collapse-1-545)

Believe it or not, planning your entertainment can be easy.

Most couples have never planned a wedding before, so it is completely normal to have questions. Fortunately, we do this every week. Our online planning tools guide you through the important details, including your timeline, introductions, specialty dances, music selections, announcements, and reception preferences.

Our team will be available throughout the process to answer questions, offer guidance, and help bring your vision to life.

Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?](#collapse-1-557)

Absolutely. Most of our planning meetings are held virtually, making it easy to connect around your schedule. You can schedule as many virtual meetings as you need throughout the planning process. Prefer to meet in person? Just let us know, and we will be happy to arrange a meeting.

Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?](#collapse-1-567)

Yes. We can provide everything you need for your wedding ceremony, including specialty music selections, a microphone for your officiant, and up to 30 minutes of prelude music as your guests arrive. We will help ensure each moment feels seamless, from the first song to the final walk down the aisle.

How Do We Choose the Music for Our Wedding?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [How Do We Choose the Music for Our Wedding?](#collapse-1-547)

This is the fun part! Our online planning portal and music tools make it easy to personalize every part of your wedding day. You can select music for your ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, specialty dances, and reception.

You can also share your must-play songs, do-not-play list, and favorite dance floor tracks. You do not need to plan every song or organize the entire evening yourself. Give us a sense of the music you love, and your DJ will use that direction to create a smooth, energetic, and memorable celebration.

How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:38+00:00#### [How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?](#collapse-1-531)

We recommend contacting us as soon as your wedding date is confirmed. While many DJs book three to six months in advance, popular Stylus dates may fill up one to two years ahead of time, especially during peak wedding seasons.

Even if your wedding is approaching quickly, it never hurts to check availability. Call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**Info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) to see whether your date is open.

How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:18:14+00:00#### [How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?](#collapse-1-533)

Your final price will depend on the services, enhancements, and level of support you choose. Because every wedding is different, we customize each proposal around your venue, timeline, and event vision.

Most Stylus wedding packages range from **$1,600 to $4,500+**. For pricing and availability, fill out the **[contact form](/#contact)**, call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

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### [DJ Mixes](https://stylusweddings.com/weddings/dj-mixes/)

**Published:** June 10, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# DJ Mixes

Get a feel for the sound, style, and energy our DJs bring to the dance floor. Explore sample mixes and find the vibe that fits your celebration.

### Meet the DJs Behind the Music

- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)### DJ Jason Huggins

     [ ![DJ Jason Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonmain.webp "jasonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)### Jennifer ‘J-Star’ Berzinkas

     [ ![J Star - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/j-starmain.webp "j-starmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)### DJ Nyce Danger

     [ ![Portrait of DJ Nyce Danger](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Nycemain.webp "Nycemain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)### Ramez Botros – DJ Mez

     [ ![DJ Mez - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Mezmain.jpg "Mezmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/samson/)### DJ Samson/Spencer

     [ ![Samson - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/samsonmain.webp "samsonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/samson/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)### Robyn Fuller

     [ ![Portrait of Robyn Fuller](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Robynmain.webp "Robynmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)### Will Batchelor

     [ ![Smiling DJ in a gray blazer stands at a mixing console in a colorful studio with red and purple wall panels.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/willmain.webp "willmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)### Gordon Huggins

     [ ![Gordon Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Gordonmain.webp "Gordonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)

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### [Enhancements](https://stylusweddings.com/enhancements/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

[Home](https://stylusweddings.com "Home")» Enhancements 

Wedding Enhancements That
Make the Moment Feel Bigger

## Add-ons designed to elevate your celebration with lighting, atmosphere, photo experiences, and unforgettable guest moments.

### **Stylus Weddings – Wedding Enhancements in NC**

Your wedding entertainment should feel complete from the first arrival to the final song. Stylus Weddings offers enhancements that help transform your venue, energize your guests, and create a more polished wedding experience throughout the night.

##  Wedding Enhancements Service Areas in NC

Raleigh

Durham

Chapel Hill

Charlotte

Greensboro

Asheville

Wilmington

Greenville

![Lighting Can Transform any space into a breaktaking experience!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/multicolor-party.webp "multicolor-party - Stylus Weddings")

## Lighting

Lighting sets the whole vibe for your wedding — how the room feels, how the photos look, and how your guests experience every moment. Stylus Weddings designs custom wedding lighting around your venue, music, timeline, and personal style, from romantic first-dance spotlighting and soft uplighting to bold, high-energy dance floor looks when the party takes off. We pre-plan the lighting design and live-run cues throughout the night so every color, movement, and pattern feels intentional, camera-ready, and true to your celebration.

![Special FX can add the WOW factor you are looking for!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/specialfx.jpg "specialfx - Stylus Weddings")

## Special FX

Not sure which wedding lighting enhancements fit your vibe or your budget? Stylus Weddings makes it easy to choose the right lighting design for your North Carolina wedding, whether you want a full-room transformation or just a few intentional touches that make the night feel more elevated. Our team helps you compare options, understand what works best for your venue, and build a lighting plan that matches your style, timeline, and budget without overcomplicating the process. Every celebration deserves lighting that feels personal, polished, and photo-ready — from intimate receptions to all-out dance floor moments. [More Special FX](#specialfx)

![Photobooths gives your guest and you a life time of mementos!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/photobooth.webp "photobooth - Stylus Weddings")

## Photo Booth

Make sharing easy and keep the energy high with photobooths. Our wedding photo booth experience delivers high-quality photos, boomerang clips, instant prints, digital sharing, and custom branded overlays your guests will actually want to post. Choose from a sleek open-air photo booth or an immersive 360 slow-motion booth, then enjoy a full event gallery afterward. With a professional on-site attendant keeping everything smooth, clean, and quick, your photo booth rental becomes a fun, polished, and social part of the celebration from start to finish.

![Live performers the ultimate enhancement](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/liveperforms.webp "liveperforms - Stylus Weddings")

## Live performers

Go beyond the expected with interactive wedding entertainment designed to turn your reception into a full-on experience. From LED wedding robots and angel performers moving through the crowd to live musicians, vocalists, tribute acts, and specialty dancers, Stylus Weddings helps create high-energy moments that instantly grab attention and keep guests engaged. Interactive wedding entertainment has become a standout feature at modern weddings, giving couples a more immersive and unforgettable celebration. Our team manages the full experience—from talent sourcing and choreography to surprise reveals and technical cueing—so every performance feels polished, seamless, and perfectly timed to keep the energy building all night long.

![Content Creator capturing every moment with social media readiness in mind.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/contentcreator.webp "contentcreator - Stylus Weddings")

## Content Creator

Relive the moments before the professional gallery arrives with a wedding content creator designed for today’s social-first couples. This add-on captures candid, behind-the-scenes photos and videos throughout your wedding day — from getting ready and guest reactions to dance floor moments, emotional details, and quick clips made for TikTok, Instagram Reels, and Stories. Instead of replacing your photographer or videographer, wedding content creation gives you fast, authentic, phone-shot memories you can watch, share, and post within 24–48 hours. Stylus Weddings helps make the experience smooth, discreet, and easy, so you get raw footage, edited social-media-ready highlights, and instant keepsakes that feel natural, personal, and true to the energy of your day.

![AV Rentals includes all Audio and Visual equipment, anything from microphone to video screens.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/videowall.jpg "videowall - Stylus Weddings")

## AV Rentals

Bring the right production support to your wedding, private event, or corporate celebration with professional AV rental options from Stylus Weddings. From audio systems, microphones, consoles, cables, and PA setups to video monitors, LED panels, projectors, and screens, we help make sure your event is easy to hear, see, and experience clearly. AV production can include sound, lighting, video, staging, and the technical support needed to create a smoother, more polished event experience. Our rental options can also include conventional lighting, LED fixtures, automated lighting control, staging, special effects, drapery, lecterns, recording units, cameras, radios, computers, and tablets. Whether you need a simple ceremony audio setup or a more complete production package, our team helps match the right equipment to your venue, timeline, and event goals.

## More Special FX

![Bride and groom share a first dance in a rustic venue as sparkling fountains rise beside them and guests watch from the sides.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/coldsparks2.jpg "coldsparks2 - Stylus Weddings")

#### Cold Sparks

Cold Spark fountains create a bold, camera-ready moment with dazzling bursts of indoor-friendly sparks reaching 10 to 14 feet high. Use a pair to frame your grand entrance or first dance, or create an even more dramatic focal point with three to five units. Perfectly timed to the music, this high-impact effect transforms milestone moments and takes the celebration energy to an unforgettable new level.

![Live performers the ultimate enhancement](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/clouds2.jpg "clouds2 - Stylus Weddings")

#### Dancing on a Cloud

This stunning dry ice effect creates a dreamy, knee-high cloud that glides across the dance floor, making it the perfect enhancement for your first dance. For larger dance floors, two machines may be recommended to ensure full, even coverage.

![Photobooths gives your guest and you a life time of mementos!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/cryocannon.webp "cryocannon - Stylus Weddings")

#### Cryo Cannon

Cryo Cannon blasts take your reception to the next level, creating unforgettable moments and incredible energy on the dance floor. Perfect for couples who love a bold, high-energy celebration, this interactive effect lets you safely fire the Cryo Cannon under the supervision of our professional team. It’s an exciting, crowd-pleasing experience that delivers dramatic bursts of cool CO₂ fog, amazing photo opportunities, and a party atmosphere your guests will never forget.

![Photobooths gives your guest and you a life time of mementos!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/fog.webp "fog - Stylus Weddings")

#### Fog/Haze

Atmospheric effects bring your lighting design to life by making beams, colors, and movement more visible throughout the room. They add depth, drama, and a touch of mystery while helping features like intelligent moving lights and lasers create a more immersive, high-impact experience.

![Bride in a strapless white gown and groom in a black tux raise their arms in celebration as purple smoke swirls around them inside a decorated venue.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/contentcreator-1.webp "contentcreator - Stylus Weddings")

#### Geysers

This quick-dissipating geyser creates dramatic blasts up to 10 feet high, making it perfect for grand entrances, introductions, and high-energy dance-floor moments. It delivers the exciting look of a cryo or pyro effect at a more budget-friendly price than cold sparks, adding instant impact without overpowering the celebration.

![Bride and groom kiss while being spun on a dance floor, bubbles floating around guests in formal wear.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/bubble.webp "bubble - Stylus Weddings")

#### Bubble Snow

Create a magical winter-inspired moment with our Bubble Snow effect. Tiny clusters of lightweight bubbles gently float through the air, creating the enchanting appearance of falling snow without the chill. This budget-friendly enhancement is perfect for grand entrances, first dances, holiday weddings, and unforgettable photo opportunities.

![Bride and groom kiss while rain-like confetti falls around them at their wedding, guests blurred in the background, night scene.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/fakesnow.webp "fakesnow - Stylus Weddings")

#### Fake Snow

Create a realistic winter wonderland with authentic-looking snowflakes that drift beautifully through the air and collect naturally across the ground. This immersive effect adds texture, movement, and visual impact to grand entrances, first dances, holiday celebrations, and unforgettable photo moments. The environmentally tested flakes are easy to clean up, sweeping away quickly and dissolving with water for a smooth post-event reset.

![Hands raised in celebration as colorful confetti rains down on a crowd at a party.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/confetti.webp "confetti - Stylus Weddings")

#### Confetti & Streamers

Fill the room with color, movement, and celebration through a powerful burst of confetti or streamers. Perfect for grand entrances, first dances, dance-floor finales, and other high-energy moments, this effect creates an unforgettable visual your guests will love. Choose from classic tissue confetti, shimmering mylar confetti, flowing tissue streamers, or metallic mylar streamers to match your wedding style and create the perfect celebration moment.

## Customize Your Wedding Experience

Ask us which enhancements fit your venue, timeline, and vision.

[Check Availability](#contact)

---

### [Weddings](https://stylusweddings.com/weddings/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

[Home](https://stylusweddings.com "Home")» Weddings 

North Carolina Wedding DJs
Who Keep the Celebration Moving

## Your wedding, your music — professional DJ entertainment for unforgettable receptions across Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Pinehurst, Charlotte, and throughout North Carolina.

[Check Availability](#contact)

### **Stylus Weddings – North Carolina’s Best DJs**

Stylus Weddings provides polished, personalized wedding DJ entertainment built around your taste, your timeline, and your guests. From ceremony audio to last-song energy, our team helps create a seamless celebration.

##  Wedding DJ Service Areas in NC

Raleigh

Durham

Chapel Hill

Charlotte

Greensboro

Asheville

Wilmington

Greenville

[![Why couples choose Stylus S.E. - couple1](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery04.webp "couplesgallery04 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery04.webp "couplesgallery04")

[![Why couples choose Stylus S.E. - couple2](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery03.webp "couplesgallery03 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery03.webp "couplesgallery03")

[![Why couples choose Stylus S.E. - Attentive and Responsive DJ's!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery02.webp "couplesgallery02 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery02.webp "couplesgallery02")

[![Why couples choose Stylus S.E. - We Keep the Party Moving!](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery01.webp "couplesgallery01 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/couplesgallery01.webp "couplesgallery01")

## Why Couples Choose Stylus S.E.

Your wedding deserves more than someone pressing play. Couples choose **Stylus Weddings** because we bring together polished emcees, thoughtful music planning, professional sound, and the kind of crowd-reading experience that keeps the entire celebration moving naturally.

From ceremony audio to cocktail hour, introductions, dinner, formal dances, and the final packed dance floor, our team helps create a smooth, connected flow from the first song to the last. A great wedding DJ should also serve as a vibe curator, crowd reader, and emcee, helping guide the energy of the day without taking attention away from the couple.

Every Stylus wedding is built around the couple’s style, timeline, guest list, and musical taste. Whether you want elegant and classic, high-energy and modern, or a dance floor that blends generations, we customize the soundtrack around your celebration.

With deep **North Carolina wedding experience**, professional equipment, and reliable ceremony and reception support, Stylus helps couples feel confident, prepared, and fully present while their guests dance the night away. DJs can also provide emcee support, music variety, equipment setup, and additional event services

## The Stylus Wedding Experience

## Ceremony

Clear, polished sound for your processional, vows, readings, and recessional so every meaningful moment is heard.

## Cocktail Hour

We set the tone with music that feels relaxed, stylish, and personal while guests mingle and the celebration begins.

## Dinner

Dinner music stays warm and conversational, creating the right atmosphere without overpowering the room.

## Introductions

Your wedding party entrance should feel exciting, smooth, and well-paced. Stylus helps guide the energy from the first announcement.

## Toasts

We support microphones, timing, and transitions so speeches feel natural and guests stay engaged.

## First Dances

From your first dance to parent dances, we help make each spotlight moment feel intentional, emotional, and seamless.

## Open Dancing

Our DJs read the crowd, blend styles, and build momentum so your guests stay connected to the dance floor. A strong wedding timeline helps each reception moment flow smoothly.

## Last Song

We close the night with the perfect final track, leaving your guests with one last shared memory before the sendoff.

## Meet the Stylus Wedding Team

Professional North Carolina wedding DJs, emcees, and entertainers who know how to guide the moment, read the room, and keep your celebration moving.

[Meet the Team](/team/)

![Group of smiling people posing for a selfie at a crowded party, with badges and a 'Make Magic' card visible in the foreground.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/team.webp "team - Stylus Weddings")

## Wedding DJ Packages Designed Around Your Celebration

### Modern Package

### Reception Only Celebration

**Starting at $1,495**

Perfect for couples who want a stylish reception experience with great music, smooth flow, and a packed dance floor.

### Essentials Package

### For Intimate Weddings & Micro Weddings

**Starting at $1,995**

A polished, simple, and reliable wedding DJ experience for smaller celebrations.

### Classic Package

### The Timeless Wedding Experience

**Starting at $2,495**

A complete ceremony and reception package with professional sound, lighting, and smooth event support.

### Prestige Package

###  Most PopularMost PopularMost Popular 

**Starting at $3,195**

Perfect for couples who want a stylish reception experience with great music, smooth flow, and a packed dance floor.

### Signature Package

### Jason Huggins’ Premium DJ Experience

**Starting at $4,295**

An elevated experience led by one of Stylus’ exclusive Signature DJs with premium production and performance.

### Total Party Package

### The All-In Celebration

**Starting at $6,495**

For couples who want the full experience: premium DJ, lighting, photo booth, special effects, and a high-impact party atmosphere.

### Compare Stylus Wedding Packages

PackageStarting PriceBest ForHoursCeremony IncludedModern$1,495Reception only3NoEssentials$1,995Micro weddings4YesClassic$2,495Complete weddings5YesPrestige$3,195Most couples5YesSignature$4,295Premium DJ experience6YesTotal Party$6,495All-in celebration6Yes

## Real Reviews From North Carolina Couples

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[Sandra Hammack](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/114287365151889174358/reviews)4 months ago

Great technology. Great songs.
Shoutout to Will for the amazing job at my brother's wedding. The sound quality was top-notch across three different locations. He blended the 'must-plays' with very personalized tracks that made it a really fun party. You're in good hands with Will!

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[Haven Bornhoft](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/113773683799255958593/reviews)4 months ago

Will set the perfect mood all day. The outdoor cocktail hour was relaxed. The reception was super high-energy. He knew exactly how to keep everyone dancing without it feeling forced. The whole night felt professionally produced event from start to finish.

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[Doug Hammack](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/115328895499762870531/reviews)4 months ago

Professionalism on Display
Will from Stylus handled a complex set-up for our son's wedding, and he did it well. He managed three distinct soundscapes, the ceremony, the outdoor cocktail hour, and reception. He did them all flawlessly. His organization is top-tier. He worked out all the details with the couple and family early, and on the night, he hit every cue. He brought a professional poise that anchored the formal moments and added energy to the party. He truly is a professional.

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[Marley Satterwhite](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/112947444325996380179/reviews)4 months ago

Spencer absolutely made our wedding. From the very beginning, he was organized, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our day feel exactly how we envisioned it. He didn’t just play music—he read the room perfectly, kept the energy flowing, and knew exactly when to slow things down or bring the party back to life. Every transition felt seamless, and the dance floor was packed all night.

And we can’t forget Gordon—his right-hand man and ultimate hype partner. Together, they were such a fun duo. Gordon helped keep everything running smoothly behind the scenes while also bringing great energy to the crowd. You could tell they’ve done this a million times because everything felt effortless on our end.

What really stood out, though, was how they felt like part of the family. They weren’t just vendors—they were fully present, supportive, and genuinely cared about making our day special. They took so much stress off our plate, which allowed us to actually relax and enjoy every moment.

We had so many guests come up to us saying it was one of the most fun weddings they’ve ever been to, and a huge part of that is thanks to Spencer and Gordon. Honestly, without them, our wedding wouldn’t have been as incredible as it was. If you’re looking for a DJ who goes above and beyond, keeps things stress-free, and throws an unforgettable party, Spencer is your guy. We truly couldn’t have asked for better.

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[chelsy choquette](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/116995955111991059722/reviews)5 months ago

We had the absolute pleasure of working with Spencer from Stylus SE for our wedding, and we truly could not have asked for a better DJ! From the very beginning, Spencer was incredibly patient, attentive, and accommodating to all of our requests and needs. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but he made the entire music process feel seamless and stress-free.

On the day of the wedding, Spencer exceeded all expectations. He was professional, organized, and kept everything running smoothly. The music was perfect, the transitions were flawless, and he did an amazing job reading the crowd and keeping the energy up all night long. We received so many compliments from our guests about how great the music and atmosphere were!

We also want to give a special shoutout to the Photo Booth coordinator, who was equally fantastic. They were friendly, helpful, and made sure everyone had a great time capturing fun memories throughout the night.

If you’re looking for a DJ who is reliable, talented, and truly cares about making your day special, we highly recommend Spencer and the Stylus SE team. Thank you for helping make our wedding unforgettable!

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[Lauren Dunbar](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/103274097858934254776/reviews)6 months ago

I have worked with the Stylus team for a couple of years now and they always seem to blow us away with their professionalism and passion for their craft. Our events have hosted around 600 people and our DJ, Jason, has always made the events incredibly fun and energetic. I've even asked the team to help with production of live feed video with in the week of an event and they were able to produce flawlessly for us with a moments notice. I greatly appreciate the work they do, it makes my job of planning an event seamless and fun!

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[Arya Jones](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/110193230251559990250/reviews)7 months ago

DJ Nyce, DAE, Jason, and Robyn all made the entire process so easy! From the very beginning Robyn answered every email with professionalism and guidance. DJ Nyce was so fun to work with and actually did my sisters wedding a few years ago so we have complete faith he would keep the dance floor alive and he did! Our Photo Booth manager DAE was also exceptional and funny enough knew me before I was even born! The entire team was so kind and we are so grateful to them for making our day so easy!

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[Mackenzie Lazerow](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/115051755157190305065/reviews)8 months ago

Cannot say enough great things about Jason and Stylus!! From the first point of contact to event execution, communication, professionalism, value, and quality were all 10/10. Jason received very little direction from us, but because he is so skilled at what he does, he knocked his role out of the park. Announcements and music for our awards ceremony - perfect. Lighting, sound, and DJing for our after-party- incredible. Jason, thank you for being a trusted partner. We are thrilled that we can count on you!!

![Alyssa Libertelli profile picture](/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/ChIJnVjDF2derIkROOoG8HP0LLc_e8811faea80638a2a982ab05f99c30bd.jpg)

[Alyssa Libertelli](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/101562577538994735859/reviews)1 year ago

Jason and his team were AMAZING! They kept the party lively at our wedding and were super interactive with the crowd. We seriously so appreciate everything they did to make our wedding memorable for everyone. The dancing on the clouds for our first dance was magical! Thank you!

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[Jamie Schwint](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/103607633780729791742/reviews)1 year ago

Stylus was incredible!!! Can't recommend enough - we had Connor as our DJ for our wedding in May, and he was outstanding. The best MC we've seen at a wedding, and honored all of our requests (and we had a lot of specific requests). The dance floor was packed full the whole night, and all of our friends and family couldn't stop telling us how much fun they had. There was a slight scheduling hiccup with Stylus about 3 weeks out, but they communicated well with us and included some more lighting in our package to help make up for it, which turned out incredible. So, they're trustworthy as well. 10/10 recommend!!

## Frequently Asked Questions

![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/i-T4KcsfT-X2.webp "i-T4KcsfT-X2 - Stylus Weddings")

What Happens if the DJ has a Family Emergency or gets Laryngitis?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:26:22+00:00#### [What Happens if the DJ has a Family Emergency or gets Laryngitis?](#collapse-2-565)

Stylus S.E. has a backup plan in place for unexpected situations such as illness or a family emergency. Our team includes several experienced DJs who can step in when needed.

Your online planning portal also helps protect your event by keeping your timeline, music selections, announcements, and preferences organized in one place. Although emergencies are rare, we prepare carefully so your celebration can move forward smoothly.

Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?](#collapse-2-567)

Yes. We can provide everything you need for your wedding ceremony, including specialty music selections, a microphone for your officiant, and up to 30 minutes of prelude music as your guests arrive. We will help ensure each moment feels seamless, from the first song to the final walk down the aisle.

Can We Make Requests at the Event?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Can We Make Requests at the Event?](#collapse-2-553)

Of course. You are welcome to request songs throughout the celebration. Your DJ can also take requests from your guests, provided they fit your preferences and the overall direction you have chosen for the event.

What if We Need to Make Changes?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:24:29+00:00#### [What if We Need to Make Changes?](#collapse-2-539)

We understand that wedding plans can evolve. Contact our office at [919-346-4669](tel:19193464669 "Call Stylus") or email us at [info@stylusevents.us](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) if you need to adjust your timeline, services, date, or venue.

We will do our best to accommodate your request based on availability and the terms of your booking agreement.

Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?](#collapse-2-557)

Absolutely. Most of our planning meetings are held virtually, making it easy to connect around your schedule. You can schedule as many virtual meetings as you need throughout the planning process. Prefer to meet in person? Just let us know, and we will be happy to arrange a meeting.

Should we Tip the DJ?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Should we Tip the DJ?](#collapse-2-575)

Gratuities are always appreciated but never expected. Some couples choose to tip their DJ when they feel the service went above and beyond, but the decision is entirely up to you.

How do we know whether Stylus is the right fit?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-07-25T09:28:45+00:00#### [How do we know whether Stylus is the right fit?](#collapse-2-537)

Every couple has a different vision for their wedding, and our goal is to understand what matters most to you. During the consultation, we will learn about your style, priorities, and music preferences so we can help match you with the right DJ.

We love working with couples who are excited to create a memorable celebration that feels personal, polished, and genuinely fun.

How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:38+00:00#### [How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?](#collapse-2-531)

We recommend contacting us as soon as your wedding date is confirmed. While many DJs book three to six months in advance, popular Stylus dates may fill up one to two years ahead of time, especially during peak wedding seasons.

Even if your wedding is approaching quickly, it never hurts to check availability. Call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**Info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) to see whether your date is open.

How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:18:14+00:00#### [How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?](#collapse-2-533)

Your final price will depend on the services, enhancements, and level of support you choose. Because every wedding is different, we customize each proposal around your venue, timeline, and event vision.

Most Stylus wedding packages range from **$1,600 to $4,500+**. For pricing and availability, fill out the **[contact form](/#contact)**, call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

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### [Preferred Vendors](https://stylusweddings.com/weddings/preferred-vendors/)

**Published:** July 16, 2026
**Author:** info@gracefulwebsitedesigns.com

**Content:**

# Preferred Wedding Vendors

A curated collection of talented wedding professionals we have enjoyed working alongside. Explore trusted photographers, filmmakers, planners, venues, officiants, dessert specialists, and caterers for your celebration.

## A Strong Team Makes a Seamless Celebration

Over the years, we have worked alongside talented wedding professionals throughout Raleigh, Durham, Cary, Chapel Hill, and beyond. Explore our preferred vendors by category and visit their websites to learn more.

  [Photographers](#photographers)[Videographers](#videographers)[Coordinators](#coordinators)[Wedding Venues](#wedding-venues)[Officiants](#officiants)[Cakes & Desserts](#cakes-desserts)[Catering](#catering)

### Photographers

[](https://brianmullinsphotography.com/)#### Brian Mullins Photography

brianmullinsphotography.com

[](https://azulphotography.com/)#### Azul Photography

azulphotography.com

[](https://www.kstarsphotography.com/)#### K. Starr Photography

kstarsphotography.com

[](https://www.veritasdp.com/)#### Veritas Digital Photography

veritasdp.com

[](https://www.katepope.com/)#### Kate Pope

katepope.com

[](https://redbridgephotography.smugmug.com/)#### Red Bridge Photo

redbridgephotography.smugmug.com

[](https://vmastudios.com/)#### VMA Studios

vmastudios.com

[](https://www.f8photostudios.com/)#### F8 Studios

f8photostudios.com

[](https://www.myprophotographer.com/)#### My Pro Photographer

myprophotographer.com

[](https://www.weddingwire.com/biz/halftone-studios-fuquay-varina/ed30fc599a6ba215.html)#### Halftone Studios

weddingwire.com

[](https://chadwinsteadphotography.com/)#### Chad Winstead

chadwinsteadphotography.com

### Videographers

[](https://www.twentyonefilms.com/)#### Twenty-One Films

twentyonefilms.com

[](https://www.raleighweddingvideographer.com/)#### Oak City Media

raleighweddingvideographer.com

[](https://www.zachthomasfilms.com/)#### Zach Thomas Films

zachthomasfilms.com

[](https://www.iwpphotography.com/)#### IWP

iwpphotography.com

[](https://infocusstudios.com/)#### In Focus Studios

infocusstudios.com

[](https://www.filmsforlife.com/)#### Heartstone Films

filmsforlife.com

[](https://austenhaneyvisuals.com/)#### Austin Haney Visuals

austenhaneyvisuals.com

[](https://severanceproductions.com/services/#videoproduction)#### Severance Productions

severanceproductions.com

### Coordinators

[](https://tgcevents.com/)#### The Gathering Co.

tgcevents.com

[](https://whitetieplanner.com/)#### White Tie Planner

whitetieplanner.com

[](https://southernskiesevents.com/)#### Southern Skies

southernskiesevents.com

[](https://knotyouraverageevents.com/)#### Knot Your Average Events

knotyouraverageevents.com

[](https://www.asouthernsoiree.com/)#### Southern Soiree

asouthernsoiree.com

[](https://www.somethingfabulousweddings.com/)#### Something Fabulous

somethingfabulousweddings.com

[](https://sallyoakley.com/)#### Sally Oakly

sallyoakley.com

[](https://www.thesilkveil.com/)#### The Silk Veil

thesilkveil.com

[](http://elanawalker.com/)#### Elena Walker Events

elanawalker.com

[](https://chadbiggs.com/)#### Chad Biggs Events

chadbiggs.com

[](https://timelesslovenc.com/)#### Timeless Love

timelesslovenc.com

[](https://emilykatherineevents.com/)#### Emily Katherine Events

emilykatherineevents.com

[](https://www.harmonyweddingsevents.com/)#### Harmony Weddings

harmonyweddingsevents.com

[](https://www.aparadigmshiftevent.com/)#### Paradigm Shift Events

aparadigmshiftevent.com

[](https://www.shawnschindlerevents.com/)#### Shawn Schindler

shawnschindlerevents.com

[](https://stephanieshaul.com/)#### Stephanie Shaul Events

stephanieshaul.com

[](https://chestnutandvineweddings.com/)#### Chestnut &amp; Vine Events

chestnutandvineweddings.com

[](https://www.jenniferv.com/)#### Jennifer V. Events

jenniferv.com

[](https://www.sincerelyweddings.com/)#### Sincerely Weddings

sincerelyweddings.com

[](https://www.asalievents.com/events)#### Asali Events

asalievents.com

[](https://www.chicdetails.com/angie-wright/)#### Chic Details

chicdetails.com

### Wedding Venues

[](https://1705east.com/)#### 1705 East

1705east.com

[](https://www.anfesasjewelers.com/pages/grand-marquise-ballroom)#### Anfesa’s Grand Marquis

anfesasjewelers.com

[](https://www.angusbarn.com/pavilion.html)#### Angus Barn Pavilion

angusbarn.com

[](https://www.cafeluna.com/)#### Caffe Luna

cafeluna.com

[](https://www.invitedclubs.com/clubs/city-club-raleigh)#### City Club

invitedclubs.com

[](https://littleherbhouse.com/)#### Little Herb House

littleherbhouse.com

[](https://highgrove-nc.com/)#### Highgrove

highgrove-nc.com

[](https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/rduapes-embassy-suites-raleigh-durham-research-triangle/)#### Embassy Suites Cary

hilton.com

[](https://matthewshousecary.com/)#### Matthews House

matthewshousecary.com

[](https://www.marbleskidsmuseum.org/weddings-and-galas)#### Marbles

marbleskidsmuseum.org

[](https://naturalsciences.org/events/rentals)#### NC Museum of Natural History

naturalsciences.org

[](https://www.marriott.com/en-us/hotels/rdurn-renaissance-raleigh-north-hills-hotel/overview/)#### Renaissance North Hills

marriott.com

[](https://ncartmuseum.org/about/weddings-and-rentals/)#### NC Museum of Art

ncartmuseum.org

[](https://www.prestonwood.com/)#### Prestonwood Country Club

prestonwood.com

[](https://www.theumstead.com/weddings)#### The Umstead

theumstead.com

[](https://www.vidrioraleigh.com/)#### Vidrio

vidrioraleigh.com

[](https://themaxwellraleigh.com/)#### The Maxwell

themaxwellraleigh.com

[](https://www.historicmarkethall.com/)#### Market Hall

historicmarkethall.com

[](https://www.angusbarn.com/bay7.html)#### Bay 7

angusbarn.com

[](https://www.21cmuseumhotels.com/)#### 21C

21cmuseumhotels.com

[](https://gardens.duke.edu/)#### Sarah Duke Gardens

gardens.duke.edu

[](https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/north-carolina/the-carolina-inn/rdudc)#### Carolina Inn

hyatt.com

[](https://www.thesutherland.com/)#### Sutherland

thesutherland.com

[](https://alumni.ncsu.edu/about/park-alumni-center/)#### Park Alumni Center

alumni.ncsu.edu

[](https://www.invitedclubs.com/clubs/brier-creek-country-club)#### Brier Creek Country Club

invitedclubs.com

[](https://www.merrimonwynne.com/)#### Merriman Wynne House

merrimonwynne.com

[](https://www.theoaksatsalem.com/)#### Oaks at Salem

theoaksatsalem.com

[](https://www.historicwakefieldbarn.com/)#### The Barn at Wakefield

historicwakefieldbarn.com

[](https://www.durhamcookery.com/)#### Cookery

durhamcookery.com

[](https://www.themayton.com/)#### Mayton Inn

themayton.com

[](https://www.valhallabarn.com/tour-the-barn)#### Barn at Valhalla

valhallabarn.com

[](https://www.theloadingdock.com/)#### Loading Dock at Beryl

theloadingdock.com

[](https://www.thefairviewraleigh.com/)#### The Fairview

thefairviewraleigh.com

[](https://chateaudesfleures.com/)#### Chateau des Fleures

chateaudesfleures.com

### Officiants

[](https://www.raleighweddingminister.com/)#### Kayelily Middleton

raleighweddingminister.com

[](https://trianglecustomceremonies.com/)#### Ed Sansbury

trianglecustomceremonies.com

[](https://www.weddingwire.com/reviews/katherine-edwards-interfaith-officiant-garner/502e2816dc92c907.html)#### Katherine Edwards

weddingwire.com

[](https://www.annmckenzie.net/)#### Ann McKenzie

annmckenzie.net

[](https://raleighofficiant.com/)#### Gwen Downs

raleighofficiant.com

[](https://www.personalweddingsnc.com/)#### Personal Weddings of North Carolina

personalweddingsnc.com

[](https://oakcityceremonies.com/)#### Oak City Ceremonies

oakcityceremonies.com

### Cakes &amp; Desserts

[](https://sweetwaterices.com/)#### Sweetwater Ice

sweetwaterices.com

[](https://www.asalievents.com/)#### Asali Desserts

asalievents.com

[](https://ashleycakes.com/)#### Ashley Cakes

ashleycakes.com

[](https://xiy.bwf.mybluehost.me/)#### Annelore’s German Bakery

xiy.bwf.mybluehost.me

[](https://mitchellcasteel.com/)#### Mitchel Casteel – A Fine Catered Affair

mitchellcasteel.com

[](https://slicepiecompany.com/)#### Slice Pie Company

slicepiecompany.com

[](https://edibleartbakery.com/)#### Edible Art Bakery

edibleartbakery.com

### Catering

[](https://www.undertheoakcatering.com/catering)#### Under The Oak

undertheoakcatering.com

[](https://www.capitalcitychefs.com/)#### Capital City Chefs

capitalcitychefs.com

[](https://mitchellcasteel.com/)#### Mitchell Casteel

mitchellcasteel.com

---

### [FAQ](https://stylusweddings.com/faq/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

[Home](https://stylusweddings.com "Home")» FAQ 

# Wedding DJ FAQs for North Carolina Couples

## Planning your wedding entertainment should feel clear, easy, and exciting. Get answers about Stylus Weddings, our DJs, music planning, ceremony sound, receptions, enhancements, pricing, and what to expect before your big day.

[Check Availability](#contact)

Choosing your wedding DJ is about more than music. It is about trust, timing, personality, sound quality, and knowing your celebration will flow smoothly from ceremony to last song.

At **Stylus Weddings**, we help North Carolina couples feel prepared from the first conversation to the final dance. Whether you are comparing packages, planning your ceremony music, building your must-play list, or deciding which enhancements fit your reception, our team is here to make the process simple and personal.

Below, you will find answers to common questions about our wedding DJ services, emcees, timelines, music planning, equipment, travel, booking process, and event enhancements.

## Frequently Asked Questions

What If We Need to Postpone or Cancel the Event?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [What If We Need to Postpone or Cancel the Event?](#collapse-3-579)

We understand that plans can change. If you need to postpone your wedding, your retainer can be transferred to another available date. Because we reserve your date and may turn away other clients once you book, cancellation terms are outlined in your booking agreement.

If your event is canceled and we are able to book another event for your DJ on the original date, your retainer will be refunded in accordance with the terms of your agreement.

When are Balances Due?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [When are Balances Due?](#collapse-3-577)

Your remaining balance is due 10 days before your wedding. Taking care of payment in advance allows you to enjoy the celebration without worrying about payment details at the end of the night.

You can pay by credit card, check, money order, or through our convenient online portal.

Should we Tip the DJ?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Should we Tip the DJ?](#collapse-3-575)

Gratuities are always appreciated but never expected. Some couples choose to tip their DJ when they feel the service went above and beyond, but the decision is entirely up to you.

Do We Need To Feed the DJ?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Do We Need To Feed the DJ?](#collapse-3-573)

Your DJ will typically be on-site for eight to ten hours, including setup, performance time, and teardown. If a vendor meal is available, it is always appreciated. However, you do not need to purchase an expensive plated meal for your DJ.

If food will not be available, please let us know in advance so your DJ can bring something to eat. Any meal break will be timed carefully so it does not interfere with the flow of your event.

Stylus DJs may enjoy water, tea, lemonade, or soft drinks while working, but we do not drink alcohol at events. We are there to provide professional service from start to finish.

Do you take breaks?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Do you take breaks?](#collapse-3-571)

Your music will continue throughout the event. Your DJ will coordinate any brief personal or meal breaks around the timeline so there is no interruption to your celebration.

My (cousin, uncle, friend, personal menu advisor) wants to (sing, play, interpretive dance) at my Ceremony, can you help?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [My (cousin, uncle, friend, personal menu advisor) wants to (sing, play, interpretive dance) at my Ceremony, can you help?](#collapse-3-569)

Absolutely. Whether someone is singing, playing an instrument, giving a reading, or contributing in another meaningful way, let us know during the planning process. We will help coordinate the audio and timing so the moment fits smoothly into your ceremony.

Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?](#collapse-3-567)

Yes. We can provide everything you need for your wedding ceremony, including specialty music selections, a microphone for your officiant, and up to 30 minutes of prelude music as your guests arrive. We will help ensure each moment feels seamless, from the first song to the final walk down the aisle.

What Happens if the DJ has a Family Emergency or gets Laryngitis?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:26:22+00:00#### [What Happens if the DJ has a Family Emergency or gets Laryngitis?](#collapse-3-565)

Stylus S.E. has a backup plan in place for unexpected situations such as illness or a family emergency. Our team includes several experienced DJs who can step in when needed.

Your online planning portal also helps protect your event by keeping your timeline, music selections, announcements, and preferences organized in one place. Although emergencies are rare, we prepare carefully so your celebration can move forward smoothly.

How Long Does It Take You To Set Up?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [How Long Does It Take You To Set Up?](#collapse-3-563)

Setup time depends on your package, venue, and selected enhancements. We do not charge separately for standard setup or teardown time.

Your DJ will typically arrive well before your guests so the equipment can be installed, tested, and ready before your celebration begins.

Is There a Travel Fee?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-07-25T09:26:46+00:00#### [Is There a Travel Fee?](#collapse-3-561)

Most weddings within our standard service area do not require an additional travel fee.

For weddings farther away, a travel fee may apply to cover driving time, mileage, lodging, or airfare when necessary. Any applicable travel costs will be clearly outlined in your proposal before you book.

What do you wear?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [What do you wear?](#collapse-3-559)

Our DJs typically wear a professional suit or similarly polished attire. If your wedding has a specific theme, dress code, or color palette, let us know. We will be happy to coordinate our appearance with your plans.

Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?](#collapse-3-557)

Absolutely. Most of our planning meetings are held virtually, making it easy to connect around your schedule. You can schedule as many virtual meetings as you need throughout the planning process. Prefer to meet in person? Just let us know, and we will be happy to arrange a meeting.

What About Inappropriate Language?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [What About Inappropriate Language?](#collapse-3-555)

We typically play radio-edited versions of songs to keep the music appropriate for your celebration. If you prefer unedited versions or have specific preferences, let us know during the planning process.

Can We Make Requests at the Event?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Can We Make Requests at the Event?](#collapse-3-553)

Of course. You are welcome to request songs throughout the celebration. Your DJ can also take requests from your guests, provided they fit your preferences and the overall direction you have chosen for the event.

What if my music isn’t listed on the planner?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [What if my music isn’t listed on the planner?](#collapse-3-551)

Our online planning portal includes a large collection of popular wedding music, but it is only the starting point. Each Stylus DJ also has access to an extensive music library beyond what appears in the planner.

If there is a song we do not already have, let us know. We will make every reasonable effort to find it and prepare it for your event.

What if I have a VERY specific playlist?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [What if I have a VERY specific playlist?](#collapse-3-549)

That is completely fine. Some couples want to provide general musical direction, while others have a carefully curated playlist. We can work with either approach.

If you want your DJ to stay closely within your selected songs, let us know. We will use your playlist to create a smooth, well-paced celebration that reflects your style.

How Do We Choose the Music for Our Wedding?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [How Do We Choose the Music for Our Wedding?](#collapse-3-547)

This is the fun part! Our online planning portal and music tools make it easy to personalize every part of your wedding day. You can select music for your ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, specialty dances, and reception.

You can also share your must-play songs, do-not-play list, and favorite dance floor tracks. You do not need to plan every song or organize the entire evening yourself. Give us a sense of the music you love, and your DJ will use that direction to create a smooth, energetic, and memorable celebration.

How Do We Plan Our Wedding With Stylus?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [How Do We Plan Our Wedding With Stylus?](#collapse-3-545)

Believe it or not, planning your entertainment can be easy.

Most couples have never planned a wedding before, so it is completely normal to have questions. Fortunately, we do this every week. Our online planning tools guide you through the important details, including your timeline, introductions, specialty dances, music selections, announcements, and reception preferences.

Our team will be available throughout the process to answer questions, offer guidance, and help bring your vision to life.

Can We Choose Our DJ?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Can We Choose Our DJ?](#collapse-3-543)

Yes. You will select your DJ before booking, and that DJ will work with you throughout the planning process. Building that relationship helps your DJ understand your music preferences, timeline, priorities, and vision for the event.

Can We Extend the Reception?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:37+00:00#### [Can We Extend the Reception?](#collapse-3-541)

In many cases, yes. Overtime depends on your venue restrictions and your DJ’s availability. It is usually more cost-effective to add time before the wedding rather than during the event, so let us know as early as possible if you think your celebration may run longer.

What if We Need to Make Changes?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:24:29+00:00#### [What if We Need to Make Changes?](#collapse-3-539)

We understand that wedding plans can evolve. Contact our office at [919-346-4669](tel:19193464669 "Call Stylus") or email us at [info@stylusevents.us](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) if you need to adjust your timeline, services, date, or venue.

We will do our best to accommodate your request based on availability and the terms of your booking agreement.

How do we know whether Stylus is the right fit?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-07-25T09:28:45+00:00#### [How do we know whether Stylus is the right fit?](#collapse-3-537)

Every couple has a different vision for their wedding, and our goal is to understand what matters most to you. During the consultation, we will learn about your style, priorities, and music preferences so we can help match you with the right DJ.

We love working with couples who are excited to create a memorable celebration that feels personal, polished, and genuinely fun.

How Do We Book Stylus S.E.?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:25:03+00:00#### [How Do We Book Stylus S.E.?](#collapse-3-535)

Your DJ is officially reserved once you sign the booking agreement and submit your retainer. We will send your proposal electronically, and you can complete the booking process through our online portal.

To get started, call us at [919-346-4669](tel:+19193464669) or email [info@stylusevents.us](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:18:14+00:00#### [How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?](#collapse-3-533)

Your final price will depend on the services, enhancements, and level of support you choose. Because every wedding is different, we customize each proposal around your venue, timeline, and event vision.

Most Stylus wedding packages range from **$1,600 to $4,500+**. For pricing and availability, fill out the **[contact form](/#contact)**, call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?[stylusevents](https://stylusweddings.com/author/stylusevents/)2026-06-11T09:01:38+00:00#### [How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?](#collapse-3-531)

We recommend contacting us as soon as your wedding date is confirmed. While many DJs book three to six months in advance, popular Stylus dates may fill up one to two years ahead of time, especially during peak wedding seasons.

Even if your wedding is approaching quickly, it never hurts to check availability. Call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**Info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) to see whether your date is open.

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### [Playlists](https://stylusweddings.com/weddings/playlists/)

**Published:** June 10, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# Wedding Song Inspiration

Explore our most-requested wedding songs for every moment, from your ceremony and first dance to the final song of the night.

- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-first-dance-songs/)### [Most Requested Wedding First Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-first-dance-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-wedding-ceremony-recessional-songs/)### [Most Wedding Ceremony Recessional Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-wedding-ceremony-recessional-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-cake-cutting-songs/)### [Most Requested Cake Cutting Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-cake-cutting-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-money-dance-songs/)### [Most Requested Money Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-money-dance-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-last-dance-songs/)### [Most Requested Wedding Last Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-last-dance-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-father-daughter-dances/)### [Most Requested Father Daughter Dances](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-father-daughter-dances/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-introduction-songs/)### [Most Requested Wedding Introduction Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-introduction-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-bouquet-toss-songs/)### [Most Requested Bouquet Toss Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-bouquet-toss-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-dance-songs/)### [Most Requested Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-dance-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-mother-son-wedding-dance/)### [Most Requested Mother Son Wedding Dance](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-mother-son-wedding-dance/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-party-dances/)### [Most Requested Wedding Party Dances](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-party-dances/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-garter-toss-songs/)### [Most Requested Garter Toss Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-garter-toss-songs/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-beach-music-songs/)### [Most Requested Beach Music Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-beach-music-songs/)

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### [Terms of Use](https://stylusweddings.com/terms-of-use/)

**Published:** June 3, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# North Carolina Wedding DJs

# Terms of Use

1. [Home](https://stylusweddings.com)
2. Terms of Use

# **StylusWeddings**

# **StylusWeddings**

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**Methods of Payment** Information related to accepted payment methods is made available during the purchasing process. Some payment methods may only be available subject to additional conditions or fees. In such cases, related information can be found in the dedicated section of the Website. All payments are independently processed through third-party services. Therefore, the Website does not collect any payment information—such as credit card details—but only receives a notification once the payment has been successfully completed. If payment through the available methods fails or is refused by the payment service provider, the Company shall be under no obligation to fulfill the purchase order. Any possible costs or fees resulting from the failed or refused payment shall be borne by you.

**Retention of Usage Rights** You do not acquire any rights to use the purchased Services until the total purchase price is received by the Company.

**Contract Duration**

**Subscriptions** Subscriptions allow you to receive Services continuously or regularly over a determined period of time. Paid subscriptions begin on the day the payment is received by the Company. In order to maintain subscriptions, you must pay the required recurring fee in a timely manner. Failure to do so may cause service interruptions.

**Fixed-Term Subscriptions** Paid fixed-term subscriptions start on the day the payment is received by the Company and last for the subscription period chosen by you or otherwise specified during the purchasing process. Once the subscription period expires, the Services shall no longer be accessible unless you renew the subscription by paying the relevant fee. Fixed-term subscriptions may not be terminated prematurely and shall run out upon expiration of the subscription term.

**Automatic Renewal** Subscriptions are automatically renewed through the payment method that you chose during purchase unless you cancel the subscription within the deadlines for termination specified in the relevant section of these Terms and/or Website. The renewed subscription will last for a period equal to the original term. You shall receive a reminder of the upcoming renewal with reasonable advance notice, outlining the procedure to be followed in order to cancel the automatic renewal.

**Termination** Recurring subscriptions may be terminated at any time by sending a clear and unambiguous termination notice to the Company using the contact details provided in this document, or—if applicable—by using the corresponding controls inside the Website.

**Termination Notice** If the notice of termination is received by the Company before the subscription renews, the termination shall take effect as soon as the current period is completed.

**Intellectual Property Rights**

**Ownership of Intellectual Property** You acknowledge that all intellectual property rights, including copyrights, trademarks, trade secrets, and patents, in the Services and its contents, features, and functionality (collectively, the “Content”), are owned by the Company, its licensors, or other providers of such material. The Content is protected by U.S. and international intellectual property or proprietary rights laws. Neither this Agreement nor your access to the Services transfers to you any right, title, or interest in or to such intellectual property rights. Any rights not expressly granted in this Agreement are reserved by the Company and its licensors.

**License to Use the Services** During the Term of this Agreement, the Company grants you a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable, non-sublicensable, and revocable license to use and access the Content for any business or commercial use in accordance with this Agreement. The Content may not be used for any other purpose. This license will terminate upon your cessation of use of the Services or at the termination of this Agreement.

**Certain Restrictions** The rights granted to you in this Agreement are subject to the following restrictions:

- **No Copying or Distribution.** You shall not copy, reproduce, publish, display, perform, post, transmit, or distribute any part of the Content in any form or by any means except as expressly permitted herein or as enabled by a feature, product, or the Services when provided to you.
- **No Modifications.** You shall not modify, create derivative works from, translate, adapt, disassemble, reverse compile, or reverse engineer any part of the Content.
- **No Exploitation.** You shall not sell, license, sublicense, transfer, assign, rent, lease, loan, host, or otherwise exploit the Content or the Services in any way, whether in whole or in part.
- **No Altering of Notices.** You shall not delete or alter any copyright, trademark, or other proprietary rights notices from copies of the Content.
- **No Competition.** You shall not access or use the Content in order to build a similar or competitive website, product, or service.
- **Systematic Retrieval.** You shall not use any information retrieval system to create, compile, directly or indirectly, a database, compilation, collection, or directory of the Content or other data from the Services.

**Trademark Notice** All trademarks, logos, and service marks displayed on the Services are either the Company’s property or the property of third parties. You may not use such trademarks, logos, or service marks without the prior written consent of their respective owners.

**User Content**

**User Generated Content** The Services may contain message boards, chatrooms, profiles, forums, and other interactive features that allow users to post, upload, submit, publish, display, or transmit to other users or other persons content or materials (collectively, “User Content”) on or through the Services.
You are solely responsible for your User Content. Please consider carefully what you choose to share. All User Content must comply with the Content Standards set forth below. Any User Content you post on or through the Services will be considered non-confidential and non-proprietary. You assume all risks associated with the use of your User Content. This includes any reliance on its accuracy, completeness, reliability, or appropriateness by other users and third parties, or any disclosure of your User Content that personally identifies you or any third party. You agree that the Company shall not be responsible or liable to any third party for any User Content posted by you or any other user of the Services.

You further agree that the Company shall not be responsible for any loss or damage incurred as the result of any interactions between you and other users. Your interactions with other users are solely between you and such users. If there is a dispute between you and any other user, we are under no obligation to become involved.

**License** You hereby grant to the Company an irrevocable, non-exclusive, royalty-free and fully paid, transferable, perpetual, and worldwide license to reproduce, distribute, publicly display and perform, prepare derivative works of, incorporate into other works, and otherwise use and exploit your User Content, and to grant sublicenses of the foregoing rights, in connection with the Services and the Company’s business including, without limitation, for promoting and redistributing part or all of the Services in any media formats and through any media channels.

You represent and warrant that you have all the rights, power, and authority necessary to grant the rights granted herein to any User Content that you submit. You hereby irrevocably waive all claims and have no recourse against us for any alleged or actual infringement or misappropriation of any proprietary rights in any communication, content, or material submitted to us. Please note that all of the following licenses are subject to our [Privacy Policy](https://%20stylusweddings.com%20/privacy-policy/ "Privacy Policy") to the extent they relate to any User Content that contains any personally identifiable information.

**Content Standards** You agree not to send, knowingly receive, upload, transmit, display, or distribute any User Content that does not comply with the following standards (“Content Standards”). User Content must not:

- **Violate Laws or Obligations.** Violate any applicable laws or regulations (including intellectual property laws and rights of privacy or publicity), or any contractual or fiduciary obligations.
- **Promote Illegal Activity or Harm to Others.** Promote any illegal activity; advocate, promote, or assist any unlawful act; or create any risk of any harm, loss, or damage to any person or property.
- **Infringe Intellectual Property Rights.** Infringe any copyright, trademark, patent, trade secret, moral right, or other intellectual property rights of any other person.
- **Defamatory, Abusive, or Otherwise Objectionable Material.** Contain any information or material that we deem to be unlawful, defamatory, trade libelous, invasive of another’s privacy or publicity rights, abusive, threatening, harassing, harmful, violent, hateful, obscene, vulgar, profane, indecent, offensive, inflammatory, humiliating to other people (publicly or otherwise), or otherwise objectionable. This includes any information or material that we deem to cause annoyance, inconvenience, or needless anxiety, or be likely to upset, embarrass, alarm, or annoy another person.
- **Promotion of Sexually Explicit Material or Discrimination.** Promote sexually explicit or pornographic material, violence, or discrimination based on race, sex, religion, nationality, disability, sexual orientation, or age.
- **Fraudulent Information or Impersonation.** Contain any information or material that is false, intentionally misleading, or otherwise likely to deceive any person including, without limitation, impersonating any person, or misrepresenting your identity or affiliation with any person or organization.
- **Endorsement by the Company.** Represent or imply to others that it is in any way provided, sponsored, or endorsed by the Company or any other person or entity, if that is not the case.

**Monitoring and Enforcement** We reserve the right at all times, but are not obligated, to:

- Take any action with respect to any User Content that we deem necessary or appropriate in our sole discretion, including if we believe that such User Content violates the Content Standards or any other provision in this Agreement, or creates liability for the Company or any other person. Such action may include reporting you to law enforcement authorities.
- Remove or reject any User Content for any or no reason in our sole discretion.
- Disclose any User Content, your identity, or electronic communication of any kind to satisfy any law, regulation, or government request, or to protect the rights or property of the Company or any other person.
- Terminate or suspend your access to all or part of the Services for any or no reason, including without limitation, any violation of this Agreement.

We do not review User Content before it is posted on or through the Services, and therefore cannot ensure prompt removal of questionable User Content. Accordingly, the Company and its affiliates, and their respective officers, directors, employees, or agents, assume no liability for any action or inaction regarding transmissions, communications, or content provided by any user or third party. The Company shall have no liability or responsibility to anyone for performance or non-performance of the activities described in this Section.

**Copyright Infringement (Digital Millennium Copyright Act Policy)** The Company respects the intellectual property of others and expects users of the Services to do the same. It is the Company’s policy to terminate the users of our Services who are repeat infringers of intellectual property rights, including copyrights. If you believe that your work has been copied in a way that constitutes copyright infringement and wish to have the allegedly infringing material removed, please provide the following information in accordance with the Digital Millennium Copyright Act to our designated copyright agent:

- A physical or electronic signature of the copyright owner or a person authorized to act on their behalf;
- A description of the copyrighted work that you allege has been infringed;
- A description of the material that is claimed to be infringing or to be the subject of infringing activity and that is to be removed or access to which is to be disabled;
- A description of where the material that you claim is infringing is located;
- Your contact information, including your address, telephone number, and email address;
- A statement that you have a good faith belief that use of the objectionable material is not authorized by the copyright owner, its agent, or under the law; and
- A statement by you, made under penalty of perjury, that the above information in your notice is accurate and that you are the copyright owner or authorized to act on the copyright owner’s behalf.

Please note that pursuant to 17 U.S.C. § 512(f), any misrepresentation of material fact in a written notification automatically subjects the complaining party to liability for any damages, costs, and attorneys’ fees incurred by us in connection with the written notification and allegation of copyright infringement.

**Designated copyright agent for the Company:
NAME:** Jason Huggins
**ADDRESS:** 1041 Investment Blvd Suite 151 Apex NC 27502
**TELEPHONE:** 919-346-4669
**EMAIL:** 

**Feedback to the Company** If you provide the Company with any feedback or suggestions regarding the Services (“Feedback”), you hereby assign to the Company all rights in such Feedback and agree that the Company shall have the right to use and fully exploit such Feedback and related information in any manner it deems appropriate. The Company will treat any Feedback that you provide to the Company as non-confidential and non-proprietary. You agree that you will not submit to the Company any information or ideas that you consider to be confidential or proprietary.

**Assumption of Risk** The information presented on or through the Services is made available for general information purposes only. The Company does not warrant the accuracy, completeness, suitability, or quality of any such information. Any reliance on such information is strictly at your own risk. The Company disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on such information by you or any other user of the Services, or by anyone who may be informed of any of its contents.

**Privacy** For information about how the Company collects, uses, and shares your information, please review our [Privacy Policy](https://%20stylusweddings.com%20/privacy-policy/ "Privacy Policy"). You agree that by using the Services you consent to the collection, use, and sharing (as set forth in the Privacy Policy) of such information.

**Termination** The Company may suspend or terminate your access or rights to use the Services at any time, for any reason, in our sole discretion, and without prior notice, including for any breach of the terms of this Agreement. Upon termination of your access or rights to use the Services, your right to access and use the Services will immediately cease. The Company will not have any liability whatsoever to you for any suspension or termination of your rights under this Agreement, including for termination of your account or deletion of your User Content. If you have registered for an account, you may terminate this Agreement at any time by contacting the Company and requesting termination.

**Effect of Termination** Upon termination of this Agreement, any provisions that by their nature should survive termination shall remain in full force and effect. This includes, without limitation, ownership or intellectual property provisions, warranty disclaimers, and limitations of liability. Termination of your access to and use of the Services shall not relieve you of any obligations arising or accruing prior to termination or limit any liability that you otherwise may have to the Company or any third party. You understand that any termination of your access to and use of the Services may involve deletion of your User Content associated with your account from our databases.

**No Warranty** THE SERVICES ARE PROVIDED ON AN “AS-IS” AND “AS AVAILABLE” BASIS. USE OF THE SERVICES IS AT YOUR OWN RISK. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, THE SERVICES ARE PROVIDED WITHOUT WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND, WHETHER EXPRESS, IMPLIED, STATUTORY, OR OTHERWISE, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO, IMPLIED WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE, TITLE, QUIET ENJOYMENT, ACCURACY, OR NON-INFRINGEMENT.

WITHOUT LIMITING THE FOREGOING, THE COMPANY AND ITS LICENSORS DO NOT WARRANT THAT THE CONTENT IS ACCURATE, RELIABLE, COMPLETE, OR CORRECT; THAT THE SERVICES WILL MEET YOUR REQUIREMENTS; THAT THE SERVICES WILL BE AVAILABLE AT ANY PARTICULAR TIME OR LOCATION, UNINTERRUPTED, ERROR-FREE, OR SECURE; THAT ANY DEFECTS OR ERRORS WILL BE CORRECTED; THAT THE SERVICES ARE FREE OF VIRUSES OR OTHER HARMFUL COMPONENTS; OR THAT THE SERVICES OR ITEMS OBTAINED THROUGH THE SERVICES WILL OTHERWISE MEET YOUR REQUIREMENTS OR EXPECTATIONS. TO THE FULLEST EXTENT PROVIDED BY LAW, WE WILL NOT BE LIABLE FOR ANY LOSS OR DAMAGE TO YOUR COMPUTER SYSTEM, MOBILE DEVICE, DATA, OR OTHER PROPRIETARY MATERIAL THAT MAY RESULT FROM YOUR USE OF THE SERVICES OR ITEMS OBTAINED THROUGH THE SERVICES OR YOUR DOWNLOADING OF ANY MATERIAL POSTED ON THE SERVICES.

WE DO NOT WARRANT, ENDORSE, GUARANTEE, OR ASSUME RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY PRODUCT OR SERVICES ADVERTISED OR OFFERED BY A THIRD PARTY THROUGH THE SERVICES OR THIRD-PARTY LINKS, AND WE WILL NOT BE A PARTY TO OR IN ANY WAY MONITOR ANY TRANSACTION BETWEEN YOU AND ANY THIRD-PARTY PROVIDERS OF PRODUCTS OR SERVICES OR ANY OTHER USER.

THE SERVICES WOULD NOT BE PROVIDED WITHOUT THESE LIMITATIONS. NO ADVICE OR INFORMATION, WHETHER ORAL OR WRITTEN, OBTAINED BY YOU FROM US THROUGH THE SERVICES SHALL CREATE ANY WARRANTY, REPRESENTATION, OR GUARANTEE NOT EXPRESSLY STATED IN THIS AGREEMENT. SOME JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE EXCLUSION OF IMPLIED WARRANTIES, SO THE ABOVE EXCLUSION MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU. IF APPLICABLE LAW REQUIRES ANY WARRANTIES WITH RESPECT TO THE SERVICES, ALL SUCH WARRANTIES ARE LIMITED IN DURATION TO NINETY (90) DAYS FROM THE DATE OF FIRST USE.

**Limitation of Liability** TO THE FULLEST EXTENT ALLOWED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT SHALL THE COMPANY OR ITS AFFILIATES, OR THEIR RESPECTIVE LICENSORS, SERVICE PROVIDERS, EMPLOYEES, AGENTS, OFFICERS, OR DIRECTORS BE LIABLE TO YOU OR ANY THIRD PARTY FOR ANY DAMAGES OF ANY KIND, UNDER ANY LEGAL THEORY, ARISING OUT OF OR IN CONNECTION WITH YOUR USE OR INABILITY TO USE THE SERVICES, ANY THIRD-PARTY LINK, OR ANY CONTENT ON THE SERVICES OR SUCH THIRD-PARTY LINK, INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION, ANY LOSS OF USE, REVENUE, OR PROFIT, LOSS OF BUSINESS OR ANTICIPATED SAVINGS, LOSS OF DATA, LOSS OF GOODWILL, OR DIMINUTION IN VALUE, OR FOR ANY CONSEQUENTIAL, INCIDENTAL, INDIRECT, EXEMPLARY, SPECIAL, OR PUNITIVE DAMAGES WHETHER ARISING OUT OF BREACH OF CONTRACT, TORT (INCLUDING NEGLIGENCE), OR OTHERWISE, REGARDLESS OF WHETHER SUCH DAMAGE WAS FORESEEABLE AND WHETHER OR NOT THE COMPANY HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES.

YOUR SOLE REMEDY FOR DISSATISFACTION WITH THE SERVICES IS TO STOP USING THE SERVICES.

SOME STATES DO NOT ALLOW THE EXCLUSION OR LIMITATION OF CERTAIN DAMAGES, SO THE ABOVE LIMITATION AND EXCLUSIONS MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU.

**Indemnification** You agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless the Company and its affiliates and their respective officers, directors, employees, agents, affiliates, successors, and permitted assigns (collectively, “Indemnified Party”) from and against any and all losses, claims, actions, suits, complaints, damages, liabilities, penalties, interest, judgments, settlements, deficiencies, disbursements, awards, fines, costs, fees, or expenses of whatever kind, including reasonable attorneys’ fees, fees and other costs of enforcing any right to indemnification under this Agreement, and the cost of pursuing any insurance providers, arising out of or relating to your breach of this Agreement or your use or misuse of the Services including, but not limited to, your User Content or any actions taken by a third party using your account. The Company reserves the right, at your expense, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter for which you are required to indemnify us, and you agree to assist and cooperate with our defense or settlement of these claims.

**Disputes.
Governing Law.** All matters relating to this Agreement, and all matters arising out of or relating to this Agreement, whether sounding in contract, tort, or statute are governed by, and construed in accordance with, the laws of the State of North Carolina, without giving effect to any conflict of law principles.

**Dispute Resolution.** Any action or proceeding arising out of or related to this Agreement or the Services shall be brought only in a state or federal court located in the State of North Carolina, County of Wake County County, although we retain the right to bring any suit, action, or proceeding against you for breach of this Agreement in your country of residence or any other relevant country. You hereby irrevocably submit to the jurisdiction of these courts and waive the defense of inconvenient forum to the maintenance of any action or proceeding in such venues.

At the Company’s sole discretion, it may require any dispute, claim, or controversy arising out of or relating to this Agreement, or the breach, termination, enforcement, interpretation, or validity thereof, to be submitted to and decided by a single arbitrator by binding arbitration under the rules of the American Arbitration Association in Raleigh, North Carolina. The decision of the arbitrator shall be final and binding on the parties and may be entered and enforced in any court of competent jurisdiction by either party. The prevailing party in the arbitration proceedings shall be awarded reasonable attorneys’ fees, expert witness costs and expenses, and all other costs and expenses incurred directly or indirectly in connection with the proceedings, unless the arbitrator shall for good cause determine otherwise.

All arbitrations shall proceed on an individual basis. You agree that you may bring claims against the Company in arbitration only in your individual capacities and in so doing you hereby waive the right to a trial by jury, to assert or participate in a class action lawsuit or class action arbitration (either as a named-plaintiff or class member), and to assert or participate in any joint or consolidated lawsuit or joint or consolidated arbitration of any kind. Notwithstanding anything to the contrary under the rules of the American Arbitration Association, the arbitrator may not consolidate more than one person’s claims, and may not otherwise preside over any form of a representative or class proceeding. If a court decides that applicable law precludes enforcement of any of this paragraph’s limitations as to a particular claim for relief, then that claim (and only that claim) must be severed from the arbitration and may be brought in court.

**YOU UNDERSTAND AND AGREE THAT BY ENTERING INTO THESE TERMS, YOU ARE WAIVING THE RIGHT TO TRIAL BY JURY OR TO PARTICIPATE IN A CLASS ACTION.**

**Limitation to Time to File Claims.** ANY CAUSE OF ACTION OR CLAIM YOU MAY HAVE ARISING OUT OF OR RELATING TO THIS AGREEMENT OR THE SERVICES MUST BE COMMENCED WITHIN \[ONE (1) YEAR\] AFTER THE CAUSE OF ACTION AROSE; OTHERWISE, SUCH CAUSE OF ACTION OR CLAIM IS PERMANENTLY WAIVED AND BARRED.

**Miscellaneous.
Waiver.** Except as otherwise set forth in this Agreement, no failure of the Company to exercise, or delay by the Company in exercising, any right, remedy, power, or privilege arising from this Agreement shall operate or be construed as a waiver thereof, nor shall any single or partial exercise of any right, remedy, power, or privilege hereunder preclude any other or further exercise thereof or the exercise of any other right, remedy, power, or privilege.

**Severability.** If any term or provision of this Agreement is found by a court of competent jurisdiction to be invalid, illegal, or unenforceable, such invalidity, illegality, or unenforceability shall not affect any other term or provision of this Agreement or invalidate or render unenforceable such term or provision in any other jurisdiction.

**Entire Agreement.** This Agreement, together with all documents referenced herein, constitutes the entire agreement between you and the Company with respect to the subject matter contained herein. This Agreement supersedes all prior and contemporaneous understandings, agreements, representations, and warranties, both written and oral, with respect to the subject matter hereof.

**Headings.** Headings and titles of sections, clauses, and parts in this Agreement are for convenience only. Such headings and titles shall not affect the meaning of any provisions of the Agreement.

**No Agency, Partnership or Joint Venture.** No agency, partnership, or joint venture has been created between you and the Company as a result of this Agreement. You do not have any authority of any kind to bind the Company in any respect whatsoever.

**Assignment.** You shall not assign or delegate any of your rights or obligations under this Agreement without the prior written consent of the Company. Any purported assignment or delegation in violation of this Section shall be deemed null and void. No assignment or delegation shall relieve you of any of your obligations hereunder. The Company may freely assign or delegate its rights and obligations under this Agreement at any time. Subject to the limits on assignment stated above, this Agreement will inure to the benefit of, be binding on, and be enforceable against each of the parties hereto and their respective successors and assigns.

**Export Laws.** The Services may be subject to U.S. export control laws and regulations. You agree to abide by these laws and their regulations (including, without limitation, the Export Administration Act and the Arms Export Control Act) and not to transfer, by electronic transmission or otherwise, any materials from the Services to either a foreign national or a foreign destination in violation of such laws or regulations.

**Contact Information.** All notices of copyright infringement claims should be sent to the designated copyright agent as provided in Section 7 (User Content). All other feedback, comments, requests for technical support, and other communications relating to the Services should be directed to [info@stylusevents.us.](mailto:info@stylusevents.us)

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### [Team](https://stylusweddings.com/team/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

[Home](https://stylusweddings.com "Home")» Team 

## Meet the Stylus Weddings Team

### North Carolina wedding DJs, emcees, and event professionals dedicated to unforgettable celebrations.

Your wedding deserves more than a playlist. Stylus Weddings brings experienced DJs, polished emcees, professional sound, and calm event leadership to weddings across North Carolina.

![Group of smiling people posing for a selfie at a crowded party, with badges and a 'Make Magic' card visible in the foreground.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/team.webp "team - Stylus Weddings")

[](https://www.facebook.com/stylusevents "Facebook")[](https://www.instagram.com/stylusevents/ "Instagram")[](https://www.youtube.com/@stylusweddings "YouTube")

## Meet the Stylus Weddings Team

#### North Carolina wedding DJs, emcees, and event professionals dedicated to unforgettable celebrations.

Your wedding deserves more than a playlist. Stylus Weddings brings experienced DJs, polished emcees, professional sound, and calm event leadership to weddings across North Carolina.

### DJs Who Know Weddings

Our team understands the flow of a wedding day—from ceremony sound and cocktail hour music to introductions, toasts, first dances, open dancing, and the last song.

### Personalized Music. Professional Execution.

We help you plan the soundtrack, read the room, guide key moments, and keep the energy natural from start to finish. Strong landing pages speak directly to the audience and define the value clearly.

### Why Couples Choose Stylus

- Experienced North Carolina wedding DJs
- Confident, polished emcees
- Customized music planning
- Clean transitions between moments
- Professional audio support
- Crowd-reading that keeps the dance floor moving

![For a DJ – Every Song is a Pokemon- StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/frontwedding04.webp "frontwedding04 - Stylus Weddings")

### Like the vibe? Let’s check your date and help match you with the right DJ for your wedding.

[Check Availability](#contact)

## Meet the People Behind the Party

### Each Stylus team member brings their own personality, music style, and wedding experience—so you can choose the right fit for your celebration.

- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/samson/)### DJ Samson/Spencer

     [ ![Samson - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/samsonmain.webp "samsonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/samson/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)### DJ Jason Huggins

     [ ![DJ Jason Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonmain.webp "jasonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)### Will Batchelor

     [ ![Smiling DJ in a gray blazer stands at a mixing console in a colorful studio with red and purple wall panels.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/willmain.webp "willmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)### DJ Nyce Danger

     [ ![Portrait of DJ Nyce Danger](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Nycemain.webp "Nycemain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)### Jennifer ‘J-Star’ Berzinkas

     [ ![J Star - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/j-starmain.webp "j-starmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)### Gordon Huggins

     [ ![Gordon Huggins - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Gordonmain.webp "Gordonmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)### Robyn Fuller

     [ ![Portrait of Robyn Fuller](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Robynmain.webp "Robynmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)### Ramez Botros – DJ Mez

     [ ![DJ Mez - StylusWeddings](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Mezmain.jpg "Mezmain - Stylus Weddings") ](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)

## Ready to Find Your DJ?

Explore our team, check availability, and let’s match you with the perfect entertainment experience for your wedding day.

[Check Availability](#contact)

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### [Service Area](https://stylusweddings.com/service-area/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

[Home](https://stylusweddings.com "Home")» Service Area 

# Wedding DJ Services Across North Carolina

## From Raleigh and Durham to Charlotte, Asheville, Wilmington, Greenville, and beyond, Stylus Weddings brings professional DJs, polished emcees, ceremony sound, custom music planning, lighting, and unforgettable reception energy to celebrations across North Carolina.

[Check Availability](#contact)

Stylus Weddings provides professional wedding DJ and entertainment services for couples across North Carolina. From Raleigh and Durham to Chapel Hill, Greensboro, Charlotte, Asheville, Wilmington, and Greenville, our team brings polished emcees, custom music planning, ceremony sound, reception entertainment, lighting, and special effects to weddings of every style.

Whether you are planning a downtown celebration, mountain wedding, coastal reception, garden ceremony, ballroom event, or rustic venue experience, Stylus Weddings helps create a seamless flow from the first song to the final dance. Our DJs understand how to read the room, manage key moments, and keep your celebration personal, organized, and unforgettable.

Explore our service areas below to find wedding DJ services near your venue. Each city page includes local wedding insight, venue references, and entertainment options designed for that market. Strong service-area pages should clearly show which cities you serve and include unique local content for each location.

##  Wedding DJ Service Areas in NC

- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/durham/)### Durham
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/greenville/)### Greenville
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/wilmington/)### Wilmington
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/asheville/)### Asheville
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/charlotte/)### Charlotte
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/greensboro/)### Greensboro
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/chapel-hill/)### Chapel Hill
- [](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/raleigh/)### Raleigh

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### [Privacy Policy](https://stylusweddings.com/privacy-policy/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# North Carolina Wedding DJs

# Privacy Policy

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# **StylusWeddings**

# **StylusWeddings**

**PRIVACY POLICY
Effective Date: April 23rd, 2025**

Thank you for visiting [stylusweddings.com](https://stylusweddings.com/) (the “Website”). Your privacy is important to us. This Privacy Policy (the “Policy”) describes the types of information Stylus SE LLC (the “Company”, “us”, “we”, or “our”) may collect from you or that you may provide when you visit the Website and the products, features, materials, and services we offer (collectively with the Website, the “Services”). This Policy also describes our policies and procedures for collecting, using, maintaining, protecting, and disclosing that information. This Policy applies to information we collect on the Website and through your use of the Services generally (including when you register for an account), and through communications between you and the Website (including email, text, and other electronic messages). This Policy does not apply to information collected by third parties, including any websites, services, and applications that you elect to access through the Services. Please review this Policy carefully. By accessing or using the Services (or by clicking on “accept” or “agree” to this Policy when prompted), you agree to the terms of this Policy on behalf of yourself or the entity or organization that you represent. If you do not agree to any term in this Policy, you should refrain from further use of our Services.

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**Changes to Our Privacy Policy**
This Policy was last revised on the date noted at the top of this page. We may update this Policy from time to time. If we make material changes, we will post the updated Policy on this page and notify you of such changes by means of an email to the email address specified in your account, a message on the Services, or through a notice on the Website home page. Your continued use of the Services after we make changes is deemed to be acceptance of those changes, so please check the Policy periodically for updates.

**Information We Collect**
We receive several types of information about you from various sources, including (A) information and content that you give us; (B) automatically-collected information; and (C) demographic information or other aggregate information. Each is described in detail below.

**Information and Content That You Give Us**
We collect personal information that you knowingly choose to disclose. This may include:

**Personal Information (or Data).** Personal information, such as your name, address, email address, phone number, username, password, and any other information you directly provide us on or through the Services. This includes information you provide when you register or create an account, complete a questionnaire or a contest entry form, or make a request for customer service.

**Correspondences.** Records and copies of your email messages together with your email address and our responses, if you choose to correspond with us through email, and records of your phone number, phone calls with us, and voice messages, if you choose to correspond with us via phone.

**User Content.** Information or content you submit to be published or displayed on public areas of the Services or transmitted to other users of the Services or third parties (collectively, “User Content”). Your User Content is posted and transmitted to others at your own risk. The Company cannot control the actions of other users of the Services with whom you may choose to share your User Content. Therefore, we cannot and do not guarantee that your User Content will not be viewed by unauthorized persons.

**Transaction Information.** Information about any purchase or transactions made on the Services. This includes payment information, such as your credit or debit card number and other card information; other account and authentication information; and billing, shipping, and contact details.

**Search Queries.** Your search queries on the Website.

**Information We Collect Automatically**
We may use a variety of technologies to collect certain information about your equipment, browsing actions, and patterns whenever you interact with the Services, including:

**Activity Information.** Details of your visits to our Services, including the types of content you view or engage with; the features you use; the actions you take; the people or accounts you interact with; the time, frequency, and duration of your activities; and other information about your use of and actions on the Services.

**Equipment Information.** Information about your computer and internet connection, including your computer operating system, IP address, browser type, and browser language.

**Location Information.** Information about the location of your device, including GPS location, for purposes of enhancing or facilitating the Services. We may also use information about the location of the device you are using to help us understand how the Services and functionality are being used and to deliver more relevant advertising.

The gathering of this information may be used for maintaining the quality of the Services we provide, as well as providing overall general statistics related to the use of the Services. The technologies we use for this automatic data collection may include:

**Cookies.** A cookie is a small data file stored on the hard drive of your computer either for only the duration of your visit on a website (“session cookies”) or for a fixed period (“persistent cookies”). Cookies contain information that can later be read by a web server. We may use cookies to provide you with a more personal and interactive experience on the Services.

**Web Beacons.** Web beacons (also known as “clear gifs”, “pixel tags”, “web bugs”, and “single-pixel gifs”) are small files that are embedded in webpages, applications, and emails. Web beacons allow the Company, for example, to track who has visited those webpages or opened an email, test the effectiveness of our marketing, and compile other related website statistics.

**JavaScripts.** JavaScripts are code snippets embedded in websites and applications that facilitate a variety of operations including accelerating the refresh speed of certain functionality or monitoring usage of various online components.

**Entity Tags.** Entity Tags are HTTP code mechanisms that allow portions of websites to be stored or “cached” within your browser and validates these caches when the website is opened, accelerating website performance since the web server does not need to send a full response if the content has not changed.

**HTML5 Local Storage.** HTML5 local storage allows data from websites to be stored or “cached” within your browser to store and retrieve data in HTML5 pages when the website is revisited.

**Resettable Device Identifiers.** Resettable device identifiers (also known as “advertising identifiers”) are similar to cookies and are found on many mobile devices and tablets (e.g., the “Identifier for Advertisers” or “IDFA” on Apple iOS devices and the “Google Advertising ID” on Android devices), and certain streaming media devices. Like cookies, resettable device identifiers are used to make online advertising more relevant.

This Policy does not cover the use of tracking technologies by third parties. The Services may contain links, content, advertising, or references to other websites by third parties, including advertisers, ad networks and servers, content providers, and application providers. These third parties may use cookies or other tracking technologies to collect information about you when you use the Services. The information they collect may be associated with your personal information or they may collect information about your online activities over time and across different websites. Please be aware that we do not control these third parties’ tracking technologies or when and how they may be used. Therefore, the Company does not claim nor accept responsibility for any privacy policies, practices, or procedures of any third party. We encourage you to read the privacy statements and terms and conditions of linked or referenced websites you enter. If you have any questions about an ad or other targeted content, you should contact the responsible provider directly.

**Demographic Information.**
We may collect demographic, statistical, or other aggregate information that is about you, but individually does not identify you. Some of this information may be derived from personal information, but it is not personal information and cannot be tied back to you. Examples of such aggregate information include gender, age, race, household income, and political affiliation.

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**Information from Other Sources.**
We may receive information about you from other sources and add it to our account information. We protect this information according to the practices described in this Policy, plus any additional restrictions imposed by the source of the data. These sources may include online and offline data providers, from which we obtain demographic, interest-based, and online advertising related data; publicly-available sources such as open government databases or social networks; and service providers who provide us with information, or updates to that information, based on their relationship with you. By gathering additional information about you, we can correct inaccurate information, enhance the security of your transactions, and give you product or service recommendations and special offers that are more likely to interest you.

**Information from Other Sources.**
We may receive information about you from other sources and add it to our account information. We protect this information according to the practices described in this Policy, plus any additional restrictions imposed by the source of the data. These sources may include:

- online and offline data providers, from which we obtain demographic, interest-based, and online advertising related data;
- publicly-available sources such as open government databases or social networks;
- service providers who provide us with information, or updates to that information, based on their relationship with you.

By gathering additional information about you, we can correct inaccurate information, enhance the security of your transactions, and give you product or service recommendations and special offers that are more likely to interest you.

**How We Use Your Information.**
We may use the information we collect about you in a variety of ways, including:

- to provide the Services and its content to you;
- to respond to comments and questions, and provide customer service;
- to fulfill the purpose for which you provide such information, or fulfill any other purpose disclosed by us when you provide the information;
- to communicate with you about your order, purchase, account, or subscription;
- to inform you about important changes to, or other news about, the Services or any of its features or content;
- to operate, maintain, improve, personalize, and analyze the Services;
- to monitor and analyze trends, usage, and activities for marketing or advertising purposes;
- to detect, prevent, or investigate security breaches, fraud, and other unauthorized or illegal activity;
- to carry out our obligations and enforce our rights arising from any contracts entered into between you and us, including for billing and collection;
- to maintain appropriate records for internal administrative purposes;
- to allow you to participate in interactive features on the Services;
- to send promotional communications, such as information about features, newsletters, offers, promotions, contests, and events;
- to share information across the Company’s products, services, and devices to provide a more tailored and consistent experience on all Company products, services, and devices that you use;
- to develop, test, troubleshoot, and improve new products, services, and features, including by conducting surveys and research, and testing and troubleshooting new products, services, and features;
- in any other way we may describe when you provide the information; and
- for any other purpose with your consent.

We may use the information we have collected from you to enable us to display advertisements to our advertisers’ target audiences. Even though we do not disclose your personal information for these purposes without your consent, if you click on or otherwise interact with an advertisement, the advertiser may assume that you meet its target criteria.

**How We Share Your Information.**
We may disclose aggregated or anonymized information about our users without any restrictions. We will not share your personal information that we collect or you provide as described in this Policy except in the following circumstances:

**With subsidiaries and affiliates for business purposes.**
To our subsidiaries and affiliated companies for purposes of management and analysis, decision-making, and other business purposes.

**When we work with service providers.**
To service providers, professional advisors, contractors, and other third parties that provide us with support services, such as payment processing, website hosting, information technology, sales, email and postal delivery, location mapping, product and service delivery, or analytics services, and who are bound by contractual obligations to keep personal information confidential and use it only for the purposes for which we disclose it to them.

**When we become involved in a sale or transfer of the Company.**
If we become involved with a merger, divestiture, restructuring, reorganization, dissolution, or other sale or transfer of some or all of the Company’s assets (whether as a going concern or as part of a bankruptcy, liquidation, or similar proceeding), to business entities or people involved in the negotiation or transfer.

**When we are required by law.**
To comply with any court order, law, or legal process, including to respond to any government or regulatory request.

**When we enforce our rights.**
To enforce or apply this Policy, our [Terms of Use](https://stylusweddings.com/terms-of-use/), and other agreements, including for billing and collection purposes.

**To help protect lawful interests.**
If we believe disclosure will help us protect the rights, property, or safety of the Company, our users, partners, agents, and others. This includes exchanging information with other companies and organizations for fraud protection, and spam and malware prevention.

**To fulfill the purpose for that information or with your consent.**
To fulfill the purpose for which you provide the information, for any other purpose disclosed by us when you provide the information, or with your consent.

**When we work with marketing service providers.**
To marketing service providers to assess, develop, and provide you with promotions and special offers that may interest you; administer contests, sweepstakes, and events; or for other promotional purposes.

**When we work with business partners.**
To third parties whom we have strategic marketing alliances or partnerships with to provide you information regarding products and services that we think will be of interest to you.

**Third-party platforms and social media networks.**
To third-party platforms and social media networks, if you have enabled features or functionality that link the Services to such a platform or network (such as logging into the Services using your account with the third party).

Information that you post on or through the public areas of the Services (e.g., in chat rooms, bulletin boards, and discussion groups) is generally accessible to, and may be collected and used by, others and may result in unsolicited messages or other forms of contact from others. Users of the Services are encouraged to exercise caution when providing personal information about themselves in public or interactive areas.

**Detailed Information on the Personal Information We Collect**
Personal Data is collected for the following purposes and using the following services:

**Access to third-party accounts**
This type of service allows Website to access Data from your account on a third-party service and perform actions with it. These services are not activated automatically, but require explicit authorization by the User.

**Facebook account access (Facebook, Inc.)**
This service allows Website to connect with the User’s account on the Facebook social network, provided by Facebook, Inc.

**Permissions asked:**

- Business Management API
- Chat
- Mobile Messaging on behalf of Page
- Page Messaging

**Place of processing:** United States – Privacy Policy

**Category of personal information collected according to CCPA:** internet information

**Advertising**
This type of service allows User Data to be utilized for advertising communication purposes. These communications are displayed in the form of banners and other advertisements on Website, possibly based on User interests. This does not mean that all Personal Data are used for this purpose. Information and conditions of use are shown below. Some of the services listed below may use Trackers to identify Users or they may use the behavioral retargeting technique, i.e. displaying ads tailored to the User’s interests and behavior, including those detected outside Website. For more information, please check the privacy policies of the relevant services. In addition to any opt-out feature offered by any of the services below, Users may opt out by visiting the.

**Google Ad Manager (LLC):**
Google Ad Manager is an advertising service provided by Google LLC that allows the Company to run advertising campaigns in conjunction with external advertising networks that the Company, unless otherwise specified in this document, has no direct relationship with. In order to opt out from being tracked by various advertising networks, Users may make use of Youronlinechoices. In order to understand Google’s use of data, consult Google’s partner policy.
This service uses the “DoubleClick” Cookie, which tracks use of Website and User behavior concerning ads, products and services offered.
Users may decide to disable all the DoubleClick Cookies by going to: Google Ad Settings.
Personal Data processed: Tracker and Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Facebook Lookalike Audience (Facebook, Inc.):**
Facebook Lookalike Audience is an advertising and behavioral targeting service provided by Facebook, Inc. that uses Data collected through Facebook Custom Audience in order to display ads to Users with similar behavior to Users who are already in a Custom Audience list on the base of their past use of Website or engagement with relevant content across the Facebook apps and services. On the base of these Data, personalized ads will be shown to Users suggested by Facebook Lookalike Audience.
Users can opt out of Facebook’s use of cookies for ads personalization by visiting this opt-out page.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy – Opt Out.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

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**Analytics**
The services contained in this section enable the Company to monitor and analyze web traffic and can be used to keep track of User behavior.

**Google Analytics (Google LLC):**
Google Analytics is a web analysis service provided by Google LLC (“Google”). Google utilizes the Data collected to track and examine the use of Website, to prepare reports on its activities and share them with other Google services. Google may use the Data collected to contextualize and personalize the ads of its own advertising network.
Personal Data processed: Tracker; Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy – Opt Out.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Google Ads conversion tracking (Google LLC):**
Ads conversion tracking is an analytics service provided by Google LLC that connects data from the Google Ads advertising network with actions performed on Website.
Personal Data processed: Tracker; Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Facebook Ads conversion tracking (Facebook pixel) (Facebook, Inc.):**
Facebook Ads conversion tracking (Facebook pixel) is an analytics service provided by Facebook, Inc. that connects data from the Facebook advertising network with actions performed on Website. The Facebook pixel tracks conversions that can be attributed to ads on Facebook, Instagram and Audience Network.
Personal Data processed: Tracker; Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

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**Connecting Data**
This type of service allows the Company to connect Data with third-party services disclosed within this privacy policy. This results in Data flowing through these services, potentially causing the retention of this Data.

**Zapier (Zapier Inc.):**
Zapier is a workflow automation service provided by Zapier, Inc. that automates the movement of Data between (third-party) services.
Personal Data processed: Data communicated while using the service.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

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**Contacting the User**
**Mailing list or newsletter (Website):**
By registering on the mailing list or for the newsletter, the User’s email address will be added to the contact list of those who may receive email messages containing information of commercial or promotional nature concerning Website. Your email address might also be added to this list as a result of signing up to Website or after making a purchase.
Personal Data processed: email address.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: identifiers.

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**Handling payments**
Unless otherwise specified, Website processes any payments by credit card, bank transfer or other means via external payment service providers. In general and unless where otherwise stated, Users are requested to provide their payment details and personal information directly to such payment service providers. Website isn’t involved in the collection and processing of such information: instead, it will only receive a notification by the relevant payment service provider as to whether payment has been successfully completed.

**Stripe (Stripe Inc.):**
Stripe is a payment service provided by Stripe Inc.
Personal Data processed: various types of Data as specified in the privacy policy of the service.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.

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**Managing contacts and sending messages**
This type of service makes it possible to manage a database of email contacts, phone contacts or any other contact information to communicate with the User. These services may also collect data concerning the date and time when the message was viewed by the User, as well as when the User interacted with it, such as by clicking on links included in the message.

**Mailgun (Mailgun Technologies, Inc.):**
Mailgun is an email address management and message sending service provided by Mailgun Technologies, Inc.
Personal Data processed: email address.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: identifiers.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Twilio (Twilio Inc.):**
Twilio is a phone numbers management and communication service provided by Twilio, Inc.
Personal Data processed: phone number.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: identifiers.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

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**Remarketing and behavioral targeting**
This type of service allows Website and its partners to inform, optimize and serve advertising based on past use of Website by the User. This activity is facilitated by tracking Usage Data and by using Trackers to collect information which is then transferred to the partners that manage the remarketing and behavioral targeting activity. Some services offer a remarketing option based on email address lists. In addition to any opt-out feature provided by any of the services below, Users may opt out by the Network Advertising Initiative opt-out page. Users may also opt out of certain advertising features through applicable device settings, such as the device advertising settings for mobile phones or ads settings in general.

**Google Ads Remarketing (Google LLC):**
Google Ads Remarketing is a remarketing and behavioral targeting service provided by Google LLC that connects the activity of Website with the Google Ads advertising network and the DoubleClick Cookie. Users can opt out of Google’s use of cookies for ads personalization by visiting Google’s Ads Settings.
Personal Data processed: Tracker and Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy – Opt Out.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Facebook Custom Audience (Facebook, Inc.):**
Facebook Custom Audience is a remarketing and behavioral targeting service provided by Facebook, Inc. that connects the activity of Website with the Facebook advertising network. Users can opt out of Facebook’s use of cookies for ads personalization by visiting this opt-out page.
Personal Data processed: email address and Tracker.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy – Opt Out.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: identifiers; internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Facebook Remarketing (Facebook, Inc.):**
Facebook Remarketing is a remarketing and behavioral targeting service provided by Facebook, Inc. that connects the activity of Website with the Facebook advertising network.
Personal Data processed: Tracker and Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy – Opt Out.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

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**Tag Management**
This type of service helps the Company to manage the tags or scripts needed on Website in a centralized fashion. This results in the Users’ Data flowing through these services, potentially resulting in the retention of this Data.

**Google Tag Manager (Google Inc.):**
Google Tag Manager is a tag management service provided by Google LLC.
Personal Data processed: Usage Data.
Place of processing: United States – Privacy Policy.
Category of personal information collected according to CCPA: internet information.
This processing constitutes a sale based on the definition under the CCPA. In addition to the information in this clause, the User can find information regarding how to opt out of the sale in the section detailing the rights of Californian consumers.

**Your Choices
Mechanisms to Control Your Information.** We strive to provide you with choices regarding the personal information you provide to us. We have created mechanisms to provide you with the following control over your information:

**Cookies and Other Tracking Technologies.** You may be able to set your browser to reject cookies and certain other technologies by adjusting the appropriate settings in your browser. Each browser is different, but many common browsers have preferences that may be adjusted to allow you to either accept or reject cookies and certain other technologies before they are set or installed, or allow you to remove or reject the use or installation of certain technologies altogether. We recommend that you refer to the Help menu in your browser to learn how to modify your browser settings. Please note that you cannot remove Flash cookies simply by changing your browser settings. To learn how you can manage your Flash cookie settings, visit the Flash player settings page on Adobe’s website. If you disable or refuse cookies or other tracking technologies, please note that some parts of the Services may become inaccessible or may not function properly.

**Promotional Communications from the Company.** If you do not wish to have your contact information used by the Company to promote our own or third-party products or services, you can opt out by (i) informing us of your preference at the time you register for an account, complete an order form, sign up for our newsletter, or complete any other form on or through the Services which we collect your data; (ii) modifying your user preferences in your account profile; (iii) following the opt-out instructions in the promotional emails we send you; or (iv)sending us an email stating your request. Please note that if you opt out of receiving promotional communications from us, we may still send you transactional communications, including emails about your account or purchases.

**Disclosure of Your Information for Third-Party Advertising.** If you do not want us to share your personal information with unaffiliated or non-agent third parties for promotional purposes, you can opt out by (i) informing us of your preference at the time you register for an account, complete an order form, sign up for our newsletter, or complete any other form on or through the Services which we collect your data; (ii) modifying your user preferences in your account profile; (iii) following the opt-out instructions in the promotional emails we send you; or (iv) sending us an email stating your request.

**Targeted Advertising.** If you do not want us to use information that we collect or that you provide to us to deliver advertisements according to our advertisers’ target-audience preferences, you can opt out by modifying your user preferences in your account profile. We do not control third parties’ collection or use of your information to serve interest-based advertising. However, these third parties may provide you with ways to choose not to have your information collected or used in this way. Many advertising companies that collect information for interest-based advertising are members of the Digital Advertising Alliance or the Network Advertising Initiative, both of which maintain websites where people can opt out of interest-based advertising from their members. To opt out on these pages, visit [www.AboutAds.info](http://www.aboutads.info%0B/)and [www.networkadvertising.org](http://www.networkadvertising.org/).

**Location Information.** You may be able to adjust the settings of your device so that information about your physical location is not sent to us or third parties by (a) disabling location services within the device settings; or (b) denying certain websites or applications permission to access location information by changing the relevant preferences and permissions in your device or browser settings. Please note that your location may be derived from your GPS, WiFi, Bluetooth, and other device settings. If you have questions about how to disable your device’s location services, we recommend you contact your mobile service carrier or your device manufacturer.

**Voice Transmissions.** You may be able to adjust the settings of your device so that your voice transmissions cannot be sent to us or third parties by (a) disabling microphone and speech recognition services within the device settings; or (b) denying certain websites or mobile applications permission to access microphone and speech recognition services by changing the relevant preferences or permissions in your device or browser settings.

**How We Respond to Do Not Track Signals.** “Do Not Track” is a privacy preference you can set in most web browsers. When you turn on this preference, it sends a signal or message to the websites you visit indicating that you do not wish to be tracked. Please note that we currently do not respond to Do Not Track browser settings.

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**Accessing and Correcting Your Information.** You may send us an email to request access to, correct, or remove any personal information that you have provided to us. You may also access, correct, or remove your personal information by logging into the Website and visiting your account profile page. We cannot delete your personal information except by also deleting your account. We may not accommodate a request to change information if we believe the change would violate any law or legal requirement or cause the information to be incorrect. If you delete your User Content from the Services or your account, copies of your User Content may remain viewable in cached and archived pages, or might have been copied or stored by other users of the Services.

**California Privacy Rights.** This part of the document integrates with and supplements the information contained in the rest of the privacy policy and is provided by the business running Website and, if the case may be, its parent, subsidiaries and affiliates (for the purposes of this section referred to collectively as “we”, “us”, “our”).

The provisions contained in this section apply to all Users (Users are referred to below, simply as “you”, “your”, “yours”), who are consumers residing in the state of California, United States of America, according to the “California Consumer Privacy Act of 2018” (the “CCPA”), as updated by the “California Privacy Rights Act” (the “CPRA”) and subsequent regulations. For such consumers, these provisions supersede any other possibly divergent or conflicting provisions contained in the privacy policy. This part of the document uses the term “personal information“ as defined in the California
Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA/CPRA).

**Categories of personal information collected, used, sold, or shared** In this section we summarize the categories of personal information that we’ve collected, used, sold, or shared and the purposes thereof. You can read about these activities in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document.

**Information we collect: the categories of personal information we collect.** We have collected the following categories of personal information about you: identifiers, commercial information and internet information. We do not collect sensitive personal information. We will not collect additional categories of personal information without notifying you.

**What are the purposes for which we use your personal information?** Unless stated otherwise inside the “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” section, we will not retain your personal information for longer than is reasonably necessary for the purpose(s) they have been collected for.

**How we collect information: what are the sources of personal information we collect?** We collect the above-mentioned categories of personal information, either directly or indirectly, from you when you use Website. For example, you directly provide your personal information when you submit requests via any forms on Website. You also provide personal information indirectly when you navigate Website, as personal information about you is automatically observed and collected. Finally, we may collect your personal information from third parties that work with us in connection with the Service or with the functioning of this Application and features thereof.

**How we use the information we collect: disclosing of your personal information with third parties for a business purpose.** For our purposes, the word “third party” means a person who is not any of the following: a service provider or a contractor, as defined by the CPRA (CCPA amendment).
We disclose your personal information with the third parties listed in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document. These third parties are grouped and categorized in accordance with the different purposes of processing.

**Sales of your personal information.** For our purposes, the word “sale” means any “selling, renting, releasing, disclosing, disseminating, making available, transferring or otherwise communicating orally, in writing, or by electronic means, a consumer’s personal information by the business to a third party, for monetary or other valuable consideration”, as defined by the CPRA (CCPA amendment). This means that, for example, a sale can happen whenever an application runs ads, or makes statistical analyses on the traffic or views, or simply because it uses tools such as social network plugins and the like.

For our purposes, the word “sharing” means any “sharing, renting, releasing, disclosing, disseminating, making available, transferring, or otherwise communicating orally, in writing, or by electronic or other means, a consumer’s personal information by the business to a third party for cross-context behavioral advertising, whether or not for monetary or other valuable consideration, including transactions between a business and a third party for cross-context behavioral advertising for the benefit of a business in which no money is exchanged”, as defined by the CPRA (CCPA amendment).

Please note that the exchange of personal information with a service provider pursuant to a written contract that meets the requirements set by the CPRA (CCPA amendment), does not constitute a sale or sharing of your personal information.

**Your right to opt out of the sale or sharing of your personal information and how you can exercise it.** We sell or share your personal information with the third parties listed in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document. These third parties are grouped and categorized in accordance with the different purposes of processing. You have the right to opt out of the sale or sharing of your personal information.

This means that whenever you request us to stop selling or sharing your personal information, we will abide by your request. Such requests can be made freely, at any time, without submitting any verifiable request. To fully exercise your right to opt out, you can contact us at any time using the contact details provided in this document.

For a simplified opt-out method you can also use the privacy choices link provided on Website. If you want to submit requests to opt out of the sale or sharing of personal information via a user-enabled global privacy control, like the Global Privacy Control (“GPC”), you are free to do so and we will abide by such request. The GPC consists of a setting or extension in the browser or mobile device and acts as a mechanism that websites can use to indicate they support the GPC signal. If you want to use GPC, you can download and enable it via a participating browser or browser extension. More information about downloading GPC is available here.

We use any personal information collected from you in connection with the submission of your opt-out request solely for the purposes of complying with the opt-out request. Once you have opted out, we are required to wait at least 12 months before asking whether you have changed your mind.

**Your privacy rights under the California Consumer Privacy Act and how to exercise them**

**The right to access personal information: the right to know and to portability.** You have the right to request that we disclose to you:

- the categories of personal information that we collect about you;
- the sources from which the personal information is collected;
- the purposes for which we use your information;
- to whom we disclose such information;
- the specific pieces of personal information we have collected about you.

You also have the right to know what personal information is sold or shared and to whom. In particular, you have the right to request two separate lists from us where we disclose:

- the categories of personal information that we sold or shared about you and the categories of third parties to whom the personal information was sold or shared;
- the categories of personal information that we disclosed about you for a business purpose and the categories of persons to whom it was disclosed for a business purpose.

The disclosure described above will be limited to the personal information collected or used over the past 12 months. If we deliver our response electronically, the information enclosed will be “portable”, i.e. delivered in an easily usable format to enable you to transmit the information to another entity without hindrance – provided that this is technically feasible.

**The right to request the deletion of your personal information** You have the right to request that we delete any of your personal information, subject to exceptions set forth by the law (such as, including but not limited to, where the information is used to identify and repair errors on Website, to detect security incidents and protect against fraudulent or illegal activities, to exercise certain rights etc.).
If no legal exception applies, as a result of exercising your right, we will delete your personal information and notify any of our service providers and all third parties to whom we have sold or shared the personal information to do so – provided that this is technically feasible and doesn’t involve disproportionate effort.

**The right to correct inaccurate personal information** You have the right to request that we correct any inaccurate personal information we maintain about you, taking into account the nature of the personal information and the purposes of the processing of the personal information.

**The right to opt out of sale or sharing of personal information and to limit the use of your sensitive personal information** You have the right to opt out of the sale or sharing of your personal information. You also have the right to request that we limit our use or disclosure of your sensitive personal information.

**The right of no retaliation following opt-out or exercise of other rights (the right to non-discrimination)** We will not discriminate against you for exercising your rights under the CPRA (CCPA amendment). This means that we will not discriminate against you, including, but not limited to, by denying goods or services, charging you a different price, or providing a different level or quality of goods or services just because you exercised your consumer privacy rights.

However, if you refuse to provide your personal information to us or ask us to delete or stop selling your personal information, and that personal information or sale is necessary for us to provide you with goods or services, we may not be able to complete that transaction.

To the extent permitted by the law, we may offer you promotions, discounts, and other deals in exchange for collecting, keeping, or selling your personal information, provided that the financial incentive offered is reasonably related to the value of your personal information.

**How to exercise your rights** To exercise the rights described above, you need to submit your verifiable request to us by contacting us via the details provided in this document. For us to respond to your request, it’s necessary that we know who you are. Therefore, you can only exercise the above rights by making a verifiable request which must:

- provide sufficient information that allows us to reasonably verify you are the person about whom we collected personal information or an authorized representative;
- describe your request with sufficient detail that allows us to properly understand, evaluate, and respond to it.

We will not respond to any request if we are unable to verify your identity and therefore confirm the personal information in our possession actually relates to you.

Making a verifiable consumer request does not require you to create an account with us. We will use any personal information collected from you in connection with the verification of your request solely for the purposes of verification and shall not further disclose the personal information, retain it longer than necessary for purposes of verification, or use it for unrelated purposes.

If you cannot personally submit a verifiable request, you can authorize a person registered with the California Secretary of State to act on your behalf.
If you are an adult, you can make a verifiable request on behalf of a minor under your parental authority.
You can submit a maximum number of 2 requests over a period of 12 months.

**How and when we are expected to handle your request** We will confirm receipt of your verifiable request within 10 days and provide information about how we will process your request.
We will respond to your request within 45 days of its receipt. Should we need more time, we will explain to you the reasons why, and how much more time we need. In this regard, please note that we may take up to 90 days to fulfill your request.

Our disclosure(s) will cover the preceding 12-month period. Only with regard to personal information collected on or after January 1, 2022, you have the right to request that we disclose information beyond the 12-month period, and we will provide them to you unless doing so proves impossible or would involve a disproportionate effort.

Should we deny your request, we will explain to you the reasons behind our denial.
We do not charge a fee to process or respond to your verifiable request unless such request is manifestly unfounded or excessive. In such cases, we may charge a reasonable fee, or refuse to act on the request. In either case, we will communicate our choices and explain the reasons behind it.

**Virginia Privacy Rights.** This part of the document integrates with and supplements the information contained in the rest of the privacy policy and is provided by the controller running this Application and, if the case may be, its parent, subsidiaries and affiliates (for the purposes of this section referred to collectively as “we”, “us”, “our”).

The provisions contained in this section apply to all Users (Users are referred to below, simply as “you”, “your”, “yours”), who are consumers residing in the Commonwealth of Virginia, according to the “Virginia Consumer Data Protection Act” (the “VCDPA”), and, for such consumers, these provisions supersede any other possibly divergent or conflicting provisions contained in the privacy policy. This part of the document uses the term “personal data” as defined in the VCDPA.

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**Categories of personal information collected, used, sold, or shared** In this section we summarize the categories of personal information that we’ve collected, used, sold, or shared and the purposes thereof. You can read about these activities in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document.

**How and when we are expected to handle your request.** In this section, we summarize the categories of personal data that we’ve processed and the purposes thereof. You can read about these activities in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document.

**Categories of personal data we collect.** We have collected the following categories of personal data: identifiers, commercial information and internet information. We do not collect sensitive data. We will not collect additional categories of personal data without notifying you.

**Why we process your personal data.** To find out why we process your personal data, you can read the sections titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” and “The purposes of processing” within this document. We won’t process your information for unexpected purposes, or for purposes incompatible with the purposes originally disclosed, without your consent. You can freely give, deny, or withdraw such consent at any time using the contact details provided in this document.

**How we use the data we collect: sharing of your personal data with third parties.** We share your personal data with the third parties listed in detail in the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document. These third parties are grouped and categorized in accordance with the different purposes of processing. For our purposes, the word “third party” means “a natural or legal person, public authority, agency, or body other than the consumer, controller, processor, or an affiliate of the processor or the controller” as defined by the VCDPA.

**Sale of your personal data.** For our purposes, the word “sale” means any “exchange of personal data for monetary consideration by us to a third party“ as defined by the VCDPA. Please note that according to the VCDPA, the disclosure of personal data to a processor that processes personal data on behalf of a controller does not constitute a sale. As specified in the “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” section of this document, our use of your personal information may be considered a sale under VCDPA.

**Your right to opt out of the sale of your personal data and how you can exercise it.** You have the right to opt out of the sale of your personal data. This means that whenever you request us to stop selling your data, we will abide by your request. To fully exercise your right to opt out you can contact us at any time using the contact details provided in this document.

We use any personal data collected from you in connection with the submission of your opt-out request solely for the purpose of complying with the request.

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**Processing of your personal data for targeted advertising.** For our purposes, the word “targeted advertising” means “displaying advertisements to you where the advertisement is selected based on personal data obtained from your activities over time and across nonaffiliated websites or online applications to predict your preferences or interests” as defined by the VCDPA.
To find out more details on the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising purposes, you can read the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document.

**Your right to opt out of the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising and how you can exercise it.** You have the right to opt out of the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising. This means that whenever you ask us to stop processing your data for targeted advertising, we will abide by your request. To fully exercise your right to opt out you can contact us at any time, using the contact details provided in this document. We use any personal data collected from you in connection with the submission of your opt-out request solely for the purposes of complying with the opt-out request.

**Your privacy rights under the Virginia Consumer Data Protection Act and how to exercise them** You may exercise certain rights regarding your data processed by us. In particular, you have the right to do the following:

- **Access personal data: the right to know.** You have the right to request that we confirm whether or not we are processing your personal data. You also have the right to access such personal data.
- **Correct inaccurate personal data.** You have the right to request that we correct any inaccurate personal data we maintain about you, taking into account the nature of the personal data and the purposes of the processing of the personal data.
- **Request the deletion of your personal data.** You have the right to request that we delete any of your personal data.
- **Obtain a copy of your personal data.** We will provide your personal data in a portable and usable format that allows you to transfer data easily to another entity – provided that this is technically feasible.
- **Opt out of the processing of your personal data** for the purposes of targeted advertising, the sale of personal data, or profiling in furtherance of decisions that produce legal or similarly significant effects concerning you.
- **Non-discrimination.** We will not discriminate against you for exercising your rights under the VCDPA. This means that we will not, among other things, deny goods or services, charge you a different price, or provide a different level or quality of goods or services just because you exercised your consumer privacy rights. However, if you refuse to provide your personal data to us or ask us to delete or stop selling your personal data, and that personal data or sale is necessary for us to provide you with goods or services, we may not be able to complete that transaction.

To the extent permitted by the law, we may offer a different price, rate, level, quality, or selection of goods or services to you, including offering goods or services for no fee, if you have exercised your right to opt out, or our offer is related to your voluntary participation in a bona fide loyalty, rewards, premium features, discounts, or club card program.

**How to exercise your rights** To exercise the rights described above, you need to submit your request to us by contacting us
via the contact details provided in this document.
For us to respond to your request, we need to know who you are.

We will not respond to any request if we are unable to verify your identity using commercially
reasonable efforts and therefore confirm that the personal data in our possession actually
relates to you. In such cases, we may request that you provide additional information which is
reasonably necessary to authenticate you and your request.

Making a consumer request does not require you to create an account with us. However, we may require you to use your existing account. We will use any personal data collected from you in connection with your request solely for the purposes of authentication, without further disclosing the personal data, retaining it longer than necessary for purposes of authentication, or using it for unrelated purposes.

If you are an adult, you can make a request on behalf of a minor under your parental authority.

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**Processing of your personal data for targeted advertising.**
For our purposes, the word “targeted advertising” means “displaying advertisements to you where the advertisement is selected based on personal data obtained from your activities over time and across non-affiliated websites or online applications to predict your preferences or interests” as defined by the VCDPA. To find out more details on the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising purposes, you can read the section titled “Detailed information on the processing of Personal Data” within this document.

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**Your right to opt out of the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising and how you can exercise it.** You have the right to opt out of the processing of your personal data for targeted advertising. This means that whenever you ask us to stop processing your data for targeted advertising, we will abide by your request. To fully exercise your right to opt out you can contact us at any time, using the contact details provided in this document. We use any personal data collected from you in connection with the submission of your opt-out request solely for the purposes of complying with the opt-out request.

**Your privacy rights under the Virginia Consumer Data Protection Act and how to exercise them** You may exercise certain rights regarding your data processed by us. In particular, you have the right to do the following:

- **Access personal data:** the right to know. You have the right to request that we confirm whether or not we are processing your personal data. You also have the right to access such personal data.
- **Correct inaccurate personal data.** You have the right to request that we correct any inaccurate personal data we maintain about you, taking into account the nature of the personal data and the purposes of the processing of the personal data.
- **Request the deletion of your personal data.** You have the right to request that we delete any of your personal data.
- **Obtain a copy of your personal data.** We will provide your personal data in a portable and usable format that allows you to transfer data easily to another entity – provided that this is technically feasible.
- **Opt out of the processing of your personal data** for the purposes of targeted advertising, the sale of personal data, or profiling in furtherance of decisions that produce legal or similarly significant effects concerning you.
- **Non-discrimination.** We will not discriminate against you for exercising your rights under the VCDPA. This means that we will not, among other things, deny goods or services, charge you a different price, or provide a different level or quality of goods or services just because you exercised your consumer privacy rights. However, if you refuse to provide your personal data to us or ask us to delete or stop selling your personal data, and that personal data or sale is necessary for us to provide you with goods or services, we may not be able to complete that transaction.

To the extent permitted by the law, we may offer a different price, rate, level, quality, or selection of goods or services to you, including offering goods or services for no fee, if you have exercised your right to opt out, or our offer is related to your voluntary participation in a bona fide loyalty, rewards, premium features, discounts, or club card program.

**How to exercise your rights** To exercise the rights described above, you need to submit your request to us by contacting us via the contact details provided in this document. For us to respond to your request, we need to know who you are.

We will not respond to any request if we are unable to verify your identity using commercially reasonable efforts and therefore confirm that the personal data in our possession actually relates to you. In such cases, we may request that you provide additional information which is reasonably necessary to authenticate you and your request.

Making a consumer request does not require you to create an account with us. However, we may require you to use your existing account. We will use any personal data collected from you in connection with your request solely for the purposes of authentication, without further disclosing the personal data, retaining it longer than necessary for purposes of authentication, or using it for unrelated purposes.

If you are an adult, you can make a request on behalf of a minor under your parental authority.

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**How and when we are expected to handle your request** We will respond to your request without undue delay, but in all cases and at the latest within 45 days of its receipt. Should we need more time, we will explain to you the reasons why, and how much more time we need. In this regard, please note that we may take up to 90 days to fulfill your request.

Should we deny your request, we will explain to you the reasons behind our denial without undue delay, but in all cases and at the latest within 45 days of receipt of the request. It is your right to appeal such decision by submitting a request to us via the details provided in this document. Within 60 days of receipt of the appeal, we will inform you in writing of any action taken or not taken in response to the appeal, including a written explanation of the reasons for the decisions. If the appeal is denied you may contact the Attorney General to submit a complaint.

We do not charge a fee to respond to your request, for up to two requests per year. If your request is manifestly unfounded, excessive or repetitive, we may charge a reasonable fee or refuse to act on the request. In either case, we will communicate our choices and explain the reasons behind them.

**How We Protect Your Information.** We take reasonable precautions to secure your personal information. We have implemented technical, physical, and administrative security measures designed to reduce the risk of loss, misuse, unauthorized access, disclosure, or modification of your information. We have put in place appropriate physical, electronic, and managerial procedures to safeguard the information we collect. All information you provide to us is stored on secure servers behind firewalls. When you transmit highly sensitive information (such as a credit card number) through the Services, we encrypt the transmission of that information using Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) technology.

The safety and security of your information also depend on you. Where we have given you (or where you have chosen) a password for access to certain parts of the Services, you are responsible for keeping this password confidential. We ask you not to share your password with anyone.

While we have employed security technologies and procedures to assist in safeguarding your personal information, no system or network can be guaranteed to be 100% secure. Unauthorized entry or use, hardware or software failure, and other factors may compromise the security of user information at any time. Any transmission of personal information is at your own risk. We are not responsible for circumvention of any privacy settings or security measures contained on the Website or any other Services.

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**Terms of Use.** If you choose to visit the Services, your visit and any dispute over privacy are subject to this Policy and our [Terms of Use](https://stylusweddings.com/terms-of-use/) , including limitations on damages, resolution of disputes, and application of the law of the State of North Carolina.

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**Cookie Policy.** Website uses Trackers. To learn more, the User may consult the Cookie Policy.

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**Contact Us.** We welcome your questions, comments, and concerns about privacy. You can contact us at:
Stylus SE LLC
1041 Investment Blvd Suite 151
Apex NC 27502
[info@ stylusevents.us](mailto:info@stylusevents.us)

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### [Gallery](https://stylusweddings.com/gallery/)

**Published:** May 4, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

# **Stylus Weddings Gallery**

## Real North Carolina wedding moments filled with music, energy, celebration, and unforgettable dance floors.

[![Round cake on a draped table at a dimly lit reception with blue uplighting and intricate wall shadow patterns on the dance floor area.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery103.webp "gallery103 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery103.webp)

[![Crowd of guests in formal attire at a brightly colored indoor party, purple-pink lighting with a floral arch in the background.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery102.webp "gallery102 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery102.webp)

[![Indoor dining/club area with shimmering bead curtains and purple lighting, tables and chairs in the background.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery101.webp "gallery101 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery101.webp)

[![Elegant banquet hall with crystal chandeliers and decorative wall shadows from lighting; round tables with white linens.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery104-scaled.webp "gallery104 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery104-scaled.webp)

[![Dim banquet hall with a chandelier and warm lights overhead; a central cake on a small table framed by draped curtains in the back.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery11.webp "gallery11 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery11.webp)

[![Bride in a white wedding dress dances and waves with guests on a crowded dance floor, celebrating.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery10.webp "gallery10 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery10.webp)

[![Group of guests dancing and laughing at a formal event, with women in light gowns enjoying the moment.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery09.webp "gallery09 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery09.webp)

[![Woman in a sleeveless halter-neck dress dancing and laughing at a party, with other guests around in a blurred background.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery08.webp "gallery08 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery08.webp)

[![DJ standing behind a two-laptop setup on a dimly lit stage with purple and blue uplighting and tall speakers on either side.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery07.webp "gallery07 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery07.webp)

[![Bride in a white gown wearing a crown poses with two bridesmaids in pale blue dresses for a playful photo; one holds a microphone.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery06.webp "gallery06 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery06.webp)

[![Children and adults dancing at a dimly lit party with string lights overhead; a girl in a floral dress stands near the center while others dance in the background.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery05.webp "gallery05 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery05.webp)

[![Group of adults in colorful costumes posing for a photo booth shot indoors, with a man in a mask operating the booth on the left.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery04.webp "gallery04 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery04.webp)

[![DJ in a black vest and patterned tie wearing a mask and glasses mixes on a DJ controller with a laptop in a dim room with blue stage lighting behind.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery03.webp "gallery03 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery03.webp)

[![Group of guests dancing and raising hands at a lively party, smiling faces and drinks in hand in a ballroom setting.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery02.webp "gallery02 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery02.webp)

[![Two women singing on stage in black and white; one in a polka-dot dress with a drink, the other in a lace gown holding a microphone.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery01.webp "gallery01 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/gallery01.webp)

[![People dancing at a party, a man in a white shirt raises his arms while others around him smile and dance under colorful lights.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/next.jpg "next - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/next.jpg)

[![Group of friends at a party posing for a photo, some wearing novelty glasses and a woman in a yellow dress to the left holding a wine glass in the foreground while others smile around her.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/next2.jpg "next2 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/next2.jpg)

[![Wedding guests lift the groom into the air during a lively reception.](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/frontwedding01.webp "frontwedding01 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/frontwedding01.webp)

[![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/backgroundnew.webp "backgroundnew - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/backgroundnew.webp)

[![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/876bf0d06d19e26d37c3ab00d016af7b_xl.webp "876bf0d06d19e26d37c3ab00d016af7b_xl - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/876bf0d06d19e26d37c3ab00d016af7b_xl.webp)

[![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/i-T4KcsfT-X2.webp "i-T4KcsfT-X2 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/i-T4KcsfT-X2.webp)

[![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Southern_Pines_Wedding_DJ_Stylus_DJs-Pinehurst_Wedding_DJ_-_Weymouth_Center_Wedding_DJ_Party-scaled-1.webp "Southern_Pines_Wedding_DJ_Stylus_DJs-Pinehurst_Wedding_DJ_-_Weymouth_Center_Wedding_DJ_Party-scaled - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Southern_Pines_Wedding_DJ_Stylus_DJs-Pinehurst_Wedding_DJ_-_Weymouth_Center_Wedding_DJ_Party-scaled-1.webp)

[![](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/the-prestige-package.png.webp "the-prestige-package.png - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/the-prestige-package.png.webp)

[![DJ Jason Huggins couple dancing](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonthumb02.webp "jasonthumb02 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonthumb02.webp)

[![DJ Jason Huggins in Action](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonthumb03.webp "jasonthumb03 - Stylus Weddings")](https://stylusweddings.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/jasonthumb03.webp)

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## DJs

### [Will Batchelor](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/will-batchelor/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Will Batchelor brings quiet confidence and serious skill to the booth. A low-key emcee with deep roots in North Carolina’s EDM scene, he knows how to guide the room, support the timeline, and keep the dance floor alive.

With 300+ events behind him and a fresh newlywed perspective, Will helps couples build a celebration that feels natural, personal, and genuinely fun.

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### [DJ Jason Huggins](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-jason-huggins/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Jason is built for the party: part veteran DJ, part music curator, part dance floor chaos coordinator. Since 1998, he has mixed across clubs, residencies, weddings, and packed events with an open-minded style that turns favorite songs into full-room moments.

Whether it’s party classics, 90s hip-hop, indie, Bmore, Moombahton, or something completely unexpected, Jason knows how to make happy people scream.

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### [Jennifer 'J-Star' Berzinkas](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/jennifer-j-star-berzinkas/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Jenni “J-Star” Berzinskas is equal parts elegance, edge, and full-send energy. A classically trained musician with deep roots in underground electronic music, she brings a rare mix of technical control, stage presence, and emotional timing to every wedding.

Whether she’s leaning into heartfelt family moments or building a dance floor with techno, drum and bass, 80s pop, or 90s alternative, J-Star makes it feel intentional.

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### [DJ Nyce Danger](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/dj-nyce-danger/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Donald “Nyce Danger” Foreman brings next-level skill without making it about himself. A polished emcee, powerful mixer, and self-described music geek, he knows how to read the room and shape the energy with precision.

With experience across clubs, weddings, and private events, Nyce can step forward when the party needs a spark—or stay seamless when the spotlight belongs somewhere else.

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### [Ramez Botros - DJ Mez](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/ramez-botros-dj-mez/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

DJ Mez brings big-room energy with a welcoming touch. A standout wedding DJ, Arabic event DJ, and corporate emcee, he blends expert timing, smooth crowd control, and club-tested music instincts into every event.

Whether he’s rocking Glenwood Avenue, Downtown Raleigh, or a packed wedding dance floor, Mez moves easily between hip-hop, EDM, pop, Ughniyah, and party classics to create a celebration that feels alive.

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### [DJ Samson/Spencer](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/samson/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Spencer “DJ Samson” is the kind of DJ couples instantly trust: warm, polished, enthusiastic, and fully locked into the room. With roots as a producer and a natural gift for emceeing, he knows how to shape the sound and guide the energy.

Whether it’s introductions, ballroom moments, EDM, pop, or throwbacks, Samson brings smooth mixes and a presence that makes the celebration feel effortless.

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### [Robyn Fuller](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/robyn-fuller/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Robyn Fuller is not a DJ, but she absolutely shapes the vibe. A longtime force in North Carolina’s EDM community and a key part of Stylus operations, she brings warmth, humor, and serious event-world experience to every couple interaction.

Whether she’s helping behind the scenes, answering questions, or championing Drum & Bass with full conviction, Robyn makes the Stylus experience feel personal from the start.

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### [Gordon Huggins](https://stylusweddings.com/dj/gordon-huggins/)

**Published:** May 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Gordon Huggins is smooth in all the right ways: stylish, warm, sharp on the mic, and locked in behind the decks. His background in hospitality and professional recruiting gives him a rare instinct for reading people and creating trust quickly.

From soul and hip-hop to alternative and pop, Gordon brings calm confidence, excellent taste, and 5-star energy to every wedding he touches.

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## Service Areas

### [Raleigh](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/raleigh/)

**Published:** May 8, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Planning a wedding in Raleigh, NC means choosing a city with the perfect mix of Southern charm, downtown energy, and beautiful wedding venues. From elegant ballrooms and modern event spaces to garden ceremonies and rustic North Carolina settings, Raleigh gives couples endless ways to create a celebration that feels personal, polished, and unforgettable. Raleigh is home to a wide range of wedding venue options, including downtown venues, banquet halls, gardens, and event spaces for ceremonies and receptions.

Stylus Weddings helps bring that vision to life with professional Raleigh wedding DJs, experienced emcees, custom music planning, ceremony support, reception sound, and a dance floor experience built around your guests. Whether your wedding is in Downtown Raleigh, North Hills, Five Points, Glenwood South, or a nearby Triangle venue, our team delivers smooth transitions, the right music at the right moment, and a celebration that feels effortless from the first song to the last.

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### [Durham](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/durham/)

**Published:** May 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Durham, NC is one of the Triangle’s most vibrant places to celebrate a wedding, offering a unique blend of historic character, creative energy, and modern event spaces. From downtown Durham venues and renovated industrial spaces to elegant ballrooms, outdoor gardens, and nearby North Carolina estates, the city gives couples a memorable backdrop for a celebration that feels personal and full of life.

Stylus Weddings brings professional **Durham wedding DJ services** designed to match the energy, style, and emotion of your day. Our team provides experienced DJs, polished emcees, ceremony sound, custom music planning, reception entertainment, and optional uplighting to help create the right atmosphere from start to finish.

Whether you are planning an intimate Durham wedding ceremony, a high-energy reception, or a full celebration with music, lighting, and seamless transitions, we help bring every moment together. From the processional to the last song, Stylus Weddings keeps your timeline flowing, your guests engaged, and your dance floor ready for a night to remember.

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### [Chapel Hill](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/chapel-hill/)

**Published:** May 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Chapel Hill, NC offers a beautiful setting for weddings, blending Carolina charm, scenic venues, elegant event spaces, rustic barns, gardens, chapels, and refined ballrooms. It is a favorite location for couples who want a celebration that feels personal, romantic, and full of local character.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Chapel Hill wedding DJ services** designed to bring energy, emotion, and seamless flow to your day. From ceremony music and cocktail hour to introductions, first dances, open dancing, and the final song, our DJs and emcees help every moment feel polished and intentional.

We also offer enhancements like photo booth experiences, uplighting, and reception entertainment to create a celebration your guests will remember. Whether your wedding is at a garden venue, rustic barn, chapel, ballroom, or modern Chapel Hill event space, Stylus Weddings brings the music, sound, and atmosphere to match your vision.

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### [Greensboro](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/greensboro/)

**Published:** May 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Greensboro, NC offers a beautiful setting for couples who want a wedding that feels classic, energetic, and unforgettable. With its mix of historic charm, modern event spaces, elegant ballrooms, gardens, estates, and downtown venues, Greensboro gives you the perfect backdrop to celebrate your love story in a way that feels uniquely yours.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Greensboro wedding DJ services** designed to bring every part of your celebration together. From ceremony music and cocktail hour to introductions, first dances, open dancing, and the final song, our DJs and emcees keep your timeline smooth, your guests engaged, and your reception full of energy.

We also offer wedding enhancements such as special effects, uplighting, bubbles, confetti moments, and reception entertainment to help create a celebration your guests will remember. Whether your wedding is elegant and romantic, modern and high-energy, or somewhere in between, Stylus Weddings brings the music, atmosphere, and experience to make your Greensboro wedding feel seamless from start to finish.

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### [Charlotte](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/charlotte/)

**Published:** May 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Charlotte, NC gives couples a stunning backdrop for a wedding that feels elegant, energetic, and unforgettable. From modern Uptown venues and luxury ballrooms to romantic estates, rooftop spaces, garden settings, and rustic countryside celebrations, Charlotte offers endless ways to bring your wedding vision to life.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Charlotte wedding DJ services** designed to make your celebration feel personal, polished, and seamless. Our DJs and emcees help guide the flow of your day with ceremony music, cocktail hour sound, introductions, first dances, dinner music, open dancing, and a final song that ends the night the right way.

We also offer event enhancements such as uplighting, special effects, and reception entertainment to transform your venue and create the perfect atmosphere. Whether your celebration is sophisticated and modern, classic and romantic, or high-energy and full of personality, Stylus Weddings brings the music, lighting, and experience to match your love story.

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### [Asheville](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/asheville/)

**Published:** May 10, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Asheville, NC offers a breathtaking setting for couples who want a wedding surrounded by mountain views, natural beauty, creative energy, and unforgettable atmosphere. From elegant indoor venues to outdoor celebrations near the Blue Ridge Mountains, Asheville gives your wedding day a backdrop that feels romantic, personal, and full of character.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Asheville wedding DJ services** designed to bring your celebration to life with music, timing, and energy that reflect your love story. Our DJs and emcees help guide every moment, from ceremony music and cocktail hour to introductions, first dances, dinner, open dancing, and the final song.

We also offer event enhancements such as uplighting, special effects, and reception entertainment to help transform your venue and create a memorable guest experience. Whether your Asheville wedding is elegant, rustic, modern, artistic, or mountain-inspired, Stylus Weddings brings the sound, style, and atmosphere to make your celebration feel seamless from start to finish.

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### [Wilmington](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/wilmington/)

**Published:** May 11, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Wilmington, NC gives couples a beautiful coastal backdrop for a wedding filled with charm, energy, and unforgettable moments. From waterfront venues and historic spaces to garden settings, beachside celebrations, and modern reception locations, Wilmington offers a romantic setting where your love story can feel both relaxed and elevated.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Wilmington wedding DJ services** designed to bring your celebration together with music, timing, and atmosphere. Our DJs and emcees guide each part of the day, from ceremony music and cocktail hour to introductions, first dances, dinner, open dancing, and the final song.

We also offer enhancements like uplighting, special effects, bubbles, and reception entertainment to help transform your venue into a memorable experience. Whether your Wilmington wedding is coastal, classic, elegant, or high-energy, Stylus Weddings brings the sound, style, and flow to make your day feel seamless from start to finish.

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### [Greenville](https://stylusweddings.com/service_areas/greenville/)

**Published:** May 11, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Greenville, NC offers couples a welcoming Eastern North Carolina setting for weddings that feel personal, energetic, and full of local charm. From elegant event centers and ballrooms to outdoor spaces, country clubs, and nearby Pitt County venues, Greenville gives couples a flexible backdrop for both intimate celebrations and larger receptions. Greenville has multiple wedding and party venue options listed through WeddingWire, The Knot, and Visit Greenville-Pitt County.

Stylus Weddings provides professional **Greenville wedding DJ services** designed to keep your day smooth, stylish, and unforgettable. Our DJs and emcees guide the flow from ceremony music and cocktail hour to introductions, first dances, dinner, open dancing, and the final song.

We also offer event lighting, uplighting, and reception enhancements to transform your Greenville venue and set the perfect mood. Whether your wedding is classic, modern, romantic, or high-energy, Stylus Weddings brings the music, lighting, and experience to make your celebration shine.

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## Playlists

### [Most Requested Wedding Last Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-last-dance-songs/)

**Published:** June 7, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

End the night on the perfect note with the songs couples choose most for one final unforgettable dance.

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### [Most Requested Wedding First Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-first-dance-songs/)

**Published:** June 5, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Explore the songs couples choose most for that unforgettable first spin on the dance floor.

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### [Most Wedding Ceremony Recessional Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-wedding-ceremony-recessional-songs/)

**Published:** June 7, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Celebrate your first steps as newlyweds with the songs couples choose most for an unforgettable ceremony exit.

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### [Most Requested Cake Cutting Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-cake-cutting-songs/)

**Published:** June 7, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Find the perfect song for this sweet reception moment, from playful favorites to romantic classics.

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### [Most Requested Money Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-money-dance-songs/)

**Published:** June 7, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Keep the tradition fun with the songs couples choose most for a lively, memorable money dance.

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### [Most Requested Father Daughter Dances](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-father-daughter-dances/)

**Published:** June 8, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Celebrate this meaningful moment with the songs couples choose most for an unforgettable father-daughter dance.

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### [Most Requested Wedding Introduction Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-introduction-songs/)

**Published:** June 8, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Set the tone for the celebration with the songs couples choose most for a high-energy wedding party entrance.

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### [Most Requested Bouquet Toss Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-bouquet-toss-songs/)

**Published:** June 8, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Bring some extra energy to the dance floor with the songs couples choose most for a fun, crowd-ready bouquet toss.

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### [Most Requested Dance Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-dance-songs/)

**Published:** June 8, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Fill the dance floor with the songs couples request most for a high-energy wedding celebration.

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### [Most Requested Mother Son Wedding Dance](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-mother-son-wedding-dance/)

**Published:** June 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Celebrate this heartfelt tradition with the songs couples choose most for a meaningful mother-son wedding dance.

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### [Most Requested Wedding Party Dances](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-wedding-party-dances/)

**Published:** June 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Get the whole crowd moving with the songs couples choose most for fun, high-energy wedding party dances.

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### [Most Requested Garter Toss Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-garter-toss-songs/)

**Published:** June 9, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Keep the moment playful with the songs couples choose most for a fun, crowd-ready garter toss.

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### [Most Requested Beach Music Songs](https://stylusweddings.com/playlist/most-requested-beach-music-songs/)

**Published:** June 10, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Set the mood with beach-inspired favorites that bring a relaxed, feel-good vibe to your wedding celebration.

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## FAQs

### [How do we know whether Stylus is the right fit?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-do-we-whether-stylus-is-the-right-fit/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Every couple has a different vision for their wedding, and our goal is to understand what matters most to you. During the consultation, we will learn about your style, priorities, and music preferences so we can help match you with the right DJ.

We love working with couples who are excited to create a memorable celebration that feels personal, polished, and genuinely fun.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Weddingpage

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### [Is There a Travel Fee?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/is-there-a-travel-fee/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Most weddings within our standard service area do not require an additional travel fee.

For weddings farther away, a travel fee may apply to cover driving time, mileage, lodging, or airfare when necessary. Any applicable travel costs will be clearly outlined in your proposal before you book.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [What Happens if the DJ has a Family Emergency or gets Laryngitis?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-happens-if-the-dj-has-a-family-emergency-or-gets-laryngitis/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Stylus S.E. has a backup plan in place for unexpected situations such as illness or a family emergency. Our team includes several experienced DJs who can step in when needed.

Your online planning portal also helps protect your event by keeping your timeline, music selections, announcements, and preferences organized in one place. Although emergencies are rare, we prepare carefully so your celebration can move forward smoothly.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Weddingpage

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### [How Do We Book Stylus S.E.?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-do-we-book-stylus-se/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Your DJ is officially reserved once you sign the booking agreement and submit your retainer. We will send your proposal electronically, and you can complete the booking process through our online portal.

To get started, call us at [919-346-4669](tel:+19193464669) or email [info@stylusevents.us](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [What if We Need to Make Changes?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-if-we-need-to-make-changes/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

We understand that wedding plans can evolve. Contact our office at [919-346-4669](tel:19193464669 "Call Stylus") or email us at [info@stylusevents.us](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) if you need to adjust your timeline, services, date, or venue.

We will do our best to accommodate your request based on availability and the terms of your booking agreement.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Weddingpage

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### [How Much Does a Wedding DJ Cost?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-much-is-a-dj/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Your final price will depend on the services, enhancements, and level of support you choose. Because every wedding is different, we customize each proposal around your venue, timeline, and event vision.

Most Stylus wedding packages range from **$1,600 to $4,500+**. For pricing and availability, fill out the **[contact form](/#contact)**, call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us).

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage, Weddingpage

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### [How Far in Advance Should We Book Stylus?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-far-in-advance-should-we-book-stylus/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

We recommend contacting us as soon as your wedding date is confirmed. While many DJs book three to six months in advance, popular Stylus dates may fill up one to two years ahead of time, especially during peak wedding seasons.

Even if your wedding is approaching quickly, it never hurts to check availability. Call us at **919-346-4669** or email [**Info@stylusevents.us**](mailto:Info@stylusevents.us) to see whether your date is open.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage, Weddingpage

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### [Can We Extend the Reception?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/can-we-go-overtime/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

In many cases, yes. Overtime depends on your venue restrictions and your DJ’s availability. It is usually more cost-effective to add time before the wedding rather than during the event, so let us know as early as possible if you think your celebration may run longer.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Can We Choose Our DJ?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/will-you-be-my-dj/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Yes. You will select your DJ before booking, and that DJ will work with you throughout the planning process. Building that relationship helps your DJ understand your music preferences, timeline, priorities, and vision for the event.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [How Do We Plan Our Wedding With Stylus?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-do-we-plan-our-wedding/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Believe it or not, planning your entertainment can be easy.

Most couples have never planned a wedding before, so it is completely normal to have questions. Fortunately, we do this every week. Our online planning tools guide you through the important details, including your timeline, introductions, specialty dances, music selections, announcements, and reception preferences.

Our team will be available throughout the process to answer questions, offer guidance, and help bring your vision to life.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage

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### [How Do We Choose the Music for Our Wedding?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-about-our-music/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

This is the fun part! Our online planning portal and music tools make it easy to personalize every part of your wedding day. You can select music for your ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, specialty dances, and reception.

You can also share your must-play songs, do-not-play list, and favorite dance floor tracks. You do not need to plan every song or organize the entire evening yourself. Give us a sense of the music you love, and your DJ will use that direction to create a smooth, energetic, and memorable celebration.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage

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### [What if I have a VERY specific playlist?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-if-i-have-a-very-specific-playlist/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

That is completely fine. Some couples want to provide general musical direction, while others have a carefully curated playlist. We can work with either approach.

If you want your DJ to stay closely within your selected songs, let us know. We will use your playlist to create a smooth, well-paced celebration that reflects your style.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [What if my music isn't listed on the planner?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-if-my-music-isnt-listed-on-the-planner/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Our online planning portal includes a large collection of popular wedding music, but it is only the starting point. Each Stylus DJ also has access to an extensive music library beyond what appears in the planner.

If there is a song we do not already have, let us know. We will make every reasonable effort to find it and prepare it for your event.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Can We Make Requests at the Event?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/can-we-make-requests-at-the-event/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Of course. You are welcome to request songs throughout the celebration. Your DJ can also take requests from your guests, provided they fit your preferences and the overall direction you have chosen for the event.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Weddingpage

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### [What About Inappropriate Language?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-about-inappropriate-language/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

We typically play radio-edited versions of songs to keep the music appropriate for your celebration. If you prefer unedited versions or have specific preferences, let us know during the planning process.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Will We Meet With Our DJ Before the Wedding?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/will-we-meet-in-person/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Absolutely. Most of our planning meetings are held virtually, making it easy to connect around your schedule. You can schedule as many virtual meetings as you need throughout the planning process. Prefer to meet in person? Just let us know, and we will be happy to arrange a meeting.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage, Weddingpage

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### [What do you wear?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-do-you-wear/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Our DJs typically wear a professional suit or similarly polished attire. If your wedding has a specific theme, dress code, or color palette, let us know. We will be happy to coordinate our appearance with your plans.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [How Long Does It Take You To Set Up?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/how-long-does-it-take-you-to-set-up/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Setup time depends on your package, venue, and selected enhancements. We do not charge separately for standard setup or teardown time.

Your DJ will typically arrive well before your guests so the equipment can be installed, tested, and ready before your celebration begins.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Do You Provide Music and Audio for Wedding Ceremonies?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/do-you-provide-music-and-audio-for-wedding-ceremonies/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Yes. We can provide everything you need for your wedding ceremony, including specialty music selections, a microphone for your officiant, and up to 30 minutes of prelude music as your guests arrive. We will help ensure each moment feels seamless, from the first song to the final walk down the aisle.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Homepage, Weddingpage

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### [My (cousin, uncle, friend, personal menu advisor) wants to (sing, play, interpretive dance) at my Ceremony, can you help?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/my-cousin-uncle-friend-personal-menu-advisor-wants-to-sing-play-interpretive-dance-at-my-ceremony-can-you-help/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Absolutely. Whether someone is singing, playing an instrument, giving a reading, or contributing in another meaningful way, let us know during the planning process. We will help coordinate the audio and timing so the moment fits smoothly into your ceremony.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Do you take breaks?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/do-you-take-breaks/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Your music will continue throughout the event. Your DJ will coordinate any brief personal or meal breaks around the timeline so there is no interruption to your celebration.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Do We Need To Feed the DJ?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/do-we-need-to-feed-the-dj/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Your DJ will typically be on-site for eight to ten hours, including setup, performance time, and teardown. If a vendor meal is available, it is always appreciated. However, you do not need to purchase an expensive plated meal for your DJ.

If food will not be available, please let us know in advance so your DJ can bring something to eat. Any meal break will be timed carefully so it does not interfere with the flow of your event.

Stylus DJs may enjoy water, tea, lemonade, or soft drinks while working, but we do not drink alcohol at events. We are there to provide professional service from start to finish.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [Should we Tip the DJ?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/should-we-tip-the-dj/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Gratuities are always appreciated but never expected. Some couples choose to tip their DJ when they feel the service went above and beyond, but the decision is entirely up to you.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage, Weddingpage

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### [When are Balances Due?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/when-are-balances-due/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

Your remaining balance is due 10 days before your wedding. Taking care of payment in advance allows you to enjoy the celebration without worrying about payment details at the end of the night.

You can pay by credit card, check, money order, or through our convenient online portal.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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### [What If We Need to Postpone or Cancel the Event?](https://stylusweddings.com/faq-items/what-if-we-need-to-postpone-or-cancel-the-event/)

**Published:** May 6, 2026
**Author:** stylusevents

**Content:**

We understand that plans can change. If you need to postpone your wedding, your retainer can be transferred to another available date. Because we reserve your date and may turn away other clients once you book, cancellation terms are outlined in your booking agreement.

If your event is canceled and we are able to book another event for your DJ on the original date, your retainer will be refunded in accordance with the terms of your agreement.

**FAQ Categories:** FAQPage

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## Categories

### [Blog](https://stylusweddings.com/category/blog/)

**Description:** Explore Stylus Weddings articles about tegory_title%, wedding music, planning tips, venues, and entertainment ideas for North Carolina couples.

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